so I've been in a relationship with this guy for over a year now and it's kind of on and off because he usually leaves after an argument or something doesn't sit well with him so he disappears for a while and then comes back again. He's made his intention clear that he wants to marry me from day one. so we had a fall out and he came back recently and he's still on the marriage matter, he wants to get married as soon as possible now. I am not there mentally because I feel like he can just go off whenever he wants to and I can't emotionally connect because of that. what are your thoughts???

I find it hard to understand why ladies that don't work or do business or have money wants to get married? how will they help the husband in the home?? I will rather marry a good lady who is hardworking and ambitious

Assalamu Alaikum malama don Allah aja kunnen yan aji masu zuwa a app basa duba profile din mutum su tura request and when accepted they know u aren’t in same state Ko kuma ba neighboring state kuka ba sai yayi shooting shot dinshi taji sonshi ya shiga ranta kawae yace yana ganin maybe iyayenshi bazasu yarda ba for goodness sake kasan hakan ka bari kukayi introducing juna it really hurt Wallahi abin ba dadi please ku daina Wallahi abin yana touching heart sosae in kasan bazaka iya ba sai ka haqura har ka samu yar garinku aure Kuma ai ba inda baya kai mutum that’s life Nagode keep me anonymous

...favors those arewa girls the more... Not exactly. I don't think so. Ask the arewa girls, majority will tell you the same thing. See the thing is, getting married is way harder in this era of ours. Imagine this scenario: a girl, coming out to publicize that she's forfeited or relinquished the traditional requirements of marriage, like lefe and all of them ceremony rituals that consume chunks of money. She'll most likely have guys come in droves wanting to get married to her. Now I'm not saying they're all worth it. Probably majority of them are not. But you'll certainly be able to get just a few that your research will show you they've got good job/business prospects. Then you can filter who you think is the best for you, stick with him and grow with him. My point is, reduce the bar to which you require your prospective suitor to reach. Request for the barest minimum if you can. Lavish materials and lavish marriage ceremony isn't the barka and it isn't what's gonna keep you in your matrimonial home. This advice is meant for those that their parents/those with authority over them would agree to though, and subsequently, those that don't care what the society thinks. Peace ✌🏽🕊️

is it only me or we are much that people don’t request for bcoz I don’t understand, ever since I came to this platform no one has requested for me that’s not even the issue , now all the ones I requested for are jz declining my request then anyone that accept is not even ready to chat and if I chat they don’t respond... I’m not the arewa girl but also from the north so I suppose the people here should not only base on Hausa Fulani girls and at least you guys/ men should try and be chatting with those you have accepted their request. now the last thing I noticed is that when you people are posting on your ig is jz the premium post you guy normally post , those ones on regular are hardly been posted on ig and is not right ... I actually joined this bcoz I want to give it a try and see if it will work but I feel it only favors those arewa girls the more .,, the annoying part is of you can’t speak hausa 😁😁 the guys will never chat with you again .. God Ahbeg oh

I saw someone complaining wani a Facebook yana chatting da ita claiming to be BAFFA WAMBAI😤 Wlh nima same abunda ya mata haka yamun, first ya tura friend request then ya fara mun magana😒 wlh at first na dauka qarya yake then daga baya irin yacce yake wlh sai ka rantse Baffa ne da gske😭😭 kullun chatting da phone call nida shi ashe qarya yake mun subhanallah 😰 yanxu haka before naga post na waccan har waya munyi nace mishi ina Abuja yace mun ba damuwa zai zo gida mu gaisa 😔yanxu ina ta kira phone nashi is switchedoff and yayi deleting account nashi na Facebook jiya dana duba 😭😭💔💔wlh right now I'm in so much pain 💔Subhanallah💔. please help me post ko Baffa na gaske zai gani🤝😔

please am in need of a male friend in sokoto. Any one available???

Aslm Good morning ma’am May Allah bless you and your family In Shaa Allah you will be rewarded for your good deeds thank you 🙏🏻 Pls hide my ID There is this guy I have been crushing on, I have been following his account, I don’t know how to tell him what I feel about him I am from sokoto and I have a feeling his is from sokoto too… please do help me reach him. Please help a sister

I have registered on the matchmaking of this platform since 2019. But I'm still not lucky to get someone. But i still have faith that everything will be fine sooner or later In Sha Allah Pls do advice me and include me in your prayers.

If A Lady is dating a guy and he never in his life pray to God To have you in ur presence, then he is just a player, there's someone out there he like..Just test him by saying insha Allah i will marry you and see if he will say Ameen, and watch out for how he will reply you..

asalamu alaikum guys, I'm so confused I don't even know what to do there's this guy I so much love we started dating 2018 we loved each other we can spend a day talking to each other on phone then my elder sister got to know we were dating all of a sudden she spoilt his name in front of my mom she always tells me to stay away from him to my own point of view maybe they he something with one of her friends after she told my mom then my mom called me and tell me to stay away from him then I managed to convince her that I love him and he loves me too then my mom said okay tell him that he can take the next step and send his people immediately after I told him he stopped talking to me and even if he does he talks rudely after some months we got back talking to each other then I bought up the topic of marriage again then he stopped talking to me after a while he started talking to me again then I asked him why did you stop talking to me the last time he was like because you were rushing things then after a while I recently told him to send his people so he was like the reason why he hasn't sent his people is because he feel my mom won't allow us to get married and even if she does it won't be now maybe in the next three year and he can't wait for that Because he's been pressured by his family members .guys do you think this guy is really interested in getting married to me or not

Hmmm Mallama abu kamar a mafarki yau 9th November, 2022.daga zuwa open day(@school) mallamar aji ta kasa sukuni hmm ina ganinshi wallhy naji wani relief da shaukin so a zuciya❤️na this is someone (me) that has been single since Corona period Amma seeing this guy was a totally different thing, like I don't even know how to explain it mallama irin Love at first sight 😕 am just confused tun da rana, na kasa sukuni am just restless here😢 so he came for an open day for his sister/brother's kids one in Basic2 and the other in Nursery 3 dukansu Maza ne. Gaskiya na kamu da sanshi. He might not like me dan ni mallamar aji ce 😢😕 his name's are Abu**** Abd**** . if he's found and he's in a serious relationship i give up cause am not here to cause anyone pain Kuma abinda kama wani za'amaka kukuma no be fyn fyn 🚶🚶but Alhamdullah. Assalamualaikumm Please Hide My ID mallama❤️

I am in deep search of a job in a private institution… I am a graduate and am currently pursuing my masters in MBA as I talk, I have over three years experience in project management, business development and operations as well, I am a well focus and detail oriented and am positioned to join a team to help business or private organization move in the direction of its goal…. my greatest strength is a combination of enthusiasm and persistent which me makes me help create strategic processes and manage very well. My top skills are planning, presentation, leadership, organizing and communicating. With all of this, I am also tech savvy which allows me to help introduce information technology into structures in general I can work as a business manger, project manager, operations officer, facility manager and program manger as well as product manger…Starting an MBA has given me more insights in absolute management, and my masters is positioned in a way to allow me work full time and study full time as well lost my job four months ago as a manager in pretty much big brand here, who so ever is interested in having more conversation or hiring me will find this information and how I lost the job and also get to look into my Résumé I am a Nigerian youth, not looking for free money by any chance, I am not lazy and ready to work very hard, pay my fees and continue riding towards my career path, I am 27 years old and I am based in Abuja. Thankyou If I am fortunate my next employee could be here and am available to start work immediately

is there any kaduna guys here I want to make a friends I am a female I base in kaduna

Salam everyone, my issue is a bit contradicting. I thought it's only women who are pressurised over marriage issues. I'm young within the age bracket of 26/27. The pressure mounted upon me about marriage is more than you think. My attention was called 3 times within a week (by my mum in particular). I'm actually a lecturer in one of the institutions in my jurisdiction and if not for ASUU strike, I'd have been through with my MSc by now. I'm definitely worried and confused. Is it that they're tired of me or what? I think I'm actually very young for that. Others men are getting married in their 30s. And another issue is the fact that I'm not in any relationship right now. Where should I start from?

assalamualaikum warahmatullah the time right now is 2:22 am. I am someone that loves sleeping so much and for me to be awake and be typing a secret right now toh wallahi nakai makura🥺 I've been inlove before but I've never fallen this deep subhanallah😩 inada wani friend we met during Ramadan at first it was just friendship from my end but wallahi yanzu son da nakemai yafi karfina bazan iya fadamai ba because Bana so nayi ruining friendship dinmu, Bana iya bacci jamaa gashi se Kara ramewa nakeyi Koh appetite bandashi😩 wallahi inajin butterflies acikina idan naji muryanshi there is this saying "everyone is going to get hurt in this life you just gotta find who is worth it" he is that person for me. he may or may not ever see this but I feel better now that nayi typing dinshi out🥺 I love you A to the square of infinity❤️ Allah ya karemin Kai a duk inda kake Kuma Allah yasa ko da yaushe ka dawwama a farinciki....Allah yabaka Mata tagari ko Ni bace ubangiji Allah ya hadamu a aljannah nurulqalbi🙏

I have this guy I love so much but people bad mouth him so much that it's started disturbing me about his womanizing behavior . I tend not to tell him because I felt it's not right to dig into someone past so this guy has dated almost 3 of my close friends 🤧 so it's was getting much and Again doing our relationship I cut him cheating on me kuma so I decided to end the relationship and move on so I got into another relationship again and things were going smooth until the day I told him about my past this guy completely change 😩 he hardly calls or text . I do it most of the time and off recent I noticed him that he is after my body . the other guy actually really love me . I did a lot of wulanhanchi too him but this guy doesn't see it he really care about me so I'm also thinking should I breakup with the guy that he is after my body

Assalamu alaikum. There is this guy that stole my friend's heart, he was posted on a story on IG earlier, I really can't say the page but she fell for him as soon as she saw him, please do help us find him, thank you.

for me watching horror movies in the dark around 1am on Sundays. what about you?

Someone posted a question about whether it's the same for a girl to be after a guy with money, as it is for a guy to be after a girl with good looks. I'm a guy. It's exactly the same thing. Kawai dai for the ladies, don't get so fixated akan sai me kudi, and probably, filthy kudi kawai(filthy here means yawa ba haramci ba). Opt for ones that you feel after talking to them they've got good job/business prospects, stick with them, encourage them, help them grow. Idan danHalak ne, more mutuncin ki in his eyes knan, especially if filthy(much much) kudin suka zo eventually. Just my 2 cents.