If you check the hausas family you will find out that female children are nt industrious and always depend on parents, family and friends to support them. They are very disrespectful in the sense that they don't treat people wit cautious and dignity sai raini kawai

wanda nake so ne yana da Mata kuma muna zumunci da matan wani lokaci. so bata fiye viewing status dina ba a WhatsApp, na hada hoton mu dani da mijin ta . fiancee na kenan nayi video nasaka a status dina. sai tayi viewing, sai ta rufe shi da matsifa. sukayi dai maganganu ba dadi. shine yazo yake cemun wai karna kara saka hoton mu a status saboda matar shi🙄 shikenan ba zanyi yanda nake so ba😏

Hey fam pls i need your advice i am a very lonely lady with health issues and i easily get depressed and angry easily too i am currently serving in a ministry Alhamdulillah with a friend a made in camp,she is like an elder sister to me and a supporter when i break down.so she travelled home for this christmas break while i stayed back here.the problem is since she left i have been so lonely,and so i got really closed to this guy at my ppa,we were really cool friends nothing attached....but since last week he got a new apartment and as been asking me to come over that hes bored,i declined like twice but accepted the 3rd time,cos i was so bored and lonely .i slept over at his place,at first nothing happened but during the night when we were done playing and gisting we actually ended up doing some touchy stuff but no sex though. i dont really know but since then i think he as changed,hes not that close again and he keep giving excuses when i call or even want to tak to him. i feel so ashamed of myself,i wished i never went there....i feel its because of that pls i need your advice on how to gain my respect back and how i will continue with him in office pls help me....i am so angry at myself

i was in love with a boy in my neighborhood, i grow a strong feeling for him😢, I was ready to do anything for him 🥺. am 23, I was a virgin,around January 2022, he ask for sex I denied. he got angry and didn't show up for two days, I got worried and went to his house to know what is the problem, I ask him the problem and he said I denied him sex,so that's the problem. after so many begging and crying he still want the sex. I truly love him and I thought he loves me genuinely 😭,but I was Wrong. I was blinded by love and let's him have me(Astagfirullah wa'atubu illaik 😭),that was the most stupid decision I have ever make in my life 😭😭😭. Last week he ask for a breakup 😭. please advice me my Muslim brothers and sisters 😭🙏. What do I do? Ya Rabbi 🤲 forgive me.

na kamu da San wata yarinya amma haryanxu na kasa shawo kan ta haryanxu ni kuma akwai wacce take sona bana jinta a raina kuma tafi waccan komai ban San yadda zanyi ba please ku sani a hanyar

Na kasance ban taba soyayya ba sai gashi yanzu kawai naji zuciyata tana bani shawarar hakan to amma kuma na kasance mutum mai tsoro shine nake neman shawarar ku ko Allah zaisa in samu wasu kalmomi na kwarin guiwar tunkarar wacce nake so in....🙏🙏

please how can I pay for the meet international? it won't accept my card, can admin contact me please? I already signed up for it, just need to pay to start ... thanks

please you should connect me with whoever is ready to get married, I'm tried nagaji Wlhy I'm going through hell please help a soul

Idan harwani Yace yana sona 🥺🤧Tohh wallahi esily xanji nadaina sonshi (2) idan nayi mafarki akan exams idan naci xangani idan nafadi Tohh d Gsky result yafito nafadi seriously 😒 bana so 😭😪 please ineed ur advise nd ur prayers please sisters nd brothers again xanyi mafarki wasu sunci nikuma nafadi 😭😭😭 pray 🙏 for me nadaina faduwa 😭😭😭

"Those who do not have a reliable friend to share their sorrows with, make loneliness their friend. Sitting alone, talking to air and ground, gives them a sigh of relief. Because if grief takes place in a heart, suffocation increases. If the tongue cannot express it and there's no other way to lighten this burden, then these sorrows will kill a person." Tawq al-Hamamah by Ibn Hazm (p.49)

My best friend is getting married and muna shirye shirye but am feeling bad ace muna tare ban bata komai ba although auren yazo a kurarren time. Am suggesting maybe irin frame dinnan na zamani da akeyi or please just suggest for me auren December ending ne please I will be in d comment section so I can decide and get it on time Thank you all

Relationships of nowadays is terrifying honestly, abin ya koma kamar dai Maza sune Mata and Matan kuma Sun zama Maza. After being Matched, they expect the girls to make the moves, the calls, the text and everything. Not only that, what's so annoying is that if you didn't call or text for two days or so, they won't bother to check on you. Like seriously, and you guys are somehow planing to become life partners. Indeed! Allah is the best planner, but at least show some care for the time been before destiny decide on you two. There's no Relationship without communication, communicate to understand each other, if you're not interested tell her please and don't waste her time. Some will be claiming busy busy. Hello! Who's not busy in this life. Everyone in one way or the other is busy, just that there are very important things in life da dole yana buqatar little time out of your busy schedules. It is seriously hurting me wallahi, just because a girl comes to a platform seeking for a partner doesn't makes her unworthy, there are several situations as to why a girl despite the shyness comes out boldly looking for a husband. And that doesn't give you(guys) the audacity to disrespect her or even look down on her. Walahi mace na da daraja da qima so show some respect. I'm currently matched with a guy, not from this platform though. The guy seems smart, intelligent, Gentle, Calm and Religious. He's open to some extent and realistic. And honestly that's what attracted me to him coz irin qualities din nake so a wajen namiji kenan, amma shi matsalar shi sai ku kwana fiye da uku ma baku ji daga juna ba. Bani da much expectations amma inaga I can't be with someone da kamar ma be damu dani ba, I can't be with someone that can't check on me within 24hrs or so, I want someone caring enough. I'm just praying Allah ya mana zabin alkhairi daga ni har shi amma gaskiya bana jin dadin yadda yakeyi, maybe ko don ba shi ya ganni yace yana So ba, Wallahu A'alam. I think is just better to wait for Love find you on your doorstep. Sabida yadda Guys sukeyi nowadays is discouraging. I think will just focus on my career and other life activities dina na manta da wani maganar Aure, lokacin Mutum idan yayi ko a Ina yake Allah zai hada shi da rabon shi. Allah ubangiji ya hada kowa da abokin\abokiyar zama nagari, wadan da zasu zama hasken idanuwar mu.

Assalamualykum brothers and sisters,people just go into marriage without considering the full meaning of love.They are just like “I wanna marry him/her because she/he is beautiful/handsome,I wanna marry him/her because we love each other and so on “I’m not saying don’t marry because of those reasons but you should include “PEACE” in it. Beauty,Care,attention,respect,peace are all part of love. now imagine removing a piece from it,does it make it complete now??? No! you can love someone without respecting or caring or for that person and if you don’t care or respect the so called loved one you won’t have peace and if there’s no peace..... love isn’t there .....! that’s just it when you come to your spouse and you don’t feel that stress and tension going down then I’m sorry love isn’t there my brothers and sisters maybe you might think that the love is there but it’s not even the prophet saw said “make peace amongst yourselves “ so peace is the beginning.... this is your starting point dear your partner should be you comfort zone not when ka Zo kusa da Wanda kake so,ka ji wani depression yakama ka 😂 the thing makes me laugh so yanzu ace Allah ya hada ku zaman aure Baka San Ta ba ita ma bata San ka ba but da a kayi auren akwai kwanchiyan hankali wlh daga ba so zai shigo Cikin alamarin,it’s kinda funny tho... daga an maka abu a waje sai ka tattaro yan matan kafafuwan ka kazo yajen madam ,koh kuma kin je gida sistern ki koh elder bro din ki ya batamiki rai za a lokacin saki tuna cewa kina da gida bari ki je wirin mijin ki ya nan shi kadai ba kowa 😂 all these happen when ther is peace and ba fadina ba ne it’s just a fact “ when there is peace there is love “

toh Allah gamu gareka another december without mother inlaw 😂 Allah ka shiga lamarin mu Allah kasa wata december tazo da Mother inlaw🙏

Regarding that post about stars, hmmm shirk tayi yawo Allah ubangiji ya sa mufi karfin xuciyar mu,from the day you start going to that malams with big bubu sitting on the mat wollah you have become nothing but useless,This very thing once happened to me,I have dated this guy for almost 5yrs since he was in school har time en daya gama school and his service,duk family nasa sun sanni haka nawa sunsanshi mutanen nan basu tashi cewa niba Alkhairi ce agaresa ba wai seda akayi musu maganar aure shine his mom and his grandma said that niba Alkhairi bace agaresa sunje wajan wani malami ya duba musu ende akayi auranmu to babu abunda xefaru face tashin hankali da talauci,haka munaji muna gani suka rabamu so wollah peoples mufarka etafa axabar ubangiji da ake fada ba karya bane akwaita amma mutane mun manta abunda yakawomu duniya mun bige dason duniya ba aiki se xuwa gurin bokaye da yan tsibbu munayin shirka So wait people with this attitude of xuwa gurin boka why not sudinga ganawa da ubangiji?Allah de shi kyauta sukuma masuyi ubangiji ya basu ikon tuba cikin gaggawa

I've been wanting to say for a long time now,yes most women want men that are rich but not all are the same some of us just want someone that can continue feeding us like we've been fed,clothed like we've been clothed and all the basic things we could get from our father's house. But at the same time the men only want ladies that are beautiful,shikenan idan mace ba kyau ne gare ta ba she's not worth being loved,shikenan mu matan da we're not pretty and beautiful we don't deserved to be loved ? Remember the prophet SAW said you should marry a woman because of her wealth,beauty and family background and lastly the best of is when you marry her for her deen amma ina most mazan yanzu go for the other 3,wallahi beauty is not all there is to a woman,us too the not so beautiful women deserved to be loved!!!

I've been wanting to hear ppls opinion on "star" I mean men now check the star of the lady they intend to marry before proposing to her just because they want to marry someone who would add up to their wealth, is it halal? I mean is there nothing wrong In that? my uncle was told to marry a fulani girl with a particular name mentioned that if he marries her his going to be more wealthy and that's how my uncle went in search of fulani babe o 😂 all the stress he went through it wasn't easy he had to go to the village it wasn't easy at all and when he got what he was looking for they stared dating and blessings were just coming his way wlhi

can u marry someone u ar not comfortable with when he is around?

Mun fara dating da wannan guy din 2yrs back. yana so na kaman ran shi nima haka 🥺 matsalar he's too young and not capable of marriage (26 yrs, 300lvl) Amma yana iya bakin qoqarin shi to settle down with me in a few years. su kuma a gida an fara matsamun Akan lale na rabu dashi na rige serious one wanda ya shirya aure a yanzun. rayuwan duniya duk yanda nike san namiji haka wannan guy din yike. yana mun sanda bema komai a duniyar nan. rabuwa dashi kamar tarwatsa rayuwar shi ne💔and my parents want me to get married nan da ba dadewa ba. honestly I don't know what to do. I need your advice please

I am writing on behalf of my cousin, she is married with 4kids and thing have been really bad for her, she has a co wife, she's from the north, her husband has been emotionally torturing he even asked her to drop out of school (NCE) or else he going to divorce which she had to because her own family members remaining cant afford to take her in because she's an orphan, mind you her co wife is currently doing her master's through out this week she have been calling me crying and really depressed, she got pregnant few month ago and he didn't even care now she had a missed miscarriage which needs evacuation but said he doesn't even have money for that it's been days she's bleeding and in pains Am still a student I don't even have money to assist her, gonna talk to my siblings to gather something for her for the hospital Please is there any online stuff she can learn and start doing to earn even if it's a little so it can keep her mind off what's she's really going through