how long should I wait for you.

have you ever experience laughing and crying at the same time, I guess there should be an English word for that😂, wai nayi applying wani scholarship ne, and even went down to Abuja to write the exams, sai jiya a few applicants I met there called me wai they have been awarded, gashi har nayi calculating Abubu Wanda zanyi da kudin in ta shigo, tun jiya kam na kasa gane wa kaina, abun dariya, wani kam zai zata ajiya na Basu kudin.

I gave up on relationships countless of times I met guys I fell in love with but am never really lucky I have never met a guy that really loves me for Allahs sake everyone that comes into my life just want to be intimate with me ,then if I refused to do so they just ghost away like am confused already ,am so confused to the extent that if any guy tries to approach me I’d see it like he just want my body I stopped giving chances to try I guess am not just lucky or is that these guys aren’t aware of harams

salamu alaikum mothers need to pull there children close to them I have a problem with my mum me and my mum never had this close connection we have never sat down and spoke about my love life or what ever is going on in my life she's always scolding me she's always shouting at me she never supports me in anyways she always compares me with my cousins me and my mum have never sat down to talk about my personal life there was a time I regretted telling her about my boyfriend I told her about him tun daga lokachin banga kwanchiyan hankali ba duk lokachin dana bata mata rai she's always insulting him sometimes she even include his parents into the matter I always tell her the way she use to push me away watarana zan samu chiwan zuchiya she tells me she Dosent care I don't even know what to do I cannot have a boyfriend a tell her I just have to deal with it alone sometimes I use to think idan wanda nakeso zai fito how will I tell her sometimes my mum here's stuff about me from my aunties and later confronts me about it kwata kwata bata bani chance na zauna nayi magana da ita any time I make up my mind to talk to her sai na fara fargaba zata chi ubana idan na fadi mata kawai am depressed am emotionally drained I don't even know what to do I need her close to me but she pushes me away 😢😭💔 idan ban fadi mata ba wazan fada mawa I have to start reling on strangers for comfort it's eating me inside 😭💔 sometimes when I see how close my cousins are to there mothers I feel a sharp pain piercing my heart I'm always crying and praying to Allah to intervain in our matter may Almighty Allah grant every child going through this sabr 😔 parents should understand that they are 80 percent the reasons why there children are going astray please include us in your prayer 😞

The Comments I Get After Posting My Fatansy. Get Me Thinking Some people Don't Know That There Is FUN In Marriage Life Infact You Will be Rewarded For Having Fun With your Spouse... the Prophet peace Be Upon Him Is Our Role Model. So As Such We Should Learn From Him : `A’ishah ( RA ) reported that she accompanied the Prophet in a travel when she was still slim. The Prophet told people to move forward and then he asked `A’ishah ( RA ) to race with him. They had a race and `A’ishah ( RA ) won. In a later travel, when `A’ishah ( RA )had forgotten the race and had already gained weight, the Prophet told her to race with him again. She declined, “How can I race with you while I am in such a condition?” The Prophet insisted and they did have a race. The Prophet won this time. He laughed then and said, “Now, we are even.” (Authenticated by Al-Albani) `A’isha ( RA) reported: It was the day of `Eid and some Ethiopians were playing with shields and spears. Either I requested Allah’s Messenger or he himself asked me whether I would like to see the display. I replied in the affirmative. Then he let me stand behind him; my cheek was touching his cheek and he was saying, “Carry on, O Bani Arfida (i.e., Ethiopians)!” When I got tired, he asked me if that was enough. I replied in the affirmative and he told me to leave. (Al-Bukhari) So We Look For A Friend In Our Patner.. So I Don't Know why Some think its Wrong To Wish For. a Panter that Will Have Things in common as You... Be More Possitive Guys Thank You

I read the post about the girl who posted about strict parents. I can relate to her. This is the first time I've ever posted about this and I can't post it without crying. I lost my mum when I was really young and since then my dad stopped us ( my siblings and I ) from going anywhere besides school. He's very wealthy but believes that the only thing his children need to have is food to eat and a bed to sleep. Is it possible that a girl won't have needs like soap to bathe or just a normal body cream, deodorant? Haba. We are also not allowed to go out and have friends over. Sometimes it sounds unreal that this is my life, I've lost almost all my friends because how do I explain it to them that I can't go out at my age? Even to the gate of the house. They also don't invite me anywhere cos they feel I won't come. I know it's his money not ours but we the children never asked to be born in the first place so why treat us badly? All the cleaners, maids and gateman have been fired and we now do their jobs. I don't even mind doing it, it's just the insult that comes with it. We are lazy and ungrateful. I don't know how I wake up every day, how am I still living. I've contemplated suicide many times but I feel it's too selfish of me to leave my siblings behind. I definitely can't keep a relationship because I won't be able to see whoever I'm dating. My step mother even had the audacity to ask me to bring a man home for marriage. From where pls? When I don't go out or nothing, I'm extremely beautiful, light skinned and I speak very well so if anyone even sees me, they will never know that I'm going through all of this. I'm optimistic that one day, my life will change. I just wanted to share my feelings with everyone.

Aslm nakasan ce ina soyayya da wani Amma Kuma yanada Mata da Yara biyu, muna soyayya sosai Kamar bazaa rabuba , akoda yaushe Ina tambayar shi yaushe zaizo gidan mu Dan ayi maganan auren mu Sai ya basar da maganan kokuma yace min bazan ganeba. And I need to get married because I lost my mom 8yrs ago ,Ina tareda matar babana banajin dadin zama da ita Bata Sona kwata kwata. please am seeking for your prayers 🙏 Allah ya bani Wanda zai Soni tsakani da Allah Kuma da maganan aure. Thank you so much

Who is with me ?. i Want a Patner that Plays Games Watch Anime Swims Dance ( For me ). Someone that i Can Play With me Like a Five year Old, Someone wired like me ..Nd Have No Problem with Traveling Weekly....If i Can Get That In A Patner Subhannallah....

my fellow Wattpad readers, especially the girls, do you also fantasize about having a certain character as your man, especially those that are willing to do anything for who they love regardless of who they are and their flaws? Kuma ni dai I love those mafian men wlhi😂😭. Is it just me or I have partners in this?

Assalam, as a matter of fact, bawai yabon Kai ba Am a cool guy, graduate sannan da Ilimi na na Addini daidai gwargwado. mutum ne Ni Mai Tsafta da kasancewa cikin Kamshi all the time. Amma kullum tsoro approaching Yan Mata nake. a duk sanda Naga wata Dana yaba Haka Zan hakura damar ta tseremin 😢😭. dalilin kuwa shine, na taba kula wata and she told me Wai I'm Short. tun daga Nan Abun ya tsaya min a rai, sai naga Kamar duk wacce na kula hakane. bana son na Kara fuskantar Irin wannan cin zarafin. I'm 5'7" height. Kunga ai normal shortness ne Amma na fuskanci wannan cin zarafin.

Aslm my dear brothers and sisters good day to you all Here am i today showing my appreciation to Arewaup admins and most importantly the people In this forum, ever since the day I came into this place I've seen many thing about other that make me cry and feel blessed, as many people are saying "everyone knows whats between him and his creator" but all I can say is Alhamdulillah wlhy as of now that I'm writing this post I'm feeling very bad about alote of things I've read in this forum Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah may Allah bless us here and here after Allah ya bamu iKon canye jarabawarsa baki dayan mu thank you brothers and sisters just showing my appreciation thanks alote you people are amazing to everyone have a nice and great day, glad to have you all thanks.

Asslm please I need step by step mine made masa receipe... thank you Allah yayi maku Albarka Ameen

plss arewaup members ku bani shawara,Am 24yrs duk samarin da na taba yi a rayuwana basu zama babu fada ba komi sai muna cikin zaman lfy,ko wanne a karshe saidai kiji yace min inyi hakuri an hada shi auren cousin,kuma wllh ina yin iya bakin kokarina to keep d relationships.abin yazo min ma yanzu ina tsoron in fada son wani domin ina gani shima in d end hakan zai faru..plss help me🥲🥲

What I want to advise you guys is that pls and pls sisters Idan kun hada crush da wata pls don't disgrace or insult her kowa sa'a yake nema so I didn't see away wata zata cima wata mutunci it's not good at all the same thing that happens to Ashrab crushers though naga sister din tayi apologising and I'm sure her apology is accepted. Allah yasa mu gyara and best of luck to everyone.🙏🙏 A special thanks to arewaup 🙏

jama'a an samu wanda yace a bashi contact din jikar qaroona zai bada 500k karya ta kare 😂😂

Assalamualaikum I'm seeking for advice wlh I don't know what is wrong with my Boyfriend we can't go for a week without having an issue Kuma wlh minor one ne especially akan cousins dina Jiya sbd kawae nayi uploading hoton cousin dina a DP yana ta ignoring dina Abinda nakeso nasani Daman hakan nafaruwa coz na gaji 🥺🙏

I have a question please do you think a relationship between two university classmate can lead to marriage Coss me and my boyfriend dey for the sme lvl in university shine Nike tunanin yanzun inna kawomah iyayenah wannan maganan zaiyiwu su amince he wants us to wed next year Kuma yanzun saura manah ace shekara daya da rabi mugama school, have you ever heard of married couples going to the university together won't it be somehow please I need you thoughts in this hlp a sister.

Assalamu alaikum beloved family members. I will like to inform you that I have utilized my sisters investment accounting to their demands as you advice me to... 😁😁😁 however, yesterday night they gave me 1 vail and 1 soap wai their contribution for Kayan lefe 🤣🤣🤣 really don't know how to react to this.... please someone should tell them to calm down, or wait are they trying to send me away? 🤔 hmmm... anyway I now have 1 vail 🧕🏻 and 1 soap 😎 so guy what have you bought for you Kayan lefe? share you thoughts and your strategies for Kayan lefe... 😁

Assalamu alaikum ya usratil-jamilah! 😁 barkan ku da warhaka... so last week I went to my regular spot to eat pounded yam... Ina kan ci sai naji some stones inside 😫... since then when I want to eat pounded yam I will feel kamar akawai katsa a ciki🥹... I have officially broke up with pounded yam... so now it's your obligation as my family 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦to suggestion another food relationship for me 🤔 so that I can move on with life...😁 so what is your favorite food? what food would you suggestion I go for? give me you thought thanks you all in advance fam. 🤗

please, guys, take note and do HIV and any other tests early before the due date of marriage cuz someone just tested positive for Aids on her wedding day when the results were opened and she is nowhere to be seen right now. this is so sad because everything else was done for the wedding and all the preparations were set as well. the groom is broken right now and refuses to talk to anyone💔