Assalamu alaikum. There's this thing that has been really bothering me lately. do good men really exist? I keep wondering to myself bcuz all the guys I tend to meet are not what I wish for. I mean they are funny, nice, sensible and mostly religious alhamdulillah. The only problem I have with them is asking for inappropriate pictures, asking to make sex call so they can relieve themselves, asking very personal and uncomfortable questions. I mean all I want is someone that have self control and knows how to speak to a lady. I don't ask for much. but it seems I'm always unlucky with horny men. and for me it's a big red flag if you ask for my inappropriate pictures or to make erotic calls. I mean if I'm your wife it's cool but I'm not. it's like a normal thing to most guys which I find very uncomfortable. I tend to back out in any relationship that requires this bcuz I feel very uncomfortable, do you think I'm making a mistake by doing that bcuz I think I've left way too many guys bcuz of that which makes me start to think are there really good guys left?

dear crush. I also shot my shot... kawai dai it didn't reach cover page ne that's why.. but don't worry doesn't mean you can't still locate me.... muma kudan duba side din mu.... we no even want 200k e too plenty..... lol... Gaskiya Arewa matchmaking should continue this shooting shot saga... Nima I want my crush to locate me

Please where can I find a man who is between the age of 35 and 60 who wants to be in a relationship... I just feel I want something with an older man. please 🥺 help me.

There is this thing I really wanted to tell you but don’t know how to start it with n don’t know whom to talk to with Honestly am going through a lot😢ntn seems to work for me relationship frndship work school ntn absolutely ntn have being depressed for a very long time now like 5months now.I wish it can stop but still. Because am not working.It bring a month now And I felt like I need to travel outside Ghana but because am not financially stable I can’t go so if there is anyone who will love to invite me and help me travel out of Ghana I will be very very happy and I believe my trauma will come down a bit.Am not asking anyone to send me money if anyone wants to help they can pass through you or anyone they know in Ghana for that.I really really wanna visit Nigeria.

I know alot of people will judge me based on my actions because even I feel I was stupid and childish with everything I did.... I regret every action of mine and I am asking for forgiveness from God. yet I still feel the urge to do what I have in mind. I don't know if it's just the devil playing with me.... some months back my dad sent me some money and asked me to keep for him till he needed it. being the youngest in my family and the closest to him. he trusted me to keep it for him.... the money was in my account and I didn't touch anything.... a friend of mine who got married had alot of issues in her matrimonial home. and at such they parted ways with her husband. because the marriage was not up to a month. the husband demanded she paid back for the lefe and some other things he spent on her.... she didn't have the money neither did her parents.... she was very disturbed and she spoke to me about it.... I thought so hard and had so much pity on her. I told her I could lend her the money. then she pays back when she is settled just to clear everything with her ex husband and she was happy. she was very thankful.... I gave her part of the money in my account hoping she would pay back after a while.... a month passed by and she didn't say anything about it. then two months past n still no word from her.... then I decided to ask her... she said I should give her time.... which I did.... another month passed and still she didn't pay the money. when I spoke to her she said I should come and collect it from her by force. because I gave her money so I won't allow her rest.... I still kept talking to her and she blocked me on WhatsApp.... she is a very active person on social media and that too a known person because she is always all over social media. it would be too humiliating to publicly announce her name....... I need advice on what next to do with her.... I felt I was being a good friend by helping someone who her husband treated like a no body... just so he could get off her back coz he even threatened to take her to court if she didn't pay him..... I can't open up to my dad....last month I started having the thought of paying back myself before he ask for it.... a friend of mine hook me up with an older man who was willing to pay me money but only if I slept with him.... my conscience kept hunting me that day n I couldn't bring myself to do it.... I am a Muslim n I have never thought of sleeping with a man just to get what I want.... but I just feel like I don't have another option..... I'm supposed to meet someone tomorrow n I can't sleep right now.... coz my whole mind isn't at right...I have a million thoughts... what should I do to get out of this mess I got myself into....

hey please I need help 🙏 I'm the first born from family of 5. we lost our dad last 3yrs since then life has been very difficult for us 😭 coz dangin babanmu are not doing anything helpful. I need a business idea that doesn't need capital plss, I'm really in need of it to help my poor mum and siblings plssss 🙏 thank you.

I met this guy during lockdown and we started off pretty well. He met my parents last year and our marriage was fixed. his family and mine were cool. they met a couple of times. my issues with him started when we were about buying lefe. he asked me to make a list of everything I wanted and I did. we started buying things. he spoke to his sister and I guess she told him he shouldn't buy lefe with me. coz out of the blue he switched size and it was always my sister said this , my sister said that. considering the fact that I was way ahead of his sister I felt she couldn't buy anything to my taste. I spoke to him and he refused.... After they brought the lefe to. my house no. one was. impressed about it. not even my parents... so my mum called his sister and spoke to her. the next thing she sent my mum all kinds of messages that we should tell them if we don't want the wedding that we insulted them that our family is way better so they should take there lefe to a poor house where it will be appreciated. and between Allah and I that wasn't what my mum said.... I spoke to him about it and he didn't see anything wrong in what his sister did. rather he was asking me to call her and apologize. I told him I couldn't do that... when my mum ignored his sister. she got my dad's number and told him she has the right to stop the wedding if she wanted to and nothing would happen... so. many things. made me feel like she never wanted me to marry her brother I got so upset that even after everything he didn't apologize to my parents but rather wanted me to apologise to his. I asked him to come take his lefe coz I couldn't get married to him again. I. called off my wedding myself coz I couldn't watch anyone disrespect my parents... no one knows how I feel deep down in my heart and. how I'm hurting... I love him so much yet I had to compromise that for the respect of my parents.... wedding that was supposed to happen in a months time won't be happening anymore. I feel devastated I feel frustrated... I don't know if I did the right thing.

I was in sahad stores two days back and I saw this really cute guy wearing black. oh my God he looked so nice. I have been looking for him since then. and I don't know how to contact him. been having sleepless nights coz I can't stop thinking about him.

Assalamu Alaikum family! how was your weekends? base on our weekly achievements from last week, here is what I was able to achieve; 1-ate 3 malmala of pounded yam 😁 2-digital marketing was able to generate a sum of 3.3million naira in sales 🙌🙌 3- I was not able to submit the proposal for NDLA yet but soon in sha Allah 😔 . 4-I'm not done with the housing proposal 😤 so I'm going continue with the digital marketing and carry over the rest of the pending activities... what were you able to achieve this week? tell us and let's help each other to progress together. thank you 🙏

I need a chat pal. am a guy living in a difficult location is so boring here need someone who's constantly online on WhatsApp to keep me happy. mind you am single.

assalmu Alaikum warahmatullah. good evening all. I need more clarification regarding this matter. sorry I can use hause idan baban mutum ya rasu, misali yana tsayawa yar sa da ta kusa aure kayan daki, sai ya rasu before ayi biki din.. so kayan dakin daya fara seyawa yar shi da zatayi aure shima is it part of the gado (inheritance) wanda zaa raba kodai ya riga ya xama nata ?? thank you

I was in a relationship with a guy for 6 years and we broke up January this year because of misunderstandings that when I think of it now it was not really a big deal and could be dealt with in a better approach, I haven't really gotten over him but he is married now, he got married three months ago and I tried my best not to have any form of contact with him....but now I haven't met someone I love and loves me.....I will be 25 December.

pls I need advice my husband to be suggested I come up with a biz Idea.. he said I should think and get back to him pls what biz can I do that is very lucrative and ppl buy it offen he said online biz tnk u and God bless you

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah I’ve always tried my best to practice and abide by what islam teaches then I met this guy and we dated for almost 2 years before we broke up, he is so religious and helped me get closer to Allah. I became so religious after we broke up. Now the issue is I feel I can’t marry a person who isn’t as religious as I am or even more Recently I then met someone about 3 months ago and he’s a nice person but isn’t that islamically sound. I love him but I’m not sure I’m ready to marry him because sometimes he makes me do things islam doesn’t permit and he quickly gets angry whenever I refuse to, he claims I won’t be submissive after marriage if I try to argue or decline his request. He also complain sometimes that I’m too religious komai once ‘babu kyau’ He has seen my dad already akan maganan aure but I’m scared wlhi, I’m afraid he won’t let me practice my DEEN how I want. Please advice me on what to do PS: I want to settle soon cos of course I’m getting older

Hello everyone, I am writing these with a heavy heart,I don't know inda zan sa kaina😭years back there is nothing I hate like S*x I hate the mare mention of it and I always pray that I should never be a victim of Zina until I get married but maybe I didn't pray harder,last year I fell in love with a guy whom I loved so much and that love lead me astray😭 because I made the biggest mistake of my life in other to prove myself or should I rather say my love for him i agree to have s*x with him😭😭😭😭 after that he broke up with me early these year😭 now that's not the problem right now, few months I was broke and someone offered money to me in exchange of s*x and I accepted 😭💔💔💔 Wallahi I only wanted the money so I can start up something with my life a business or something to hold on with,I pray but I feel my prayers are not answered Because of what I did,I want to get closer to Allah what should I do please someone should advise me💔😭😭

Assalamu Alaikum warahmatullah. barka mu da war haka. I'm in Pain. I can't explain what I'm going through. amma ina fatan haka ya zama Alkhairi a gare ni. I'm with him for good 4 years. I Loved him, And I always believed our love is a rock, no bad day can come between us. I knew, I had found love & happiness, he is the man of my dreams, my future, my everything. He is so supportive and caring Man. we truly Love Each other. we planned our future. few Months to our wedding, Allah ya Jarabce shi a kasuwancin shi. but I still believe zan aure shu a haka. seda biki a rage Some Days, familyn shi suka bijiro a daga biki. ashe akwai abun da suke boyewa. basu sanar da mu ba. se da na bincika wajen cousin din shi na gane akwai matsala babba. sannan ya boye min abubuwa da dama be fada min ba. nan ne naji gaskiya na fara auren shi, duka dama na fadawa iyaye na cewar na haqura dashi. yanzu mahaifina yace ze daura min aure da dan abokin shi same date da aka saka da wanchan. ina barar Addu'ar ku dan Allah. Allah yasa biyayyar da nayiwa maifina na amincewa zan auri wanda ba taba sani ba ya zame min Alkhairi duniya da lahira. Allah yasa na so shi fiye da son da nayiwa wanchan bawan Allah. dan Allah ku min Addu'a da bakunan ku masu Albarka

Seems I'm always not lucky in love.it's either the person is bad(sexual relationship) or good(switch up from being loviy,, starts giving attitude )...am i the problem?what have i ever done than to love?..ko bakuson a nuna maku so ne?...Allah knows my intentions..! but I always end up heartbroken...at this moment I'm tired!! im done!! maybe ba rabon a so mu tsakani da Allah bane....cx how can you make sm1 comfortable with you...talk with you evry now and then ...then lokaci daya you just change or leave even💔💔💔??May Allah make me stronger and May Allah not let me love anyone that is not for me...its not fair💔😑.

Assalamu Alaikum, please I need a word of prayer dan Allah. My mind is going through alot, Am feeling lonely kamar everyone is rejecting me. Wlhy Azim rayuwa nake but am not feeling it ko kadan. Someone should tell me what to do please before I lost it 😔. Oh Allah ka yaye mana damuwanmu, ka kuma bamu ikon cin jarabawarmu, ka bani lfy tare da dukkanin musulmai baki daya da kuma mazaje na gari, amin ya rabbi. A sani a addua dan Allah😭 I need an anonymous friend that I can talk to please..

Assaalmu Alaikum warahmatullah. How are you doing, ya jammaa. Please I need your urgent help and advice. I am a medical student, so in the hospital we go for our clinical training, there is a room called “storeroom “where we usually sit when we are free, so in that room they usually keep some Drugs haka and use them for treatment ( though it’s not in Nigeria,so the medicine is free for government hospitals). So I left with the key for that room mistakenly. And emergency came in, they couldn’t get access to that room because there is no key at the moment, it’s lead to the extend that The patient is dead because 1 couldn’t bring the key on time 😭. So what I want to know is, nasan chewa mutum idan ya mutum lokacinsa ne yayi babu yanda mutum zai iya, so now am in dilemma and confused. Am I the one that cause the dead of the patient? So do I have to fast for the 60days ?? Ko do I have to pay diyyah?? I am confused 😭 Thank you Keep me anonymous please

assalamualaikum, Alhamdulillah I do a little business but with the rise of goods everyday and hardship of d country I really need a halal job to keep moving,I was working with a private organization but had to quit because I was married and to settle in a different state,but life is not easy in the present state coz I have nothing doing,I have applied for various jobs and contacted the pple I know but still no news,pls if anyone can help I don't mind any job if it will bring halal income I will do it inshaa Allah,i have my first and second degree in social sciences.thank you.