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My parents are very strict and its affecting me terribly General

I read the post about the girl who posted about strict parents. I can relate to her. This is the first time I've ever posted about this and I can't post it without crying. I lost my mum when I was really young and since then my dad stopped us ( my siblings and I ) from going anywhere besides school. He's very wealthy but believes that the only thing his children need to have is food to eat and a bed to sleep. Is it possible that a girl won't have needs like soap to bathe or just a normal body cream, deodorant? Haba. We are also not allowed to go out and have friends over. Sometimes it sounds unreal that this is my life, I've lost almost all my friends because how do I explain it to them that I can't go out at my age? Even to the gate of the house. They also don't invite me anywhere cos they feel I won't come. I know it's his money not ours but we the children never asked to be born in the first place so why treat us badly? All the cleaners, maids and gateman have been fired and we now do their jobs. I don't even mind doing it, it's just the insult that comes with it. We are lazy and ungrateful. I don't know how I wake up every day, how am I still living. I've contemplated suicide many times but I feel it's too selfish of me to leave my siblings behind. I definitely can't keep a relationship because I won't be able to see whoever I'm dating. My step mother even had the audacity to ask me to bring a man home for marriage. From where pls? When I don't go out or nothing, I'm extremely beautiful, light skinned and I speak very well so if anyone even sees me, they will never know that I'm going through all of this. I'm optimistic that one day, my life will change. I just wanted to share my feelings with everyone.

Dec 13, 12:33 PM
I need your prayers πŸ™ Advice

Aslm nakasan ce ina soyayya da wani Amma Kuma yanada Mata da Yara biyu, muna soyayya sosai Kamar bazaa rabuba , akoda yaushe Ina tambayar shi yaushe zaizo gidan mu Dan ayi maganan auren mu Sai ya basar da maganan kokuma yace min bazan ganeba. And I need to get married because I lost my mom 8yrs ago ,Ina tareda matar babana banajin dadin zama da ita Bata Sona kwata kwata. please am seeking for your prayers πŸ™ Allah ya bani Wanda zai Soni tsakani da Allah Kuma da maganan aure. Thank you so much

Dec 12, 09:41 PM
My Relationship/Partner Fantasy Relationship

Who is with me ?. i Want a Patner that Plays Games Watch Anime Swims Dance ( For me ). Someone that i Can Play With me Like a Five year Old, Someone wired like me ..Nd Have No Problem with Traveling Weekly....If i Can Get That In A Patner Subhannallah....

Dec 12, 08:07 PM
Dear Wattpad and novel readers, have you found your partner ? Relationship

my fellow Wattpad readers, especially the girls, do you also fantasize about having a certain character as your man, especially those that are willing to do anything for who they love regardless of who they are and their flaws? Kuma ni dai I love those mafian men wlhiπŸ˜‚πŸ˜­. Is it just me or I have partners in this?

Dec 12, 05:45 PM
Body shaming ya chusa min tsoron approaching Girls Relationship

Assalam, as a matter of fact, bawai yabon Kai ba Am a cool guy, graduate sannan da Ilimi na na Addini daidai gwargwado. mutum ne Ni Mai Tsafta da kasancewa cikin Kamshi all the time. Amma kullum tsoro approaching Yan Mata nake. a duk sanda Naga wata Dana yaba Haka Zan hakura damar ta tseremin 😒😭. dalilin kuwa shine, na taba kula wata and she told me Wai I'm Short. tun daga Nan Abun ya tsaya min a rai, sai naga Kamar duk wacce na kula hakane. bana son na Kara fuskantar Irin wannan cin zarafin. I'm 5'7" height. Kunga ai normal shortness ne Amma na fuskanci wannan cin zarafin.

Dec 12, 12:04 PM
Thanks to people that are in this house you are all appreciated. General

Aslm my dear brothers and sisters good day to you all Here am i today showing my appreciation to Arewaup admins and most importantly the people In this forum, ever since the day I came into this place I've seen many thing about other that make me cry and feel blessed, as many people are saying "everyone knows whats between him and his creator" but all I can say is Alhamdulillah wlhy as of now that I'm writing this post I'm feeling very bad about alote of things I've read in this forum Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah may Allah bless us here and here after Allah ya bamu iKon canye jarabawarsa baki dayan mu thank you brothers and sisters just showing my appreciation thanks alote you people are amazing to everyone have a nice and great day, glad to have you all thanks.

Dec 12, 10:49 AM
Masa Receipe Urgently Needed πŸ™ Food

Asslm please I need step by step mine made masa receipe... thank you Allah yayi maku Albarka Ameen

Dec 12, 08:08 AM
Am not lucky when it's comes to Men General

plss arewaup members ku bani shawara,Am 24yrs duk samarin da na taba yi a rayuwana basu zama babu fada ba komi sai muna cikin zaman lfy,ko wanne a karshe saidai kiji yace min inyi hakuri an hada shi auren cousin,kuma wllh ina yin iya bakin kokarina to keep d relationships.abin yazo min ma yanzu ina tsoron in fada son wani domin ina gani shima in d end hakan zai faru..plss help meπŸ₯²πŸ₯²

Dec 12, 05:42 AM
An advise to the ladies in the group Advice

What I want to advise you guys is that pls and pls sisters Idan kun hada crush da wata pls don't disgrace or insult her kowa sa'a yake nema so I didn't see away wata zata cima wata mutunci it's not good at all the same thing that happens to Ashrab crushers though naga sister din tayi apologising and I'm sure her apology is accepted. Allah yasa mu gyara and best of luck to everyone.πŸ™πŸ™ A special thanks to arewaup πŸ™

Dec 11, 11:57 PM
Jikar Qaroona Entertainment

jama'a an samu wanda yace a bashi contact din jikar qaroona zai bada 500k karya ta kare πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Dec 11, 09:30 PM
I need advice, me & my boyfriend always fight over, even minor issues Relationship

Assalamualaikum I'm seeking for advice wlh I don't know what is wrong with my Boyfriend we can't go for a week without having an issue Kuma wlh minor one ne especially akan cousins dina Jiya sbd kawae nayi uploading hoton cousin dina a DP yana ta ignoring dina Abinda nakeso nasani Daman hakan nafaruwa coz na gaji πŸ₯ΊπŸ™

Dec 11, 06:58 PM
Can a relationship between to university mates lead to Marriage? Advice

I have a question please do you think a relationship between two university classmate can lead to marriage Coss me and my boyfriend dey for the sme lvl in university shine Nike tunanin yanzun inna kawomah iyayenah wannan maganan zaiyiwu su amince he wants us to wed next year Kuma yanzun saura manah ace shekara daya da rabi mugama school, have you ever heard of married couples going to the university together won't it be somehow please I need you thoughts in this hlp a sister.

Dec 11, 06:23 PM
Me 😎 VS My Kid Sisters πŸ§’πŸ‘§πŸΌπŸ‘©πŸΌ (Part 2) General

Assalamu alaikum beloved family members. I will like to inform you that I have utilized my sisters investment accounting to their demands as you advice me to... 😁😁😁 however, yesterday night they gave me 1 vail and 1 soap wai their contribution for Kayan lefe 🀣🀣🀣 really don't know how to react to this.... please someone should tell them to calm down, or wait are they trying to send me away? πŸ€” hmmm... anyway I now have 1 vail πŸ§•πŸ» and 1 soap 😎 so guy what have you bought for you Kayan lefe? share you thoughts and your strategies for Kayan lefe... 😁

Dec 11, 11:53 AM
I'm breaking up with pounded yam πŸ™…πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ Food

Assalamu alaikum ya usratil-jamilah! 😁 barkan ku da warhaka... so last week I went to my regular spot to eat pounded yam... Ina kan ci sai naji some stones inside 😫... since then when I want to eat pounded yam I will feel kamar akawai katsa a cikiπŸ₯Ή... I have officially broke up with pounded yam... so now it's your obligation as my family πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§β€πŸ‘¦to suggestion another food relationship for me πŸ€” so that I can move on with life...😁 so what is your favorite food? what food would you suggestion I go for? give me you thought thanks you all in advance fam. πŸ€—

Dec 11, 11:39 AM
Be doing HIV test early before due date Advice

please, guys, take note and do HIV and any other tests early before the due date of marriage cuz someone just tested positive for Aids on her wedding day when the results were opened and she is nowhere to be seen right now. this is so sad because everything else was done for the wedding and all the preparations were set as well. the groom is broken right now and refuses to talk to anyoneπŸ’”

Dec 11, 09:56 AM
Dear men pls dont waste her time if your not willing to marry her Relationship

I have a boyfriend that we date over 4years ,so this guy travel to study ,at that time I was in SS1 hmm guys karkugan kalan soyayyah da muke because baya kasar ,wallahi inyace karkiyi baxanyiba inyace karki tashi baxan tashiba,bana kula kowa only him, I don’t know what double dating is idona yarufe,my friends always advise me akan narage nunamai so but ji nake kaman makiyanane,to cut the story short ,yaxo yagama karatunshi,done with this service but shuru innace yaushe xamuyi aure sai yace kifadama su mama next year July xa azo dis and that I was very happy hmmπŸ’” lastly yace he wants to greet my mom I said okay he introduced him self ,haka he meet my dad ,later he start showing attitude to me yaxo da sabon hali zaifara min xanchan da bashi ba,what hurt me must is yayi wasa da hankalin iyaye na become akoi lokacin yaxo yace mun zasuxo susa date infada nace toh I now tell my sister she meet my mom sukai magana my mom tells my dad ,and at that month babana xaiyi tafiya but sabida maganan yafasa tafiyan πŸ’”this guy kept us waiting shuru yadena kirana yadena picking calls πŸ™‚I now stop calling him please dear brother it’s hurt a lot ,zakaso ayima yar uwarka haka ko yarka?mudena wasa da ahankalin mutun inhar ba auren mutun xamuyiba please πŸ˜ŠπŸ™ŒπŸ»

Dec 11, 06:34 AM
ArewaUp Appreciation General

I want to commend the founder of this app for developing an arewa forum for discussion. May the app become greater than western social media apps and contribute towards Nigeria's development. πŸ’―

Dec 10, 11:03 PM
Reflection of Society General

I don't know where to begin from as I'm shocked and disappointed about the 600k issue. The sad thing about it was that there were people under the comment section that require 20-30% of the money or less to handle serious problems including healthcare and school registration. This is a sad reminder of where we're and shows that there's more to be done to become a better society. Allah gives wealth to those He chooses and doesn't give wealth to those He chooses. Being wealthy is a test and shouldn't be used as a weapon against others. It should also be used to benefit society rather than fulfilling trivial desires of the heart that will achieve nothing. At the end, we all end up we're supposed to be no matter our decisions. The person you think that is your crush today will be someone else's husband or wife and there's nothing anyone can do about it. I'll like to advice the boys, girls, men and women out there that nothing lasts forever. This life is all about making mistakes, learning and growth which results in wisdom after a while. I will like to assume everyone involved in this episode has learnt something including myself.

Dec 10, 10:54 PM
Dear girls, Relationship

WHY ARE YOU NOT CRUSHING ON ME❓

Dec 10, 09:57 PM
Labari da dumi duminta Entertainment

Zaayi ma jikar firauna refunding gobe masu zaman jira irina kudaiji yadda abu ya faru ni nan inata jiran nawa share din Ashe babu raboπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Dec 10, 09:33 PM

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