Am married for almost 3 years now but i dont enjoy $** at ol which is causing problem btwn me nd hubby ive tried so many things..supplements, aphrodisiac herbal treat infection dat i dont have so many things. plss if u hve any advice any suggestion i will b at d comment section thank u.. ladies help a sister plss am drowning inside its killing me i want to please and b pleased..

I realize I am a lonely person, I'm already broken and feel distant from groups or individuals. I can't keep going on like this. I'm done with school , didn't make any commitments with friends, and now i regret it. Even social gatherings at home and school I secluded myself Life is not just about what know ,but who you know. Now I'm ready to make changes,and I'll need advice.

Hello 👋 everyone, brkanmu dayau, ya Friday, I've a question to ask plz about this platform. why is everyone anonymous on this app? am i also an anonymous kokuwa sunana y a fitowa neh 🙂

I'm just tired,love isn't favouring me🥺 I know I have a good heart but my weakness is used against me..Astagfirullah 😥

Asslm, good evening ma/sir pls I need urgent advice I got married this year March me and hubby are always quarreling ever since we got married I don’t have peace of mind in my marriage, whenever I saw him I will be irritated and if he’s not around am always happy😭whenever we get into quarreling he will start hitting me and pounching me and I now there’s no single love left for him in my heart again please I need your advice 🙏😭😭 I am tired of the marriage. THANK YOU🙏🥺😩🥵😭 AND NO INSULT PLS

Hello am not shooting my shot here but I have a problem and I want you to help me and post it please 🙏inada saurayi har anyi gaisuwa but lokaci daya kaka ta tace bazanyi aure ba sai sister na mai shekara 33 tayi aure kafin zamuyi So inason aban shawara ta comment section please ni kuma Wallahi aure nakeso nayi harga Allah

we have been dating with my boyfriend since 2020. my problem here is that I heard some rumors that he is getting married dama he comes from that kind of family da suke auran cousins dinsu so sai banyi complaining mashi ba because I was thinking that indai yana sona bazai boye mani something as important as this ba so last month sai kawai yayi mani message wai "bayan tunan rayuwar aure dani dashi zata yiyu" i was speechless at that time kawai sai nace mashi "Bissalam" na goge komi daya shafe shi but am still thinking about him every single day because of our memories komi nayi saiya tuna mani dashi. dan Allah I need advice da zanyi amfani da ita na manta dashi because some of my friends nawa suna bani weird advice wai na sake sabon boyfriend but nikuma ina ganin kamar kara wa kaina wani matsala zanyi akan wace nike ciki sabidda ko wanne namiji yanasan caring daga wajan girlfriend dinshi.

Assalamu alaykum, good afternoon Arewa MM.. I am an active member of the platform, i want to share something with the platform. Sometime ago u strongly partook in giving me advice to not give up while i was at the verge of loosing following the horrible moments with my previous life. Alhamdulilah i am doing well now, thanks to you and others. But i think something changed within me, i have become too immune, timid, nonchalant about relationship, love and marriage, now i feel like maybe i was born to remain single and alone, God knows i have tried and i was extremely patient and embraced what crossed as part of my fate,. I am deeply praying, to become soft like i used to, now my brain, heart, mind thinks like a robot now, i now try to love me, take care of me, and never stressed me again.. Emotionally trauma is like an automatic ticket to early grave if one isnt prayerful and patient.

Assalampls ina neman shawara wurin yan uwana akwai wani friend dina Amma yanda muka saba ya zama kamar brother na coz munyi 15 yrs tare komai ina iya fada mashi he is always there for me a koda yaushe when I need help nd advice from him yanxu ni dai duk duniya banda na mijin da nike so in aura kamar shi nd I knw he has a girl Amma wata zuciya na ceman I should just tell him how I feel abt him pls a bani shawara in fada mashi ko kar in fada mashi

I thought we were over this thing called tribalism, I was actually rejected simply because of my tribe and nothing else am the type that speak fluent Hausa in shot you can never find the ascent of Yoruba on my tongue people hardly believe that am yoruba unless i speak because my mom is hausa, that doesn't change the fact that i'm yoruba and i'm proud to be one I've been with this guy which we really love each other as in I was really into this guy, he is really the type of guy I prayed for and when I met him it was a dream come true for me, Am the type that trust easily and falls in love so easily so long as am okay with you because I know what I want. We were doing great not until I noticed some changes, I asked him severally but he wouldn't just tell me what the problem his, until we had an issue which actually came from me that gave him the chance he have been waiting for. His family forbids him to marry Yoruba his mom to be precise, he had no option than to opt out of the relationship. Guys the breakfast ehhhn sha I tried so hard to get over it because I really loved this guy. Share ur view on this 😇

Assalamualaikum Good evening family please I need ur urgent and sincere advice my husband is someone who spent almost all his life abroad so his ways and lifestyle differ from the northern life his more of the western life my husband is a very good man and has all the quality of a good husband but my problem with my husband he doesn't take 5 daily prayers serious 😥😥 it's breaks my heart alot please brothers and sisters advice me on how to go about it I love my husband so much I can't watch him go astray 😥😥 kullum Ina kiyamun lailli Ina fada was Allah he should touch his heart I believe Allah will put an answer to my prayer please advise me 🙏 I will be waiting for your answers Allah yasaka da alheri.

pls in the match making group after ur list is up to 10,can someone be able to send your request? or u have to remove someone before you see there request?

Assalamualaikum barkan mu da Rana ena Neman Karin bayani akan waya dace da yabada auren yarinya a dangi akwai lokacin da Wani yake shirin zuwa wajen baba nah sai kanwar baba na take cewa daddy na Bai da hakkin yabada aure na sai dai kanin shi kuma mahaifi naneh over all senior his the first born of the family just because my dad is a simple man they are taking him 4 granted so what happened now yanxu mahaifi na yabada aure na shine Abu yazama abun suka a dangi wai suna fushi dashi Dan meye Bai NEMA izinin suba kafin ya amince kananun magananu from all angle sun sa mum dinnah a gaba as if my parents don't have right over their children again as if my parents commit a crime please tell me did my parents go wrong my dad ordered my fiance to travel and go and greet each one of them but still yet har yau ba Wanda acikin su yamin fatan alheri akan aure Nan Saida sharrin kala kala please advise me.

These are words that are becoming common just of recent and i have no idea what they Mean.

I have a confession to make. Please don't judge me for I'm only seeking for advice. I am a lady of 27yrs, but I'm addicted to masturbation. I started since I was in boarding school at 14yrs old. I really don't remember how it started, but if I could turn back the hands of time to reverse it, I would. I used to masturbate every single day, but now, it's just like twice a week. I just want to stop it completely but I don't know how to. I used to have sex before, but Wallahi I have repented Alhamdulillah, I haven't done it in a long while coz wlh Ina tsoron Allah sosai, Amma na kasa daina masturbation. Please I need an advice, and as I said earlier, please don't judge me for I'm only human and I'm not perfect. wannan jarabawan daga Allah ne. Thank you

I dated this guy since secondary but seems I love him most while dating I met his friend a very friendly one and became close to him.actually my bf hardly call or visit but this frnd does visit then one day I fell ill like very ill let's say spritual issues to an extent I myself don't like the medication I was on this guy never call or visit ,but this friend is always with me he visits to check on me like everyday he keeps me company for like 6-7month I got back to my feet only for this guy to say I cheated on him.its really a long story that I can't complete here but please guys tell me did I really cheat on him?

Good communication is often underrated in all relationships, be it parent to child, siblings intending partners and even married couple.. Am a lady so I will talk from our point of view. I have always wanted someone who I can communicate well with, someone I will be able to say anything to without being judged.I have notice most men lack good communication skills... Is either they let the lady steer the conversation, and contribute so little to the conversation that will make her feel he is not interested. And with time the lady will suppress so many things she wants to say. We ladies tend to overthink... We create many scenarios in our head when we don't understand your actions.. And sometimes those scenarios makes us so paranoid we react in the wrong way. We are wired differently pls guys learn to communicate well. There's no harm in picking up your phone and texting 1.babes I will be too busy today do not worry incase you don't hear from me 2.You did this and am not happy. 3.i need some space, no you didn't do anything wrong... Am just trying to sort some things out. 4.thank you I like it when you do this 5. I love the affectionate you 6. It's been a rough day I need some love. 7.i love this and this about you and I will love you to improve on this and this... Please guys we need good communication. Learn to show your emotions.. I take God beg una.

dear future hubby, if you are ready drop ur contact: ammiratu1234@gmail.com Note : serious one please 👏

Salaam, please hide my identity. My biggest problem is I'm actually into drugs, I've become addicted because I started that a decade ago. At this point, I don't take drugs just to get high but to survive. I tried embarking myself on withdrawal but whenever i try doing that, the process becomes very hectic and can never resist it. One thing i thank God with is the fact that ever since I started that, i never joke or play with academics and that's what made me what i am today. Moreover, I'm not trying to please myself but i don't take drugs during daytime but only at night. Atimes i sit down and cry whenever i think about my situation. I'm 27years old, a graduate, a lecturer and currently running my MSc. It happens I'm the youngest in the school I'm undergoing my postgraduate program and even in the institution I'm working. Ever since i started my undergraduate program, I don't give any priority to women. I've been asked out by lots of classy babes but i never find any of them attractive. It's not as if they're not worthy or my taste, they are. A week ago, i was sat down by my mum, dad and my grandma. They suggested i should definitely find someone and get married because it may likely make me change and become more responsible than I am. As for now, I'm not in any serious relationship. And I'm sure no parent will give his daughter to someone of my character. And the worst part is whenever someone hears drugs, It'll be exaggerated but wallahi the only thing i take is codiene and rephanol and wallahi Tallahi I don't get high any longer because my system have become used to it. And no body will even believe i smoke even an ordinary ciggerates because it doesn't show in me. Please help me out and suggest a positive measure to tackle and overcome this issue. Thanks

I'll would like to ask some of you guys that would refuse to respond to request for weeks! Do you feel so special because someone expresses their interest in you, so you treat them with such disdain. A lot of people here are dead serious about finding a spouse. You don't owe anyone any explanation weather you choose to decline or accept a request, but you sure owe the person that has shown interest in you the decency of response.