you don't have to judge me,am seriously scared of getting married.what if I don't meet the right person,what if he doesn't support my career,not white collar job I want own a very big fashion house and academy what he doesn't like me always saying my mind what if doesn't like the fact that I don't smile shyly and always think of everything logically what if he feels I work too hard what if he feels I like money too much (but why do people expect me not to like money I work for) what if he wants a picture perfect lady what if he doesn't like my stubborn self (am very stubborn especially when I want to achieve something) and I hate begging or asking for things am always comfortable with my little things what I become more successful than him and I have alot of insecurities money is one of them I like earning money it gives me a sense of security.
I saw a post about a guy complaining about meeting lazy ladies am a hardworking person which most people complain abt but I was scared what if it doesn't work I actually commented on the post.in a nutshell am a lady scared of marriage
just pray to meeting the right person, someone who will support ur career even if u earn double what he earns, if there s love and respect that's all that matters.
ameen
I’m also scared of it but in sha Allah komai zai wuce idn muka dage d addua
Hello dear. I trust you're good.
First off, you're never too much or too less for the right man.
I understand your fears, in a world like this, if I were in your shoes, I'd be scared too. The rate of failed marriages have sky rocketted, we're having so much more toxic marriages than ever.
I can't blame you for being industrious and wanting to make your own money. There's nothing as attractive as a hardworking and industrious Lady. Mind you, only insecure men will feel intimidated by your achievements and passion.
A good husband won't see you as a rival or competitor in terms of wealth and achievement rather he'd encourage you to do.
Ladies like you are an asset and deserve a standing ovation for making so much effort to success. People like you will serve as a role model to the girl child.
I wish I could introduce you to my brother 😀
Nonetheless, I hope and pray you find that ideal man that will love, support and care for you as you desire.
thanks alot 🤭🤭
My pleasure dear
I'm also scared co'x Nima hk Nike lyk u but mubarwa Allah komai
Am also scared of marriage gsky, but I always pray to God to bless me with a good and kindhearted man cos falling into the wrong person is my greatest fear. So sister prayer is the key,hold on to Allah, tell what u want and pray😊. May Allah grant us our heart desires (Ameen).
ALLAH ya mana zabi mafi alkhairi
Amin er uwa
From which state are you Dear
kogi
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