Dear future wife, Whether you are reading this before you meet me, or stumble upon it after, I want you to know a few things. The reason I am writing this today is because I can’t stop thinking about you, and I can’t stop myself from imagining how happy we will be. Let this letter be a promise to you that I will do my best to be the man I want to be for you. I may not yet know all of the difficulties that come with a lifetime commitment, but I have enough relationship experience to know what I want and how I picture my life with the person I will commit to: you. Those around me are a continuous source of education and inspiration on how I want our relationship to be. So here and today, I vow to try my best to do the following: I promise to do my best to make you beam daily, so count on many surprises. Your smile will be my priority. I get weak knees when anybody smiles, so just imagine the effort I will make to be the source of yours. I promise I will always look at you with the same adoration as I did the moment I realized I loved you. I promise to try to ignite the same sparkle in your eyes I see when you’re surprised, inspired, motivated or when you are about to lean in to kiss me. I promise to hold your hand when we’re 80 years old (In Sha Allah) with the same liveliness that I did when I crossed that line to hold yours for the first time. I vow never to let the excitement of being with me die down; I will surprise you with the location, the reason or the activity itself. I promise to keep you guessing where we’re going next. I promise to do my best always to interest you. I will keep reinventing myself, gaining new hobbies, new knowledge and new interests to keep you -- and myself -- entertained. I promise to have new stories to share with you, and maybe I’ll retell the best ones again if you insist. Our friendship will continue to grow over the years. I vow to challenge you to challenge yourself for the better; to make you think differently. I promise to try to feed off of your illuminating energy that will inspire me to do the same with myself. I will do my best to ensure that being bored never crosses your mind. Even in grief and darkness, I promise to show you the different shades of the dark, and to help you find the tiny rays of light that are always there if you seek them. After all, there’s always worse than worst and better than best; everything is relative. I promise to do my best to remain physically attractive for you, and I will do my best to be healthy. I promise to help you to be healthy, both physically and mentally. I will cook and clean for us when chanced. Expect the best meals prepared by me... waina, whatever followed my favourite, cakes with… well, I can’t give all the secrets out. I promise to strive to be a role model for our children. I want both you and them to see me as a source of motivation. I want to inspire them in the same way that my father inspires me. I promise to do my best to love your family as you love them and to be by their side as much as I am by yours. I promise to always listen to you when you simply just want to be heard; when you want someone to vent to about something or when you want advice. I will listen to you especially when you don’t feel comfortable sharing your thoughts with anybody else, and to the things you try to tell me when you’re not even speaking. I promise to always listen. During our life together, I promise to make sure that you feel as though you are the center of the household -- I know you will be -- and I will always try to show my appreciation for you because of that. Being the man of the house is nothing without a woman. I promise never to let my guard down in taking care of us. I know you won’t be one to be satisfied with the bare minimum. I promise to do everything that I can for you without taking away from your independence physically, intellectually or emotionally. I promise to create family traditions and to make sure that your legacy lives forever through our children. I promise to give you a halal marriage. Sincerely, Your Future Husband

there Is This Thing am Not Comfortable about But am Just Doing It To Save My Self And The Other person.... Most Ladies i Come across Show Interest In me And When I Noticed. I Do my Best To Avoid & Stop Them By Showing Them I Have Another person Even If I Don't. And From Then They Will Start Behaving As If They Hate me... This happened Ryt from my Secondary School days. So From Then I Try To Avoid talking to ladies i Know I Am Not Interested In...its not like ina Kin Answa Musu but bana Yarda in Sake Ne Dasu...... But People Around me Says that am Being Rude... Am I wrong please ?

My dearest future husband, if i use my leg to come to wia eva u re to meet you, maka chi u will not like wat ill do to u😒😒u beta show urself now ooooooooo, i don tire🥺🥺to dey wait for u, u hve broken dia hearts enough 🤭🤭🤭 now come to ur final destination 🌝🌚

I don't know koh ni Kade abin ke damu but some people are just something else from the look kinga or kaga mutum u know that person is not ur type everything has levels Amman kawai sai mutum yaje nema wa Kansa abinda yafi karfin sa why plc sometimes mu muke jawa kanmu walakanci

kaga mace takai mace amma babu stable saurayi, majority people think negatively about them which is not fair.

Hi Guys, I Have this one guy on my Dm that sends me Reels everyday, 3 -4 reaels each day, reels that makes me laugh, reels that teaches a woman how to treat her husband, reels that shows how to respect and treat mothers/mother in-laws, reels that shows how to treat a man right and how to wins a Mans Heart and so on, it's many I can't list all but I hope you've understand where am heading to, He do ask after how my day went and also ask After me and if everything is going well as well, but he has never told me he likes me or anything like that but he likes and views everything I post or type, A week ago he asked if I'll be at home he wants to Visit, and I was like where? he said in my parent House, So guys what do you think of this cox It's confusing lol

i don't know why men want to control women. respect is earned. be a responsible man and see whether your wife won't submit to you naturally. but you want respect while trampling on your spouse's rights? y'all need to do better

Assalamu Alaikum Warahamatullah, I come across most ladies profiles, categorically seeking for religious husband, but when you send them request and converse with them they will tell you that they don't wear hijab and even when married they will only wear a veil, so I wonder how someone that is religious will allows his wife to to be going out without hijab, or maybe they don't understand the meaning of a religious husband. You are not religious and you want a religious partner and you don't want comply with religious ethics. Please I need clarification on this. You can't be religious and be wearing a veil.

Salaam, I'm kindly requesting anyone that comes across this post to say a du'a for me. We are trying to take the important step in our relationship but his parent are against it, the reason being that basu son auran nesa. Please say a prayer may Allah soften their hearts su amince.

like why on earth will you be doing this we all know why we are here and u guys keep on doing silly thing for crying out if u are not here for a serious something back offf nah ni Wlh har nagaji

Dan Allaah maza idan ku kace "Mezan samu" or " Anything for me" me kuke nufi ?? Because I really don't know how to answer this question 😂 It was even recently that I found out if a guy says "Ki hada ni da wata cikin qawayen ki kamar ki" They are hinting that they want you!! 😅😂 so i'm quite confused🤭

I just want to know if being an educated woman there's something we do that's a turn off for men, or maybe I'm not meeting the right men

Aslm Yan uwa barkanmu d wannan lokaci d fatan kowa yana lafiya Allah yasa haka ameen... Kamar kullum nakune BAFFANCY ke muku sallama irin t addinin Islam.... Yauma kamar yanda aka saba nazo d tsaraba wacce take Jan hankali akan Yan uwa mata Wanda yau insha Allah akansu zanyi magana... Bayan haka yau maganata zanyita akan irin abubwan d suke faruwa a wannan lokaci d wasu akidu d Yan uwa mata suka dauka na rashin kulawa d samarin su wanda hakan yakansa samari cikin yanayi na rashin jin dadi matuka....A har kullum fatana shine karkato d Jan hankalin mu wajan samun maslaha a wannan al'umma tamu.... Mata ku sani muma maza muna d zuciya kamar yanda kuke d ita kuma muma muna bukatar kulawar ku d yabo dg gare d sakonni n tunawa damu da kira a kowanne lokaci sbd yana farantawa zuciyoyin mu tsakani d Allah... Mata me yasa kuke chakulatin bangaron wajan tunawa damu Dan Allah ku sani fa zuciyar d takeso n gsky wasu fulogai wanda zasu taimaka mata wajan kaddamar d wannan soyayya tata wato kulawarku....... Daga karshe Ina Kira gareku mata muma maza muna d yanci idan anyi mana muzo mu fada amma sbd ku bakinku yafi namu idan ba muyi muku ba kunfi kowa korafi akan hakan...to gsky ku sani muma muna so adinga yi mana eheeeee😎😎😎

Slm ma'am 🙏 please I just need an advice am 22yrs , student in my finals ,never been lucky when it's. Comes to relationship,the highest is 2 month den we done ,am still intact never had sex before,when I give them the condition of no sex ,at first they tend to comply then later on switch off,never been loved and cared for before,all I ever asked for is to feel what it means to be truly in love, don't know if am cursed or probably am the problem,am just so confused 💯

Please am in search of a good makeup artist here in sokoto tomorrow if possible give her IG handle

What's your suggestion? 🤔

I’m really depressed and at the verge of committing sucide,I need help,prayers and advice I and my family have been going through a lot of trials,it’s not been easy and we’re literally running into deep debts and my mum has been thinking badly since after she got duped,everything is not aligning I just graduated and we can’t even afford my convocation fee( I have evidences to prove this),I’m not lazy! I try doing things and even business but it’s really slow,please my family need your prayers and help please!! I’m literally tired of everything walahi

I mean can I marry someone I am not inlove with. wanda zai aure ni shi yana sona amma wlhi ni bana jin sonshi a raina though bamu fi 2 to 3 months ba yanzu shi yanaso ya turo ayi maganan aure amma na kasa bashi baki saboda bana son ayi abinda zai sani damuwa. please a piece of advice 😩🙏🏻

Salam Yan uwa Am writing these with a heavy heart, ba jayaya nake da kowa ba ko hadisi ko malamai ba but please why is it that it's always a lady who has to face the consequences,like I don't understand, whenever a lady does something wrong it will affect her till eternity but a guy it will be forgotten within a week. first let's talk about having affairs before marriage,we all know is a sin but in Islam and Christianity,ama anayi,Kuma mace da namiji ne suke yi tare ama saikaji ance ai yar iska ko shi an ce Dan isakan da yayi aure shikenan ama ita kowa da tayi aure instead ama ta fatan Alkhairi no sai an fara Allah yasa ta zauna yanda ta saba da maza hmmmm,like why is she not a human being,still idan anzo niman aurenta saikaji ai bata da tarbiya,Yar iska ce,tana bin maza,and so on,ama namiji ko Dan iskan ne sai ace ai idan aka sama mashi mace Mai hankali zata zama silan shiriyan shi 🙄wato ita bazai zama silan shiriyan ta ba koh? whose fault is all these?

pls I need your advice, akwai Wanda akeson hadan dashi a family namu nikuma yamin but mastalan shine kafin manya su shiga mgnn wata sistern mom Dina(Yar baffan mamana kenan) taxa gaya ta fadawa mahaifina karya da gsky, mahaifina kuma yakira Wanda xa'a hadumu auren yace Mai shi yar'sa karatu xatayi.To yanxin Ni bansan koya fasa ba kuma Ni inason sa gsky bansan yaxanyi tunda Daman manya ne xasu hadamu dagin mahaifiyata kenan and my mom tayi 4yrs da rasuwa da ita xata gyara komai Amma batanan yanxin.dangin mom Dina sunce saidai auren family xa'a min to nikuma a Wanda suka fada shiyamin dayan gsky bana sonsa Dan gsky Wanda nakeso yafi hnkl. Bansan dalilin ta nayin hakan ba,kaina ya kulle gsky