It’s incredibly painful when you love someone who initially accepted you but later begins to ignore you without any explanation. The hurt is even deeper when you’ve shared dreams, made plans together, and built expectations for a future filled with love and connection. 💔

Assalamualaikum everyone. pls I need a authentic advice about my girlfriend. we met online and we are peacefully getting to know each other. we getting to 4 months now together and I'm Even planning to go and see her in they State. because we live in different states. so here is the twist. she lied to me that her iPhone entered iCloud and she forgot the password and the SIM card she registered the iCloud has lost. so the phone engine has to be changed so I ask her to take the phone to someone for the changing of the engine and she did. she tell me the amount of the work i paid almost half. so after this she pretends that she borrow botton phone from her sister. we are communicating through the bottom phone. And I unexpectedly saw her online i sent her message on Whatsapp she opened and read it. I start seeing her online time to time. I called her and complained that you claimed your phone is with engineer for repairing and I saw you online is the phone fixed she said no her phone is still with the engineer for repairing that it's not her I should check again. she keeps denying that she ain't online her phone is not good. I let it go like that and Im still seeing her online. and after some days she said she has finally collect the phone from the repairing shop. we continue chatting. and can you imagine even during that days she claimed the phone is with engineer for repairing that I used to see her online. they was a time i called her through Whatsapp she pick the call and mute it. and i called her video call she pick and blocked her camera. and she continue denying that it wasn't her. that she is still using her sister's keypad phone. and after she claimed coming back online she security code didn't change meaning her engine was not changed she just ignored me for some days and she comes back and continued chatting with me. meaning her phone has no fault. pls I'm seeking for advice from members of this group. should I continue with her this way. because due to this issue I totally loose interest in her. I'm even planning breaking up with her. because she displays dishonest characters. pls I need advice on this

Hi Guys it's been a while 🙌 How is the weekend

Someone once said, “a man will sacrifice his happiness for a woman. A woman would sacrifice a man for her happiness"

I decided to write this because I saw women complaining in different platforms that they were ignored after showing their interest in a guy, which make them feel like an walakanta su. Honestly speaking it is not like that, sometimes we find it difficult to say no because duk mai hankali yasan cewa duk wacce ta iya fara cewa tana sonka ta fi karfin walaknaci. Therefore ladies should please know that being ignored is not walakanci rather a polite we of saying no especially by shy guys.

As a future husband to be , i think i have the one, but i need help from the ladies. What is the average budget for a marriage. I need to start making plans towards it. Please keep the numbers coming

salamualaikum people, i need your input on chemical peels please. i want to get one for acne and dark spots but i am quite skeptical

Of recent my wife accused me of been smiling in my dreams. Mostly i do slept late and she will be up before me and be looking at me in the early hours. I almost caught myself doing same too one of the morning. Is this normal please?

Hello everyone, a little suggestion, don't y'all think we should have a single ppl of Arewaup hangout😅

I'm from Benue State Base in Abuja and I'm currently in nned of a partner, in respective if your colour

Since this Forum is usually silent, and we love this place, I think someone should start doing giveaway so that the forum will be lively. what do you guys think? okay bye

how is your relationship treating you now aday

I'm in serious mess and I don't know what to do. I have a high libido to the extent that if I do Monday and Thursday fasting the s** high drive isn't reduce but increase. I'm 27 and I don't want to near haraam stuffs. what should I do

Why is it that people who hurt others on purpose can also be very quick to say "I'm sorry". What is your thought? These same people can get very upset if you don't accept their apology right away. They act like they're offended that you're not willing to forgive them easily. But why should we just accept their apology without thinking about it? Is it because they want to look good in front of others? Or is it because they're trying to make us feel sorry for them instead of taking responsibility for their actions? Do you think we should be careful when someone apologizes to us. We should think about whether they're really sorry or just trying to make themselves look good. And should we only forgive them if they're truly willing to make things right. Or should we just let bygones be bygones. What is your thought? Do you think we should prioritize peace over accountability? What's your thought?

O’Allah, grant us Nikah without Divorce, a spouse without untimely death, healthy children without illness. Ameen

Assalamualaikum, Please wai mata ko wacce an yaudareta ne? I want to start looking for a girlfriend, sbd na fara shirin aure, but ko wacce ka kula sai ta dinga ignoring dinka. Da kun fara magana kuma sai ta nuna maza ba abun yarda bane. Meye mafita pls?

As I stepped into the crisp morning air, the chill of winter's breath enveloped me. I wrapped myself in layers, each one a testament to my desire to shield myself from the cold's bitter bite. The cap, jallabiya, hoody, Babbar Riga, socks, and face mask all served as armor against the morning's icy grip. As I stood there, a sudden realization dawned on me like the first light of dawn. I was willing to go to great lengths to protect myself from the fleeting discomfort of cold, yet I often neglected to exert comparable effort in safeguarding myself against the eternal torment of hellfire. A shiver ran down my spine as the weight of this realization settled upon me. The same Omniscient Lord who created the cold and granted me the intellect to protect myself from its bitter bite was the same Merciful God who created the hellfire and endowed me with the capacity to perform righteous deeds that would shield me from its scorching flames. I felt the earth beneath me tremble as the magnitude of this truth hit me. The hellfire, a reality that seemed so distant, so abstract, was in fact a very real and present danger. And I, a humble servant, had been entrusted with the agency to choose my path. As the morning sun rose higher in the sky, casting its golden light upon me, I felt a sense of awe and reverence wash over me. I was but a small, insignificant speck in the grand tapestry of creation, and yet I had been given the gift of free will. In this moment of introspection, I knew that I stood at a crossroads. I could continue down the path of complacency, neglecting my duty to protect myself from the hellfire. Or I could choose to embark on a journey of self-discovery, one that would lead me to cultivate the wisdom and resolve to shield myself from the flames. As I stood there, the cold morning air still nipping at my nose, I knew which path I would choose. I would strive to live a life that was pleasing to my Creator, one that would shield me from the hellfire and guide me towards the gardens of paradise.

Jealousy is toxic to the soul. It can ruin you from the inside out. You can remove it by loving yourself & who you are. You need to accept, be grateful & be satisfied with what the Almighty has chosen for you. He has given you so much. Don’t look at the blessings of others.

Assalamu Alaykum..Ayau zanyi listing din abubuwan da mata Ke amfani dasu wurin guje wa accountability Idan sunyi laifi.. Instead of suyi appologising, su gyara bazasuyi hakan ba, sai Kawai su boye a bayan waennan excuse din 1. Karancin Hankali- na tuna lokacin da brother Dina ya samu issue da matarsa mukaje gidansu a sasanta. Bayan Brother Dina ya fadi abubuwan da take masa, which include being violent, zata iya daukan duk abunda ta Gani Idan Tana fushi ta kwala masa akai, amma a haka mamarta tace "ai bai kamata brother dina ya furta saki ba , kaga ita mace ce, Tana da karancin hankali". 2. Shedan- Misali, sai kaga mace Tana son Aure, amma bazata tashi kula maza ba sai an kuşa auren, ko kuma just before the wedding, sai ta hadu da wani saurayin tace shi take so. Ta manta cewa a baya Tana da samari dayawa kuma babu Wanda yayi serious, suna zuwa suna son su yaudareta, har ta manta... Idan akayi magana ace shedanne.. shi shaidan saboda bai da bakin magana ko... kamar Idan aka nuna mata fuskar shaidan zata iya ganeshi 3- Aljanu- Still zanyi using matar brother dina, lokacin da suke samun problem,tayi ta masa laifi, Tana abubuwan da basu kamata ba.. mama Idan Zai dau mataki sai tace Ai aljanune, iyayenta kuma sukace karyane, bata taba fama da aljanu ba. my point is, Idan babu accountability, mutane zasuyi ta boyewa bayan excuses suyita cuta.. kuma hakan bazai kawo maslaha ba.. saboda gobe zasu sake.. I'm of the opinion that no man or lady has the right to hurt their partner. if they do, they should apologize and take accountability. Also, share with us Idan kuna tunanin maza suma suna da nasu excuses din da suke amfani dashi wurin cutar da mata

Assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarkatuh dear brothers and sisters why are SOME men very wicked?!!!... tsoron Allah yayi karanci ah society dinmu. like I couldn't believe what's really going on these days, it's sooooo heartbreaking...I'm talking about teenage pregnancy... just within these weeks I heard 3 cases of teenage pregnancy that 2 among them contacted me, and they're all 100lvl students, can you imagine!!... Kuma wa inda suke musu cikin Yan 400-500lvl ne... haba now, it's not fair at all... idan ka tambayesu if it's happened willingly or unwillingly there answer is always unwillingly and they didn't want to report it, sbd su suke zuwa wajen da abun zaifaru, Kuma duk yanda kayi dasu all they wants is abortion, they don't even care of the risk, I've never supported abortion, all I want from them is su yarda cewa anyi assaulting dinsune sexually so that I'll help them report it but hell no!, infact from there I'll not hear from them again... I'm not even sure why they're contacting me?, like is it because I'm a midwife or what idk...like guys why Young teenagers🥺? why 100lvl students? wlh Allah zai saka musu... Don wannan zalunci ne... dating is not fornication!!!, you found yourself attracted to a young girl and all you want to is to ruin her life? , you're taking advantage of her tender age because she's fragile and too easy to be convinced?!!...iyayenmu are trying there best wlh, ba parents din dazasu so ace yarsu ko dansu na cikin irin wannan halin.... sex education is very important gsky, it's not as if our siblings doesn't know anything about sex, they do, but only in a wrong way. All these should stop please 🥺💔