I'm a 25 year old woman from Bauchi . I'm looking for a kind, responsible, financially stable and loving man from age 30-45. Ahlul Sunnah pls.

Im aysha 23 years old degree holder with skills a small scale entrepreneur looking for a husband 46-55 years old, someone with Good characters, attitudes, helpful, simple, straightforward and decent with both Islamic and western knowledge who is ready for marriage.

am not looking for something casual dating but something mingful

Practically every single thread; by male or female posters; laments about love: lost love, unrequited love, heartbreak in love, one sided love. I feel it's all a delusion but I'm ready to learn. What exactly are you all talking about? What do you all mean by "love"?

Am looking for a responsible man who is ready for nikkah soon, gentle full of good attitude and characters, financially stable I don’t care to be second wife or third.

Most people who have broken up in their relationship, you’ll find them in pain, struggling to handle the loss. Not for me... I feel at peace. We’ve been together for a while, and I loved none like I did with her, but there was an important part missing.. my peace of mind. The love I had for her canceled out the red flags. I endured a lot of things, and she did as well... I wasn’t a saint. Without the love, we wouldn’t have lasted a week. I have spent all of the love I saved, but I’m glad I did. She made me a better person, she taught me a lot about love and relationships, and I learned my flaws. But in the end, we had to part ways. I couldn’t meet her expectations when it came to love; no matter the effort I put in, it was never enough. Maybe I’m bad at this. I tried to make it work, I tried so hard that my inner peace kept chipping away little by little. I was always second-guessing myself, always treading on glass so as not to hurt her or make her angry. I’ve learned you can’t teach someone who doesn’t want to understand you. I loved her, but when the love drains you more than it fills you, you need to choose peace. Sometimes I had to lie that I traveled just so I could have my peace. I was in love, but I didn’t receive the love back. No matter how much I tried, it was never enough. She’s not a bad person, she’s actually a very good person.. but we’re not compatible as partners. That’s the truth. There was love, but it wasn’t enough. We had to let each other go and hope we find the person who truly loves us and aligns with us.

I'm a hopeless romantic, always believing in the beauty of love and happiness. I pour my heart into relationships, trusting and caring for those around me with all my sincerity. Unfortunately, I've often been met with disappointment and heartache from those I loved deeply. It makes me wonder: Am I too naive to expect love in return? Or have I just been unlucky in my relationships? Is it true that people rarely reciprocate love with the same intensity, or have I simply chosen the wrong partners? I yearn for genuine connections and meaningful relationships, and I hope to find someone who loves and appreciates me for who I am.

I am very thankful for the help I received during a tough time after losing my partner. Dr. Agba guided me toward healing, and now my relationship is stronger and happier. Contact this spiritualist via email: ( peacefulhome1960 @ zohomail. com ) or WhatsApp: ( +2348104102662 )

Go to hell bitch🔥🔥

Assalamu Alaikum yanuwa inada tambaya shin zaki/ zaka iya komawa gun ex spouses dinka/ dinki bayan an rabu tahanyar kotu? Here is a real life story Lady X and Mr O were couples Lady X accused her mother in-law and sister in-law of using black magic on her, she decided to seek a khul in a nearby sharia court . After the marriage was dissolved Mr O and his family accused her of humiliating him and gold digging(son abun duniya) that she left him sabida baidashi After a while Mr O came back for reconciliation, he wanted her back as his wife again. Lady X refused and reminded him of the reasons she left. Mr O told her he sees nothing wrong in what his family have done. replied saying " to menene aciki don anmiki aisiri ai anyi miki ne donki muzauna" Lady X insisted and swore that she rather die single than go back to Mr O. Meanwhile Mr O, his mother and sister secretly vowed to make her come back to the marriage. How would you even want to be with a partner who chooses to disolve your marriage in court?

I have often reflected on a question that troubles many hearts: why does it sometimes seem as though men do not value the woman who truly loves them? It is a painful reality that many women give their all, love, care, devotion, and sacrifice, yet their worth is overlooked. The truth is that when love becomes certain and sure, some men fall into the trap of complacency. They stop putting in the effort they once showed, believing the love will always remain no matter how they treat it. This is a great mistake because love, if neglected, grows weary and the heart that gives endlessly without appreciation will one day go silent. There are also men who chase excitement more than stability. They pursue novelty, failing to realize that the real treasure lies in the woman who stands firmly by their side. Some others wrestle with pride or insecurity, not knowing how to honor the love they are being freely given. Sadly, many only discover her value when she has already walked away. My message to men is simple: never take for granted a woman who truly loves you. If she prays for you, supports you in stormy days, and brings peace to your soul, you are holding a treasure beyond price. Protect her heart, cherish her presence, and never allow familiarity to blind you to her worth. And to women, remember this also: love is not meant to drain you or make you feel less than what you are. A man who truly understands love will honor you, uplift you, and never let you question your value. Love is not a game. It is not to be played with or carelessly handled. It is a sacred gift, a bond that should be nurtured with gratitude and respect. Let us all, men and women alike, stop taking for granted the ones who love us deeply. For in the end, life is too short to lose a good heart that was always there for us.

In the beginning of many relationships, a man will put in so much effort. He will call every day, send messages in the morning and at night, shower her with attention and find little ways to make her smile. That early stage is usually filled with energy and excitement because he is still trying to win her heart. But the moment she agrees to be his woman, something often changes. The attention begins to reduce, the calls are not as frequent, and the sweet words become rare. She starts to wonder if she has done something wrong or if his feelings have faded. The truth is that for some men, the thrill of the chase drives their actions more than the joy of consistency. They enjoy the challenge of pursuing a woman, and once they succeed, they feel their work is done. Some begin to take the woman for granted, assuming that since she has already said yes, she will not leave. Others simply slide into a comfort zone, no longer putting in the same energy they did at the beginning. For some, it may even reveal their true intentions. They were never truly serious about building something lasting. Their main goal was to win her attention, and once that is achieved, the effort naturally dies down. Yet in other cases, the reason is not bad character but the weight of personal struggles. Work pressure, financial stress or family demands may cause a man to withdraw without realizing the effect it has on his partner. No matter the reason, the impact on a woman is often painful. She begins to feel less valued, less cherished and less secure. What drew her close in the first place were those small but consistent gestures that made her feel special. When they disappear, she feels like the relationship has lost its spark. Love was never meant to be a short burst of energy. It was meant to be steady, consistent and growing stronger with time. A woman deserves to be loved with the same attention and effort after she says yes, not less. That is what builds trust, deepens connection and makes a relationship last.

I find myself at a point in life where my heart longs for something pure and true, someone to call my own, someone whose soul will meet mine in a union of peace and joy. I am searching, not just for a partner, but for a woman who will be both my strength and my softness, my companion and my confidant. I pray to meet someone who is kind at heart, thoughtful in spirit, gentle in words, yet strong in values. A woman whose laughter will light up my days and whose silence will still feel comforting. I long for someone who is loyal, understanding, patient, and who believes in growth both as individuals and together as one. To her, I will give more than just love. I will give devotion. I will stand by her not only in times of ease but also in moments of trial. I will crown her with respect, treat her like the queen she is, and guard her heart as my greatest treasure. I will give her my attention, my time, my loyalty, and the warmth of my embrace. With me, she will never have to doubt how much she means, for I will make it known every day. I will cherish her deeply, support her dreams, celebrate her wins, and comfort her when life feels heavy. I will love her not only with words, but with actions. Actions that will remind her that she is the best part of my life. I will make a home in my heart where she will always find safety, and I will nurture a love so pure it will grow with every passing day. Until I find her, I will continue to pray and prepare myself to be the man she deserves. But when I do, I promise she will know that she has found someone who will never let her feel unloved, unwanted, or unappreciated.

Tonight, my chest feels heavy, my heart aches in ways I can't even explain. I wish I could cry louder, scream so the whole world knows how much it hurts, but instead my tears fall silently, soaking into the darkness where nobody can see. Sometimes I wonder, why does love feel like a wound that never heals? Mr. A's memory stings like fire. He loved me more than I could ever repay, he gave me all of him while I was still lost inside myself. I pushed him away, I broke him, yet he still asks about me. Wallahi, it hurts more than rejection. His love was rare, but I couldn't hold it, then I was small or maybe immature, or maybe I was confused. And now, guilt drags me down like an ocean. Then there's Mr. B. A different kind of pain, a silent storm. With him, it was never complete, never defined, yet my heart still whispers his name when I try to be strong. Maybe because of the friendship that doesn't need a name, or maybe it was a love that got lost, maybe because of the soft voice and listening ear, or maybe... I just know I miss him, but I can't reach out. I feel like I'm trapped between what I lost and what I never had. Ya Allah, why is my heart like this? Why do I feel empty even when love touched me? Why do I keep bleeding inside when all I want is peace? I don't want the world's sympathy, I just want Your mercy Al-jabbar. I want to breathe again without guilt, without longing, without this ache that keeps me awake at night. So here I am, crying without a sound, wishing the tears could wash everything away. Maybe tomorrow I'll smile again, maybe tomorrow I'll find myself. But tonight, all I can do is cry and hope Allah is listening.

I want a serious relationship that will lead us to marriage. I'm looking for a very responsible girl from a responsible and respectful family within the age of 25-30. She mustn't be a graduate I'm 32 years financially stable. I worked with a Federal government and I worked and based in Kano

Please idan an kawo kayan sa ranar aure ana ba Wanda suka kawo kayan tukuici ne? if yes mai Ake bayarwa as tukuici?

Have y'all noticed that posts on this forum have dates and the dates carry just the day and month? Makes it hard to track a post or know when it was made. One would mistake a two posts dated jul, 23 and Aug, 20 to think that the July 23 own comes before August 20 own. Whereas it's actually July 23 2025 and August 20 2023. With the update I expected that it would have been fixed.

So i went to do tadi today. We normally hold each other's phone. Her fingerprint is on mine she has access to everything and reads my chats. We're very open with each other. I rarely hold her phone though, if i hold it it's probably something she's showing or on one ocassion that i was viewing her gallery. she doesn't stop me when i hold her phone and i don't feel comfortable checking her chats you know, but since she is comfortable and i have nothing to hide from her i don't mind her checking mine. So today an interesting episode happened. I messaged her on WhatsApp that I'm at their gate when i came. She came and we sat down. She was gisting me about school, she needed help with something so i picked her phone, the first thing she told me was she doesn't have data (okay i thought but we just talked not up to 20 mins ago on WhatsApp) i didn't think much, i said let me check her data plans to see if it's same with mine, she moved closer checking what I'm pressing. I was all casual about it. I now said let me turn on the data (maybe if i put it on flight mode and turn it back on it'll work) as i was about to on the data she snatched the phone from my hand and kept it to her side. Wow this is new i said to myself. I kept quiet thinking, she now asked me what's wrong? I told her nothing. Rather than keeping quiet and overthinking, i opened up to her and asked calmly when did we start hiding phone from each other? She said she was just playing? (hmm like that?) Then i pressed but you told me you don't have data, how comes we've been chatting since morning till 20 mins ago, all of a sudden your data finished now. She said enh can't data finish? Then she said me if she asks me for my phone sometimes i don't give it to her but since it's me now I'm taking it personal (wow she has never asked for my phone and i didn't give it to her, but why is she defensive now rather than explaining ?). I kept quiet waiting for her to talk, she stood up and left. I don't want to misunderstand the situation hence why I'm bringing it here? Could it be that there's something she's hiding because this is strange.

One of my favourite quotes to this day; “Allah will fix you and stand you in front of those who broke you apart.” 🫶🏽 drop your, maybe it will be someone's new favorite!!!!

Assalamualaikum, I have been trying to get a girlfriend but every time I approach a girl she will accept and welcome me but after that I will find it difficult to reach out to them and start to get to know each other, the first one called with another number that is not hers and she told me that her line stopped working then she ghosted. The second one, her phone is always DND I cannot reach her until she decides to call me, on WhatsApp even if I texted she will take like 2days before she responds. So I was thinking ko duk haka mata suke ne?