Ever watched this movie the fault in our stars? If you have you can relate to what I'm saying. This girl she's the only person I've ever loved with my full heart. It's not like we were perfect but we complimented each other and had so much in common. I can't write tens of thousand of words to describe how much I love her. She made me a better person, I encourage her to chase her dreams too. Life isn't guaranteed but do you know how it feels to love someone with all your heart and thinking this person might not be here the next moment. She was diagnosed with an ailment which I won't disclose it out of respect for her, and it's incurable you can only delay it but at the end your body will give up. She'll need a transplant to cure it completely. I've been trying to encourage her and let her know that this her sickness isn't terminal and she should take her drugs as she should and everything will be okay. I feel I'm living on a ticking time bomb. I've been planning on marriage and officially taking her to see my family after Ramadan Insha Allah. But I feel it's all a tragedy waiting to happen and I can't even prevent it. We'll lose each other someday and I hope we leave this earth together so none of us have to cope with the heart ache. If I lose her, I'm afraid I can't ever love again. This isn't a cliche. I've tried it when we broke up and it never worked.
Feb 18, 10:13 PM
assalamualaikum, ina muku gaisuwa da fatan alkairi. tambaya ce dani Anya ana samun matar talaka anan kuwa? duba da Yadda Mata suke nunawa cewa suna Neman mazajen aure amma sai kayi niyya Ka nuna Mata cewa Kai Kam ga alqiblarka sai kaga yarinya ta arce ita Mai kudi takeso. 80% dinsu anan haka suke amma sai suyita karyar Neman mijin aure.amma inason Jin ra'ayinku yanuwa na.
Feb 13, 05:14 PM
Social media has become a big part of how we meet new people these days. But I’m not even talking about the big platforms like Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter—I mean smaller, more personal spaces like this app. Last year, I randomly met someone on Wattpad. Funny thing is, I don’t even read novels—I just had the app on my phone. We live in different states, and now she’s getting married tomorrow. I would have attended the wedding if not for work. I also met someone here—a really kind lady who was going through some health challenges. I later found out we stayed in the same town. We kept in touch, and she also got married last year. It’s crazy how these little online spaces bring people together in unexpected ways. Have you ever made a real connection through a small social media forum? How did it go?
Feb 7, 12:47 PM
It is only in Nigeria that you can buy meatpie open it and see beans inside😂😅 Nigeria my country where to get sense dey hard everybody ...kowa nada craze akai It is only in nigeria you will withdraw money at the atm and still count it manually..Azin no be you put the amount you wan withdraw? Abi atm machine wan scam u? 😨😨😨😨😨😱😱 Na only For nigeria them dey pursue criminal as soon as him enter crownd him to go dey follow shout thief 😃wow so hey wise one😈 na for nigeria I see where babalawo dey use laptop do juju for person 😬😆😅 Nigeria na do only place where our leaders wise pass us to the extent where dem dey use country budget to furnish their office..wow oshey clean leaders.😈😃😅😂
Feb 6, 08:34 AM
Asalamu Alaikum Mutanen Allah ya kuke..... I have a question please this is directed to the ladies in the house..Every girl wants a boyfriend that would eventually become her husband but then when you want to ask them out on a date or something they start forming. The thing is that forming is normal for them but then they over do it har mutum ya loosing interest . Kuma anjuma sudawo wai suna sonka. ..I mean wetin be the colour of wuna problem...!?😕😕😕😕😕😕😕😕😕😕
Feb 6, 08:26 AM
Salam my name is Jibrin Rayyanu Otaki am from nasaraw state am alago by tribe I was born and brought up in jos plateau state am a graduate of federal university lafia nasaraw state where I studied medical lab science I am a model and a runway fashion model I currently hold the title Mr adorable northern nigeria King of Runway
Feb 4, 10:59 PM
salamualaikum everyone hope kowa na cikin koshin lafiya. so I have need clarity on some things ne *what is it like being a second wife as a young lady who has never been married ? * i don't know if it's just me or married men sunfi committing to relationships cause according to my observations or should i say my experiences yanzun the single men are usually not committed to the relationship sai suyi ta on and off kamar network and if you ask them if something is wrong sai suce ba komai * sai kuma I have this " boyfriend" ko nace I used to tunda yanzun kam munyi more than two weeks without a tangible communication, we had a little fight ne and I apologized muka gama waya and then I messaged and called the next day shuru and he was active haka dai i messaged him days later again and he was answering me anyhow i later called him and same thing so since that day sai dai muyi ta viewing in status in juna and he hasn't said anything. do you think that dama he was waiting for an opportunity to dump ne ni yasa yayi haka?
Feb 4, 10:04 PM
Salam people ..I have a question I am a bit nervous but I rather just ask.. what am I to expect on the my first night with my bride to be. This question is for all gender to answer....am a bit nervous and shy tho please educate me a little
Feb 4, 08:20 PM
I have a question please is it right for a Muslim girl to per take in a modelling contest like pageantry?
Feb 4, 09:14 AM
Asalamu Alaikum I have another question. If you are in love with a lady and then it reaches the point of marriage. ...but then you notice that she still has another relationship outside but u were not aware of it until 2 weeks to your marriage with her ....how will u be able to tackle the situation? ?
Feb 3, 09:43 PM
Heartbreak isn't when you hate someone for breaking your heart. True heartbreak is when two couples love each other but can't make it work. Let me narrate my story. I'm a young guy of 29, I've only been in a relationship once in my life. I've been living my single life comfortably until early last year . I met this lady and she's everything I could ever want in a wife. I know I can never meet any like her ever. This is a certainty. We joke like childhood best friends, we love each other like couples in their 80s, and we understand and complement each other. In alternate universe she can pass for my twin sister. The only downside was that she's a nurse. I've made up my mind to steer clear of two categories of women when seeking marriage: nurses and military ladies. This is due to their workload . I loved her way too much to give up so I decided to give it a try at first I told myself I'll try to get used to it the night shifts, the early morning shift. She lives in another state so our relationship was long distance. Some months later, I visited her and her family in her state. I was welcomed and duly accommodated. I loved my Stay there. I could never imagine that this was me going to another state to see a girl but here I am several thousand kilometers from home. Things were going well till I left. We used talk on the phone almost everyday but when I came back we Can spend almost a week without talking on the phone. I excused it that it's work. I used to know about all the schedule for her shift but now I don't even know when it's morning afternoon or night shift. I've only ever been in one relationship all my life, not to brag I've had more than 15 girls openly ask me out. And I turned most of the recent ones down on the basis that I'm very busy and I won't have time to commit to a relationship But today this is me, begging for a girl's attention? Nevertheless I remained patient and when I finally got tired I complained to her, she said she'll change, she'll change for two days then revert back. The second time, we haven't talked much for over 4 to 5 Days, on the day she was supposed to be free and I was looking forward so that we can talk, and She went off since morning and didn't get back till evening. She came back apologizing, that she forgot to tell me one of their maid was getting married and she forgot to carry her phone with her. I told myself that it was the last time i will complain to her. She got really busy again. I stopped disturbing her to talk. I maintained the same energy and now we longer talk. She loves me but she's finding it hard to strike a balance between work and me. Rather than get married and it becomes an issue. I gave her a way out.We used to be close in love but now we are strangers
Feb 1, 05:37 PM
Assalamu alaikum I'm here to share my own story of what I'm going through. Ina da shekara 21 amma ni bantaba yin saurayi wanda zaa ce yau kunyi soyayya ba sedai wanda zaka ga yara ne of your age wanda ba lallai aure zasuyi ba ko kuma wasu dai zaka gansu gasu nan though suma bawani soyayya ke kawo su ba nikuma so nake nasamu miji na aure and abun yana damuna wlhy kullum na zauna se nayi tajin ba dadi zuciya na yana zafi gashi a gida mamana tana so taga munyi aure the same thing da yake faruwa da sauran sisters dina(step) sedai muyi tagani age mate namu suna aure ko kuma kowacce da saurayin ta wallahi abun yana damun mu sosai wlhy har ana cewa wai ko nauyin jini ne damu some of our friends kuma suce wai don bamu fita waje ne to fita base ta kama ba zaka fita in baka da wajen zuwan fha? nidai nayi adduar nayi amma wlhy shiru ko Dan saurayin arziki ma kasamu babu bame kiranka a waya kullum shirt yadda ka ajiye wayar ka haka zaka dauka na dage da kiyamul laili ina ta addua dai Don Allah tambayata anan shine su mutane a ina suke haduwa ne da samarin kuma a tayani da addua thank you
Jan 28, 09:19 PM
those with pure heart always get heart break💔why how can a person hurt you intentionally har ya iya bacci 💔 ko sun manta akwai Allah😭
Jan 18, 11:55 PM
pls if there is sme1 who can help me cus I don't know my current situation or let's say problem...this is d third tym my wedding is bn fixed sai afasa mind u there is dis boyfriend da muke tare for years his parents suka Hana aurenmu..Kuma duk lokacinda aka saman biki sai yacemn ai auren baza'ayishi ba Kuma sai Inga Bai yiwu ba Kuma da anfasa he will show up tun Ina ganin abun kmar wasa nidai na fara gajiya pls help a soul😭
Jan 11, 04:54 PM
Hello Everyone, Im wishing you all a successful 2025. I am writing this with a very heavy heart, There's this lady that i have loved for the past 5 years, she's the only one i ever loved ever since i started dating. We have already planned our future and everything and i will soon send my family to there house about our marriage. But i recently met another lady, we are already very close and i have fallen deeply for her and she loves me too with all her heart, we are always and constantly talking, she's the type of girl i have ever waited, Her vibes, Her craziness and everything is all i ever wanted from any lady, She's the complete opposite of the one im about to get married too, I am totally confused. Can anyone please give me advice on what to do, My heart is telling me that this new lady is one i should marry, but i will completely destory the other lady bcos of what i built with her. Im totally crazy and always in deep thinking. I want them both but i must choose one
Jan 7, 12:49 PM
Assalamualaikum, wonderful people on this forum. I HOPE YOU TAKE SMALL TIME OUT OF YOUR TIME TO READ MY STORY. I'm feeling sad, and my heart is heavy. Maybe sharing this with you will make me feel better. My boyfriend of two years and I broke up at the end of 2023. It wasn't because we fought or anything; it was just a misunderstanding caused by our families. We were fine until that misunderstanding. Knowing the mistake was mine, I pleaded with him to get back together because I still love him. When I was dating him, I didn't double-date, so finding someone new was difficult for me. After pleading with him, he said no, and I felt rejected. It was as if he never loved me, because I believe if he did, he would have given me a second chance. Since it wasn't even my fault, I told myself to let him go. I was praying hard for Allah to help me forget him.However, from time to time, he would call to check up on me or send messages. Last week, I brought myself low and asked him for a second chance, after saying no to the first request and he said he would think about it. I was angry at myself for stooping so low; I felt like a beggar. So, I blocked him on all media handles and blocked his contact.I convinced myself that I'm fine and will be fine without him. Then, one day, I saw a call from an unknown number, and when I called back, I heard his voice saying he was checking up on me. I said thank you, and after the call, I sent him a message telling him not to call until he had finished thinking about whatever it was he wanted to think about. Honestly, I feel so pathetic, all because of love. The annoying thing is that I haven't given anyone else a chance when I was with him
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