Salam, I want to know why most parents don’t want their son to marry someone older than him. I’m 27yrs old, recently done with my studies, waiting to go for service and I have always wanted to marry someone older than I since I was 17. I have only dated once and it was in my 200Level with a lady older than me, due to been unprepared, we separated peacefully and she married someone else months later. Now I’m planning on getting into a relationship that will InShaa Allah lead to marriage and I still want someone that’s between 29-32yrs. The problem is my mum isn’t comfortable with it. I have been trying to convince her.

I am willing to get ready to settle down but finding a partner is becoming hard for me, because almost all people i meet want to have kids, but i don't I want to get married and have a partner for the sake of companionship. Are there people like me out there?

i don't know how to be patient during trying times sometimes am patient sometimes i loose my cool.

Assalamu alaikum ya a'hibbayi Recently, there is a massive heart breaks AKA breakfast all over Arewa due to the so-called valentine. Dont get me wrong, Love is good, love is beautiful, love makes us strong and can make us weak , it also can make us happy or sad.. Islamic culture/way of living encourages love especially for the sake of Allah either to humans and/or to animals. however, an imitation of love so-called Valentine basically practiced by western countries culture is not in our culture and it is totally against Islamic teaching.. why? social media havemade it easier for both guys and ladies to have multiple option to choose when it comes to relationship, thereby, it made most guys and ladies to have more then one relationships, therefore, more heartbreaks... this is just like when you dont know which cloth to wear, it simply means you have plenty options of cloths. however, all Muslims especially the ladies out there should know it is only when a man (not boy) has brought gaisuwa to your family and your parents have granted him to court with you only for the sake of marriage, i repeat, for the SAKE OF MARRIAGE!!! then you can play a love prank on him... May Almighty Allah with HIS infinate mercy grant us a compatible spouse, whom we will give birth to rightious children whom will always put us in their prayers when we go back to Allah (death) Ammen!!!

Watarana da asuba na shiga dakin mahaifina na gaishe shi mu dan tattauna wasu batutuwa saboda da sassafe yake fita kasuwa. A sitting room se na same shi yana jima'a (Sex) da kishiyar maman mu, wato amaryar sa. Da sauri sukai ƙokarin su kare kar na gani amma na gani nima nayi maza naja baya na fita daga dakin. Yau kusan 3 yrs kenan walh amma ina tina abin a raina, irin style din da sukeyi da komai a raina is still clear. kuma amaryar baban namu matukar sha'awarta nake tinda naga wannan abin har mafarki nake da ita inayin kamar yanda naga babana yanayi da ita. It'll sound crazy, but walh abin yana damuna. Ina matukar sha'awarta duk da nasan zunubin dake ciki amma na kasa cire abin a raina. Duk sanda na kalli bayanta, ko kirjin ta se abin ya fado min, ina matukar sha'awarta. Banda zagi don Allah kuban shawara mene abinda zanyi na cire wannan abin a raina kuma na cire ta a raina. 😪😪

Assalamu alaikum ya ahibbayi! I hope this meets you well. the economic hardship in the country cannot be over emphasized, i know things are not easy especially for our female sisters, widows, and other dependents. so i will like to reminds all of the Muslim ummah that: 1-our lives is on the hands or Allah 2-Allah is knows our situations always 3-Allah SWT is always with us 4-This adversity we are facing is a trail from Allah 5-Our Duas has been answered by Allah, if yoy dont see result on earth then you will see it from hereafter. therefore, to easy the economic hardship we should all supplicate the following; llahumma inni a'udhu bika minal-hammi wal-Ḥuzni wal-'ajazi wal-kasli wal-bukhli wal-jubni wa ḍala'id-dayni wa ghalabatir-rijal. dont allow shytan to take advantage nor influence your iman. May Almight Allah with HIS Infinite Mercy strengthen our iman and Al-jannatul firdusi remain our final detination. Ameen!!! may Almighty Allah

Assalamu alaikum everyone dan Allah shawara nike nima gurinki I have a 50k here with me and wlh business nikeso nadan fara shine nike niman shawaran ku akan me kukaga ya dace in fa??

There are people who have been broken and damaged almost beyond repair as a result of relationship heartbreak. When you meet such people and start talking to them about love they normally think you are delusional and there's nothing like love in this life. Soulmate is an imaginary word to them . Coming from someone who's suffered heartbreak in the most crucial way , I can tell you soulmate exists. The issue is you don't always meet your soulmate , sometimes you meet them after you are already married. I faced heartbreak in the most crucial manner, December 2013 I left home for higher institution with a promise to my girlfriend that we'll protect each other's heart till I'm back, I came back and met her inside the room of my friend. I gave up on love, for over 9 years I stayed off anything called relationship till I met my soulmate. The love was different, it came unexpected, I'm normally a stubborn person but when it comes to her I turn into a marshmallow. We are partners now for 3 years and whenever I receive a text from her, a glow ,and that charming subtle smile always formon my face, i still feel the butterfly I felt the first time I fell in love with her, nothing pleases concerning her like when I do to something to make her smile. Our relationship isn't just about I love you , we have our fights and we have our sad moments but we never let each other's hands go apart . No matter what you've been through don't give up on love . Trust me finding that true love is worth it all. I pray we all meet our soulmate.

Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah . why is it so hard to find true love nowadays . I don't kno I really want to get married to the person I love and loves me back too, but I think it will be very hard for that to happen .. I use to admire some couple kaga suna son junansu akayi sure but I don't think it will happen to me😢 though nothing is impossible idan Allah Naman, Allah yayi Mana zabi mafi alkhairi

So I'm a guy who can be moderately jealous. My partner has a certain health issue . She normally goes for check up. So I'm kind of worried about her and also curious about what the check up might be like. I trust her but my issue here is the knowledge of another man with her . I know he's got to be a professional but still . Am I the only one who is having such issues ? If I ask her directly she'll definitely know where I'm heading to and I can't handle the taunting. Sometimes I subtly ask what test did he recommend then head to Google and check what it entails 😆.

I'm new here in Abuja but I'm unable to make friends I'm an introvert from work to house everyday (I'm a Corper) and I have no one I talk to

Assalamu alaikum dafatan kowa yana lfy don girman allah ku taimaka mun da shawara akan abunda zan fadawa step mother na😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏saboda ni nasan yau nawa ya qare 😭😭i am 24 year now amma wallahil azeem har kwanan gobe ban wuce duka a gurin ta ba😭mistake kadan idan nayi mata haka zatayi ta dükana kaman jaka😭ina zuwa islamiyya harna kaii SS3 toh gobe zamuyi graduation akwaii kudin da kowa ze bada 40 thousand seta bani toh jiya da naje zan biya sena tarar wanda ake bama wa baya nan sena koma da kudin gida da niyyan yau idan naje sena bashi😭😭😭kawaii na tashi da asuba zanyi hadda na dauko jakana in dauka quranin se naga babu kudin😭😭😭😭😭😭wallahi nayi kuka kaman raina ze fita inama kan yi saboda dagani se Ubangiji daya halicce ni kawaii mukasan abunda zatayi mun😭😭dan girman Allah ku bani shawara Mezan fada mata 😭🙏idan ba hakaba wlh yau seta kusa kasheni

I have a boyfriend yana sona and I loved him so much wallahi but the problem is that yana aiki but he’s always complaining akan ba yida kudi koda yaushe…nikam bansan samun saba haka bansan rashin saba…mun kaii 2 years I guess but wallahi har gobe banfi qarfin 10k a gurin saba because a iya wannan time din da muka dauka har gobe be taba yimun hidimar 10k dinba 😒sannan kuma ban taba tambayan saba but alhamdulillah Ina businesses dina kuma Ina samu babu laifi…kwasam se yazo yana mun magana waii akan na bashi Aron 700k I told him wallahi banida shi jarina gaba daya be wuce 200k ba amma har yanzu yaqi yarda gani yakeyi kaman kawaii na hanasa ne Malama I decided na siyar da phone dina da nike amfani dashi in shiya touch light phone na ringa amfani dashi har lokacin da Allah zesa na kuma samun kudi na siya koda wacce batakaii nawa din bane So something just cme to my mind that what if idan duk nayi hakan saboda na faranta mishi raii din kuma daga baya yazo ya rabu dani fa??????because Ex boyfriend dina banji dadin saba🥺💔please I need an advice 🙏

I don't know where to address this issue. I'll send a request to someone and it will be there for more than a month without accepting. And he finally accepts it, he won't take you serious They know we are here for the propose of marriage and then he will now stop chatting or calling after your first conversation. Please this should be checked

Assalamu Alaikum good evening everyone don Allah ina neman shawara ne Munyi engage da wani ne sai na gane cewar na fishi addini and kuma background dinshi ba familyn da ake son ayi aure a irinshi bane kuma gashi da rowar tsiya nayi nayi ya fahimci bana sonshi yayi haquri ya nemi wata Allah ya hada kowa da rabonshi sai kuma na kasa bazan iya mishi wulaqanci ba saboda ba halina bane Amma na fara shawarar ko na saka a kirashi someone that he doesn't know or in sayi new sim in gaya mishi magana ko in saka wani namiji ya kirashi ya mishi magana na kasa Don Allah what's the best solution I want a religious husband for my kids

Pls I want to know more about Babur girls, in term of marriage and general day to day human relationship...

Chapter 2: Colors of Destiny After that wild night in Abuja, every day felt like a new painting waiting to happen. Amira and I, we clicked – her vibe just mixed right with mine, like paint on a palette. The city was our playground, a canvas for our story. I tossed out the idea of her checking my art crib, a spot where creativity flowed, and the walls told stories in colors. Amira, with those curious eyes, took it all in. It felt like my art was a window to my soul, and she was peeking into the real me. Nights turned into walks under the city lights where Amira's laugh echoed like the coolest song. Each step felt like a brushstroke, adding layers to the masterpiece we were creating. But in the middle of all this artsy stuff, there was a shadow hanging around. Amira, with her mysterious vibe, dropped hints about adventures and untold stories. I could feel there was more to her, something waiting to be uncovered. Our connection got deeper with shared stories and secret glances. Yet, there was something unspoken, like a painting missing its final touches, waiting for the grand reveal. As the days rolled on, I couldn't help but wonder – what secrets did Amira keep from her past? And how would these untold stories paint our shared future? In the midst of the artistic journey, we found ourselves tangled in moonlit strolls, exploring the city's hidden corners. Amira's laughter became the soundtrack to our adventure, a melody that echoed in the quiet alleys. But as our connection flourished, I couldn't shake off the feeling that the mysteries of Amira's past held the key to the final strokes of our canvas. Would her untold tales add depth to our masterpiece, or would they introduce shades of uncertainty? To be continued...

Chapter 1: A Twist in Fate So, here I find myself, just chilling in Abuja, this absolutely awesome spot where destiny seems to groove in its own special way. Picture me, lounging in this cozy café – nothing too extravagant. Looked up, and boom! There she was, Amira. Her smile? It didn't just light up the whole place; it felt like it could rival the city lights, injecting warmth into the air. Our eyes locked, and out of nowhere, magic vibes hit. Amira's laugh? It echoed, man, like time just decided to take a break. Something clicked, like setting up a stage for a love story that's written in the stars, you feel me? I casually tossed the idea at Amira to check out my art spot. Colors mixing, scents chilling, my art's like my unsaid words, you know? She's vibing with it, feeling the groove like the beat of a heart. We hit the city streets under the glow of lights and a moon doing its own thing. Amira's laugh? It turned into this melody in my heart, creating a symphony of emotions that words couldn't quite capture. Every step felt like the universe saying, "You're onto something, my friend." Beneath the moon, I grab Amira's hand, spilling out, "Feels like we've known each other forever." Her eyes? They agree, and it's like our connection is getting deeper with every passing moment. But those stars? They're holding onto secrets, stuff the moon ain't spilling yet. To be continued... and trust me, what happens next? It's gonna leave you breathless, hanging onto the edge of your seat, wondering where this tale of love is about to take us.

Salam. Wai ni don Allah ko mene matsala ta ban sani ba. Na kasa samun koda budurwa. Duk yarinyar dana bi sede tamin wulakanci amma bazata karbi soyyayya ta ba sede naita wahala har na gaji na hakura🥲 Har sha'awa abin yake bani in naji mutane suna cewa budurwata kaza kaza, don ni banda ita na rasa yadda zan samu. Toh ko banda kyau ne? Ina zuwa kasuwa kuma ba lefi ina dan samu, kuma banda rashin tsabta ina wanka na saka kaya da guga fes fes😪 Kuma ina da ilimi ba lefi don har saukar qur'ani nayi, na gama F.C.E. Me yasa mata basa so na? Ko a unguwar mu akwai 'yan mata amma duk wadda na nuna inaso bata sona, se naga wani yana zuwa gurinta suna soyayya lafy lau amma ni ba wadda take kulani da sunan so. Ko a makaranta da course mate ina ganin suna soyayya tsakanin su, amma duk wadda na nuna ina so se ta nuna me zatayi dani😭 Wai mene matsala ta ne? Me yake samin irin wannan bakin jinin. Ance mata suna neman mazan aure, amma ni gashi samun budurwa ma ya gagareni😭

What comes to your mind when you hard or find out that someone is a lawyer? Are lawyers High headed? To the ladies: are lawyers loveable? Are they womanisers? To the gentlemen's: why are you afraid of marrying lawyers? aren't they loveable?