Always keep your relationship information private from others. This is another one of the causes of marriages breaking apart and infidelity creeping in, as you would be sharing your concerns about your relationship with a person other than your own spouse. This may cause feelings to develop and then Shaytaan will takeover. Always make sure to talk to your spouse directly with regards to any issues within your relationship instead of an outsider. May Allah SWT bless all our marriages Ameen.

One day, someone will walk into your life and make you see why Allah said you to be patient. Trust His timing! 😊 O'Allah, please make it easy for all our brothers and sisters who are finding it difficult to get married, and remove any burdens from them. Ameen🤲

Hello everyone! I've been dating a girl, or should I say I was engaged to her for the past two months. We love each other very much, to the point that we share everything, and I mean everything. Recently, we became quite addicted to sharing intimate photos of ourselves, and it has turned into a bad habit for us. Despite this, I still love her deeply; in fact, my feelings for her grow stronger every day. I’m uncertain whether this behavior could affect our married life in the future. Aside from this, nothing else has happened between us, as we are currently separated by distance and not even in the same country. I would appreciate any guidance from a scholar or Sheikh who can offer advice to both me and her. Thank you everyone

Remember me in your Dua's As I remember you in my Dua. Let’s pray that Allah make us together soon from His bounty. O'Allah please grant all brothers & sisters a pious, loving & caring spouse soon Ameen.

good afternoon everyone pls there's this guy I meet through social media we have been dating since January we became friend after then we became best friend and now we're currently that was last year before we dated dating he just graduated this year he promised me that if he's done he would surely come and see my parents so we can be engaged he even introduced me to his sisters two of his sisters but my problem is that is it normal for a couple that are willing to get married to be discussing about what would happen like after we are married apart from food and how he would take care of me the other aspect?

"I've been following this guy on Instagram for a while now, and honestly, he's become a huge crush. Every time he posts something new, it’s like the highlight of my day. There's something so captivating about his personality—it shines through even in the smallest details of his photos and stories. He’s got this effortless charm and style that I just can’t stop thinking about. Who knows if he’s even noticed me among all his followers, but just seeing him online has me smiling way more than I should be!"pls ina neman shawara,even though bazai following naba atleast he should know me😪

Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah everyone please and please it's just a reminder to we all.. Our brother's and sister's parents and beloved one's are out there dying in bandit's hand,they are in need of your prayer's all may allah be of their rescue all and anyone in difficulty alfarman manzon allah

As a Nobel person like me I never thought of getting my self into gambling as a married woman with 3kids. Subhanallahi my heart is blowing please I need advice I want to stop, I am really tired na gaji na gaji da sabawa mahallici na Yau kwana 10days kenan da nayi wa kaina alqawarin na Daina caca har cewa nayi Idan na qara yin caca Allah yasani a wutar jahannama Koda ace ni we aljanna ce to na zabi wuta akan aljanna inhar na qara yin caca. Yanxu haka zuciya na tun safe take min sake sake akan in koma in cigaba dayi sbd akwai kudin da na rasa sosai sanadiyar caca Kuma masu kudin suna tsaye akaina in Basu kudin su na rasa yadda zanyi. Please advise me kuyi min wa'azi I want to stop. Nasha cewa zan Daina sai Kuma daga baya in koma Yi Amma wannna Karon kwana 10 kenan har yanxu ban qara yiba because na dage da addua da istigfari da neman mafita akan yadda zan biya kudin dana salwantar Alhmdlh har acikin zuciyana na samu natsuwa Amma yau da masu kudin suka hura min wuta yasa inaji kamar in koma. Dan Allah kumin wa'azi wata na 8 Ina yin gambling I want to stop...and please ku bani shawarar yadda zanyi da kudin mutane dama kudin su yasa nashiga duk wannan matsalar ni a kokarin na biya mutane bashin da suke bina da kudin caca sun bani kudi zasu siya kaya Nima na tura ma wata shikenan bbu kudi bbu kaya su Kuma sunce sai na biya su shine dalilin dayasa na fara caca akan in Nemo kudin su a caca in biya su sai Allah ya barni da wayau na Kuma ban biya su ba sannna Kuma na qara sa kaina a wani matsalar

Hi, name is Hamza , am 38 years old Software Engineer living in Germany, hoping to connect with some arewa tech geeks

I'm a university student living with my stepmother and her daughter (step sister). I recently started a small business, since the first day i announced to them and started the business, my sister then claimed that she also wanted to start the business, something in the business line of what i was selling. I even made up my mind i wont try selling what she's going to sell in the business line.Two weeks after i started my business, my sister told me that she also bought what i was selling and she'll be selling it also. I called my mother and told her what happened, and even told her that I'll just stop and leave the business for her, she told me i shouldn't, ai hassada ce kawai suke mani,they're trying to intimidate me and i shouldn't let them get to me. I still feel like i should just stop the business, what do you guys think, i hope I'm not overreacting. daman kowa a family ya san su da halin su, had i been the one that saw her start the business and decided to start also, I'll be the talk of town from them. what do you guys think?

Why it's that anytime you ask a guy to come and see ur parents he will never come back again what is the problem???

Assalamualaikum pls I need your advice and suggestions. there is this girl I meet on dating platform for the past 3 months we are still talking. she is cool beautiful. she is the type of lady I have been praying to have All my life. and finally I got her. the issue here is. it's been 3 months since we meet. she accept me everything is going well. but the problem is i still don't feel connected with her. we sometimes want to chat but we both loose idea and not knowing what exactly to discuss about. she will be online i will be online too. but after greetings it all turns out to awkward moments same thing on phone call. our bond is not getting stronger at all. pls what could be the problem and pls can someone suggest solution because i can't afford loosing such a kind and beautiful soul in my life

Assalamu Alaykum. I just arrived in Lagos for a two-month training. It’s actually my first time here. If anyone would like to hang out, especially on weekends, let me know!

wasu kawayen akwai sharri. A friend of mine tayi posting amatsayin nice tace ....... sedaga baya abun yadawo mun guys kunemi tsari Akan friends masu Sharri Allah yarabamu Ameen . kohakan yataba faruwa dawani

so there's this guy that I knew some years back and eventually our path crossed and we immediately clicked, months into the relationship he proposed marriage to me and also sent his parents to mine and I was just starting University then. so my people didn't accept the proposal because of reasons like he comes from a very large family and all so they fear for me, but we kept on talking dai and along the line we started having a lot of issues here and there which eventually led to our breakup. our parts crossed again after some years and unfortunately ba wani rabuwan mutunci akayi ba gaskiya but we let bygones be bygones and we were communicating once in a while and during that time he told me that he still wants to marry me and honestly I also still like the guy but here is the problem. nidai according to what i know and see, he is a good guy and he is also religious and again family'n shi really showed me love when we were together sosai, even his step mums muna waya kawai dai kunsan dan Adam can't be 100%. so yanzun what I am concerned about is should I leave this guy because my people don't really want me with him or should i let him to send his people again and try to convince them this time around. I have done istikhara for some time but i am still having mixed feelings. I have also tried talking to other people but I keep on comparing them with him cause gaskiya he is better than like 90% of men that i have actually had a thing for after our relationship. please do advise me and sorry for the long surutu.

please how do y'all young single ladies cope with being horny?

Please let us know so that someone can try to avoid doing the same.

Please do you think I am wrong to be looking for a young, very educated, well brought up, very religious, respectful, dependable and beautiful woman? Am I looking for too much, is it impossible to find such on a platform like this.....I have been searching for long, please where do I go to find such? Are you here?

It's disheartening to observe that many women today prioritize material security over genuine love. A man may shower a woman with sincere affection, but if he lacks financial stability, he's often deemed unworthy.

I have this friend named Ismail. He’s a 21-year-old Hausa-Fulani, and honestly, he’s a pretty good-looking guy. But when it comes to talking to girls, he gets super nervous. Around us friends, he’s totally fine, but the moment he tries to start a conversation with a girl, he just freezes up. He overthinks everything, gets really anxious, and either says nothing or stumbles over his words. He asked me for advice, but I thought I'd bring it here to see if anyone has any tips to help him get more confident. And Am 100% sure that any girl that have has a loyal partner