Some of our honorable teachers advised: If a woman wants a successful marriage; one based in piety and knowledge, and wants a peaceful home, there are a few important things to consider: • The husband’s preferences are very important. He has the greatest right over you, so consider your good treatment to him similar to treating the parent well. This does not mean that you should not want anything, but if you want peace in your home, and a content husband, consider his preferences and correct your intention. This is better than fighting him! • *DO NOT* say to your husband, “You don’t do/never did anything,” or the like. • Men generally like submissiveness over defiance. You may and should advise your husband with what is best. If he is smart, and it is better, he will listen, but try not to take the last word, or insist that he does it your way. If he does not, it does not mean that he does not listen to you. The man should be the leader, so let him be a man. Do not try to control him - if you want a peaceful home and relationship. • If you are a career woman, do not be aggressive with your husband, or any brother you’d hope to marry. Do not say, “I intimidate men.” Truly, most men are simply not attracted to the aggressiveness, no matter how beautiful you are. • Remember that the Religion has mentioned qualities that make a woman more or less desirable for marriage, like piety, beauty, knowledge, money, lineage, status, virginity, articulation, and lack of children. The Religion encourages the man to choose the *Religious one* over all, and choosing for looks, money or status will ruin him. But if the pious woman is also pretty, then it is recommended for him to marry her. Therefore, do not forget the importance of beauty to many or most men, even if you are already long married. Healthy diet and exercise are beneficial. • If you remarry, *DO NOT* prevent the father from taking his child. This is God’s Wisdom. It is better for your new marriage and husband, and better for your child and the child’s father, even if you don’t prefer it. - I ask Allaah to grant us piety, patience and wisdom and make us successful on Judgement Day. Aameen

I'm gonna speak for myself, I've got this challenge in approaching ladies. Like, a few weeks back I met this pretty cute lady at a bodega. And I found her really adorable. I wanted to get her contact but while trying to approach her I had second thoughts. I was like... "I don't think a lady this beautiful and classy is single" "She's most likely taken" "What if she snubs or she's rude" This has happened to me a couple of times and I dunno if I'm the only one experiencing this. Its a big challenge for me.

Yau shekara 3 kenan da barin Nigeria nazo Germany Masters kuma na fara aiki anan. Toh ina bukatar na auri mace mu zauna. Shine se wata Kanwar mama na tamin recommending din wata knwar mijinta. Mun fara soyayay tin kusan last year June. Muna yawan yin chat video da voice kuma ina ganin hoton ta amma iyaka face. Toh macen da zan aura ai ya kamata nasan shape dinta ko yamin ko? Se last week muna video call nace mata ta tashi tsaye ta haskon bayanta da camera naga shape dinta, back view. Se kawai naga tayi terminating call din. Tin sannan na dena jinta tayi blocking dina. Wai se taje tacewa antin nawa wai ni dan iska ne nace ta nunan nonon ta da kuma bayanta!😯 Wasu matan kam sun morewa sharri. Na rasa abin yi saboda kunya da takaici. In iskanci nake sha'awa duk ga mata nan inda nake, kuma inada ilimi da aiki ai se na gaji. Duk ga porn sites nan in ma wani abu nake son gani. So nake a mana aure nayi mata visa, flight ta tawo nan kasar mu zauna na wani lokaci, ai ya kamata nasan abinda zan kawo ko? In wace bazan samu gamsuwa da ita bane mene amfanin auren? Antin nawa tace zata mata magana mu dawo mu shrya, amma ni walh ta fita min a rai. Wannan ko anya macen aure ce? Don Allah ku bani shawara!

so I have a boyfriend that I love so much but the problem now is that this guy doesn't give me is time or attention again at all like before or if I call him he won't pick my calls or if I message him it's the same thing. so one of friends posted our pictures together on his status that he knows that guy but the girl in the picture is the girlfriend of that guy so my friend came and tell me that I wasn't happy about it .that is the main reason why I don't like posting him or my friends should post us together . so because of our communication is very poor not like before the way we use to be so I thought break up should be the best thing for us since maybe he doesn't like me like before or he likes the other girl . I dont want to disturb myself on him because it usually hurt my feelings because I will see him online and he will never talk to me but if I tell him that I saw him online he will deny it .and sometimes he claims that his battery are low .it's really painful and hurtful should I just leave him alone and move on with my life

You are overthinking again. Breath… It’s going to be okay, You will figure it out and even if you don’t figure it out, that’s still okay.

Wai Meyasa ba'a siyar da tsire Sai dare yayi 🤔🙄🚶

Dan uwa mai neman macen da zata soka tsakanin ta da Allah ba dan abin duniya. Ga shawara zan baka. Akwai da yawa daga cikin yan uwa, dangi, abokan arziki ,makabta, da suke so su hada ka da wata ta jikin su, amma kana tunanin saboda abin hannun ka matan zasu yarda ba wai dan so na tsakani da Allah ba. Amma kai kafi son ka sami wacce bata san ko kai wanene ba wacce zata maka so na gaskiya. Mallam karya ne;hakan da kyar ya yiwu. Idan kaje wa macen zamanin nan a matsayin mara arziki Wallahi 99% zasu rabu dakai, saboda kowacce gidan hutu take nema. Ka rufa kanka asiri ka zabi mai hankali da natsuwa wacce akasan halinta na gaskiya. Idan kuwa ka ki, zaka zabo kura da fatar akuya. Yawanci matan yanzu babu soyayya ko Allah a ransu. Kudi kawai ne maganin su. Ku diba kugani. Idan latecomer ya aure maka budurwar da kuka dade kuna soyayya; sai ace ai addu'ar ta ne da take na Allah Ya zaba mata mafi alkhairi ne Allah Ya amsa. Ammafa idan kaine ka rabu da ita ka auri wata sai ace yaudara kayi. Irin shara'ar son zuciyar da sukeyi kenan. Mallam idan kanada kudin ka , kazaba , ka darje kafin ka aura. Kuma ka ja layi bayan aure. Dan kudinka aka aureki. Idan kuma kai talakane sai kajira "zabin Allah". Dan haka suke cewa " zabin Allah" amma Wallahi munafunci ne da karya, domin babu Allah a lamarin matan zamani. Mallam idan zaka iya, kayi hakuri ka tara kudi kafin ka soma neman macen aure.

Look at your girl. You see how good she looks? You see all the awesome qualities she's got? Now imagine another guy enjoying her and you not meaning shit to her anymore. Exactly why you should get your act together and give no room for f#ck ups. Life is too short and you can't have opportunities pass by you because really good relationships are hard to come by. Did you know that if you're preoccupied with the wrong people, the good ones out there are just passing you by and could actually be the relationship that is meant to be.

please what makes a girl private part to be smelling???Any gynecologist in the house???and what are the things she should do to stop that odor

Wata bakuwar budurwa mukayi a gidan neighbor dinmu kawai yau wani yaxo ya aika Wai akirata tana fito ta kalle shi sama da kasa tace waya aikoka 🙄🙄 malaminka kawai yakasa magana gsky nagi mai ba Dadi ya gama Tara courage yaxo wurinta Amma tana tambayanshi waya aiko shi kujimin wannan yarinya

Avoid marriage when you are still pressing *606# before you make call MTN no dey borrow pampass.

Innah-lilahi waina iilah rajuuan😭😭 Yau mun tashi da iftalai gidan mu yayi gobara Allah ya mayar mana da alkairy🤲👏

Idan kaga qawarta ta fita kyau da tarbiyya ka koma kanta kawai ba yaudara bace kaddarace!😂 Mai tambaya ta gaba...

as a guy looking for relationship, should facial looks, endowment and age be a barrier ? as a lady should facial and body structure, financial stability and age be a barrier? what's the best way to go about match making relationships

me: baby in baka/baki yi wanka da ruwan sanyi da sanyin nan ba to bani bakai/bake😎 reply as my baby😂....

wai shin sai matan nan ko yaya? 😀😂 binanin ne ko fintiri? yanzu nake ganin maza da gwaggwaro 😀😂

i don’t really know for what purpose you guys joined the app! honestly it’s kinda tough to deal with you guys once you send a request to a person yayi accepting sai ayi magana kadan that’s all i thought we’re all genuinely seeking for a partner right? then why all these? should i call it an ego or what? Most of you guys are operating same way why? i never thought this is how the app works honestly! this is not called matchmaking at all, what i observed is that you guys are thinking all the ladies in the matchmaking section are kinda desperate ha? or y’all are doing us a favour, well... it’s not like that y’all are mistaken ko so kuke yi muyi ta binku muna dan Allah gamu ku aure mune?😂 know something for a relationship to work out successfully a man has to put more and more effort to it. Take note please we’re not here to play Allah yasa an gane👏🏻

actually I met a lady here and alhamdulilah she's good looking and presentable but she to like whyning she too like cruiz and I've done all the possible ways to let her knows I truly love her and am ever ready to make a positive step on the relationship but she's not complying......I really need to know if I should continue shooting or reserve my bullet for someone?

I meet this guy when I was 18yrs I just finished from secondary school . Then we fail inlove . He was 25 yrs old then . I loved this guy with all my heart ❤️ He’s everything I wanted in man 😢 Then I got admitted into the university while schooling he got a job 😢 so I thought he will ask for my hand in marriage , he told me he can’t marry me and he doesn’t see us ending together as husbands and wife . I was heartbroken 💔 I never knew he hard someone already in the village whom his family wan him to marry , I cried all my heart out . I almost kill myself 😢😢 then I have to be patient bc I don’t know what god has for me 🙏 this same guy letter come back to me after 4 months telling me he’s sorry this and that I speark to my friends about him and thy all ask me to forgive him and love him again 😢 at this point someone somewhere call me and told he’s still together with the girl 😢 and he’s getting married soon. I don’t know what to do I don’t know if I move on again or I should ask him. At this point he’s calling me every day he text everytime and he’s caring , now I don’t know who to believe in I don’t if this guy is using me for his reasons or what I begged this man to leav me alone yet he’s to still with I told him he’s going to end up hurt 😞 me again yet he does wan to speark soo now am very confused here 🙏 my relationship with him is 5 yrs old or should I wait and see what Allah has for us or should I believe in what people are telling me

after using all your strength to join the group and after meeting someone at the end he will be saying something like your state is too far for me or your age is this and that imagine nonsense since you know that state or you are not ok with my age then why did you send or accept me from the first place? and even exchange number and pictures with me? from today if you know that my state is too far or you are not ok with my age don't even come near my profile Tor am not here for nonsense