why is the rate of divorce from 2021-to the current year so high ?? especially the previous year (2022) Awusubila is so much that it makes me scared . please let’s have an open talk on this one . air you minds , what do you think is the cause . if you have experience please if you don’t mind you can share so that those of us that are not yet married will be guided and also possible ways of preventing this from happening because you will see some people getting married after a month or so they’re already separated like whyyyyyyyyyy ??? .... please let’s try to write in English for the case of me and other ethnicities that are here . thank you

Salamu-alaikum. Nayi kimanin shekara 3 muna soyayya da wannan baiwar allan. Toh yanxu mahaifiyata ta nunan tana sha'awar na auri cousin dina wato 'yar kanwarta. Har sunyi magana da kanwar tata ma. Kuma gasky nima nafi son na auri cousin din nawa. Wannan yarinyar amma tana yawan yimin magana akan kawayenta sunyi aure, allah ya nuna mata namu da sauran maganganu dai da suke nuna tana nufin lokaci yayi nima ya kamata na yunkura ayi abin. Ina sonta wallahi banason nayi breaking heart dinta. So nake mu rabu cikin mutunci kar taga na yaudare ta yanda ko bayan munyi aure zamuyi zumunci. Tinani nake tinda wayarta ba ta yayi bace sosai na canza mata ita, farin cikin hakan ze sa ta mnta bazatace na yaudare ta ba in na gaya mata cewa zan auri wata. Shawara nake nema yanda zanyi

Allah ya sa muna da rabon aure a duniya muma mu ji yanda ake ji. I shiver when ever the thought of dying crosses my mind. Allah ya gani ban shirya ba, so many things I want to try out, I want to know what having sex feels like, having my own kids, having a husband, my own family, everything. Sometimes I feel like my life is going at a slow pace (Astagfirullah), but alhamdulillah still better than many. Idan bamu da rabon experiencing abubuwan nan Allah ya sa mu cika da kyau imani

I don't understand why most of the ladies are calling men ugly I don't know why but sisters I want you to know that you will never cease to amuse me. and you will end up marrying someone ugly Ah swear so be careful😂💔. I kom in fis and I lib in fis 😂.

abokin baba na Yana Sona he confessed to me I didn't give him any reply and his married Kuma matan shi muna mutunchi wlhi baba na yayi suspecting Amma mama na ta che no ba haka bane buh ban gaya musu ba ga abun da ya gaya mun ba

please who is meant to ask who in terms of other rooms activity like inaso Amma i want to ask is it ok for me to ask for it

Few days ago someone made mention that he has never been in a relationship and some people found it odd despite his age. The incident got me thinking; Is it a must for one to be in a relationship or must have been in a relationship or more at a certain age? Is relationship that cheap that anyone at anytime can decide they want to be in a relationship regardless of whether they have a goal or not? Or if the goals are justified? Has people's hearts become something anyone can just toy with at anytime and move on to the next? I'm not ruling out the fact that there could be reasons like being unwell physically, mentally, spiritually etc. But that isn't always the case. Even an unwell person can still be in a relationship the way some relationships are these days. It is like some people don't think it through before jumping into relationships. They just act as their hearts dictate and then end up hurting themselves and/or others. A lot of people are in relationships just for the fun of it. That is why there are so many broken people in this generation. Lots of hearts have been broken more than they should. No regards for love. I believe relationship or courtship or dating or whatever name it has, should be sacred and should only be with the purest of intentions. I know sometimes there's that feeling that if you don't make the move now you're going to lose the person for good. So you just jump in. But forget not that there's that special person written for you (unless you're destined to go back as you came 😅😅. Which could be unfortunate). Find comfort in that. If they are yours, both of you will definitely find your ways to each other at the end of the day. You can also confess your feelings to someone and still not be in a relationship with them. Telling someone how you feel about them and being in a relationship can be two different things. Don't come for my head abeg. Nayi nan 🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️

If teenagers are in love, Is its allowed to marry at d age of teens like both d male and female are teenagers are they allowed, to avoid all such of things, even though d guy don't have d money but his father can take care of them

First of all many people use soap so that the can get to make their hand very easy and soft to use. what I want to you to put in your mind is that remember what you are doing is not good for your health and you are sinning your god. 1.Stop going to toilet with soap if you can't resist doing it for at least 3 days. 2. put in your mind that, that is your last chance going back to your god 3. put in your mind that you are going to die at any moment especially when trying to do it. 4.Try to avoid social media because most of the time the things you are seeing on social media are the ones that are turning you on. 5. if you can avoid social media delete all your social media app or handles 6. Avoid listening to music coz music is part of the thing that allow Satan to get to your mind and whisper it to you. 7. At least try to listen to Qur'an even once every day before going to toilet especially before taking bath. 8. Try to always Do daily Azkhar morning one and Evening one. 9. If you have bad frnds that are always talking about sex stuff pls avoid them. And insha Allah you'll see changes in your life. And even if it is Zina you are doing pls repent and fear Allah and know that one day we will all go back to him. Thank you sister and Brothers

so there's this guy I've been dating for years muna son juna sosai sai yafara dating friend na thou nasani but kawai Ina kallon su yanxu time da Yayi Ina so Nayi aure sai naji Wallahi I can't marry someone that's dating my friend and ba yanxu zai yi aure ba. There was a time I told him Nifa I have the feelings zan yi aure this year and he was like ko Nayi zan fita na aure shi kuma shi zai iya mun koma mene what I need . So yanxu kuma Wallahi I have few people that wants me with marriage har gida sun zo but Daga nafarawa na miji magana kawai in a month zan ji na sane ka I will stop talking to you haka kawai Duk relationship da zan yi da wani doesn't work ko su fita a Raina ko ha ka kawai su daina kulani and if I asked them why sai suce Wallahi they don't know why sakanin mu bai yi working ba amma ku ma suna sona. Wlh ko irin wani yazo wajena Bbu I don't talk to men as relationship and alhamdulillah I know I'm beautiful and everything someone needs kawai de things just don't work and I want to settle down anytime soon but namiji baya raina and I'm still talking with him my bf. Gashi kullum Ina Cikin yi sallah dare walllahi I don't know what's wrong with me sometimes har Ina tamabayen shi kamun asiri ne Nikam? sai yace bai son maganan nan and yes yana bin malamai so sai dan Ina ya wan ganin su rubutu an Dungula a motorn shi kaman laya ❗️jamaaa ku taimaka mun ko da wani addua ko abun yi pls I'm sure da wani Abu Wallahi.

A wasu rubuce-rubuce na ga wata tayi magana akan samun friends and staying long with them, kuma ni ma I find it hard to make friends and stay long, sai dai hello-hi kawai, ashe I am not alone on the table.

By seeing your pictures, the tears begin to run down my cheeks and I feel a great pain in my heart to think that you will no longer be mine”. How easy was it for you to say that you did not want me in your life anymore? I wish I could do that but I can’t because you were, you still are… and you will always be my life, You promised to come back to me I just hope you will cause am missing you badly 💔 may Allah's qair be with you 🥺🥺

After how many days of marriage did you started missing home

And if you fall in love with someone one day I hope you fall in love with someone whose heart will always remain soft for you... Someone who can be your home, Someone who you can run to when everything is falling apart, Someone who feels like a safe place for you to run away from all the sadness and chaotic thoughts inside you... Life is not always happy, it’s not always smooth, Sometimes it gets dark, And when it does, I hope you find the one who is like a torch for you in the dark, Someone who help you through your struggles and never be the reason for them... I hope you fall in love with someone who cares about your heart and soul.

Am very very disturbed about this, anytime I tell a guy or a lady I only have male friends sai su rika min wani kallo, am worried about it wlh, please is it not normal as a lady? and mostly they are online friends that we gist and laugh together koh haduwa bamu taba yi da wasu ba, wasu kuma once Amma sai a rika min kallon wacce bata da kamun Kai sbda ina da male friends.

Asslm is there anyone in Abuja I can visit just to gist abit before I go home🙏? going home now wil only make me depressed due to stress at work.

so there is this guy I met recently although he hasn't looked at my side yet more like I don't exist to him and he looks so amazing should I make the first move by talking to him first or not? a guy like him tends to be a player sha

Pls As a lady can you marry someone who is younger than you and will your family agree to it?

RAJAB 1-10th ISTIGFARI 3000 kullum 11-30th ISTIGFARI 2000 kullum SHA'BANA 1-10th HAILALA 3000 kullum 11-30th HAILALA 2000 kullum RAMADAN 1-10th SALATI 2000 kullum 11-30th SALATI 3000 kullum Allah Ya sa mu dace

TO ANY LADY READING THIS. THIS IS FOR YOU! Dear Morning Star, the one up on my sky I found you in my dreams when I lay As I slept, your thoughts fell into my thoughts Sunk into the bowels of my stomach. I found crystals of you Whenever I close my eyes, it’s you on my mind I open to see the sun, it’s you I see As your eyes have opened my morning Know you are never asleep in my heart Cheers for being you. Thanks for being awesome.