abokina ne matarsa ta mutu yau kusan shekara biyu kenan kawai kwana biyu sai Naga suna soyayya da "Yar yar matarsa data rasu, (da babbar yarinyar da matarsa data rasu uwarsu daya ubansu daya) Dan Allah aure a tsakanin su?

I don't know if it's just me but I find this phrase of "dating above your League" kind of weird. I mean come to think of it, what is the league even about? is it about financial league, physical appearance league, intelligence league or whatever league it is that we use to analyze compatibility between ourselves and potential partners? Because at the end of the day, we are all HUMANS so I don't think that phrase should exist especially in the dating world. Many at times the whole ideology of dating some one above your league is fueled by people with really low self esteem. Now, If I'm being realistic, I agree that certain people might not be our cup of tea just like we are not everyone's cup of tea because as humans we all have our own "types" or "specs", or maybe we are not just compatible or attracted to them which is fine, or maybe we don't share the same values as them etc but it still doesn't mean that you are above their "league" or you are better than them because I've noticed that most times, that phrase is usually used in a derogatory manner if that makes any sense. I think that we need to start looking beyond the superficial stuff like how much do they have in their bank account, how good looking they are, what type of car do they drive,the latest gadgets they use etc(Which is not a bad thing to have don't get me wrong🤷🏾‍♀️) but focus on more important things like if they have values, if they are kind, if they have integrity, if they're hardworking and responsible, if they have respect for you and other people in general and If they show up for you etc. Superficial stuff should be like an icing on a cake and not the main cake itself. While character and values should be the cake which is still delicious even without the icing(I just have to use cake as an example in this context as a cake lover😂) Finally, I might have some conflicting opinions, because this is actually not a right or wrong type of thing but it's just my own opinion so you're free to disagree.

Well We All Agreed A Lady Is Right To Choose a Patner that is Rich so She Will have A Comfortable Life... So Its Thesame With Us Men That Looks For a Girl That is Physically Attractive From Her Face to Her structure. So There is Nothing wrong In Looking For That in your partner As Long As Its Not the priority. I Was Trying to Find Someone That Can Love And Understand me The Way I Am now So That When The Money Comes. I Will Know She Love me For Who I Am. But Clearly its Hard To Find. So Now I Have Change my Mind Set So Am Ganna Do All I Can Halal To Find Money So I will Afford the woman of my Dream.(Beautiful, Intelligent, Smart, Sexy, Sweet Religious, Rich Family )

looking for extremely beautiful guy on this forum I mean very beautiful😂 joke apart maza masu hali na gari na wuya so make I no go kill my self with two things muni ga mugun hali🥴 at least make I deal with one thing abeg. so am looking for tall, handsome and beautiful guy here. me too I fine pammm 😉 I tall, fair, slim with shape, long hair osheee🧚🏻‍♀️ who be this looky guy we gonna twin 🥰 Abeg no judge me bikoo I don say my own I like fine man abeg 😍

this thing don tire me, no be say we too de complain o am also tired of complaints I want us to talk about tea and bread not complains😂 if I send person request and he accepts as the man he can wish to state saying hi buh ni Kam ba girman Kai wlhi even if u no say hi I go hi u but my problem be say after the hi and greetings the conversations just automatically ends nothing again, is that how we are going to know more about each other? or is it now us that will be doing the toasting details again? naso I go waste my matchmake number with umserious match.... honestly I don tire o no vex didn't say it to hurt anyone just saying ma mind

I KNOW YOU MISS HIM. You want to call him and hear his voice again. To hear him joke again. To see that sparkly smile again. You want to feel the warmth of his skin again even if it is only for a moment. You want to.. I KNOW YOU STILL MISS HIM. 😔 Sometimes, You see him when your eyes close. You hear his voice when the wind brush against your face. You smell his breath against your ears and it feels like every memory you have tried to bury is digging out. I KNOW YOU REALLY MISS HIM. 😢 Even though you pretend not to. Even though he's an asshole and you know clearly that he doesn't deserve an ounce of your love. You miss him. And everyone has warned against him. He broke you before, he will break you again. You know all this but still.. I KNOW YOU HELPLESSLY MISS HIM. ☹️ And it annoys you that you do. You wish you could crush that stupid feeling but it keeps crushing you. Everything reminds you of him even when you are not thinking of him, he just invades your thoughts and make your blood warm. I KNOW HOW MUCH YOU MISS HIM. 😐 Nobody else understands but I do. The feelings won't stay buried, someone is always back with a shovel. I know you miss him but YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG. Not to prove anything to him but to prove to yourself that beneath that fragile heart is a Strong Resilient woman who deserves to heal and be loved. It will not be easy but you can pull it off. This is you. Pick up a shovel and dig out the strength you buried because of love, Dig it out and dust it. You are not weak, You are only in love but its time to snap out of it. Pick a shovel today and start digging. You will be fine

I have been with this girl for almost 2 years, I don't really love her as a wife because of some reasons. But whenever I am horny, I will feel and wish she's my wife because she has a sexy body structure. Kawai sha'awar ta nake, amma bansonta a matsayin mata. Please advise me on whether or not I should marry this girl.

Salam, management of this app. Please a yi wani abu a kan notifications din nan mana. Like we should know if people are even viewing our profiles or something, amma ba dadi bamu ganin komai sai jiran tsammani. The silence is discouraging. Sauran users ya kuka gani?

Stop being in a hurry to grant financial aid to ladies you just met, especially those you approached. Be intentional about the talking stage and maintain the status quo otherwise it might become a billing stage. If you truly want to build something natural or solid with her, then avoid any situation that may compel you to grant financial aid. Nigerian ladies undervalue financial aids during the first two or three weeks of meeting each other, Because many of them have this feeble preconceived mindset that boys will always try to impress or pretend to care. Even if your intentions are pure, she has got her doubts in play and trust me, she’s not that moved. The “Thanks!” You get afterwards is just a formality, deep down she still feels- Oh well, boys will always be boys! To put this into perspective, I mean girls who casually, stylishly puts you in that position like : I’m hungry. I’m not fine. I’m broke. That is tactical blackmail, It’s all manipulation. Do not fall for it and do not try to prove how much you care by lending financial aid. She will most likely turn you into a simp and maga because the tactical blackmail and billing will never stop. She’s always going to be hungry. Always going to crave ice cream. Always going to need that urgent 2k very urgently… I mean you could ask why she hadn’t returned your calls or message and the next thing is - I am out of data/airtime. She turns everything into an opportunity to bill you because you’ve shown her you have money to give and that will affect how she sees you. Many girls don’t see any reason to go into a relationship with you if already gain financial benefit benefit from you. And the most annoying part is the fact that they don’t appreciate your kindness, In their small minds they feel you can’t resist or say no to them. They believe you are always quick to come through for them because you want something from them. Granting financial support to a girl you like but just met is risky because it can quickly change the direction of your relationship with her. Avoid it!!! Talking stages are meant for conversations not semi blackmails and tactical billing. Never try to prove anything with money because whatever you start with money, will definitely require money to finish up.

I pray in my heart that this gets to Namenj in one way or the other. I like Namenj alot, he is such a beautiful person just as his music is....his songs make me cry I don't know why🥺. I would love to marry him .

is there any one knows how to calculate (gpa) and (cgpa) in universites?

assalamu Alaikum warahmatullah. please I need more clarification on those malaman tsubbu? those who claim to be giving medicinal treatment, advice, talking with jinns( in dreams ) , and all those stuffs. thank you.

is it a crime if you wish to marry someone who is confortable and up to your standard. I'm not from a rich family, but due to my hard work I made it in life, Alhmdlillah. I earn half a million every month, but find it difficult to settle down because I'm over 30yrs. what else do they want from a lady?

Assalamu Alaikum, shin buga-buga tana iya riqe aure, don yanzu bani da cikakken abun yi. Don ni ina da gida babba amma ban samu cikakken abun yi ba. zanbiya aure.

is anyone here knows how to contact (diaryofnothernwomen) on istagram ? is there any number or someone should just Dm her through her handle so she can post what you send. help pls

there's a lady I recently collected her phone after seeing her story on how she struggles. I learned we live in same neighborhood it's not my State of origin I was transferred to work there. after getting her number I chatted severally no reply after seeing my messages I called she didn't pick. chatted her again she didn't respond I only wanted to collect her details there's a job offer I got there wallahi I wanted to give her that job but she underate me. I gave a it to a kind person I met a bike Man that carried me to somewhere after telling me he has wive and struggling to survive.🙏

Ya Allah bless us with miji na gari ya hayyu ya gayyum.

ASLM JAMA'A BARKANMU D WANNAN MAI ALBARKA D FATAN KOWA YANA LAFIYA.. To jama'a kamar kullum dai yau dinma nine gogan naku wanda baya rasa kawo muku abinda zaku dan taba.... So Ina fatan kowa zai fito domin mu tattauna dan mu karu gaba dayan mu... Yau zamu tattauna akan wasu kalmomi guda biyu wanda muke kasa bam-bam cesu a rayuwarmu ta yau d kullum,hakan kuma yakansa mukan shiga damuwa sosai sbd rashin sanin bam-bam cinsu... Wannan kalmomi sune SO DA SOYAYYA.... Tambaya..... Menene bam-bam cin SO DA SOYAYYA Ina fatan yau zamu fito d dukkan karfin mu don mu taimakawa kanmu wajan kage bam-bam cin su .... BY BAFFANCYN (S)

mun kasance mu basu halibane to nasamu wani aiki inayi natara kudina nayi shawarar na fara sayayyan Kayan kitchen kafin aurena saboda kar sai aure yazo aga babu abinda muka saya shine nanemi shawara gun mahaifiyata sai tace aa musaya waken soya mu aje nan gaba zai qara kudi sai musaida muyi sayayya nace mata to Mujaheed muka saya mukakai Ajiya sai gashi jiya Wanda mukaba Ajiyan ta kirani a Waya wai anyi mata sata nima anhada da nawa amma ba duka suka daukaba shine nace to zanzo na kwashe sauran kawai na sayar shine da naje dauka naga saura daya kawai shine take fadamin wai ai mamana tun wancan satin tazo ta dauki buhu daya ta sayar bansaniba kuma wllh banga abinda ta sayaba nayi mata magana bata kulaniba😭😭😭😭wllh yanxu haka zuciyata jinake kamar zai buga ga Wanda aka sace ga kuma Wanda ta sayar na rassa yadda zanyi wllh ko magana ma ni yanxu banason yimata zuciyata nacemin in tada tsiya tabiyani kawai ba zaku gane me nake jiba wllh😭😭😭😭😭

What lessons have you learned from past relationships??