why can't we have a whatsapp group from this furum ladies Only? or ladies and men with a good intension i think it may help. sai a ware normal group da iya admin group duk mai wata damuwa should talk to one of the admis directly su kuma sai suyi forwading to normal group hiding ones iD in shawara ce a abayar in taimako ne sai ayi bincike sosai agano sai ataimaka ai irin sadakar da annabi yace tafi lada ayi da dama hagu bai sani ba.what do you think?😊

please the men on arewa matchmaker should either accept a request or just decline instead of leaving someone pending for weeks it is not nice at all you literally putting a part of someone's life on hold

Salamu alaikum. I hope this reaches you in the best of health. I want to know what people think. Ok this would be long so bear with me please. I am a 35 year old man with a wife and 3 kids, I am working with the government and earn handsomely Alhamdulillaah. I have never had a real love relationship with a lady since secondary school and I got married without doing such as well with my wife. So as I grew older up to this age, I've been having the urge to go into a real, honest, sincere and dedicated love relationship with a lady that some day inshaa Allaah will end up in marriage and this feeling/urge is as a result of me wanting to get a female partner that would stand as a friend, in fact my best friend and the compatibility should be there. Now mind you, I don't hate my wife nor do I want to part ways with her, but to sum up everything, we are not friends, I feel we are just husband and wife living together but that bond is not there, I give her her rights as a wife Alhamdulillaah but just the compatibility is not there and now that I am at this age, I need someone that I can have as a wife, best friend and compatible partner. Now I tried to adjust to the way she is but it's not working for me😥, I don't have any plans nor intentions of divorcing her as she's the mother of my kids and I want to keep being good to her. As for me, I just feel there's a huge gap in my heart that needs to be filled, I am a very emotional person and I feel I need a female best friend as a wife that I will share my emotional feelings with alone and would give her all my love as a best friend and a wife due to the compatibility and understanding that would be between us and I would also make her independent of my current family in separate locations if it's possible inshaa Allaah. Everytime I see married couples that are friends, I really feel like crying cuz that's what I feel I am missing. So I decided to try and see if I can get any buy unfortunately, the few ladies I have met were either after money or they wanted to get intimate, now I don't have a problem with that because I could control or check it but the fact that that is their priority, actually kills the vibe. So I was thinking what exactly the problem is, is it me that's the problem, if it's me, how do I solve it, or am living in a fantasy world or am I seeking too much, sometimes I even ask if what I want is even possible coupled with the fact that I have a family already and that's like a major turn off for ladies when they meet a man. Lately, I saw this lady on IG and I was actually infatuated but I really can't talk to her because a man with a family is a no no for most ladies these days, although I don't blame them because they might think he wants to just have me as a side chick and all as people say but I really wanted to give it a shot to see if it can work with her but then when I remember how these days ladies rush a man into marriage it kinda discourage me and Wallaahi whoever I get, it won't be my intention to waste her time whatsoever but she shouldn't rush me into marriage cuz I would really want to know her very well before making my decisions. Sometimes I feel I am asking for too much. So house, am I crazy or what? Please, advise me respectfully. Ma'assalam

slm yan gidan nan I have two guys in my life currently i was wt mr A since last 2yrs then suddenly Mr B came into my life after my dad passed away before I wasn't interested in Mr B bcoz it was like an arranged love(lol)so suddenly Mr A start losing interest on my bcoz he doesn't have money and stop contacting me bcoz he was struggling then suddenly Mr B start running on My head and All my family members knows about Mr B and wants me to marry him though I love him now and I am marry to marry him and Mr A has came back into my life again and want to win my love back while me and Mr B are going to be engaged soon and planning to get married 2024 Insha Allah so ku bani shawara how to tell Mr A about my relationship status

I was just scrolling through tiktok, when i saw this beautiful bride with her mom praying for her YAA ALLAH I you know more than anything I want to be married, ya Allah you alone know i have the purest intentions towards my partner. Ya Allah grant me a partner with deen and aqlaq

so i have this boyfriend that I really love him so much that i can't compare anything with him . so we went out together and he started touching me and I don't want to disgrace him there so I left him so we use to talk normal deh so he called me a certain day we talked everything was alright this guys hasn't called me since then it over a week now . note that I use to call him most of the time and sometimes he doesn't respond to my calls so this time I decide not to call him too . A friend of mine that knows him told me I'm a side chick 😭 and this guy is so perfect to my taste. pls what should I do ,should I call him and ask him what happened Neh

please kana tare da saurayi kana tambayanshi when zega iyayenka se yace wani abu kadan yake jira..mi hakan ke nufi ?

advice pls

Muna tare kusan shekara 12 yanzu, yayita min wasa da hankali for 10yrs.. amma duk inda nake sayya bini....har danaje karatu kasan waje saida ya bini. yanzu ya fito papa wai muyi aure har an kawo gaisuwa... amma his behaviours are not encouraging... yau sanyi gobe zafi... small thing sai fushi yayi kwana da kwanaki be kira ba, baya chatting baya video calls.. should i continue ko inyi cancelling abun?

A wuraren shekarar 2019/20 na koyar da Photography da Graphic Design in an online class on WhatsApp and later in the NH classes on Telegram. A cikin wadannan classes dinne na hadu da wata baiwar Allah anan Kano, tana sayar da irin kayan motsa Baki. Tunda dalibata ce sai naga bari nayi patronizing dinta, rannan nayi order din Shawarma, sai nace zanje na karba tunda a lokacin wurin da nake aiki ba nisa da gidansu, da Magriba naje, na kirawo waya cewar na karaso. Sai na nemi dan wani loko na make, da fito sai ta kirawo wayata, ina amsawa sai cewa tayi "A wani mota kake ne?" da murmushinta a fuska😊 ni ko nace: "Ai a sayyada ta nake" kawai baiwar Allah sai ta canza fuska ta juya, ta baiwa kaninta sakon, kafin na karasa kuma sai naga ta dawo amma dai babu walwala kamar farko😂. Kuma dai gidansu ba na talakwwa bane bare ace. Bayan wannan ma naje hoton wani biki, mun sauka a Napep angon sai cewa yayi au wai dama baka da mota?😒 Na dai hadu da irin tambayar sau da yawa kuma gaskiya banjin dadinta, yawanci mutane ko da basu da mota/abin duniya idan kai ba ka dashi sai su rika degrading dinka. Allah Ya arzurta daga taskarShi Ya hore mana ziyarar Annabi Alaihissalatu wassalaam

who is your wish as the governor my kano ppl, choose wisely( A) Abba gida gida (B) gawuna as the president of nigeria( A) kwankwaso( B)asuwaju (C)atiku abubakar

Personally, I don't even think single people should be allowed to vote. Because, if you're finding it so difficult to choose a life partner for yourself, why should I trust you with the task of choosing who should rule over me for the next 4years?

nakasan ce nime saban Allah ne but at first Duk wanda zekaranta yemin addu’an shiriya duk wanda zeyi sallah yatuna labarina dakuma sallan azumi dakuma Goman karshe dan Allah akullum ni me aika zunubine narasa yaza’ayi nadena duk inna aikata zanyi nadama nayi kuka nace bazan karayiba again bashi zesa nakara wannan abunba 😭 poster ni nasan inakome indai akan iskancine ina zina,ina lesbian with my friend and ina musturbating kaina duk lokacin danakesn having sex inbansamu ba i can’t musturbate in anhar ina kallan video narasa yazanyi nara yazanyi bansan yazanyi dakaina ba arayuwann bakincikin rayuwa danake famadashi akan abunnan ya’isheni bantaba sanin musturbating yana da illa dakuma porn video seyanxu ina rokan duk wani mekallan porn video tunkan yazaman mai addict wallahi yadena dan babbar masifa ce ni jarabawa Allah yadauramin bansan yazanyi dakaina ba bansan yazanyi arayuwanaba please banda zagi addu’an shiriya nake bukata bansan bakin waye zefi amsuwa ba dakuma miji nagari Allah kuma yashiryeni dan fiyayyen halitta

Muntaso tare shekarum daya 23 years tunda mukarabu saboda za a bata wani dan uwanta nayi kokarin na dena soyyaya saboda munsaba 4 year muna tare muna son junan mu bayan wasu watanni naji abun yana damuna munsaba kulin muna waya sosai da video call bana 3 hours ban kirata ba kota kirani tanayimin abubuwa sosai nima haka bana eeya kula wasu mata saboda ina sonta koda wata mace tacemin tana ina burgeta ina bayabay da ita saboda gudin bacin ran Amman yanzu nayi kokarin na sami kamarta abun yana bani wahala saboda inayiwa mace senaga kamar tana sona ne don wani abu nawa ni kuma ina gani kamar idan ba abun nan zata dena kulani ko ta juyamin baya inaso nayi sabuwar baby bandamu da se me kyau sosai ba ko fara nida inason tsafta da fadar gaskiya da amana

Aslm mesa mutane na cewa kar mace tabari na miji yasan tana son she please and kuma mesa daga mace tanuna tana sonsa sheknn zai bude kofan wulakanta tah toh wai su mazan bakwaso anuna muko so ne 🤔 inanyi mgn kuce mata basa treating nako da kyau kuce mata suna Jan Aji kaza kaza kaza sai ace maza sunfi son macen da tabasu wahala garin bashe wahala ki koreshe koko Kina so Kina Kai wa kasuwa koma dai duniyan nan kowa da Abun da yake so wani gyarashe duka wani koma lallaba toh nidai for me gaskia do me I do you kanunamin so Nima innumama so,so simple fa Amma some take love for granted love is real and sweet abeg maza please ko gyara mindset nako akan abunnan let a lady pamper uh Shene fa so in koma dai mata bance be obsessed akansa ba give him space if need don't be like a chewing gum and kikama kanki please Yar uwa ma'assalam

Yamu Musulmai, Yakamata Mu Jajirce Wajen Taimakon Junanmu, Musanmamma A Wannan Yanayi Da Ake Ciki Na Rashin Kudi Dakuma Matsalan Tsaro. Ubangiji Allah Yasa Mudace. Ameeeen Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum

Good morning y'all. My girlfriend has caught me flirting with her friend red handed and has refuse to talk to me since that yesterday. She won't answer my calls or respond to my messages, I've even stopped calling and texting. What should I do guys? 😕 Me and the friend are not dating oo or even interested in each other we're just both friendly and flirty in nature but now she thinks we're just cheating on her 🙄

Aslm please I need your help and advice from you guys ina cikin damuwa sosai I'm 20years old iyaye na suna raye amma ninake ma kaina komai ba wata sana a nake ba sai da Samarina su bani kudi wasu su bani dan Allah wasu kuma sai sunyi abu dani suke bani allah ya sani abun yana damuna Wlh I don't know what to do 🥺😭 ina so in biya kudin makaranta na bansan ya zanyi ba I really need your prayers please 🙏🏻 😭 ba a son raina nake Iskanci ba sai dan na samu kudi na biya ma kaina bukata a rayuwa 🥺

Umar ya dauki nauyin karatuna bayan nagama 🥺 Abubakar ya bani aiki a NNPC achikinsu waya kamata na aura ??????

Ina masoyan Kdramas let's team up, a bamu movies🤗