i am 25years old.I have seen a lot in my life tbh family problems and relationships My dad is a very strict person,he doesn't allow me to go out or even travel at all,whenever I try to talk about leaving the house,he always go to his relatives and say I want to go and look for a man💔I can't believe a father will do such a thing.Everything in my life is a open book I can't do anything privately my parents made me go to a nursing school which I still hate till date. He doesn't take care of us..We provide for ourselves I don't have opinions of my own I'm into a very toxic family and because of that I just want to get married Wallahi and I've not been lucky in relationships either,the few good guys I've had,they always decline that he is not good for me,I'm really tired wallahi.Pls I need your advice and prayers🙏

Assalamu alaikum house. I have this girl that I am dating for almost 6 months now even though we've been friends for almost 4 years but recently decided to give a relationship a try because we understand each other very well. so, I trusted her so much that sometimes I even tell me friends about her and how much she loves me. One time a friend said to me " Bakasan Halin Mata ba, sun iya pretending" I thought about what he said but it didn't have much effect in convincing me to believe that because of how I trusted her and loved her. Then something occurred day before yesterday, on Sunday. It was around 11:30pm when we were chatting on WhatsApp, all of the sudden she wasn't responding then I decided to call her and tell her to come online, I then heard she was on another call. It really mad me sad to hear that around that time of the night because I love her so much and I am a jealous type. So, I turned on flight mode on my phone and went to sleep and woke up later at night to check my WhatsApp inbox. I did not see what I was expecting then I went back to sleep again and forgot about everything that occurred. Then in the morning, she sent me good morning message as usual and I went on with the flow. But because she was feeling guilty about it and she knows how jealous I can be on small things, she said my response seems to be a little bit off today, Monday. I told her I am good but she insisted and explained to me why I heard the Call Waiting last night. She even sent me some screenshots of her call log to show me who she was on call with, that it was her elder brother that spoke with her stepmom through her phone. I said okay and told her to just forget about it. She said so many things to calm me down, one of which is "Da ace inayin wannan wayan da tini ka kamani","Dan da zaka dinga kira kaji line busy", "Boyfriend nayi sai na fada maka. Koda a hanya ya ganni .Bana boye maka komai" It all passed after she said this and I believed her to her words and told her to always be truthful and honest with me, that is all I ask from her. She promised to keep that. Then at night on Monday, almost the same thing happened. She sent me message on WhatsApp and I didn't reply the same time as that of Sunday. I was taking my bath at the time and I didn't tell her that I will be right back. I came back after like 20minutes of not being active, she went offline. So, I decided to call her and ask her to come back online that I am back now. Then I heard the call waiting again. I hung up immediately and she called back, I picked up and told her to finish what she was doing and come online when she is done, she said she is done and I said okay then; lets not waste your airtime since we both have data. After she came online, she straight started with and apology; that she is sorry wallahi it is not what I think it is. I only asked her one question " are you still on call with your elder brother today?" she said "No, it was someone else". So, I said okay and refused to reply her. She called and I picked and I asked her if she was lying about what she told me in the afternoon about Trusting me and Telling me the whole truth. she couldn't answer because she was feeling guilty about it. She then tells me that it was her friend that gave her number to the guy some weeks back. I lost my mother 2 weeks ago, so it came to me that she might have had a space to invite someone because I was busy in a grieving moment the past week and I didn't give her much of my time. So, I sleep off on it and thought about it till the next morning, that's today Tuesday. Before I check my inbox, I decided to let everything go and forgive her because i thought who knows it might be me someday in that position and I would want her to forgive me. I opened my inbox and there was her apology message as expected or I should call it letter because I had to press the WhatsApp's "Read More" twice. My response was short and clear that "Sweetest babu komai ya rigada ya wuce. I understand dalilin da yasa maybe baki fada mun ba. Dan Adam ajizi ne, akwai mantuwa da dai sauran su Ki kwantar da hankalin ki, babu abunda zai chanza". After this, she showed concern that maybe I just said it because I am still angry or something. Then I added and said " Idan nace ya wuce shikenan. Idan kikaga na dawo da maganan nan sai dai a wasa ko kuma idan wani abu makamancin sa ya sake faruwa zai sa na tuno dashi". Just to give her assurance that it has passed. Back to the main reason I am posting this here. I need advice on how to go by this issue. I seems to me she is in the process of leaving me but I still love her. I'm not financially stable to rush and marry her at the moment. Should I continue with the relationship or I should break up with her before she does to avoid getting heart broken.

I come across a post on twitter about a lady that is in love with her boyfriend she loved him so much and same to him. they dated for 3yrs before their parents got to know each other and their wedding preparations began. He was from a comfortable home just like she was, both are from middle class families. Not long after their engagement, this guy hustle and also save from his NYCS allowances to make 5boxes for her lefe, but her aunties began to insult him which draw her mother attention that lead them call off that marriage. Remember that this same guy is not reluctant, he have the zeal bcos he loved her, to cut the story short he send a friend to pack the lefe and move on while she is their waiting for more lefe as stupid as she is and her aunties are know were to be found, but my guy move on, as stated in the story written by her, he is happily married and comfortable while she is 32yrs nothing on ground. My sisters pls I take God beg u any man u love and that guy is seriously inlove with u and have one to two things like a business which he can try to handle u, go marry.No condition is permanent, wallahi u ppl can build an empire together and most of our parents made it together. Allah yasa mugane ya hadamu da abokan zama nagari

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Aslm Yan uwana maza d mata yau nazo d wani guziri wanda yake d matukar amfani a gurin mu amma idan anbi mahangar gsky....a cikin guzirina Ina d tambayoyi Wanda bazasu wuce biyu ba... Tambaya ta farko gareku mata..... Yar uwa bude kunnuwanki in miki wata tambaya mana...Shin yar uwa kin taba nazari akan yawan zawarawan d kuke dasu a unguwarku..shin kin taba tunani akan me kawo yawan mutuwar aure...shin kin taba tsayawa koda d minti daya akan hakan......To wlh idan bakyayi ki koya ki zurfafa tunani sbd wannan matsala tana kan kowa amma bazaki gane hakan ba sai idan t faru akan ki Wanda b fata muke ba.... Tambaya ta biyu gareku maza.... Yan uwana maza mune ginshikin aure a wannan zamani kuma mune muke shan wahala Kashi 70 bisa dari na aure wanda wannan wahalar ita ta hanaka ta hanani ta hanamu aure....To wai shin mun taba tunanin dalilin d yasa muke ganin Yan uwanmu maza suke sakin matan su bayan wannan wahalar d muke sha🤔🤔🤔 To wai shin Ina matsalar take...me yake faruwa ne...... ku fito mu tattauna matsalar mu domin mu maganceta tun kafin lokacin muma y riskemu Wanda ba fatan hakan muke ba Allah y tsare..... @BAFFANCY (S)

Assalamu alaikum wai me yasa basa mata fadar gaskiya a abubuwan da suka shafi batun soyayya???

Dan Allah if there's any medicine Either Allura ko kwayoyin da suke Rage Sha'awa a taimaka min. a fadamin na siya na Sha. Likitocin arewaUp over to you, ku prescribing mini 😭😭😭👏

Aslm jama'a barkan mu d wannan rana ta litinin 2 ga watan 1 na sabuwar shekarar 2023, Ina fatan kowa yana yanayi najin dadi a wannan rana Allah yasa haka ameen. Bayan haka zanyi amfani d wannan dama in mika sakon fatan alkhairi na d dukkanin daukacin members d suke cikin arewaup tare d fatan Allah yasa mun shiga wannan sabuwar shekara a sa'a alkhairan d suke cikinta Allah ya hadamu dasu sharrin d yake cikinta Allah y rabamu dasu...masu bukatu na alkhairi Allah y biya musu wanda sukeson aure da wanda suke neman aiki d wanda suke kasuwanci da wanda suke neman gurbin karatu dama wanda suke karatun duk ina rokon Allah ya biya mana bukatun mu gaba daya....

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I literally want to settle but I don’t know y am I finding it difficult to fall in love again, no lies I’m still not over my Ex more than a year I have been struggling with this I really want to get him out of my mind but couldn’t since when we’ve been apart not a single day cames and goes without him crossing my mind, I pray hard everyday just to get rid of that, but still. now it is because I’m not over him or it’s just that banga wanda ya min bane yet? sometimes saina Na danne zuciyata na bawa wani chance but da ya fara min soyayya sai inji wani bacin rai da bakinci yana damuna they will later on release sai su bani space wlhi rayuwa bayamin dadi bcos of this i cries a lot and pray hard Allah ya yayemin 🙏🏻

you don't have to judge me,am seriously scared of getting married.what if I don't meet the right person,what if he doesn't support my career,not white collar job I want own a very big fashion house and academy what he doesn't like me always saying my mind what if doesn't like the fact that I don't smile shyly and always think of everything logically what if he feels I work too hard what if he feels I like money too much (but why do people expect me not to like money I work for) what if he wants a picture perfect lady what if he doesn't like my stubborn self (am very stubborn especially when I want to achieve something) and I hate begging or asking for things am always comfortable with my little things what I become more successful than him and I have alot of insecurities money is one of them I like earning money it gives me a sense of security. I saw a post about a guy complaining about meeting lazy ladies am a hardworking person which most people complain abt but I was scared what if it doesn't work I actually commented on the post.in a nutshell am a lady scared of marriage

Don Allah ina neman shawara. Munyi aure ko sati baayi ba amma mijina ko kunya ta baya ji se ya dinga kallon sex styles iri iri a Bluefilm yana cewa irinsa yake so yayi dani ni kuma kunya nake ji😕 Jiya da rana fa yazo yana wasa da brest dina a parlor na rabu dashi wai sannan yana so na masa goho yana nunan wani BF wai yanda yake so. sex ba dare ake ba? Duk abinda yaga turawa sunayi a bluefilm wai shima se yayi dani Mene abinda zanyi ni bana son iskanci

help a sister plss... wasu irin spices zan hada masu qamshi me dadi that'll drive my man crazy? I used Gino curry, thyme, garlic spice amma gaba daya ni kaina Abincin sai ya min wani iri 🥹... and b wai ban iya abinci ba amma spices din basa min dadi

For over 10 years now.. I don't know why i keep having a crush on Drs. And it's becoming a dream for me to see me one day married to a beautiful, loyal medical Dr. Its also strange that people around me think d moment you married a Dr.. It's because of their money kq aure su... Is anyone having a similar problem am facing??

I'll be 29 years old this month and my greatest desire rite from wen I was 20 years was marriage, but here I'm still no marriage, no job, business is not moving. I'm just standing on stand still please you all should pray for me this year shouldn't pass me by, this year I'll get married, hv good job, business will flushed . Aminn I really need you all to join hands and pray for me please Dan Allah, who knows who's prayer Allah may listen to ! please pray for me please please. jazakallahu khair.

1 me yasa mata kuke tunanin namiji zai iya maki lalurar 50k above ba tare da zaeyi benefiting ba🌚? 2 shin namiji ya taba baki 50k above ba tare da yayi request en wani abu daga gare ki ba 3 shin kin taba haduwa da gayen da yake iya maki lalura( anko, data, kati, shopping 🛍️,) amma bai taba koda rika hannu ki ba

Ladies will always make you feel like cheating on them with a prettier girl doesn't hurt as much as it does with lesser girl. That's not true. Nothing hurts a woman more than cheating on or leaving her for a prettier woman. M Aside the pain of feeling dumped, It makes her feel insecure about herself, Makes her feel she's not good enough. And it hurts because there are physical evidences that the other person is prettier and that means she can't compete. For instance, a guy leaves a slim girl for some lady with big ass, or a lady with big boobs It will hurt because it questions her self esteem. Forget the fake wishes. Nobody wants people who dumps them to find perfection in the new relationship, Somehow, we all secretly hope they miss us, realize our worth and regret their decisions. Not because we wish them harm but we need some form of closure and consolation that we were not a total crap. Why am I even saying this? Okay, Making expensive jokes about your woman's body is an animal character, its rude, highly derogatory. You can't just make a human being feel unattractive because you think you have an opinion and a preference. It's not like you can even create a human being yourself. Making casual insensitive remarks such as " nawao you too slim, orobo, when you go add weight now" etc... I've heard several cases of body shaming in relationships. A lady once told me her boyfriend calls her shapeless whenever they're having an argument 💔 Another lady said her boyfriend threatens to break up unless she adds some weight and ass. 🤦‍♂️ All this and more. Many other ladies have their own different body shaming stories from men they're in a relationship with. This is one of the reasons women are intimidated and are always in competition with other women. They're always trying to improve their bodies because they think what they have is what no man would want. The fat ones want to be slim. The slim ones want to be busty. Sad reality. No one is saying you shouldn't have your spec or the kinda lady you desire. Everyone is worth something. Don't look down on a lady because of her body or face. Women are not perfect, and so men also aren't. It's not cool to body shame anyone at all!!

I think its High time we Start Establishing Schools For Koyan Zaman aure With Islamic Teaching For Both Male And Females. Seriously It Will Help Solve Soo Many Issues That Ruins Homes Wallahi. In The Old Days Parents Use To Coach Thier sons And Daughters Before They Get Them Married Unlike Now.

Am a Nigerian that studied in one of the Arab countries, i like there lifestyles, especially in terms of treating their wives. Am hoping and praying for Nigerian men to upgrade themselves, mostly due to culture alot of the prophet teachings are not being practiced but most Arabs are doing it. And Alot of marriage problems Arises from that Aspect in Nigeria.

Asalamu Alaykum. Wallahi I have a problem. Why is it that men don’t like chubby women? They’ll ask for your number when they see you irin when you go out or something. Then they ghost you. The thing is annoying wallahi. Gaskiya Gashi aure daiii wataran dole ayi ta. Mu kenan we’ll just be seeing all the slim ladies getting married? And they’ll be giving you false hope till you start liking them then they’ll ghost you. Ba dadi wallahi. Asides that most of them kawaiii iskanci ke kawo su. Chop and clean mouth. They’ll want to spoil your life kawaiii. If your spec is slim ladies please go for them, don’t come and act like you like us whereas duk karya ne. Abun yana ci min raii wallahi. Please help me post this I’ll be in the comment section. If there’s any man interested or willing to get to know more about me I’ll be in the comment section please.