First of all many people use soap so that the can get to make their hand very easy and soft to use. what I want to you to put in your mind is that remember what you are doing is not good for your health and you are sinning your god. 1.Stop going to toilet with soap if you can't resist doing it for at least 3 days. 2. put in your mind that, that is your last chance going back to your god 3. put in your mind that you are going to die at any moment especially when trying to do it. 4.Try to avoid social media because most of the time the things you are seeing on social media are the ones that are turning you on. 5. if you can avoid social media delete all your social media app or handles 6. Avoid listening to music coz music is part of the thing that allow Satan to get to your mind and whisper it to you. 7. At least try to listen to Qur'an even once every day before going to toilet especially before taking bath. 8. Try to always Do daily Azkhar morning one and Evening one. 9. If you have bad frnds that are always talking about sex stuff pls avoid them. And insha Allah you'll see changes in your life. And even if it is Zina you are doing pls repent and fear Allah and know that one day we will all go back to him. Thank you sister and Brothers

so there's this guy I've been dating for years muna son juna sosai sai yafara dating friend na thou nasani but kawai Ina kallon su yanxu time da Yayi Ina so Nayi aure sai naji Wallahi I can't marry someone that's dating my friend and ba yanxu zai yi aure ba. There was a time I told him Nifa I have the feelings zan yi aure this year and he was like ko Nayi zan fita na aure shi kuma shi zai iya mun koma mene what I need . So yanxu kuma Wallahi I have few people that wants me with marriage har gida sun zo but Daga nafarawa na miji magana kawai in a month zan ji na sane ka I will stop talking to you haka kawai Duk relationship da zan yi da wani doesn't work ko su fita a Raina ko ha ka kawai su daina kulani and if I asked them why sai suce Wallahi they don't know why sakanin mu bai yi working ba amma ku ma suna sona. Wlh ko irin wani yazo wajena Bbu I don't talk to men as relationship and alhamdulillah I know I'm beautiful and everything someone needs kawai de things just don't work and I want to settle down anytime soon but namiji baya raina and I'm still talking with him my bf. Gashi kullum Ina Cikin yi sallah dare walllahi I don't know what's wrong with me sometimes har Ina tamabayen shi kamun asiri ne Nikam? sai yace bai son maganan nan and yes yana bin malamai so sai dan Ina ya wan ganin su rubutu an Dungula a motorn shi kaman laya ❗️jamaaa ku taimaka mun ko da wani addua ko abun yi pls I'm sure da wani Abu Wallahi.

A wasu rubuce-rubuce na ga wata tayi magana akan samun friends and staying long with them, kuma ni ma I find it hard to make friends and stay long, sai dai hello-hi kawai, ashe I am not alone on the table.

By seeing your pictures, the tears begin to run down my cheeks and I feel a great pain in my heart to think that you will no longer be mine”. How easy was it for you to say that you did not want me in your life anymore? I wish I could do that but I can’t because you were, you still are… and you will always be my life, You promised to come back to me I just hope you will cause am missing you badly 💔 may Allah's qair be with you 🥺🥺

After how many days of marriage did you started missing home

And if you fall in love with someone one day I hope you fall in love with someone whose heart will always remain soft for you... Someone who can be your home, Someone who you can run to when everything is falling apart, Someone who feels like a safe place for you to run away from all the sadness and chaotic thoughts inside you... Life is not always happy, it’s not always smooth, Sometimes it gets dark, And when it does, I hope you find the one who is like a torch for you in the dark, Someone who help you through your struggles and never be the reason for them... I hope you fall in love with someone who cares about your heart and soul.

Am very very disturbed about this, anytime I tell a guy or a lady I only have male friends sai su rika min wani kallo, am worried about it wlh, please is it not normal as a lady? and mostly they are online friends that we gist and laugh together koh haduwa bamu taba yi da wasu ba, wasu kuma once Amma sai a rika min kallon wacce bata da kamun Kai sbda ina da male friends.

Asslm is there anyone in Abuja I can visit just to gist abit before I go home🙏? going home now wil only make me depressed due to stress at work.

so there is this guy I met recently although he hasn't looked at my side yet more like I don't exist to him and he looks so amazing should I make the first move by talking to him first or not? a guy like him tends to be a player sha

Pls As a lady can you marry someone who is younger than you and will your family agree to it?

RAJAB 1-10th ISTIGFARI 3000 kullum 11-30th ISTIGFARI 2000 kullum SHA'BANA 1-10th HAILALA 3000 kullum 11-30th HAILALA 2000 kullum RAMADAN 1-10th SALATI 2000 kullum 11-30th SALATI 3000 kullum Allah Ya sa mu dace

TO ANY LADY READING THIS. THIS IS FOR YOU! Dear Morning Star, the one up on my sky I found you in my dreams when I lay As I slept, your thoughts fell into my thoughts Sunk into the bowels of my stomach. I found crystals of you Whenever I close my eyes, it’s you on my mind I open to see the sun, it’s you I see As your eyes have opened my morning Know you are never asleep in my heart Cheers for being you. Thanks for being awesome.

If you fail to inform, educate and empower the women around you to become wiser and stronger than average, You or some other man will end up preying on them, taking advantage of their weaknesses or just looking down on them. Even if you are too kind a man to prey on or take advantage, You'd subconsciously look down on them because they are uninformed and lack substance. Women can never teach other women enough because most of their lessons are either from a place of pain, fear or doubts. Ofcos as men, You can never teach a woman how to be a woman but you can always teach her how to stand up to a man. Teach your sister, teach your daughter, teach your wife, your girlfriend and your female friends.

Ana karanta karshen Suratul Fathi: "Muhammadurrasulullah....." zuwa karshe kullum safe da yamma sau 1/3/. Sannan a koyawa yara domin albarka na sauka a gidan da ake karantawa. Allah Ya mana albarka

Assalamualaikum warahmatullah! Greetings to you all, please I need clarification on this matter, when I start to know this man I actually don't want my heart to get attached to him so I start to use my mental health defense mechanism over him( kamar in riqa kushe duk abinda ze riqa sa ya burgeni), upon all I did 😢 it resulted into a very hard and deep love which occurs insidiously without my knowledge until the very last then I realized what I'm going through, whenever he is talked about or when I hear his voice or heard his name called koda kuwa bashi ake nufiba my heartbeat increases sossai to the extend na koda akwai mutum a kusa dani can hear it, every time da zamuyi phone call I feel distressed, anxious and restless and this happened all the time Idan har zamuyi magana, I feel like kamar I don't feel jealous akanshi though he is married with kids, I love his wives sossai sossai Allah har ina mamakin hakan talkless of his children I feel I can sacrifices many things for them, Allah y sakamun qaunarsu sossai, so I don't feel anything like jealous akan familynshi, I like everyone within his cycle I like whoever like him, some times I even give his number to his crush just because she likes him so inaso ko samun damar magana dashi ze sanyata farin ciki NB: I know cewa ba kulata zeyiba cause I almost know his lifestyle but just answering the call can make her happy I know. I know I have made many sacrifices for this love and I couldn't listen to anyone for six good years just nurturing this love, we are not that close he never see me but he know me duk da ba sossai ba but partially dai we communicate, almost everything in my phone is about him or related to him and his family, almost everyone who knows me knows about him, all my prayers are mostly on him and his family. My feelings are getting hard these days, I know he is a very busy person kuma ina bashi uzuri but kawai idan mukayi kwanuka ba magana, be picking call dina ko baya replying SMS dina se kawai nariqa jin serious headache, tachycardia (increase heart beat beyond normal), kawai se inriqa kuka(crying) at this point se inriqa ambaton Allah slowly kafin in fara karanta Qur'ani shine Zan samu relief but bazanji haushinshiba kuma bawai zanyi fushi bane I will try next time ko ze daga call din. This is actually what I'm going through, though I can't say it all but these are some of my feelings please what type of love do you think is this? do I truly love him or is just obsessions?

Do women worry about their performance in bed 🛏️or they just blame men 🙄🙄🙄🙄 kawai laifin Maza suke gani and be complaining he can't satisfy me Bla Bla Bla is annoying

Hi, how you guys doing 😊 please help and follow my Instagram account it's a school project and it's 40% of my assessment. Help and follow please 🙏 Jazakallah khair lets__discuss__sex__education here is my username!

Marriage is Good, but the obsession just gets on my Nerves. You will see a girl of 22yrs or there about complaining that she is worried for not having a boyfriend, like WTF. You will see many all around having relationship and boyfriend issues. WHY WHY WHY? I am a male approaching 30s and have never been in any relationship, i am focused on my work and career, i am not even interested in that thing, and it really gets on my nerves seeing women fall into this hallow hole of delusion. If you don't have a boyfriend, so what?? get a life and do something please and don't be stuck. I know the post sounds aggressive its really just getting on my Nerves. All they want to achieve is Aure, Aure, Aure, shikenan nothing on the other side. Please know that there is more to life!!!

what are the things that will match your mental health, your vibe's, what your wishing your soulmate to be / have....

Allah ya halicceni mace mai son taimako ba yabon kai ba kowa ya shaida ni kaina nasani bayan zuciyar mace da aka sani nada rauni inajin nawa daban ne i met with this guy 3yrs ago bashida ko sisi haka yake jalauta rayuwar sa mun hadu ya rako abokin shi wajena yana sona bayan exchanging contacts sai dayan friend din nashi ya ce masa wai bazai iya ba yaga Alamu na ba yar talakawa bace irinshi baze iya ba bai boye min kmai ba cewar shi yana sona,so kaman wasa mun fara dating for long we get to know things about each other har nagano daga secondary schl bai kara gaba saboda hidimomin rayuwa na tanbaye shi yana son cigaba da karatu yace min yanaso har course din da yake son karanta at that time yamin calculating komai yakama 50k i send 200k to that guy instead ya siya kayan abinci ya ajiye har ya fara gane kan makaranta tafiya tai tafiya sai ya fara min complaining kan yagaji da aikin da yake yi baze iya daukar nauyi na ba da sanar da yake i told him yagama karatun shi tsaf my Da will find a better job for him sai yace again ya gaji da ni ke daukar responsibilities din shi bayan shike namiji in da zai samu jari me tsoka haan ni me masoyi. na samu Mamee nace ta taimakawa wasu marayu baban su ya mutu basu da yadda zasuyi na dai harhada abun da nasan zuciyarta zata karaya ta bada 500k asasu makaranta wai asiya musu kayan abinci abawa maman su jari haka na kara samun daddy shima na shirga masa karya ya bayar na hada da duk wani abu da nake dashi a acct na tura masa abun takaici few weeks da haka sai ya fara min attitudes da ban san shi dashi ba ada in muna waya wai yagaji da izzar da shan kanshin da nake and normally thats the way i talk i can't change it Aa abu yana ta gaba yazo wai ance masa yawancin yayan masu kudi yan iska ne duk na kawar da idona akai duk ta inda ya bullo sai na nuna ba komai ni a wajena zan gyara daga baya diifff ya dena kirana a waya to cut the story short muka rabu da shi ba tare da dalili ba yamin long essay kamar wanda nkeyi yanzu😂 he want a break na ko cemi shi Allah sa shi yafi Alkhairi mun rabu for about a yr and a half na hadu da wani again so responsible man yadda de ake so and hes well known muna dating so munje kai masa visit a new Mall din daya bude to my shock naga Ex dina shine kamr me gadin wajen ne don da uniform na security din wajen naganshi shima ya ganni so he start spreeding rumors a wajen ai matan da boss zai aura tsohuwar budurwar shi ce kuma wai we an affair together ba adadi har zance yaje kunnan shi fience din nawa i don't know abunda yake nema dani arayuwa🥺 ban san me na masa har haka ba ban san ya ya samo new contact dina ba yake treatening dina wai na rabu da current boyfriend dina kuma ko naki ko naso bazan Auri kowa ba sai shi harda tabbaci yake bni an kawo kudi da lefe ending next mnth bikina shi kuma wanda zan aura na kasa gane kanshi dan Allah help me out kaina ya kulle daga taimako a rayuwa shiknn ya zama mtsl🥺