Aslm guys. I desperately want to knw how ppl cope after heartbreak. my problem is i love hard, nd its not funny. y do our hearts gets broken again nd again, what should we start doing to avoid dat. y is it dat everytime at first it ill seems genuine nd den wen uve fallen hard everything will fall upside down.😭😭😭😭 is it dat some ppl re in fr relationship just to toy with ur hrt, hve some fun nd leave or watt. like wat do u gain in being a player, what ill it cost u to just love someone without hurting. I'm so tired of getting into relationship again wllh, please guys lets reduce dis yaudara of a tyn. thank you.

Don't marry because of Sex. Don't marry because you are getting Old. Don't marry because you are of Age. Don't marry because you are Lonely. Don't marry because you need someone to support you Financially. Don't marry because you mistakenly got Pregnant for him. Don't marry because you don't want to lose the Person. Don't marry because of family Pressures. Don't marry because you like the Idea of Marriage. Don't marry because of Pity or out of Pity. Don't marry because of Tribe. Don't marry because you admire of wedding Gown you see. Don't marry because you love kids. Don't marry because all your friends are getting Married. Don't marry because of Physical/ Academic Qualifications. But, marry because you are ready to complete half our your Deen and the Sunnah of the Prophet S.A.W. Marry because you want to fulfil Destiny. I pray to Allah Almighty to give the best life partner to as many who truly desire to marry with the right Motives in Allah SWT. Ameen.♥️

Abuja people how is the traffic by your side how u dey manage cope for this traffic especially those staying along express ways

Assalamu alaikum everyone, ykk,y gd?dafatan kowa yana lpia?so dama cewa nai as ramadhan its approaching ina matan gdn suke,why don't you recommends some iftar foods so that we can choose from them and make our timetable, you know ramadhan its all about the togetherness we need healthy and delicious food to energized us to worship our lord,properly. May we reached ramadhan in good health

Dan Allah meyasa Yan Unguwa basu son Fadar Abun Alkhairi akan Yan Nata idan anzo Neman Auren Mu..Especially idan sunga Kana Karatu 💔😞🤦🏻‍♀️Shike nan Dan Muna zuwa Makaranta munyi Laifi 💔

Have uh cried, cried and cried when he/she served uh breakfast?? innalillahi, she served me a very hot breakfast🥺💔😭

na kasanche inada neighbor yana Sona tin ina yarinya, se na girma lkchin y yayi sure,yanada yara 2,still y Nemo number n yache yana Sona, to muna tare kullum Yana chemun love din danake nuna Masa yayi kadan,nikuma Naga nml Ina iya kokarina,chart ma wae romantic ykeso,ko y rinka chewa xeyimun hot kiss,Kuma wae ah haka so yake y aureni, idan muna waya Yana gayamum manyan kalamae na masu aure Wanda suke sirrine ,nkma kunnena baya iya dauka, n rasa me ykemun dadi,nkma banason n runka Jin batsa ko karanta batsa, Dan ALLAH so yakemun n tsakani da ALLAH?

Assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullaahi. First of all, thank you for that question sister. And thank you for being vocal about the subject. I'm a guy by the way. Second of all, yes, after good character, financial stability and tsoron Allah, I hate the fact that most ladies and unfortunately some guys even, judge us because we are vocal about our physical qualities or preferences in a lady, when after all, everyone amongst us has got it. Despite the fact that we men are overwhelmingly visual creatures, idan muka kasance vocal about it, se a fara judging din ka ana maka kallon ko "dan iska" ko "mara mutunci" ko "womanizer" ko "playboy" ko wanda baze kasance me leash ba idan yayi aure, and anything and everything in between. Bayan kuma kowa yana da abinda yake burge shi pertaining physical na partner. That's sheer "hypocrisy" as someone mentioned in the original post. Thank you first commenter for outrightly mentioning yours is/are "boobs and a curvy shape". Ni ma haka, coupled with chubby and plumpy figure. And anyone that accuses me of probable infidelity or unfaithfulness, well, can ta matse maka/miki. You won't make me stop admiring and being vocal to who I find physically appealing. Peace ✌🏽 🕊️

ina neman shawarar ku yan uwa munada wani gang mu 5 duk macen da muka nema kowa a cikin mu sai yayi iskanci da ita ni yanxu inaso na rabu dasu domin gina sabuwar rayuwa saboda kullin muna wannan hotel din gobe muna can abin yayi yawa sosai matsalar shine sana'ar mu daya YouTube mukeyi 24/7 muna tare

less talk about it

By Allah, i find it hard to trust again, because it hurt over & over again, infact i dont even fell the love again, i just have to zero my mind & keep praying, because i know if the right time comes then it will work out with ease In Sha Allah. I belive everything happens by Allah will & what meant to be yours will always be. people saying "I LOVE YOU" without feeling it just fake feelings to ruin peoples mental health, don't you know that fragile people love with their soul deeply, it never easy After creating a bond & making lot of promises & later on betray the soul😔. Tho Alhamdulillah Allah does not burden a soul beyound that it can carry, buh guys i feel we can do better Ok, right from day 1 you all know what you want, if he/she is not upto your standard na tsarin aure, just let it be 🙅🙅dont play on & later ruin the persons mental health.

Most people when asked questions regarding why their previous relationship didn't work they tend to put the blame on their exes. But if we are going to be honest with ourselves we also had a part to play. What mistakes did you make in your previous relationship that you'll like to amend if another person comes your way ?

slm,how long have you been on the app?whats your story,lets hear to encourage others

Let's talk about spec, apart from the good character, financial stability and tsoron Allah, what are those physical qualities that always captures your attention when looking for a partner? Mine is Abs and Beard

oya you guys tell us your love language. mine is cuddles and hugs 🤭

It took me a long time to realize that not everything in life is meant to be a beautiful story. Not every person we feel something deep and moving with is meant to make a home within us, is meant to be a forever. Sometimes, people come into our lives to teach us how to love; and sometimes, people come into our lives to teach us how not to love. How not to settle, how not to shrink ourselves ever again. Yes, sometimes people leave but that's okay, because their lessons always stay, and that is what matters. That is what remains.

i don't have friends the ones I have are not true friends at all like I have this girl in school Muna department daya but she has a true friend in another department not me. do after lectures she'll be looking for excuses to avoid me just to meet that other one I want to have friends but is like no one likes me please is there anyone that doesn't have friends 😭

"When we allow our selves to fail,we also give our selves permission to succeed" May we all succeed in life.

Anyone here? i'm bored.

assalamu alaykum guys Fatan kuna lfy pls ina neman shawaranku dan Allah🙏🙏 nakasance ina soyayya da wani guy tun 2015 muke tare mukayi breakup 2017 muka sake shiryawa 2019 again muka sakeyin breakup 2021 still muka sake shiryawa yanxu haka muna tare muna zaman lfy yanxu haka, duk gidansu sun sanni haka Nima gidanmu sun sanshi amma ni abunda yake bani mamaki nake wondering all the time shine duk breakup din nan da mukayi ba fada mukeyi ba haka Kawai sainaga mundena yiwa juna magana ba chat ba waya haka kawai sai bayan 2yrs ko 1yr sai musake shiryawa yanxu haka munkai 7yrs tundaga fara soyayyarmu har zuwa yanxu sai acikin kwanakin nan ne ya faramin maganar aure kuma wllh deep down in me ina sanshi kuma shima inada yakinin yana sona amma ina tsoron kar sai nazo nayi accepting din aurenshi yasake guduwa tunda har akwai wata babe dinshi tana ta gayawa mutane wai aure zasuyi danayi masa magana sai yacemin wllh shi yadade da breakup da yarinyar amma har yanxu naga yarinyar tana posting dinshi a Tiktok danayi masa magana akan posting din da yarinyar takeyi sai yacemin zai mata magana bayan 2days nashiga page dinta a Tiktok sai naga duk ta cire posting din gaba daya, secondly bashida male friends saidai female friends sunkai 30 female friends dinsa wllh Idan yazo hira sai naga sunata kiranshi Idan yaki dauka sai suyi ta masa messages akan yaki daukar wayarsu, pls help a sister🥺🙏