My best friend is getting married and muna shirye shirye but am feeling bad ace muna tare ban bata komai ba although auren yazo a kurarren time. Am suggesting maybe irin frame dinnan na zamani da akeyi or please just suggest for me auren December ending ne please I will be in d comment section so I can decide and get it on time Thank you all

Relationships of nowadays is terrifying honestly, abin ya koma kamar dai Maza sune Mata and Matan kuma Sun zama Maza. After being Matched, they expect the girls to make the moves, the calls, the text and everything. Not only that, what's so annoying is that if you didn't call or text for two days or so, they won't bother to check on you. Like seriously, and you guys are somehow planing to become life partners. Indeed! Allah is the best planner, but at least show some care for the time been before destiny decide on you two. There's no Relationship without communication, communicate to understand each other, if you're not interested tell her please and don't waste her time. Some will be claiming busy busy. Hello! Who's not busy in this life. Everyone in one way or the other is busy, just that there are very important things in life da dole yana buqatar little time out of your busy schedules. It is seriously hurting me wallahi, just because a girl comes to a platform seeking for a partner doesn't makes her unworthy, there are several situations as to why a girl despite the shyness comes out boldly looking for a husband. And that doesn't give you(guys) the audacity to disrespect her or even look down on her. Walahi mace na da daraja da qima so show some respect. I'm currently matched with a guy, not from this platform though. The guy seems smart, intelligent, Gentle, Calm and Religious. He's open to some extent and realistic. And honestly that's what attracted me to him coz irin qualities din nake so a wajen namiji kenan, amma shi matsalar shi sai ku kwana fiye da uku ma baku ji daga juna ba. Bani da much expectations amma inaga I can't be with someone da kamar ma be damu dani ba, I can't be with someone that can't check on me within 24hrs or so, I want someone caring enough. I'm just praying Allah ya mana zabin alkhairi daga ni har shi amma gaskiya bana jin dadin yadda yakeyi, maybe ko don ba shi ya ganni yace yana So ba, Wallahu A'alam. I think is just better to wait for Love find you on your doorstep. Sabida yadda Guys sukeyi nowadays is discouraging. I think will just focus on my career and other life activities dina na manta da wani maganar Aure, lokacin Mutum idan yayi ko a Ina yake Allah zai hada shi da rabon shi. Allah ubangiji ya hada kowa da abokin\abokiyar zama nagari, wadan da zasu zama hasken idanuwar mu.

Assalamualykum brothers and sisters,people just go into marriage without considering the full meaning of love.They are just like “I wanna marry him/her because she/he is beautiful/handsome,I wanna marry him/her because we love each other and so on “I’m not saying don’t marry because of those reasons but you should include “PEACE” in it. Beauty,Care,attention,respect,peace are all part of love. now imagine removing a piece from it,does it make it complete now??? No! you can love someone without respecting or caring or for that person and if you don’t care or respect the so called loved one you won’t have peace and if there’s no peace..... love isn’t there .....! that’s just it when you come to your spouse and you don’t feel that stress and tension going down then I’m sorry love isn’t there my brothers and sisters maybe you might think that the love is there but it’s not even the prophet saw said “make peace amongst yourselves “ so peace is the beginning.... this is your starting point dear your partner should be you comfort zone not when ka Zo kusa da Wanda kake so,ka ji wani depression yakama ka 😂 the thing makes me laugh so yanzu ace Allah ya hada ku zaman aure Baka San Ta ba ita ma bata San ka ba but da a kayi auren akwai kwanchiyan hankali wlh daga ba so zai shigo Cikin alamarin,it’s kinda funny tho... daga an maka abu a waje sai ka tattaro yan matan kafafuwan ka kazo yajen madam ,koh kuma kin je gida sistern ki koh elder bro din ki ya batamiki rai za a lokacin saki tuna cewa kina da gida bari ki je wirin mijin ki ya nan shi kadai ba kowa 😂 all these happen when ther is peace and ba fadina ba ne it’s just a fact “ when there is peace there is love “

toh Allah gamu gareka another december without mother inlaw 😂 Allah ka shiga lamarin mu Allah kasa wata december tazo da Mother inlaw🙏

Regarding that post about stars, hmmm shirk tayi yawo Allah ubangiji ya sa mufi karfin xuciyar mu,from the day you start going to that malams with big bubu sitting on the mat wollah you have become nothing but useless,This very thing once happened to me,I have dated this guy for almost 5yrs since he was in school har time en daya gama school and his service,duk family nasa sun sanni haka nawa sunsanshi mutanen nan basu tashi cewa niba Alkhairi ce agaresa ba wai seda akayi musu maganar aure shine his mom and his grandma said that niba Alkhairi bace agaresa sunje wajan wani malami ya duba musu ende akayi auranmu to babu abunda xefaru face tashin hankali da talauci,haka munaji muna gani suka rabamu so wollah peoples mufarka etafa axabar ubangiji da ake fada ba karya bane akwaita amma mutane mun manta abunda yakawomu duniya mun bige dason duniya ba aiki se xuwa gurin bokaye da yan tsibbu munayin shirka So wait people with this attitude of xuwa gurin boka why not sudinga ganawa da ubangiji?Allah de shi kyauta sukuma masuyi ubangiji ya basu ikon tuba cikin gaggawa

I've been wanting to say for a long time now,yes most women want men that are rich but not all are the same some of us just want someone that can continue feeding us like we've been fed,clothed like we've been clothed and all the basic things we could get from our father's house. But at the same time the men only want ladies that are beautiful,shikenan idan mace ba kyau ne gare ta ba she's not worth being loved,shikenan mu matan da we're not pretty and beautiful we don't deserved to be loved ? Remember the prophet SAW said you should marry a woman because of her wealth,beauty and family background and lastly the best of is when you marry her for her deen amma ina most mazan yanzu go for the other 3,wallahi beauty is not all there is to a woman,us too the not so beautiful women deserved to be loved!!!

I've been wanting to hear ppls opinion on "star" I mean men now check the star of the lady they intend to marry before proposing to her just because they want to marry someone who would add up to their wealth, is it halal? I mean is there nothing wrong In that? my uncle was told to marry a fulani girl with a particular name mentioned that if he marries her his going to be more wealthy and that's how my uncle went in search of fulani babe o 😂 all the stress he went through it wasn't easy he had to go to the village it wasn't easy at all and when he got what he was looking for they stared dating and blessings were just coming his way wlhi

can u marry someone u ar not comfortable with when he is around?

Mun fara dating da wannan guy din 2yrs back. yana so na kaman ran shi nima haka 🥺 matsalar he's too young and not capable of marriage (26 yrs, 300lvl) Amma yana iya bakin qoqarin shi to settle down with me in a few years. su kuma a gida an fara matsamun Akan lale na rabu dashi na rige serious one wanda ya shirya aure a yanzun. rayuwan duniya duk yanda nike san namiji haka wannan guy din yike. yana mun sanda bema komai a duniyar nan. rabuwa dashi kamar tarwatsa rayuwar shi ne💔and my parents want me to get married nan da ba dadewa ba. honestly I don't know what to do. I need your advice please

I am writing on behalf of my cousin, she is married with 4kids and thing have been really bad for her, she has a co wife, she's from the north, her husband has been emotionally torturing he even asked her to drop out of school (NCE) or else he going to divorce which she had to because her own family members remaining cant afford to take her in because she's an orphan, mind you her co wife is currently doing her master's through out this week she have been calling me crying and really depressed, she got pregnant few month ago and he didn't even care now she had a missed miscarriage which needs evacuation but said he doesn't even have money for that it's been days she's bleeding and in pains Am still a student I don't even have money to assist her, gonna talk to my siblings to gather something for her for the hospital Please is there any online stuff she can learn and start doing to earn even if it's a little so it can keep her mind off what's she's really going through

We Had a Misunderstanding With My Ex Which Is Almost a Normal Thing In Any Relationship. I Reach Out to Her After i Have Calm Down But She Refused to pik the Call And It Lead to Break Up... Bcs I Call Her Through Out the month But Ina Bada A week Interval Before i Call Back.... So After some Months am Struggling to get over Her Then i meet Her frnds They Told me She is Just Angry But She Still Loves me. To cut the story Short.. Munyi Magana da Ita and Na bata Hakurin what Happened nd Itama ta ban Hakuri. But Bamu Koma Dating Bah..She Said She Need Time To think.and She requested Kar In kirata or text her . I Guess She is not interested in me Ne.. So Am Doing All I Can To get over The constant Thinking of her that Is Buggin me bt No Progress .... Babu Abunda Banyi bah.. Adua Babu adadi, Azumi, Sallan Dare istikhara. Adua Kala kala.... But Babu Abunda ya chanza... Har Haushin kaina nake. I Don't Even know what to do...

I need your advise please i have boyfriend but yafiya fada ga rashin fahimta da zargi Abu kadan sai fada tun Ina shanyewa idan yanayi bana beye masa har na fara fadan abinda yake baya kyauta to cut the story dai inajin a haduwar mu 3yrs munyi fda yafi a irga gashe I'm a health worker kunsa yadda muamalar mu yake bazae yuyu ace duk Mata ne babu maza ba to KO waya ya kira yaji muryan wane yana magana yata masifa knn Shifa baya san harka DA maza bla bla bla ni kuma nagaji da halinsa damukayi fada be kira ne ba nima ban kuma kiranshi ba to ynx yana san dawowa ni kuma gaba daya ya fita a raina sbd a yadda ya nuna baxai iya hkr da yadda nake ba ga zargi shine abinda yafi damuna ma to ni abinda nake hanguwa tun ynx bama zaman lpy balle ace munyi aure dan Allah a ganin ku idan na aure shi zamu zauna lpy kuma wlh Ina yin daidai gwargwado dan ganin na kyautata alakata tsanina da mazan da muke aiki tare sbd ni muslmace naje islamiyya ko ince Ina kan zuwa ma nasan daidai nasan ba daidai b

How I wish women will learn to keep kishi aside and embrace Love and peace. Pure Love n peaceful marriage is d must beautiful thing in marriage. Learn how to communicate, tolerate n over look some of ur sister's n husband's fault. The husband should try to show harness in everything he does. May Allah fill our hrts with Love n Peace❤❤

is true love still existing or not?😭

can you imagine wata neighbour din mu ta mun massage wai zata hadani da wani former governor. abun ya bani tsoro! dana ce mata ba haka nake ba.shine wai ai gaisawa kawai zamuyi imagine. INNALILAHI Allah yasa mufi karfin zuciyan mu

please does anyone have a PPA For a Corp member who left Camp last. it's very difficult and draining here in Abuj

how is the long distance relationship going, lna da saurayi da yake karatu a Dubai we always chat and make calls, but the problem is ni inaso naganshi a zahiri,please ni kadai ce nake jin haka kodai kowa haka yake ji? is it okay for me to complain about it because it's getting to 2yrs

Na kasance Ina da samari amma wanda nafi so he's a graduate kuma har MSc yayi but he's jobless aiki shiru sauran kuma suna da rufin asiri suna min maganar aure na rasa ya zanyi shi wancan nake so but shi wannan dake sona yana da mata da yara 2 kuma tsakani da Allah yana sona please ya kuke ganin zanyi should I inform them cewar wanda ya shirya ya turo ayi magana saboda su kusan 5 ne 2 jobless ne

Assalamu alaikum good morning fam. I think I have finally found the one Alhamdulillah 🤗 on this platform. I will be traveling within the month to meet her and her parent in sha Allah. kindly tell me the best gift possible to give her from 50k to 100k biquddratillah... thank you fam.

as salam alaikum everyone good morning Fatan kowa lafiya kalau yake? I lost my mom when I was 14yrs old so my dad took me to my grandmas place to stay and finish my secondary school it was at that period that he got married again, I finished my secondary school and went back to my dad and got admission in a university. my stepmom have some very bad characters wallahi My stepmother steals a lot and my dad know this but baya Cewa komai, xan siya abu in ajiye a dakina Sai in na fita na dawo wlh baxan ganshi ba har ya Kai ga in xan tafi school I pack almost all my stuff inside my backpack and take to school everyday. I got tired and bought a padlock 🔐 but she still gets into my room. babana ya bata jari sau nawa Amman wlh cinye kudin take Sai ya daina bata. then we moved to another place Alhamdulillah the door of my room is much better here. last few months babana yayi noman wake kuma Alhamdulillah Allah ya albarkace shi mun samu wake da yawa my dad was planning to use it during Ramadan Amman wlh matan nan ta kwashe duka ta siyar dan ba komai Sai bawon waken, babana ya kirani yake nuna min wlh kamar ya fashe da kuka yake Cewa Wai wannan wacce irin mata ce Amman kuma baya confronting dinta kamar yana jin tsoron ta. family dinsa sunce masa ya qara aure Amman bai ce komai ba cos Kullum wlh babana cikin bakin ciki yake. he even bought 2 gallons of groundnut oil and a gallon of red oil for her to be selling wallahi AllAh ba oil din ba kudin. last week kuma bata nan yaje dakin ta Namen wani abu kawai Sai yaga shinkafa cike a wani tukunya ta boye shi. she doesn't do anything to support my dad at all, kawai Kullum cikin tunani yake. kuma the problem is baya confronting dinta at all kamar tsoron ta yake. I started selling zobo last few months Alhamdulillah ina samun kasuwa one day kawai naxo na hada zobon na saka sugar and other flavor kawai Sai nace let me test it inji koh yaji sugar wlh har da gishiri a ciki. na dauka koh ni na saka gishiri instead of sugar Amman komai normal neh Sai na tuna ashe na dafa zobon a kitchen kuma na bar ta a kitchen din wlh haka nayi asara Ranar nan Abun yamin ciwo. another problem is Kullum da daddare in babana ya fita Sai ita ma ta fita taje tayi kamar 2hrs a wajen Kullum wlh Sai na fada wa elder sister na tace min Wai watarana in bita in ga inda take xuwa koh kuma in kira baban mu ya dawo gida.. yanxu ni ban san yadda xan taimaki babana ba I don't like seeing him sad 😔 every time cikin tunani cos of her...