basically it’s the reason that took both to the marriage some it’s for desire while some it’s they built d marriage on lies they don’t think it’s a journey for life

most of the time divorce occur due lack of knowledge of marriage. marriage it's self is an institution,so you can't go into marriage blindly and except a positive results for example when u want to start of a business u need knowledge of that business so as marriage. secondly the issue of not taking marriage as an act of ibadat(worship) when u put in mind that marriage is an act of ibadat probably when you want to do any you will put Allah first knowing that Allah is watching you & I will ask you in the day of judgement how you go about it. Thirdly , taking capitalism and materialistic into marriage from both sides, the male & the female, for the ladies that I will not marry any one except he has a house,. car, or a ready-made, thinking of if I marry a poor what can he offer for forgetting that all our future are in the hand of Allah and he can change anything at the time he likes. and from the men site they considering a lady from financial background irrespective of her behaviour. lastly in every action there is intention. Allah knows your intention either good or bad, we should do everything with good intentions and asked for Allah help..

Ni what I have on mind can't typed sai dai voice, a dan shekaruna na fahimci abubuwa da yawa, nasan wani da tsakanin bikinmu 2 months amma yanzun anyi saki 2, a cikin shekarun da basu wuce 3 ba. Ni ma nasan ba wayona ne ko iya rikon mace ba, Raamar Allah ce

oga are you sure you read the last paragraph 🙄🙄

I did read, amma I won't abide by that one ooo😂😂 a. matsayina na dan kasa-na-gari, kuma wakilin Hausawan duniya🤸🤸

Well. I guess there are many things ppl are not getting ryt wen it comes to marraige.....nd it will oy get worse bcus we are not ready to learn,make sacrifices, tolerate ..etc....May Allah help us though

Some of the major causes of divorce in Arewa community are. The issue of infidelity: before and after marriage, some claim that they've never been involve with anyone, but after marriage you see something contrary, daga nan trust issue comes in, the thought of abubuwa nawa naka boye min will start setting in.......remember the story that was shared last week. She's married but still in relationship with someone The lack of communication: zaman tare require excellent communication, openness and failing to do so quickly can result in dissatisfaction and anger on both sides, which negatively affects the marriage in all respects. Lack of love: Every relationship, including marriage, needs to have love.but majorly mist if the marriages now da ake is just for the glamour of the wedding, some want to get married because wace tayi, I'm approaching 30, an masa min a gida na fito da miji, koma waye zan aura I'll love him/ her later not knowing that they're things in marriage that it's only love that will make you do it. Lack of mental preparation: most are putting more energy on how to have a big wedding instead preparing for the main journey financial, spiritual, and bodily preparedness falls short. In a marriage, a lot of unexpected things might happen. Your mental readiness will alert you to be on the lookout for the unexpected and nothing will catch you off guard. Unforgiveness: dama shi aure zaman hakuri ne when one partner has vowed in his or her heart never to pardon the other for an error made, an offence committed, or injustice committed, they are unable to continue living happily together. Unforgiveness generates grief and resentment, which develops wickedness and hatred. This is the explanation for why partners are murdered by their spouses I guess you all remember the case of Maryam Sanda. Without forgiveness, nothing and no one can endure in any marriage. Domestic Abuse: once someone come with big car or comes from a rich family shikenan bincike ya tsaya a nan, In kaji ana maganan bincike this days toh baka da komai ne, Dan shaye shaye ne Oho, yar Shaye shaye ne Oho and silently most of our youths are into drugs ba'a ma dauke shi a bakin komai ba some on this platform are also a culprit am a we aren't ready for this discussion

this is a total break down seriously thank you so much mr bulama I really learn a lot both the ones I nvr though of thank you

Sai dakai wakilin hausawan duniya😂😂😂😂💔

Yawwa mutanenmu na Amana😂😂

Ameen u say it all brother

honestly speaking lately youngster marry because some all my friends are married am the only one, or he's ready , for the desires family or social pressures and many more. people forget there's life after the fancy buggy events, after the i love you , after the date nights, the desires, Beauty, money, power etc. we forget patience, sacrifice, tranquility togetherness, rollercoaster daily , the ups the downs the practice of the prophets life with his family and all. Allah yasa mudace