Salaam, I'm kindly requesting anyone that comes across this post to say a du'a for me. We are trying to take the important step in our relationship but his parent are against it, the reason being that basu son auran nesa. Please say a prayer may Allah soften their hearts su amince.

like why on earth will you be doing this we all know why we are here and u guys keep on doing silly thing for crying out if u are not here for a serious something back offf nah ni Wlh har nagaji

Dan Allaah maza idan ku kace "Mezan samu" or " Anything for me" me kuke nufi ?? Because I really don't know how to answer this question 😂 It was even recently that I found out if a guy says "Ki hada ni da wata cikin qawayen ki kamar ki" They are hinting that they want you!! 😅😂 so i'm quite confused🤭

I just want to know if being an educated woman there's something we do that's a turn off for men, or maybe I'm not meeting the right men

Aslm Yan uwa barkanmu d wannan lokaci d fatan kowa yana lafiya Allah yasa haka ameen... Kamar kullum nakune BAFFANCY ke muku sallama irin t addinin Islam.... Yauma kamar yanda aka saba nazo d tsaraba wacce take Jan hankali akan Yan uwa mata Wanda yau insha Allah akansu zanyi magana... Bayan haka yau maganata zanyita akan irin abubwan d suke faruwa a wannan lokaci d wasu akidu d Yan uwa mata suka dauka na rashin kulawa d samarin su wanda hakan yakansa samari cikin yanayi na rashin jin dadi matuka....A har kullum fatana shine karkato d Jan hankalin mu wajan samun maslaha a wannan al'umma tamu.... Mata ku sani muma maza muna d zuciya kamar yanda kuke d ita kuma muma muna bukatar kulawar ku d yabo dg gare d sakonni n tunawa damu da kira a kowanne lokaci sbd yana farantawa zuciyoyin mu tsakani d Allah... Mata me yasa kuke chakulatin bangaron wajan tunawa damu Dan Allah ku sani fa zuciyar d takeso n gsky wasu fulogai wanda zasu taimaka mata wajan kaddamar d wannan soyayya tata wato kulawarku....... Daga karshe Ina Kira gareku mata muma maza muna d yanci idan anyi mana muzo mu fada amma sbd ku bakinku yafi namu idan ba muyi muku ba kunfi kowa korafi akan hakan...to gsky ku sani muma muna so adinga yi mana eheeeee😎😎😎

Slm ma'am 🙏 please I just need an advice am 22yrs , student in my finals ,never been lucky when it's. Comes to relationship,the highest is 2 month den we done ,am still intact never had sex before,when I give them the condition of no sex ,at first they tend to comply then later on switch off,never been loved and cared for before,all I ever asked for is to feel what it means to be truly in love, don't know if am cursed or probably am the problem,am just so confused 💯

Please am in search of a good makeup artist here in sokoto tomorrow if possible give her IG handle

What's your suggestion? 🤔

I’m really depressed and at the verge of committing sucide,I need help,prayers and advice I and my family have been going through a lot of trials,it’s not been easy and we’re literally running into deep debts and my mum has been thinking badly since after she got duped,everything is not aligning I just graduated and we can’t even afford my convocation fee( I have evidences to prove this),I’m not lazy! I try doing things and even business but it’s really slow,please my family need your prayers and help please!! I’m literally tired of everything walahi

I mean can I marry someone I am not inlove with. wanda zai aure ni shi yana sona amma wlhi ni bana jin sonshi a raina though bamu fi 2 to 3 months ba yanzu shi yanaso ya turo ayi maganan aure amma na kasa bashi baki saboda bana son ayi abinda zai sani damuwa. please a piece of advice 😩🙏🏻

Salam Yan uwa Am writing these with a heavy heart, ba jayaya nake da kowa ba ko hadisi ko malamai ba but please why is it that it's always a lady who has to face the consequences,like I don't understand, whenever a lady does something wrong it will affect her till eternity but a guy it will be forgotten within a week. first let's talk about having affairs before marriage,we all know is a sin but in Islam and Christianity,ama anayi,Kuma mace da namiji ne suke yi tare ama saikaji ance ai yar iska ko shi an ce Dan isakan da yayi aure shikenan ama ita kowa da tayi aure instead ama ta fatan Alkhairi no sai an fara Allah yasa ta zauna yanda ta saba da maza hmmmm,like why is she not a human being,still idan anzo niman aurenta saikaji ai bata da tarbiya,Yar iska ce,tana bin maza,and so on,ama namiji ko Dan iskan ne sai ace ai idan aka sama mashi mace Mai hankali zata zama silan shiriyan shi 🙄wato ita bazai zama silan shiriyan ta ba koh? whose fault is all these?

pls I need your advice, akwai Wanda akeson hadan dashi a family namu nikuma yamin but mastalan shine kafin manya su shiga mgnn wata sistern mom Dina(Yar baffan mamana kenan) taxa gaya ta fadawa mahaifina karya da gsky, mahaifina kuma yakira Wanda xa'a hadumu auren yace Mai shi yar'sa karatu xatayi.To yanxin Ni bansan koya fasa ba kuma Ni inason sa gsky bansan yaxanyi tunda Daman manya ne xasu hadamu dagin mahaifiyata kenan and my mom tayi 4yrs da rasuwa da ita xata gyara komai Amma batanan yanxin.dangin mom Dina sunce saidai auren family xa'a min to nikuma a Wanda suka fada shiyamin dayan gsky bana sonsa Dan gsky Wanda nakeso yafi hnkl. Bansan dalilin ta nayin hakan ba,kaina ya kulle gsky

attention to all users of this platform Muna so muyi wani abinda alheri domin saka marayu ko wani mara lfy cikin farin ciki idan da wani advice door is open

please dan allah ina neman wanda ya iya adua biyan bashi Wlh ina so in biya bashin da ake bi na

Assalamualaikum everyone. Happy New Year. I'm really scared with all the craziness going on in this country. It's terrifying and saddening. Again, the upcoming elections are approaching. I believe we need to do the needful and pray for our country. This country needs serious prayers. Please let's all come together and pray for our country.

i am 25years old.I have seen a lot in my life tbh family problems and relationships My dad is a very strict person,he doesn't allow me to go out or even travel at all,whenever I try to talk about leaving the house,he always go to his relatives and say I want to go and look for a man💔I can't believe a father will do such a thing.Everything in my life is a open book I can't do anything privately my parents made me go to a nursing school which I still hate till date. He doesn't take care of us..We provide for ourselves I don't have opinions of my own I'm into a very toxic family and because of that I just want to get married Wallahi and I've not been lucky in relationships either,the few good guys I've had,they always decline that he is not good for me,I'm really tired wallahi.Pls I need your advice and prayers🙏

Assalamu alaikum house. I have this girl that I am dating for almost 6 months now even though we've been friends for almost 4 years but recently decided to give a relationship a try because we understand each other very well. so, I trusted her so much that sometimes I even tell me friends about her and how much she loves me. One time a friend said to me " Bakasan Halin Mata ba, sun iya pretending" I thought about what he said but it didn't have much effect in convincing me to believe that because of how I trusted her and loved her. Then something occurred day before yesterday, on Sunday. It was around 11:30pm when we were chatting on WhatsApp, all of the sudden she wasn't responding then I decided to call her and tell her to come online, I then heard she was on another call. It really mad me sad to hear that around that time of the night because I love her so much and I am a jealous type. So, I turned on flight mode on my phone and went to sleep and woke up later at night to check my WhatsApp inbox. I did not see what I was expecting then I went back to sleep again and forgot about everything that occurred. Then in the morning, she sent me good morning message as usual and I went on with the flow. But because she was feeling guilty about it and she knows how jealous I can be on small things, she said my response seems to be a little bit off today, Monday. I told her I am good but she insisted and explained to me why I heard the Call Waiting last night. She even sent me some screenshots of her call log to show me who she was on call with, that it was her elder brother that spoke with her stepmom through her phone. I said okay and told her to just forget about it. She said so many things to calm me down, one of which is "Da ace inayin wannan wayan da tini ka kamani","Dan da zaka dinga kira kaji line busy", "Boyfriend nayi sai na fada maka. Koda a hanya ya ganni .Bana boye maka komai" It all passed after she said this and I believed her to her words and told her to always be truthful and honest with me, that is all I ask from her. She promised to keep that. Then at night on Monday, almost the same thing happened. She sent me message on WhatsApp and I didn't reply the same time as that of Sunday. I was taking my bath at the time and I didn't tell her that I will be right back. I came back after like 20minutes of not being active, she went offline. So, I decided to call her and ask her to come back online that I am back now. Then I heard the call waiting again. I hung up immediately and she called back, I picked up and told her to finish what she was doing and come online when she is done, she said she is done and I said okay then; lets not waste your airtime since we both have data. After she came online, she straight started with and apology; that she is sorry wallahi it is not what I think it is. I only asked her one question " are you still on call with your elder brother today?" she said "No, it was someone else". So, I said okay and refused to reply her. She called and I picked and I asked her if she was lying about what she told me in the afternoon about Trusting me and Telling me the whole truth. she couldn't answer because she was feeling guilty about it. She then tells me that it was her friend that gave her number to the guy some weeks back. I lost my mother 2 weeks ago, so it came to me that she might have had a space to invite someone because I was busy in a grieving moment the past week and I didn't give her much of my time. So, I sleep off on it and thought about it till the next morning, that's today Tuesday. Before I check my inbox, I decided to let everything go and forgive her because i thought who knows it might be me someday in that position and I would want her to forgive me. I opened my inbox and there was her apology message as expected or I should call it letter because I had to press the WhatsApp's "Read More" twice. My response was short and clear that "Sweetest babu komai ya rigada ya wuce. I understand dalilin da yasa maybe baki fada mun ba. Dan Adam ajizi ne, akwai mantuwa da dai sauran su Ki kwantar da hankalin ki, babu abunda zai chanza". After this, she showed concern that maybe I just said it because I am still angry or something. Then I added and said " Idan nace ya wuce shikenan. Idan kikaga na dawo da maganan nan sai dai a wasa ko kuma idan wani abu makamancin sa ya sake faruwa zai sa na tuno dashi". Just to give her assurance that it has passed. Back to the main reason I am posting this here. I need advice on how to go by this issue. I seems to me she is in the process of leaving me but I still love her. I'm not financially stable to rush and marry her at the moment. Should I continue with the relationship or I should break up with her before she does to avoid getting heart broken.

I come across a post on twitter about a lady that is in love with her boyfriend she loved him so much and same to him. they dated for 3yrs before their parents got to know each other and their wedding preparations began. He was from a comfortable home just like she was, both are from middle class families. Not long after their engagement, this guy hustle and also save from his NYCS allowances to make 5boxes for her lefe, but her aunties began to insult him which draw her mother attention that lead them call off that marriage. Remember that this same guy is not reluctant, he have the zeal bcos he loved her, to cut the story short he send a friend to pack the lefe and move on while she is their waiting for more lefe as stupid as she is and her aunties are know were to be found, but my guy move on, as stated in the story written by her, he is happily married and comfortable while she is 32yrs nothing on ground. My sisters pls I take God beg u any man u love and that guy is seriously inlove with u and have one to two things like a business which he can try to handle u, go marry.No condition is permanent, wallahi u ppl can build an empire together and most of our parents made it together. Allah yasa mugane ya hadamu da abokan zama nagari

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Aslm Yan uwana maza d mata yau nazo d wani guziri wanda yake d matukar amfani a gurin mu amma idan anbi mahangar gsky....a cikin guzirina Ina d tambayoyi Wanda bazasu wuce biyu ba... Tambaya ta farko gareku mata..... Yar uwa bude kunnuwanki in miki wata tambaya mana...Shin yar uwa kin taba nazari akan yawan zawarawan d kuke dasu a unguwarku..shin kin taba tunani akan me kawo yawan mutuwar aure...shin kin taba tsayawa koda d minti daya akan hakan......To wlh idan bakyayi ki koya ki zurfafa tunani sbd wannan matsala tana kan kowa amma bazaki gane hakan ba sai idan t faru akan ki Wanda b fata muke ba.... Tambaya ta biyu gareku maza.... Yan uwana maza mune ginshikin aure a wannan zamani kuma mune muke shan wahala Kashi 70 bisa dari na aure wanda wannan wahalar ita ta hanaka ta hanani ta hanamu aure....To wai shin mun taba tunanin dalilin d yasa muke ganin Yan uwanmu maza suke sakin matan su bayan wannan wahalar d muke sha🤔🤔🤔 To wai shin Ina matsalar take...me yake faruwa ne...... ku fito mu tattauna matsalar mu domin mu maganceta tun kafin lokacin muma y riskemu Wanda ba fatan hakan muke ba Allah y tsare..... @BAFFANCY (S)