Assalamu alaikum,hmm Is this love ko kiyayya,we have been dating for 3yrs yaso Muyi aure Ina gama secondary school sai wani aiki ya fita da shi kasar waje,be dawo ba Sai da na fara diploma bayan ya dawo he insist ayi aure my father was ok than he come up wai sai dai na bar school,i was like ai babu Transfer a health sai yace wai no aina gama school kenan,and by the other side familysa na fada sai mijin sister sa ya barta tayi master but me common diploma yanaso yayi stopping dina is that love?and he once's told me that macen da batayi boko ba ai ba macen zuwa unguwa bace infact shifa yana son mace mai zurfin karatu,I don't know ko nice bayaso da karatu,am done with my diploma da kyar yanxu anzo maganar aiki yace bazanyi ba and after auran da 5months zai tafi school na 3yrs he's stopping me from working kuma ya hanina karasa karatu wai business ma babu Amfani tunda nauyina yana Kansa,ga uban rules and regulations,wai sai dai na zauna gida,he was even saying wai babu namijin da zai yadda Hakan I told him akwai kuma in Allah ya yadda Allah zai bani supportive husband nasan akwai Su.

Nighty Night People. I have a Question .DanAllah wai yan matan kano na tambaya ko amsar kudi a wajan saurayi ne 😂 Dan ina fara maganar I will buy this, I ordered this,or maybe I asked at home for such amount and the reponse isn't favoring. Anything money in short sai naji tone din saurayi ya chanza 😂 Kuma I'm not begging or going to ask him for anything wooo na gist🤣 Dan yau I was talking about learning a skill that costs around 300K Oga was like I have to do something I will call back😂 it's like he dated girls that were after his penny or I'm I wrong to talk about stuff like that

am highly addicted to pornography ND masturbation i try many times to stop but i fall back i will so ashamed of my self sometimes am losing confidents and the nature of my work need allot of confidences ND courage.i need your prayers plsss

As a married man is it advisable to disclose to your wife your monthly salary ? Please state with reasons.

Can't a 17 year old girl get married to someone who is 23, who is ready to take care of her and carry all the responsibility

please I need help. I have a brother who's suffering from halitosis for a very long time.he try so many remedies.but no good results. pls our dentist say smtng.or someone with idea about what to use for good result

After gathering all the courage and energy to open up and tell him that I'm in love with him 🥺 he end up asking weird questions like(can you stop working and be a full housewife? ). please I need your advice, is this a sign of red flag?

Aduk Lokacin Da Kayi Tunanin Yin Aure Me Yake Fara Zuwa Ranka?

Assalamu alaikum Please to all those working women who are married please how do you tend to manage the household, children, food and still be able to work. like me I'm single my parents sometimes travel and leave me with my siblings but I use to go to school so I find it hard I'm thinking what if I get married and still go out to work? please share your tips to us 🥺

I was 18, fresh out of secondary school When I got admitted to study Microbiology in a higher institution in Katsina. I was the first person amongst my brothers,sisters,cousins to enter the university . I became somewhat close to a celebrity in my family and even across the streets. I felt on top the world in that moment I believed I was destined for great things . The day I was to finally depart for school,I got equipped with a lot of things you'll think I'm going to spend 20 years . That morning,my mom sat with me and gave me the last advice before I leave and venture into a different world . As I packed my luggage , I felt like a thousand bricks was weighed on my head . There was tears in my eyes but I couldn't let anyone see it . My younger brother assisted me with my stuffs all the way down to the car park . He waved me good bye and that's when all the emotions I've held came crashing down on me . Tears started flowing out of my eyes, I used my sun glasses to conceal any sign of tears from onlookers. This is it ,my journey to becoming a man , a boy shouldering the expectations of many , a boy many looked up to it ,I need to man up and do it for my family, make everyone proud . The more I kept on motivating myself the more tears continued flowing out of my eyes . I was a brilliant student in secondary school, upon entering the university my sole aim was to hit first class and maintain it till I graduate 😁. That truly was my goal , until I wrote my first test ,that was chem101(general chemistry) . Normally in secondary school I don't study hard ,I just read for maybe 20 minutes a day before test or exam and I'll go and 'freestyle" on my answer booklet the next day , I always ended up getting high mark . Prior to the test I met a friend I knew back home ,he was in 200 level,he failed the general chemistry course and had to carry it over with us . He adviced me to study hard because the course it's challenging. In my mind I was like see this dundy, no matter how bad it reach I will score up to 40/100 which is the pass mark . I wrote the test ,when the results came out I nailed 5/20. It was a minor wake up call for me . Then the pressure set in,I was careless and wasteful with food and the money given to me from home. In 3 weeks I've finished most of my food stuffs and left with garri. In that moment I realized that I didn't just go to higher institution to read ,I am there to learn life . There was no one to cook for me ,no one to wake me up if I'm late for lectures,no one to tell me to go to class ,no one to tell me to read . I needed to sort myself out by myself. It was a life changing experience for me . Back to studies , I started to study harder but I wasn't getting the results I expected. Approaching my first semester exam,My targets changed from first class to 4 point ,from 4 point to second class upper. In the end ,I got second class second class lower . I had one carry over .... Guess which course ? Genera chemistry 😆 I couldn't even tell my parents my result. I was greatly disappointed. That moment was a big wake up call for me . I learnt some things about life ,in secondary school,I was a proud person ,I never ask for help no matter how stuck I am . I always believed in myself to solve my problems . While that is a good thing ,I learnt life doesn't always work that way . I used to copy people who go to school at night to study till morning,but that never worked for me ,I stopped that and started doing things my own way . Lastly, I left something very important; God . I regularly missed prayers , I don't wake up at night to perform nafila . I never asked for His help,I wasn't connected to God at all,I was so confident in my abilities and God left me with my brains .

Please what local medicine can I used to cure hypocalcemia, Wallahi I'm on drugs but the moment I skipped it for a day toh shkn na kwanta kenan bbu lfy

I've been thinking very hard about how to start a business as a female. let's keep all this love and relationship thing aside, for a person from a middle-class family especially a lady, being in a relationship is not all that matters, at least you also want to get married just like your friends, but getting married might be difficult yanda komai na rayuwa yayi tsada, For the marriage to take place dole sai both sides sun shirya, yau kouh aure kikayi a matsayin ki na mace dole sai kin samu wasu iyan matsala in bakida sana'a kuma ba lallai ki auri mijin da xai iya dauke miki duk wasu bukatunki ba, so as for me I would like to give a helping hand to my parents in order to meet the demands of marriage especially this siyan kayan kitchen, At least nima Ina son nayi wani abu, ba sai komai anyi min ba. But whenever I think about it I can't have an answer coz the questions that comes to my mind is What business should I start and how? How can I get the customers? Or should I gather all my savings and Invest in some business? these are some of the questions that keeps popping in my brain. so please let's discuss this business issues cox I might not be the only one having this problem. suggestions and advice pls help a sister.

slm,pls what is wrong in saying as a 26yrs old that you won't or u don't want a 28 years old to marry,shin yin hakan ba dade bane?

Do not get upset if she doesn't respond. You don't know what kind of day she is having. Her reasons for not replying could have nothing to do with you.

Assalamu alaikum ya A'hibbah'i I pray and hope you all doing great and blessed. Relationship is a very sensitive commitment that most both genders go into with a negative mindset which in turn they will come back to this platform to complain " this guys did that" or "that girl did this" which negatively catalyzes Division among us and allowing more negativity into our thoughts. however, it is noteworthy to realize that whoever you want to date or u are dating is it crucial to go into a relationship with a 100% positive mindset unless you don't believe or you are not sincere in daily your prayers to Allah SWT. whoever you want to date or are dating today did not grow of in the same house you did, while you like pounded yam and they like semo, and they have different upbringing from you. therefore, it is very important to look at how compatible both of you are. there is a phase that says " two good people cannot live in the same roof if they are n or compatible to each other" (@jattox et ul.) so not everyone can love a person for the sake of Allah but we can accept each other's nature. When you are committed to a relationship you should have a burning desire to upgrade that person to becoming a better person than they were before dating you... such things includes but not limited to; teach/ reminding them on religion, enhancing or persuading them to learn a commercial skill/handwork, encouraging at school to performance better, always saying good things about them e.g. you did well 👍 , you are a good person 😊, I'm proud of you 🤗, you are the best 💪... not just I love you like most people do in a relationship. Finally, we should not be condemning each others as we are both Allah's creations. there is a Hadith that Messager of Allah pbum said man who insulted him Ram 🐏 should give it away or let is go... I can't remember the complete Hadith (someone should correct me please). talkless of condemning a gender. so my brothers and sister if you want good things then you have to be good yourself not because of people around you but for the sake of Allah because we don't know when we will take our last breath in duniya. to me, everyone in this platform is a good person may Almighty Allah with HIS infinite mercy guide us and may we all meet in Aljannatul Firdausi and start a platform named: "arewaup for Aljannah people" 😃 for you and me... with love ❤️ and kind regards have a blessed days ahead.

I am still in school and I am always torn between getting married in school or after school, don't get me wrong I'm not in a serious rush but the thing is we fall in love and when we check there's nothing stopping us but the thought of finishing school. I'm sure most ladies will understand where I'm coming from. I need as many advices as I could get on this matter. Na gode sosai.

when a young person tell you he loves you and he/she is serious about you and your sure of that then you treat him/she like trash and you know he/she is being patient because he/she loves you and at the end of the day when he/she snap out it and loves u no more that's the time you start thinking to love him/her back when you realize that he/she is the one Who truly loves you by then is too late and you start thinking he/she was just joking with and he/she never loves you or you start expecting him/her to come back and you know they are not coming back no matter what. so pls let be fair pls

Dan Allah period dinake bani matsala nayi kwana daya se ya dauke ne wanka ne sallah the next yakara dawowa After bankara ganiba seakace na dakata tukunna seyakai kaman 3days nidai inata kokwanto dan inaso nayi wanka kuma zuwan dayake badayawa yake zuwa ba yaza'ayi narama sallolina koko duksallan dazanyi ne tahadawa har na rakanye do min dena wasiwasi

Wai me yasa mata mafi yawa ke tunanin cewa maza su ke yaudarar mata gurin zina na farko dae duk macen da ta yarda namiji yayi zina da ita to lallai tana da hankali sannan ta san abun da ya dace ta kuma san abunda ba dai dai ba Amma me yasa sai ta gama sharholiyar ta taxo tana fadan cewa ta tsani maza na biu baayin zina da karfi sannan koda kince ya tilastaki idan daure maki kafafu tayi ba ban san yanda zaai ba kice yayi maki na karfi wannan kenan bana tunanin namiji zai iya taba koda hannun macce ne ba tare da amincewar ta ba sabida koda ya taba na farko idan har kika nuna mai bacin ranki wllh gobe ko abu zai mika maki a hannu zaiji tsoron taba ki amma sai kun kare sharholiyar ku kuzo kuna wani fadan men men men fear men maza yan isaka ne maza meye maza meye baya duk mai yin irin wayan nan sai kun basu dama ne suke yi amma don gujewa irin haka bara na baku wata shawara 1 ki daina posting na sexy pic enki ( inda shape enki ya fito kirjin ki ya fito ) a social media 2 koda kun hadu yace ki tura nai pic enki kafa ki tura idan kuma ya matsa maki ki saka dogon hijab da nikab kiyi pic sae ki tura mai trust me ba zai sake cewa ki tura mai pic enki ba bare har mgnn banza ya shiga 3 idan yace yana so zaizo kuje outing kice aa sai dai yazo nan gida ke bakya fita idan yaxo kicewa dan iska parlor zai wuce kuma ki saka nikab zaki gani idan zai dawo gobe 4 da wasa idan ya taba hannun ki ki nuna mai bacin rai ko ki fada mai cewa ke ba haka kike ba ki gani zai sake TRUST ME DUK NAMIJIN DA KIKAWA HAKA WLLH KODA BADA NIYYAR AUREN KI YAZO BA SAI YAJI YANA SON KASAN CEWA DAKE SANNAN WLLH ZAI IYA RECOMMEND NAKI MUTANEN ARZIKI WAYAN DA SUKA SHIRYAWA AUREN DA GASKIYA

Assalamu alaikum Whoever reads Surah-Al Kahf on Jumu'ah, Allah (SWT) promises he would have light, In his life that shines, From one Friday to next