Aslm, please is it right to ask your guidiance kudin gadon ki as a lady? because I'm desperately in need of money and i want to start up a business,i don't want to ask for loan and I'm definitely sure my step parents won't give me from theirs,so is it okay to ask for it? and how do i tell them that i want the money to start a business

Assalamualaikum everyone, I'm here with a heavy heart. I didn't grow up with my mom because my dad's family took me after my dad died,so I grew up with my dad's best friend, and after my mom got married again and gave birth to two children with her new husband,she took me back and wallahi since then I've known no peace 💔,my mom's family are the worst, there's no form of gori that me and my sisters have not seen and are still not seeing, my Mom has never made life easy for me, she's only focused on her children with her new husband , whenever something goes wrong, it's our fault. I feel like she's not my mother and bana Jin zafin ta anymore, there's so much i can't say here and I've tried all my best to please her,nayi azumi da sallan dare Allah ya daidaita tsakaninmu amma haryanzu things are not changing 😭 for 9 years now zama ya gagara, sometimes she tells me and my sisters to go back to our dads family and give her space,wai she's tired and I'm also tired of her I don't know what to do anymore, please advise me 🤧

Hello sometimes it's really disappointing after e-meeting people in the matchmaking section invthe sense that sai mutum yana jin nauyin cewa macen batai mashi ba, wanda in da akwai profile photo kana gani zaka ce wannan batai maka ba ko mai miki ba even if request is sent you can easily turn it down. so dan Allah Arewa-up ku saka using DP wajibi ne, akwai nauyi bayan ka ga mutum kaji kawai bai maka ba. bissalam

ƘANWATA ZO IN FAƊA MIKI GASKIYA... Gane Namiji ckn Mata Abune da yake da Sauƙi, Amma gano namiji ckn Maza Abune dake bukatar Lokaci, kiyaye wannan! Ba kowa bane da yazo kawai yace yana sonki zaki buɗe masa zuciyarki, ba kuma kowa bane daga miki Ya'r hidima ke nuna ya damu dake zaici gaba har abada. Ki nutsu sosai kisan ma wa zaki bawa Masauƙi koda a Mu'amala ce ba soyayya dan ke zuciyarki mai rauni ce ƙanwata, Mun wayi gari wani zamani da Soyayya ta zama abun wasa wajen da ywan matasa😭, in wani yazo yace "Ina sonki" nan take! Kema Jefa masa tambaya kice "i zuwa yaushe?" saurin bada wajen nan ki dena bashi da amfani. Ki kiyaye zuciya da farin cikinki. Na barki lafiya. copied. Daga alkalamin 🖋️Dattijo 🧙🏾‍♂️

Not Everyone Posting or Commenting is SANE: Children of perdition are on the loose. Daily, You have to remember that a lot of people are unstable and illogical about themselves, talkless of others. This will guide you when you interact with people. Many of us are raised by sad Parents - we lack LOVE from our Guardians, Neighbours and Community while growing up. So, you have to consider these People as part of those you will encounter in your daily transactions. Don't take it too personal, just understand the root causes of the problem.

please any project topic ideas for a mass communication student?

Salamu alaikum. Wannan yarinyar da nake son aure kayan mata da na saka jimawa ana jima'a wato manpower take sayarwa. Farko dana fara soyayya da ita, ana kawo mum jita jita akan abin duk ban yarda ba. Se cinkin last week kawai na ganta a tiktok tana tallan magunan a videos da tayi ko kunya babu. Na tambayeta ta tabbatar min da sana'a take. Toh abin ni se na gnshi wani iri. Anya kuwa ba abin kunya ace wai matata ga harkar da takem

assalamualaikum taimakoh Nike nemah I am confused I have 2 boyfriend's let's say A and B A is a filling station manager while B is mu uni class mate Amman nafison B and I would love to marry him not A but the issue here is parents Dina sun fison A shikuma A kawai akwai wasu Hali nashi Wanda banaso I won't say bad Hali but a gurina bashi da kyauta Amman Kuma Yana mAh en wajeh like ni bazai bani bah but zaimah wasu while B duk abunda Nike bukata zaimun dukansu suna sonah Sosai sosai wlhhhh kawai dai B is not ready for marriage while A is and again I am 23 so I am not getting any young shi Kuma B bashi mAh da aikinyi Amman yace he will try ya aureni next year December insha Allah please a gurinka waya kamata in aura

do any one here have an idea on typing job online? it is so easy or what and how do you cope with it,and again do any one use lark pls?

Salam Alaikum y'all. hmm...how do I even begin 😂😂 there's a certain appeal from medical practitioners, doctors especially. I've always wanted to be a gynaecologist but well Allah's plans, I'm studying law now. I have a huge respect for Doctors. They look beautiful in their scrubs or white coat and it makes my heart skip a beat😂😂 I'm fascinated by how their lives are. Are they always serious, do they makes jokes, do they get into relationships easily!!!??? Who knows but them. But well yeah....my Dua now is to marry a doctor by the grace of Allah. I've always been a dreamer of a professional couple😂😂 So do y'all get attracted to doctors too??

SHAWARA ga wanda mahaifiyar sa ke raye 😭 1 Kayi amfani da damar ka na tana raye ka bata duk wata kulawa da take buqata daidai ikon ka 2 Kayi kokari wajan kaucewa duk wani abu da kaga bata so,koda zuciyar ka tana so,kaucewa abinda take so,zai jawo maka matsala ta inda bakai zato ba 3 Kowace dama a rayuwa idan ta kubuce ana iya dawo da ita,amma mahaifiya guda daya ce,idan ta tafi ba zata dawo ba😭 4 Aljannar ka,farin cikin ka,nasarar ka a rayuwa,tana da alaqa ne da irin kulawar daka bawa mahaifi da mahaifiyar ka,dan haka dan uwa ka kula sosai. Baka gane hakikanin maanar rayuwa,sai lokacin daka duba dakin mahaifiyar ka kaga cewa bata nan,kace Baaba na tafi kasuwa kaji bata amsa ba,ka kawo mata abinda take so baka ji ta sanya maka albarka ba,anan ne zaka gane hakikar maanar rayuwa,anan zaka ga zahirin yan uwan ta masu zuwa tana raye,anan ne zaka gane rayuwar mahaifiyar ka a duniya komai tsufan ta a duniya,rahma ce gare ka matuka😭 Allah dan tsantsar rahmar ka da karamcin ka,ka jaddada rahma ga dukkan wanda mahaifiyar sa ta rasu,ka kara mana juriya da hakuri a wannan rayuwa

Alhmdllh yau natashi da tausayin mata 🥺😂 so i decided to let you know this fact about guys,my advice is for this young girls (teenagers) and young adult precisely. and any other girl that thinks she's smart and know how to play boys very well.,mind you 🫵🏿if you think you're player and knows your steps and can play boys very well toh wallahi your're wrong,because boys are smart and very sharp in understanding things,namiji kawae zaesa kifara sonshi kamar zaki fadawa allah amma wallahi shi daedae da second daya betaba sonkiba 😹 bakiyarda ba ? okay let me convince like me now I'm one of those 90%percent of boys that are not loyal i have 5 girlfriends kuma wallahi duk wadda kikaba qur ani will swears that I'm only dating her,yeah course i give them all the attention they needed not known to them that they are not even my spec for marriage but i keep on deceiving them and showing them fake love fake care and fake attention so,this is how we guys are we can pretend and behave fool sometimes to get what we want from a lady. let get to my thick words tau you that you're just coming up wallahi avoid boys 🤡until when you're ready for marriage kiyi adduar nagari tau,all you need now is a focus on your future and try to become something that your parent will be bragging and proud of having,not a guy with IPhone 20 promax and Benz😂maza will finish you they will finish you yes you if care is not taken they will and dump you. sai anjima kuma.

salam alaikum,please I want to start a cold room business but i have no idea how to go about it,if there is anyone that knows about the business and how to get contact of suppliers and agent numbers

Ina matukar bakincikin yanayin da mahaifina yakeciki.A kullum Ina mishi adduar akan Allah yashiryeshi kada Allah yakarbi ransa a wannan hali dayake ciki 😭 Mahaifina Yana aiki ne awani gari kafin yabar aiki.Baya barinmu muje gurinsa saidaishii yazo.Mahaifina😭yamaida Zina ruwan sha yana bin kananan yara😭, shaye shayen magungunan mazan akodayaushe har siyawa yanmatansa kayanmata yake, chatting a TikTok, Jin wakoki, masturbation da kallon porn.Masu gadinsa sunsha gayamana yadda yake kawo mata cikin gidansa yahanamu zuwa inda yake aiki sai mata yake kawowa.Munsha ganin condom a cikin motarsa😭Inalilahi wa inna illainna rajiun.yana amfani da kudi yana lalata yaran mutane.Babana kyautarsa ga macene kowace iri kuwa amma banda namiji.Namiji zaizo Yana Neman taimako bazai taimaka ba Amma idan macece aguje zai taimaka😭 awajan aikinsa kuwa shi shugabane haka yake amfani da wannan dama Yana neman kananan staffs kurata. Mahaifiyarmu daidai kyautatawa tana yimishi mu shaidu ne,Tasha zama dashi ta tambayeshi metake mishi?yace ba abunda take mishi tsakaninshi da ita saidai kudin abinci kawai baby muamalar aure.Munyi munyi yayi aure don ya tsira daga wannan hali amma yace Shiba aurene agabansa ba.Awaje saidai yayita musu alkawari aure,kuma ba aurensu zaiyi ba wallahi matan dayake hulda dasu sunfi 20.Yanzu yayi retire yadawo gida amma bayada lokacin muda mahaifiyarmu sai chatting da waya da yanmatansa na office dinsa acikin gida.😭😭 Har sakin mahaifiyarmu yayi akan wata budurwarsa kuma ba aurenta zaiyi ba. Nazaunar da mahaifina nayi mishi nasiha nake cemishi " baba da laluma Dan Allah babana kadaina saboda yanzu Nima zan iya samun aiki nasan bazaka so ogana yazo Yana Nemana da Zina ba? Budar bakin babana sai cewa yayi toh ayimiki mana😭😭 I cried my eye balls alokacin nasan babana yana Neman agaji.Yasha gayawa mahaifiyata itama taje tanemi mazan😭Amma Allah yatsare mata rayuwarta, gashi tanada chronic hawan jini😭😭😭... narasa yadda zanyi kullum addua mukemishi amma abun abanza😭😭😭

salam alaikum I'm in my late 20's and I've never been in a relationship with anyone before, not even during my school days. I go out with friends and they get all the attention they need but when it comes to me no guy ever looks my way. AlhamdulilLah I'm beautiful no doubt and well educated. My family are beginning to mock me for this. I've been asking myself a lot of questions with no answers in return and i sometimes get emotional when I think of it. But is this something i should be bothered about? Are there other ladies out there of my age that are facing the same problem or is it just me?

Karfa kaji ance mata na neman miji ruwa a jallo kayi tunanin abun sauki gareshi. Duk da neman miji da sukeyi sunada zabi fa. Ba zaka zo da katon kai kamar goriba, hancin ka ya kusa cike fuskar ka, da katon baki, ba tsafta kuma babu ko sisi kayi tinanin wata zata soka ba. Koda mata suna da yawa kuma maza na wahala, se ka gyara kanka kuma ka nemi kudi sannan zaka samu wata ta soka, in ba haka ba sede kaga ana 'yanmata kai ko banda kai walh😂 Social media especially Facebook, kaga wani ya dora hoto a dp kamar dan dambe, background kamar a cikin bola yake, timeline dinsa cike da tagging na mutane marasa aji, amma ahakan wai kaga yana bin mata private yana kokarin yayi tosting dinsu. wallahi in haka kake zaka mutu single. Ko kuma kaje kauyen ku ka samo wata, ko me tallan abinci.

I've been friends with this girl for sometime now, we met out of nowhere and suddenly became really close. To be honest I was crushing on her at first but we joke a lot ,we used to say jokes like couples,we vibe well, we can talk from 9pm till midnight, we share our worries and advice one another so I thought it's best to 'uncrush' my crush. Weeks back we were talking on the phone and she asked me why am I doing so and so things is it because she loves me that's why I'm behaving like that ? I just laughed and ignored it as we use to play like that a lot. She repeated it again ,this time In a more serious tone . I was like love ? She said yes and I shouldn't pretend I don't know. Hmm I know we are really close, I've talked to her mom a few times , and I had a crush on her in the beginning but I pushed it aside as I observed that despite we are close ,maybe she doesn't harbor the same feelings as me,I can't risk telling her how I feel only for her to shoot me down ,that will ruin our friendship and I can't have that . For a long time ,I kept away any feelings I have for her deep inside me and played along . Now I was shocked to hear her say such,I thought we were playing, stupid me never knew she meant it. Now the problem is , we have grown to be too close that I view her almost as a sister . Yes I have feelings for her but I don't know why it seems kind of awkward inside me 😆. I confessed to her about my feelings too and she berated me for keeping such things from her and making her suffer all these while . When I tell her I love you,I some times half expect her to laugh into my face and tell me she can't believe I fell for such prank . But I know she's serious . Now my question is how do I remove that awkwardness of being friends for too long ? How do I make my full feelings resurface? How do you fall in love with someone whom you've practically known almost everything about her life as you would to your sister ? Will the awkwardness go with time or what ?

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐔𝐒𝐁𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘: 1. Feed him 2. Sleep with him 3. Leave him in peace 4. Don't check his phone (Msgs) 5. Don't bother him with his movements 6. Clean the house 7. Wash his clothes 8. Always pray for him. So what's so hard about that? 𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐈𝐅𝐄 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘: It's really not too difficult but... To make a wife happy, a husband only needs to be: 1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father 6. a master 7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a plumber 10. a mechanic 11. a carpenter 12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a gynecologist 16. a psychologist 17. a pest exterminator 18. a psychiatrist 19. a healer/prayer 20. a good listener 21. an organizer 22. a good father 23. very clean 24. sympathetic 25. athletic 26. warm 27. attentive 28. gallant 29. intelligent 30. funny 31. creative 32. tender 33. strong 34. understanding 35. tolerant 36. prudent 37. ambitious 38. capable 39. courageous 40. determined 41. true 42. dependable 43. passionate 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐆𝐄𝐓𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐓𝐎: 44. give her compliments regularly 45. go shopping with her 46. be honest 47. not stress her out 48. not look at other girls 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐀𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐀𝐌𝐄 𝐓𝐈𝐌𝐄, 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐀𝐋𝐒𝐎: 49. give her lots of attention 50. give her lots of time, especially time for herself 51. give her lots of space, allow to visit her family members and your relatives. 𝐁𝐔𝐓 𝐌𝐎𝐒𝐓 𝐎𝐅 𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐈𝐓 𝐈𝐒 𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐘 𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐎𝐑𝐓𝐀𝐍𝐓: 52. To learn not to ask for change when u give money for shopping. Whatever u give out becomes rightly hers no matter how big the note is. ......... 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐀 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘 𝐈𝐒 𝐀 𝐒𝐄𝐑𝐈𝐎𝐔𝐒 𝐁𝐔𝐒𝐈𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒😁

Before I start I'd like to say "yes I know I'm wrong " . So, approximately a year ago, I met this lady on Facebook, I made a comment on a certain page,she saw it and decided to message me . We started talking,it was solely based on friendship and nothing more nothing else. She told me she's depressed,my comments usually make her laugh and shed like us to be friends. But as time went on feelings started developing in both us. We chat almost all the time and we stay in the same state . However, before anything even started I noticed somethings were off about her, I went to her timeline on Facebook and noticed some things I would consider as red flags but as it is in my nature I always like to think good of things and I gave her the benefit of doubt . The relationship started,i fell in love ,so hard like I've never felt before. We met after a month,she would come to my work place and bring lunch for me. I felt I found my soulmate . However,I noticed a few things were off about her, she doesn't want to meet my colleagues and she doesn't want me to introduce her to anyone close to me . She requested that I shouldn't call unless she calls me first, and she doesn't normally chat anything after 9, I thought maybe it's due to the rule of their house. She also tried all means to avoid me coming to her house to see her parents Nevertheless, I shrugged all of it away . This certain day we met at a restaurant we normally converge regularly,I noticed a few things were off about her . That night she told me she wants to make a confession,that I should forgive . I was thinking maybe it's because she didn't pick my call that evening or something. What she told me shattered my system. She confessed to me that she's married, she's staying with her husband and they have two kids. I was shell shocked . She told me how her husband use to treat her badly and all the things happening between them,how she nearly committed suicide one time . Common sense said I should have ended things ,but problem was I had already fallen madly in love with her and I don't want to run away and leave her with the monster she described to me . She gave me assurance that they'll soon get divorced and we can start planning about our future. I knew it was wrong,I saw myself as her knight in shining armor,I felt it was a sacrifice worth making,I just need to endure until they she ended things with her husband. We continued communicating and meeting in secret . Everything about the relationship was forbidden but I have to confess I've never fallen in love with anyone like I did with her. As they say, people can't really hide their true character forever, the infidelity aside I noticed she has anger issues, she's ungrateful , I frequently buy gifts and things for her ,whenever I don't it becomes an issue. I noticed she never accepts her fault and She's very good at manipulating her wrongs into right and turning the tides on me. As always I'll apologize and let things slide. The relationship kept on going with no sign of changes, I felt disturbed but I kept on with it. It reached to a point where I could no longer continue,I couldn't sleep in peace , I was always deep thoughts. I confided a friend about everything and he opened my eyes to things . I was being manipulated and used right from the beginning. I decided to end things with her ,I explained things to her bit by bit and how it's affecting me ,I couldn't continue with that relationship if she can't end things. I told her I still loved her and I will be there when she's ready. She showed no sign of care ,remorse or anything. In fact she just made it look I'm the one who was playing her and she's the victim. I ended things there and I never looked back . It was a draining experience for me and a life lesson. I'm asking for God's forgiveness everyday . Its a trauma I'll have to live with for the rest of my life.

please what's your opinion on checking habiby's phone