I wanted to ask , is it possible for shyness to be too much ? Am often told am too shy and I should reduce it , And that how can I get married if am being this shy ? This is what alot tell me . I don't really like going out except it's for going to visit my relatives or seeking knowledge because of how shy I am , I don't look at people much ( females ) not to even talk of men , even when am with my friends , am still very shy . Or at times when I see someone I know , even when am wearing my niqab I feel shy to talk to them not to talk of me not wearing the niqab , but Alhamdullilah I muster the courage to say Salam because it's what our religion teaches . Even talking alot of times when am with people , I feel so shy to talk much except when absolutely necessary if not I just smile and listen to them . Shyness is part of Iman Alhamdullilah , May Allah bless us all and increase us in goodness and guide us to the straight path . But I wanted to ask , can shyness be too much ?

I work in healthcare,this lady I plan on marrying we are in a long distance relationship. I work till evening and we normally chat during the night. we didn't talk during the day this certain day and we had a quarrel . I recently had promotion and I'm having a hard time creating time for talk during the day except at night.I'd like to know if I was the one in the wrong here . Here's the chat [4/4, 5:47 PM] My World: amore [4/4, 5:47 PM] My World: 😔 [4/4, 6:51 PM] My World: Iftar Mubarak ife [4/4, 7:18 PM] Me: Baby [4/4, 7:18 PM] Me: Thank you [4/4, 7:22 PM] My World: You're too busy to even say hi tunsafe [4/4, 7:22 PM] My World: Haka akeyi? [4/4, 7:24 PM] Me: Sorry Not my fault [4/4, 7:27 PM] My World: My fault? [4/4, 7:27 PM] Me: Nope but understand [4/4, 7:28 PM] My World: Hmmm [4/4, 7:32 PM] Me: What brought hmmm here now [4/4, 7:32 PM] My World: You now [4/4, 7:33 PM] My World: Instead of apologising properly you're saying "sorry not your fault [4/4, 7:33 PM] Me: Apologize? [4/4, 7:33 PM] Me: For working ? [4/4, 7:33 PM] My World: Yes [4/4, 7:33 PM] Me: Wait you expect me to chat like before ? [4/4, 7:33 PM] Me: Do you even know what I was doing ? [4/4, 7:34 PM] Me: You can't even ask me how was work [4/4, 7:34 PM] My World: Sorry Mr busy no vex [4/4, 7:34 PM] My World: Bye [4/4, 7:34 PM] Me: Good night Two days later [4/6, 8:09 AM] My World: Sannu [4/6, 8:12 AM] My World: Pompous [4/6, 8:58 AM] My World: You sent this to me yourself but i don't have it anymore.......you said no man can be too busy with the woman he loves . ,and that's just the fact .there's no way you'll be too busy from morning till night that you won't be able to say a word to the person you claimed to love,even if you owns the place ..hmmm ,i told you the night before that day that I'll be done with *****(a computer school), but what did you do?no call no messages throughout the day ?have i ever treated you that way?or because I'm not working and you felt you're the busy one here do you know how busy my schedule's are?or you think in a relationship you only talk at your convenience time ? You were saying was i expecting you to chat me like before?like you just started this week?of course it's almost 2 weeks since he left and we've been talking so you didn't start that day,you were saying that i couldn't ask how your day went ,did you ask about my day too?or you're the only human here,you only think of yourself, our cousin's son had accident that day and killed someone, did you ask of my day?but just trying to talk to you you started talking like you're talking to your child ,you feel this relationship you can do what ever you like and I'll be just there accepting every shit you bring .no I'm not desperate, you can't treat me anyhow you like and expect me to just sit back [4/6, 8:58 AM] My World: If you're done just say it ,not attitude [4/6, 9:42 AM] Me: We were talking normal, we talked in the morning,I happened to be busy that certain day. I wasn't free till in the evening,I replied your messages, you asked me is this how it's done I apologized and said it wasn't my fault ,I asked you to understand. Do I normally go the whole day like that without chatting ? You went ahead with it , asking me to apologize ’properly’, I asked you apologize because I was busy at work ? You got angry and I got angry too and said goodbye . How did I talk to you like a child?for all the times you've had to go off for a reason or the other I've never asked you to apologize or something like that. I get it You had a rough day,I should have reminded earlier about ****** but there's nothing wrong if you had simply told me about your day and reminded about ******* as I tend to forget easily . I was the calm one that day ,I apologized but you kept on pushing it till I couldn't take it.

𝑸𝑼𝑬𝑺𝑻𝑰𝑶𝑵❓ : Does a firm intention to break the fast, without eating or drinking cause the fasting person to break his fast? : 𝑨𝑵𝑺𝑾𝑬𝑹❗️ : It is well known that fasting is a combination of intention and abandoning, for a person makes the intention by fasting to draw near to Allaah, the Almighty, the All-Powerful by abandoning the things which break the fast. So, if he makes a firm intention to stop it, then the fasting is invalidated; but if it is in Ramadan, he must refrain from eating, drinking and sexual intercourse until the sun sets, because every person who breaks his fast in Ramadan without an excuse is obliged to continue fasting and to make up for it. However, if he did not make a firm intention, but was undecided, then it is the subject of disagreement among the scholars: some of them say that his fast is invalidated, because indecisiveness invalidates a firm intention. Others hold that it is not invalidated, because the basic principle is that the intention remains valid until such time as he makes a firm intention to break it and end it and this is the more correct view in my opinion as it is more weighty. And Allaah knows best. Shaykh Muhammad bin Saalih al-`Uthaymeen Fatawa Arkaanul-Islaam, DARUSSALAM, vol.2, p.646

𝐓𝐀𝐌𝐁𝐀𝐘𝐀❓ : Idan mace mai ciki taga jini kafin haihuwar ta da kwana ɗaya ko biyu shin zata bar sallah da azumi ko ya zatayi?? : 𝐀𝐌𝐒𝐀❗️ : Idan mai ciki taga jini kafin haihuwar ta da kwana ɗaya ko biyu idan tana cikin nakuda ne to wannan Nifasi ne, zata bar sallah da azumi, idan kuma ya kasance ba ta cikin nakuda to wannan jinin cutane bazatayi i'itibari dashi ba, bazata bar sallah da azumi ba.

Daga Malam Aminu Ibrahim Daurawa SUFFOFIN DA SUKE HANA A AURI MACEí 1-Mace mabarnaciya 2-Mace mai yawan son ado idan zata fita 3-Mace mai yawan fara'a ga kowa 4-Mace mai kaifin harshe ABUBUWAN DA SUKE JAWO LALACEWAR JIKI 1-Karancin abinci a jiki 2-Yawaita yin jima'i 3-Yawan shiga bandaki 4-Bacci bayan magrib ABUBUWAN DA SUKE JAWO TALAUCHI 1-Share daki da sutura 2-Cin abinci akan tafin hannu 3-Fyace hanci lokacin da ake kashi 4-Cire farce da hakori 5-Susa da itace ABUBUWAN DA SUKE JAWO MANTUWAR ZUCIYA 1-Yawan maganganu 2-Yawan dariya 3-Yawan cin abinci 4-Cin haramun LOKUTAN DA AKA FI KARBAR ADDU'OI 1-Lokacin kiran sallah 2-Lokacin ikama 3-Bayan shiga masallaci 4-Daren juma'a da yininta 5-Lokacin sahur 6-kashi uku na karshen dare Tsakanin magrib da isha'i DALILAN DA SUKE HANA KARBAR ADDU'A 1-Barin sunnar annabi 2-Rashin godiya da ni'imar Allah 3-Rashin bada hakkokin ubangiji 4-Shagaltuwa da laifukan mutane etc Da fatan duk wanda yayi recieving wannan sako shima zai tura wa wasu yan uwa maza da mata Allah ya karawa annabi daraja...Allah kuma yasa mu dace duniya da lahira... Ameen summa Ameen.. Watarana annabi muhammad(s.a.w) yana cikin damuwa sai Allah(s.w.t) ya aiko mala'ika jibrilu ya tambayeshi me ke damunsa sai manzon Allah(s.a.w) yace:-ummati sai mala'ika jibrilu ya kware masa kaburbura baki daya sai yaga wasu na cikin murna wasu na cikin damuwa sai mala'ika jibrilu yace masa wadanda ka gani suna murna to sune masu fadin kalmar LA'ILAHA ILLALLAH wadanda kuma suke damuwa sune wadanda basa fadin wannan kalmar amma duk da haka manzon Allah(s.a.w) bai bar damuwa ba sai Allah(s.w.t) yace afadamasa ولسوف يعطيك ربك فترضي watau dassannu zamu baka ceto har sai kace ya isa sai manzon Allah(s.a.w) yace dako zan ceci duka ummati sai wanda yaqi. Allah kasamu cikin ceton manzon Allah(s.a.w) sannan "yan uwa mu yawaita anbaton LA'ILAHA ILLALLAHU koda zamu samu shiga cikin wadancan mutanen. Allah ka jikan duk wanda ya tura wannan ga koda mutun biyar??

Dan Allah ina azimi but Always i'm thing akan muamalar aure nidai banyi aureba amma kullum ina cikin yin tunane tunani haka yahukuncin azimi na yake please

Good day dearies how is RAMADAN going Allah ya bamu ladan dake ciki! my cousin's husband wants to marry me and she's just like a sister from thesame mother to me a gidansu na tashi mamana da babanta are from thesame parent tun Ina karama aka mayar dani gidansu can nayi wayo bansan dadin gidanmu ba coz ban zauna da kowannen su ba not even my mother! Sunyi aure da mijin ta 12years back for the past 5years yana bibiyata shi aurena zeyi and all. Haka kawai idan ya tashi yimun kyauta ze turamun 50k wai insaya abunda nakeso wallahi akan shi har banason zuwa gidan ta na rasa ta yanda zan bullo mishi banason fadama matarshi directly saboda banason abunda ze taba aurenta kuma banaso tazo daga baya ta gano bansan wanne kallo zatayi mun ba

I actually don't know my problem 😢 I have been in a relationships, but must of them left me without a reason and nikuma ban iya takurawa mutum in a relationship ba if you're not longer interested then you leave bansaniba ko ban iya soyayyabane oho but it paind me sometimes 😥😰😢

pls don't judge me me I find it very hard to pray at all time and it's not that I don't want to pray Neh fah whenever I want to pray I feel something is dragging me not pray at all time I tend to fight myself at all time but I find it very hard and it makes me feel very bad about myself and I really struggle to pray and people tend to judge me because I don't pray as a bad person sometimes I cry 🤧because I don't pray on time and some are telling me it better I convert to Christianity because I don't pray I find it very hard. pls what did you think is the solution to my problem because it's really getting out of hand . I saw a tweet on twitter which someone was talking about his struggle to pray 5 times daily salat that he started with one daily till he was able to praying 5 daily salat of is

LOKACIN SHAN RUWA (BUƊA BAKI) : 𝐓𝐀𝐌𝐁𝐀𝐘𝐀❓ : Assalamu Alaikum malam khamis Muna godiya sosai. Allah ya saka muku da alkhairi Ameen. Tambaya ta anan shine Yaushe ne lokacin buɗa baki (shan ruwa)? : 𝐀𝐌𝐒𝐀❗️ : Lokacin buɗa baki ya na tabbata ne da zarar rana ta faɗi. Dalili kuwa shine, hadisin da aka karbo daga Sahk ibn sa'ad, ya tabbata acikin Sahīhul Bukhārī daga Sahl Ibn Sa’ad yace: haqiqa Manzon Allah yace: Mutane ba zasu gushe tare da alheri ba matuqar suna gaggauta buɗa baki. Amma abin mamaki ayanzu sai kaga waɗansu mutane suna jinkirta buɗa baki har sai sunyi sallar magriba. Haqiqa yin haka ba qaramin kuskure bane, domin ya saɓawa koyarwar Manzon Allah ﷺ. Waɗansuma sai kaji su na cewa sai taurari sun bayyana, sannan suyi buɗa baki. Irin waɗannan mutane a tunanin su yin haka shine daidai, alhali kuwa ya saɓawa Sunnah, kamar yadda akayi bayani a hadisin daya gabata. Manzon Allahﷺ Yana cewa: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ﺑﻜﺮﻭﺍ ﺑﺎﻹﻓﻄﺎﺭ ﻭ ﺃﺧﺮﻭﺍ ﺍﻟﺴﺤﻮﺭ ‏ [📕ﺻﺤﻴﺢ ﺍﻟﺠﺎﻣﻊ.(2835)] Manzon Allah (saw) Yãce: Ku Gaggauta Shan-ruwa, Kuma ku Jinkirta Sahur. قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ﺛﻼﺙ ﻣﻦ ﺃﺧﻼﻕ ﺍﻟﻨﺒﻮﺓ: ﺗﻌﺠﻴﻞ ﺍﻹﻓﻄﺎﺭ، ﻭﺗﺄﺧﻴﺮﺍﻟﺴﺤﻮﺭ، ﻭﻭﺿﻊ ﺍﻟﻴﻤﻴﻦ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﺸﻤﺎﻝ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺼﻼﺓ [📗ﺻﺤﻴﺢ ﺍﻟﺠﺎﻣﻊ.(3038)] Manzon Allah (saw) Yãce: Abubuwa Uku Suna daga Cikin ɗabi'un Annabta, 1- Gaggauta Shan-ruwa, 2- Jinkirta Sahur, 3- 'Dora hannun dãma akan hagu a Sallah. Haka hadisin da aka karbo daga Abdullahi Ibn Abī Auf yace: "ya kasance tare da Manzon Allah ﷺ a lokacin tafiya suna azumi, sai rana ta faɗi, sai Manzon Allah ﷺ yace da wani daga cikin sahabbansa ya sauka ya shirya musu kayan buɗa baki sai, sahabin yace: "Ya Manzon Allah da sauran rana, akayi haka har sau uku, Manzon Allah ﷺ na cewa dashi ya shirya musu abin buɗa baki. Daga karshe bayan sun kammala sai Annabi yace: “Idan kuka ga dare ya gabato daga nan (wato rana ta faɗi), haqiqa mai azumi ya buɗe bakinsa (ana nufin koya sha ruwa ko bai sha ba) Bukhari da Muslim suka ruwaito shi. Daga Ansa bn Malik(RA) ya ce: Manzon Allah(ﷺ) ya kasance yana yin buɗe baki kafin ya yi sallah da danyen dabino, idan bai samu danyen dabino ba sai yayi da busassun dabino, idan kuma bai samu busasshen ba, sai ya kurɓi wasu kurɓi na ruwa". Tirmidhi ya ruwaitoshi ALLAH NE MAFI SANI

Dan Allah masana su kara mun haske naga brown din ruwa almun jinin al'ada zai zo da naje tsarki sai naga jinin kadan da tsantsi. toh yanzu tunda nayi tsarki ban sake ganinshi ba. hasali ma koh danshin brown din babu. yanxu bansan matsayin azumina da sallah na ba.

Assalamualaikum my dear brothers and sisters yh kuke y ibada Masha Allah may Allah accept our ibadah Amin pls I have a question my question is that idan mutum yayi mafarki kuma Yana azumi pls akwai azumin sa Koh Babu and Ya zaiyi da Alamarin is he going to just wash it or wash it and get birth as in Islamic birth or what thank you.

Most ladies normally say they despise it when asked questions like how are you ,have you eaten etc..... If you are chatting with any Arewa girl like that most especially from Kaduna and Kano, you'll ask them, How are you and how was your day? they will be like, Alhamdulilah,fine or okay .... if you are lucky they ask you "and you? "Anything you ask, they will be like, Alhamdulilah and you? These questions are basically conversation starters, When you are asked such questions, We want to know how it went, ba Alhamdulilah din muke son ji ba. you are actually making it difficult for one to communicate with you when you keep on giving close ended answers. You can easily answer such questions by saying, for example, My day was terrible, kabari kawai , naje wajen yin kitso, Angama mun kitso, nayi transfer kudi yaki ya je, na kira brother na yazo ya bada cash, ya ki zuwa, yace bashida, kai ma number ka baya shiga a lokacin. Kawai aka sani Shara a gidan mutane wai sam bani da kudi. Something like this. Not always Alhamdulilah. Munsan da Alhamdulilah kafun muka tambaya. You guys can do better please 😊

I FINALLY AGREED THAT U NEED ONE SERIOUS BREAKUP FOR CHARACTER ENHANCEMENT AND DEVELOPMENT ,,,,,

😭😭 I have to end a long time relationship of about 6yrs💔 I had this guy we have been dating for about 6yrs🥺I loved him so much actually am a type of person that is so patient bawai yabon kaiba if not baxamu dade haka ba wlh I ignore many thing I mean so many things he’s so much related to females which he can post all over he’s status and he don’t care whether nagani he don’t care about my feeling but as I said I don’t care and not because he don’t love me he does kawai dai haka yake so I always think mayb he would change💔which is a great mistake for about 1year kenan munyi break up because I was tired of all that sort of abubuwan dayake mun but we were back Cox he apologized like he once shamed he’s female friend agabana and I was like do u know what u did he said yeah and I ignored even though I cried so hard it’s not because I don’t like what’s he’s doing but I always think he would change abubuwa dayawa sun faru I cant even eat them akwai time din da he would just be like he don’t love me he would just be saying words that will be making me cry amma ni banasan problem ace nice nayi departing dinshi last year nayi walimar sauka this guy was at schl so he couldn’t make it amma wlh even for him to say congrats he didn’t and akwai ihsani akomai Na duniya nan koh biyar bai Hadani dashi ba even though ni bah wani abun Hanunshi nakeso ba Cox yasan I don’t need something from him💔 I ignored all that🥺From last year December yafara changing that he don’t call idan nayi magana he would say idan inaso nasani magana dashi I should call ai he’s available so from that time problems statrted from no where and idan namiji yafara changing this way it’s simply means he’s in a new relationship I understood but I didn’t care saboda nasan nikadai ce akasani agidansu Cox we are of good time da duka family dinshi his mom, dad and also his siblings Cox ina kiransu sosai and siblings suna xuwa wajena so this guy started having an affair with yan matan schl dinsu but I ignored wulakanci iri iri i gnored so sister Dina yanayin snacks daman and he is used to ordering from her sai yayi order ranan daman xai koma schl the next day so ya kirani yace yana waje nace ina xuwa for me to take 10mins pah kawai he called my sis takawo mishi abunda yasiya so I went immediately saboda nasan bayason jira kuma wlh it’s because Mamana tace nakarasa mata abu kafin nafita that’s why nayi taking long so naje before my sis came nayi nayi yashigo yace ai yaxo amsan abu ne sai ga sis Dina taxo gate then I kept quiet I let her give him wai kafin najuwya kawai this guy left without saying anything💔I was broke that day I never felt so bad😭😭my heart tore into pieces on that day💔I called him more than what I could remember but he never picked my calls💔😭I cried so hard and I decided Wlh koh shine Autan Maza nagama dashi dole nacire shi arayuwata nakira sis dinshi nake fada mata komai Ina kuka tanata bani hakuri nace mata wlh nagama dashi insha Allah a rayuwata she cried together with me wlh saboda matan nan tana sona sosai tace karna damu komai lokacine💔nikam nace wlh insha Allah babu wani abu daxai kara hadani dashi har karshen rayuwa mata saboda wlh yafita daga raina koh labarinshi banaso Banda ita da Allah babu Wanda yasan wannan maganan I struggled so hard for over 3weeks of pain crying and ignoring everything kafin nafada ma Mamana but she laughed tace daman ai Kunsaba gobe Ka xaku dawo but nace mata wlh mama baxan taba dawo dashi rayuwa ta ba har abada baxan tava aure shi ba anyi angama she was shocked amma nace bah komai toh kuma this guy tundaga ranan har yanxu wlh bai neme ni bah amma nasan hakkina baxai barshi bah koh Dan kuntatawar day ayimun awannan shekarun muna waya da family dinshi haryanxu da koh bankiraba they would call me and Alhamdulillah his sis is encouraging me sosai wlh Cox itama tace she would never allow me to have relationship dashi kuma🙏🏻 it’s have been more than 2months Alhamdulillah wlh nafara manta abubuwa sosai amma cire Mutum arayuwarka after all those years isn’t easy daman abunda yakeso kenan he cant do it saboda his family will question him kuma nayi ai nayi mishi abunda yakeso kenan All I know is that navarshi da Allah😭💔

Malama I just turned 18 today but my parent have been pressurizing me to get married since when I am 16 because my elder sister got married at that age wlh is not like I don't want to get married but I don't have some one that am willing to marry and am now in my final year at University and then told me that immediately I finished I should bring a spouse home but wlh I don't have anybody on my mind now and I don't want to choose the wrong person and now there is no money for my school fees I don't know what to do I have been trying to save some money for my school fees but I wasn't able to pls help me out

I just noticed that on this app most men are looking for slim girls and all that and tbh that's okay no judgement on that but what about the chubby woman ? every time you scroll to see and make a request on someone's profile it's mostly slim or not so slim cmon now chubby women are cool too try to atleast give them a chance.

Early last year I met my ex boyfriend that happened to be the worst relationship i have ever had. we actually met on Snapchat, he happened to be a very kind person, self centered, straightforward and a bachelor but non of that was true. we dated for basically about 2 months before letting him meet my parents cause why not? I liked him☺️ then all of a sudden he started showing me red flags. like he calls in the morning when he's at work and maybe in the car or outside his house, then at a point I became suspicious of him saboda da alaman tambaya aii when I asked him sai yacemin wai cikin gidansa babu network so i happened to let it slide.. so after sometime I noticed that he lies, probably not all the time, Amma ya faramin karya. so life goes on I don't even know how but it came to my notice that he was married with two kids and at that moment nothing felt right again.. when I asked him bai karyata hakan ba, saima sanarmin dayayi kan cewa he married three years ago, daman yasan idan ya fadamin yanada mata ba aurensa zanyi ba🥹 I felt the whole world crushing on me, cause I thought I've found my knight in shining armor. I ended things with him cause I can't stay and marry someone that does not respect me. my point is that maza dan Allah kudaina karya, ko mata 3 gareku ku sanar da diyar mutane dan Allah.

When you see a guy smiling while chatting .. Just know that someone’s daughter has fallen into his trap.. True or false ___Mims_

Da zarar mutum ya zo wajen ka sau daya neman alfarma, ka yi mai wani abun... shikenan ka zama regular customer. I find it very annoying that someone who is healthy, hale and hearty has the energy and physical ability to walk and move around freely amma kullum sai dai zuwa gidajen mutane neman alfarma. I know situations can be tough, but why will mutum Kawai bashi da aikin yi sai dai zuwa neman alfarma every month.