please aja wa maza kunne suji tsoron Allah akwai wani mutumi ne muna irin hira normal da shi yau da kullum sai haka kawai we don't use to talk then all of a sudden again he hit me up saying he wants to tell me the truth wai he wants to have s** with me 😭 Daga mutunci kawai sai a kama maganar s** kuma fa magidanci ne yana da mata da ƴaƴa. Maza kuji tsoron Allah. Note shi ya faɗamin he's married immediately I knew I stopped talking to him

Hello guys...so I don't actually know what's wrong with me...but I know deep down nothing is actually wrong with me . it's just my desires and needs..and no matter how hard I try even to get the little things that don't even matter to some people..I don't get it...and it hurts and l even cry.. because I actually envy people that are very rich,dey have the latest phones,dey go to outside country, and do what ever dey want and is not like am not contented with what I have I am ,I love my family,I won't say I have friends because dey don't want my progress dey always say I don't stay in where God keep me..lol and it's not like am going anywhere o ..dey are even better than me in so many ways but dey keep saying such things to me....and am contented with what I have but atimes I just don't want me or anyone to suffer too much before you get what you want when at last you won't even get I want to get the little things that matter to me ...like I want to be a source of my happiness and people's happiness especially When it have to do with money and I don't have it 😔 So please I don't know what to do? I need your help,advise and suggestions 🙏

idan shedan nason rabaki da saurayinki sai ya zugaki ki rokesa kudi😂

I'm confused between 2 guys. the first one he's well to do, works abroad (where I'm working too), religious, calm but he's not that good looking so I am not attracted to him. also we're family friends so our families kind of know about us and that's something that bothers me sometimes because I don't want a situation where things become serious with families getting involved while I am not ready yet. I clearly told him I'm not ready to take it to next step yet because I'm trying to figure out if I can develop feelings for him. He used to send me cute messages when I told him it's what I like but I find it hard reciprocating and he stopped. I feel like he needs to do these things to win me over but in his defense he said he doesn't see the point of doing it if I'm not reciprocating. so we just continue phone calls and that's all. the second guy, I'm attracted to him, he's ok too religious wise and well to do and he loves me, he's been wanting to be serious with me but I kept pushing him away and he lives in Nigeria. He told me that he's ready to settle and even a week before he sent his elders to ask for another's hand he told me if I am interested he's willing to hold off. so now Im starting to like the second guy and I feel it's late, I told him im now ready to start a relationship and he said he still loves me and will marry me when I come back to Nigeria. please advise. is it worth to wait and get married to the second guy as a second wife or try to develop feelings for the 1st guy.?

One of the worst aspect of a breakup is you know you have this person and you know every single little details there is to know about them their favorite color how they like their back tickled when going to sleep you know all these things but they are like a stranger to you now. You don’t really know where they are or what they are doing, you don’t know how they are feeling, you don’t know if they are feeling the same pain as you. And it feels like all of those things you spent so much time learning about them just becomes Useless Information. And it doesn’t go away you know, it sticks in your head they’ve gone but all of those things remains and it eats away at you because it hurts to know everything there is about a person but they’re gone. Mood: Depressed 💔till further notice

DonAllah mata a riqa sa Hijabi hide that round face of yours and that shinny Goshi look beautiful and modest

NYSC camp stressed my life for the past 3weeks sunsa nayi missing ArewaUp platform 🥹🥹 Hope y'all are doing okay.! ku hito kuyi comment mu kwalbe 🥂 i met a girl in camp😁😁 sunanta Rah Bee Ah! she stays in kaduna too. this gist long

Why is it that guys become uninterested when they find out you are in the medical field, A Nurse to be precise?

Salam. Don Allah haryanxu zamu iya biyan acceptance fee na BUK don samun scholarship din Kano state na school fees? Mun samu admission amma ganin karin kudin makaranta da akayi bazamu iya biya ba muka hakura, amma yanxu tinda gomnatin Kano zata biya, toh muna da bukata amma kuma ba'a biya ko kudin acceptance fee ba bayan bada admission din. Don Allah mene abin yi wanda keda masaniya ya bamu shawara. Thank you.

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please am i d only one da duniyar bata ma dadi? am tired of everything wlh, this life no dey sweet me again😭 sometimes sae n dinga tunanin dama akwai abinda zansha in ta bacci wallahi, da zan manta d damuwa ta in manta da kaina, am depressed, am lonely😢 komai babu dadi wlh no kuka nayi damuwata bata raguwa 🥺

is it good for married women to ask for sex from their spouse

I am a 28 year old guy and I have to admit I'm finding it hard balancing my work with my relationship. My soon to be wife has already accepted the fact that my job is more important than her . I hate to be that person,I love her and I'm deeply hurt that I can't balance things. My work hours range from 9am to 7pm . It takes me atleast an hour to get home and have alone time for myself. Most times I get really busy during the day,we don't talk except at night , sometimes I get really tired at night and we don't even talk and when such happens it's world war . I have to write a paragraph explaining why I wasn't available to talk. Sometimes it gets to me,I feel she should understand when I'm busy or tired without making me feel guilty about it since we talk everyday and I've told her how busy my Work can get. I've talked to her but still she don't wanna understand ,if I'm away for the whole day I know I'm in for trouble 😴😴. What should I do please it's disturbing me .

Is there anyone out here who's having a hard time getting some decent night sleep and wants to engage in heart to heart conversation?

On days like this,it gets very hard,I witnessed a beautiful loveable marriage and i was so happy for them i shed a tear or two.its the kind of love stories we hardly hear about.And when i asked them the secret of their marriage and they said Allah comes first in whatever they do right from dating . MashaAllah something that is getting extinct in our society...ba maza ba mata the so called wayewa is making us forget our beloved religion. You may ask what makes it hard on days like these ko?The feeling of being extremely happy for someone but at the same time very sad for yourself. it gets so lonely,empty message folder,empty phone logs.no check in messages balle love messages.On days like today i just wish i have a husband i will talk to,lean on and give all the love i have bottled up in me.is so lonely ya Rahman. I hold islam very dear and in my journey of finding a husband i will never compromise my deen .i get gaki kamar kin waye amma...or ya kike kamar baki waye ba. Ya Allah make it easy for me ya Rahman.and to everyone going through same.Oh Allah i ask you for your love and the love of thise who love you and the love of every action that will bring me closer to your love.

Abincin Wani guban Wani, ni burina na auri medical Doctor, kuma insha Allah I will be very supportive to her, more especially if she's on call, I can even cook food nakaimata Hospital. but har yanxu Allah bai bani ba. hakan yasa ko girlfriend bani dashi. but zakaga wasu kuma gudun medical personnel din sukeyi. Nikam wai miye yake faruwa ne.? Miye matsalan dayasa ake gudunsu..? while kuma idan matarka batada lafiya zakace kafison mace ta dubata ..

Dan Allah Duk wanda tasan islamic medicine for anti-fungal infection kutaimakeni dashi mana. infection want to kill me

Hello everyone, good evening. I'm interested in visiting Kano to learn how to make bags and Shoes from experts. Please anyone who knows where I can learn it should drop their suggestions. Thank you.

I can't be cooking every day and I don't used to wake up till 11 o'clock and others invalid reason. this is some reason most men left relationship without notifying you. even though their intentions to marry you.

so I Met one guy in school when I went for exams and the guy has been stalking me since ,he chatted me one day on WhatsApp ,he introduced himself as my coursemate and I recognized him and saved his contact since then this guys usually chat me up but I usually give him a reply I don't return the vibes (because I didn't notice he's into me ) then one I posted a video of my self saying something and he commented on it since then I understand that he's really good in islam I start liking him so this guy sha this guy proposed to me and I accepted him oo and now after like three weeks of knowing each other he said he want to send his people and I'm scared of getting married now I'm young to get married now and I'm not yet done with school kuma he's also a student in the school kuma a semester ahead of me he said he want his wife to wear hijab all the time and a housewife not going to work she's going to do her business at home we barely know each other kuma fah just three weeks fah kuma he want children fah and he's doesn't want to wait for like a year or two before im done with school .he said he want a child after we are married fah im Just 18