Can a guy of 23 get married to a girl of 17 who truly love each for the sake of Allah, and how would they try and convince there parents for agreement, but for sure the guy hasn't finished his uni, still in lvl 300 but the girl just finished her secondary, please how would they convince there parents

" I and My Bea Have Been Together For Years Now. But We Still have this Feelings of Excitement Stage .our love is so unique.it Is Agreed By All Around Us That There is No Greater Love Than Our Own. Am Sure If Am To Say more things about it So many members here Can Recognise Me instantly. So the thing us we Want to Secure A Future with Each other but am In My Final Year Right Now. So Any Advice Please ? "

Assalamu alaikum ya a'hibbayi Barkan ku da Sallah kuma Allah ya Kara maimaita mana Ameen 🙏 recently I noticed a growing number of ladies comparing and complaining that their boyfriends is miser/stingy/maku etc. I believe most of us went to islamiyya and our reason for going to islamiyya is to reflect the Islamic education into your lives right? good... Islamically, wehther you are a guy or a lady, it is good to give gifts to people babies 👶, elder 🧓 aunties 👩🏼 mother 👵 even a girlfriend 👧🏼 (with intention of marriage) boyfriend (with the intention of marriage) and shall receive lada/good deeds/ha'saanat... may Allah grant us good deed from our daily acts. Our focus is on guy giving a lady a gift right? firstly, let's talk about our culture, imagine yourself as a father or a mother which children, and one of your female child brought a gift to the house from someone you both don't know? is that part of our culture fisabilillah? we both know that some guys have evil intentions towards a lady and they will use gifts her to lower her down to his needs... Secondly, Let's talk about the Islamic ruling on gifting a lady... a gift is not giving a lady directly rather, through her parents and when her parents accepts such gifts then a lady should accept it, and they most already be in a courtship with a sole intention of marriage and nothing else, meaning engagement and both parents most know each other too . Thirdly, let's talking about the economy, I know, I have seen, and I understand that most/some ladies are finding life difficult due to financial and emotional stress in the country, especially those in schools, may Allah make it easy for you all and the guys too... I have no Islamic Hadith in gifting on this aspect ( please some should teach us the Islamic rulings here), but generally speaking a it is encouraged for a financially capable guy with good intentions to earn reward from Allah SWT to assist a lady who is in need of financial assistance to support her education, feeding, and other important things not Kayan sallah and other irrelevant things in order to avoid the lady (especially those in school) from falling a victim to the evil minded guys. by the way, I stand to be corrected 👨‍🎓 my personal advise to all ladies, Zamani ya chanxa the world is coming to an end please and please try as much as possible to start a business or learn a skill and perfect yourself on it because the more you ask a guy the more some of them will try to take advantage of you, by saying this, I will also like to advise the men, my guys, my able and capable gender 😎 instead of gifting a lady with cloth or shoe or whatever, let's try and support their businesses by patronizing them, by getting customers for them, or by financially adding the number of their products so that they can grow and we earn a growing reward from Allah SWT. So my brothers and sisters, my Sallah is not complete because I have not eaten pounded yam yet 🥹 and no body invited me to eat pounded yam with goat meat 🍖 but I surely hope your Eid was well spent, Allah has accepted your sacrifices and rewarded you all aboundantly and may see many more EID to come and may our deceased loved ones continue to rest under Allah's Rahma and light. I love you All ❤️ 😎 🙏 Taqabalallahu Minna Wa Minkum!

Assalamualaikum everyone Eid Mubarak to you all Shawara nake Nima....I don't know whether it's from me or not I have two grown up junior sisters...you know all of em have boyfriends,and not to brag, they're all trying to keep it halal in a relationship... My problem is I have a boyfriend too, I'm not a materialistic person,but my siblings used to make fun of me because of my boyfriend... they'll be like yaya kekam duk samarinki marowata ne...tell me among all of them Wanda ya taba samiki ko airtime din darine, baya damuna Amman yanxu yafara damuna tunda sukayi mgn ah gaban maman mu tayi backing dinsu up, Su harga Allah there bfs are showering them with gifts,money, airtime and the rest...i don't know ko ban iya soyayya bane sbd duk ex's Ina bb Wanda ya taba min kyauta,the annoying one is this particular one I'm dating now... Munkai 8months, ni I used to view things as normal but my sisters susuke sani damuwa, so whenever I called him he'll pick har saimun gamar da airtime dinna,then he'll call with his own card trying to conclude the conversation we're having ya hada da we'll talk later which is under probability,Kuma ko sau daya Bai taba samin airtime ba, sometimes I'll said bandashi Naga koxae tura Amma inaaa ko ah collar rigarsa ...he doesn't have much time for me self claiming he's busy all day,we used make call once in a day shima din da dare around 11:30 pm, and I'm a type of person that used to sleep early Amman haka nake hakuri najirashi,Kuma he doesn't even appreciate my waiting... sometimes ma zan Gama jiranshi idan ban Kira first ba he'll not call...like seriously they're alot that I don't want about him now,and he's not even willing to change... Infact I want to end the relationship but I don't know from where to start,and like seriously I loved him with all my heart 😭, which I hate myself for that. Pls help a sister with shawara how to end it up

1-A nemi ganyen mangoro guda bakwai (7) 2-danyen tumeric (kur-kur), za'a ganshi kamr danyar citta haka yake guda 6 3-kankana(water melon kamar ta N200 4-citta manya danye guda 2 ko 3. 5-tafarnuwa bunch(kusan cikin tafin hannu)guda daya 6-pure water 4litres Sai a tafasa gaba daya,a rika sha kullum (everyday).in ya kare a hada wani Yana maganin wanke mataccen maniyi wnda yake hana haihuwa yawanci,kuma yake saka saurin kawawo wa,yana taruwa ne baya fita. Yana maganin sanyi Yana wanke mara Yana maganin kankarcewar gaba sbd masturbation. aman bazai mah magani bah muddin baka daina masturbating bah.a dage ayi kokari a daina masrubation illa neh ga rayuwarmu Dan Allah.a dage a gwada wnn inshallah za'a dace.

wlh ba turancin dan zan yi😑 Dan Allah Dan Annabi Maza if you are no more interensted in a lady aw ashe nace bazanyi turanci ba idan bakwa raayi kukaji aranku yanzu bazan iya cigaba da muamala dake ta soyayya ba Dan Alfarmar Annabi muhammda s.a.w🥺wanda kowa Alfarmar sa yakeci dan Allah talk to that girl tell her your are not in to her again dont just leave kawai ba kwakkwaran dalili dan Allah🥺 kun san me bayan radadin break up na ka rbu da ita da kafin ta wartsake ta dawo hayyacinta har abadah zaka barta da tunanin meyasa wane ya rabu dani ko da tayi aure bazata taba manta wane haka kurum ya rabu dani ba we already knew that everything happen with a reason tell her she wont beat you naw🥺 karkari tayi kuka and moved on shknn dan Allah Dan Annabi sai ku dinga sawa mutum tun baku burgeshi ba bai shirya soyayya daku ba fan kun san lagon mace kusa ta fada soyayya daku ta karfi da yaji sannan ku tafi ba dalili dan Allah in kukace Allah zai barku kunwa kanku adalci ba tunanin hakki?? adduar wanda aka zalinta fa batada shamaki da ubangiji.bari dai nayi shiru haka akwai Allah😊 yanaji kuma yana gani😊. Amman kudan ce min sorry ko yaya ne☹️

May Allah Subahanahu Wata’alah choose us among his righteous servants and reward us with the best of this Duniya and Jannat Al firdaus in the hereafter, Ameen. Eid Mubarak to you and your family.

Why is it that idan kuna soyayya da mace and Ka ganta da Wani koh Kuma tafara Kula Wani bayan kaii sai kawai Ku janye koh kuce she cheated....What i see is that macen nan Allura ce acikin ruwa Mai rabo zai dauka kuma fighting for something you love is worth it, idan tafara Kula Wani kaima kayi iya bakin kokarin Ka Ka Nuna Kai namiji neh Ka mallake ta but you'll all be like tafara nuna red flags

budurwata ta tashi da safe ta kirani tace mun wai Tanaso Tayi unblocking ex boyfriend inta sai nace mata ban yarda ba saina tambaye ta mai zatace mishi in Tayi unblocking inshi sai tace bakomai wai kawai she just feel like unblocking him sai nace mata Nidai ban yarda bah kawai daga budan bakinta sai tace wai Danma naci sa'a ta gayamun sai nace mata Anya our relationship will last long kuwa sai tace mun wai your wish. wat are you guys thinking ku bani shawara

Maza ku matso muji ra'ayin ku akan wannan maganar. kunga duk maganar da Mata suke Yi concerning ana rabuwa dsu duk su suke Jan hakan, could you imagine yarinya zka Kira ta and she missed ur called sometimes and she won't call you back. sometime za taga Kiran Amma wai Jan aji zai hnata dauka. wata Kuma she'll be like u always disturb her because u check on her regularly. anything wey concern love I removed my hands 👐

Assalamu alaikum. Wato babbar matsalan wasu matan they don't want to be hold accountable for their wrong doings and they don't want to be corrected. inada wacce zan aura date kawai ya rage in-sha Allah, to be honest she is a very quiet person and not expose as much as me, hira da itama yana bani wuya sabida she doesn't know what to say or how to treat a guy, amma tanada hali mai kyau. whenever I try to correct her behaviour sai tace na cika complain da mita. example, normaly idan mutum yana so ya kashe waya for some reason a lokacin da ake wani important topic, ai both male or female will say "please ina zuwa zanyi wani uzuri I will call later" amma it she will just say "sai anjima" as if she is not interested in the discussion, sometimes bata ma tsayawa taji koh naji me tace ko banji ba kawai tana faɗa sai tayi cutting call ɗin, koh sai ka gama dogon magana kawai sai tayi shiru bazata ce komi ba, sometimes kayita hello hello har kayi tsammanin bataji ne ashe tanaji. mind you tana sona fa kawai she doesn't know how to talk or treat a guy, which I understand. Matsalata shine I am willing to show her how to do it but tana ganin kamar mita ne while na faɗa mata I just want our relationship to be good shisa. I know zan iya haƙuri da wannan halin nata but nasan in the longrun it will iritate me because aure ba wasa bane, I need to make sure she knows abunda bana so, so that to avoid unnecessary arguments. To be honest ladies duk macen da take ganin gyara a matsyin yawan complain da mita shine yake sa maza bama son mu faɗi abunda yasa muke rabuwa da mace saide mu canza hanya kawai mace taji shiru, because their is no point in correcting someone that is not ready to take responsibility of his wrong doings, someone who sees herself as almost perfect and not want to change her ways. Idan kun lura duk lokacin da ka duba social media profile, comment ko marriage request zakuga mata suna cewa wai "I WANT SOMEONE THAT WILL LOVE ME THE WAY I AM" duk lokacin da naga irin wannan sai nayi driya nace red flag, most of them suna nufin idan sunyi abu mara kyau don't ever complain or correct their bad behaviour, sai dai su a bar su yanda suke sai kace sune iyayen ka, amma wasu matan nasan ba haka suke nufi ba.

Salamu alaikum. Don Allah jama'a kuban shawara wallahi babata ta fiya surutu. Zance ne da ita na fitar hankali gashi kuma da karfi take duk seta cika wa mutane kunne. Abin yana matukar konan rai walh na rasa yanda zanyi da ita. Na yi mata magana yafi sau nawa amma taki denawa, abin ya zama halinta, yabi jikin ta. Dayawa lokacin se ta fadi abinda zata baka kunya, ko ta jawo muku zagi, azo aita dauki ba dadi. Ko wata magana ace a bakinta akaji. Kullum aikin kenan. walh wataran in na kawo kai tin kafin na karaso gida daga waje zan dnga jin surutan ta. A kofar gida kuwa banson na tsaya da aboki don kar ta fadi wani abun yaji nazo nasha kunya. Cikin mutane in ana hira tafi kowa zakewa. Gata da gardama da musu. Inason kawo budurwata ta gaishe ta, amma ina tsoron bakinta walh. Abin walh yana mutukar ban haushi da ita. Ji nake kamar na mata bulala walh don haushin da take bani, gashi kuma uwa ce😔 Don Allah kuban shawarar yanda zan bullo wa lamarin nan.

Salami . Don Allah namiji ze iya amfani da hadin sabaya domin kara kiba ko kuwa mata ne kawai zasu iya amfani dashi. Naji ance yana gyaran nono, to naga maza basuda nono.

When you are having relationship with someone, I guess you both should be open to each other most especially Maza Idan kana relationship da mace, we know that mata sunfi maza rauni kuma kowa yana laifi Dan Adam ãjizi ne buh Idan tayi maka laifi wanda baka ji Dadi bah she should know whether xataji dadi or not but let her know saboda if she didn't correct that and u guys broke up xatasan cewa this certain thing made my last relationship end koh yaya tasani but to just keep quiet and go is not good it hurts bad wlh Dan Allah Maza adunga magana before taking a step forward wlh abunda sukeyi na dadi kuna xaune DA mutun Lpylau kawai sai kiga yacanxa if u ask he would say baa komai kuma akwai the next thing that u will observe sai kiga he don't care kaman yanda yasaba , and ke kuma kiyita tunani bakisan meyafaru ba kawai kunyi break up without knowing💔

Lamarin jari hujja Masu kudi basa gaggawa gurin aurar da yayansu mata,se tayi karatu,bayan karatun ma sai tajira kome ya nuna,kun dauka basu da hankali neh,idan yarinya bata kai sama da +26 basa mata lissafin aure kuma idan sun tashi aurar da ita,sukan neman mata magidanci ne kuma attajiri ko matashi dan attajirai. Kar ka dauka aure ya bayar, A'a y bayar da jin gina ne,yadda shi bazai karye ba tunda ya fahimci yayansa kadara ne,shi ysa mah yake aurar kyakyawar mace Dan ta bashi fararen yara,shi kuwa talaka bashi da burin daya wuce ya bayar da kadarar sa ga wawan da baya ganin darajarsa kota diyarsa, dalili Shima bamai daraja bane. Shi yasa auren baya kawo farin ciki kuma kaga saki yayi yawa. to be continued..,..

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Allah yasa daii mijina yana da hancii 🙏

Ni maaikaaciyar lafiya (nurse),nayi karatun ne saboda baba na burinsa yaga yarsa tana aikin lpy (doctor or nurse) alhmdllh bam samu nayi medicine amma na samu nursing( ni kuma bani son harka lfy amma nayi ne sbd na farantawa mahaifina)Alhmdllh ina godiya da samun mahaifi irinsa, dan ya hana kansa jin dadi dan kawai yaga ya cinema burinsa akaina, ina da qanne 6 amma yafi bawa karatuna muhimmanci sbd nan gaba na samu aiki zan (in sha Allah) taimaka masa. Allah na gode yanzu ina internship dina. matsala ynzu itace duk wanda yazo neman aure na sai yace ba zan aiki ba, ni kuma gsky a wannan yanayi na rayuwa da yadda mahaifina yasha wahala gsky bazan iya ajiye aiki(tunda ni kaina ba so nke ba) amma ina so na sa mahuafina farinciki yasan cewa kudin daya kashe baa banza bane kuma Ina da qanne. Ni a yanzu na ajiye batun aure a gefe gashi shekaru na ja, Ammma bam fidda da rai, ina kaina fata nagari Allah bai manta dani ba .

Assalamu Alaekum Wai meyasa mutane bama gudun 'batawa 'yanuwanmu rai ne ?? regarding wacce tace an haifeta ba da aure ba meye laifinta don Allah ?? Qaddarace fah Allah ya d'aura akanta ko da kuwa iyayenta sun aikata hakan don son zuciyarsu ne, kuma duk duniyar nan babu wanda zaiso ace bashi da uba, sannan wannan abu baifi qarfin Allah ya qaddarashi a kaina ko akanka ba amma Allah baiyi hakan ba saika gode mai bawai idan Allah ya qadarta ya fad'a kan waninka kazo kana ci mai mutunci akan hakan ba. Don Allah musan mezamu dinga fad'awa 'yanuwanmu kuma karmu manta da hadisin manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam da yake cewa duk wanda ya yarda da Allah da kuma ranar qarke to ya fad'i alkhairi ko kuma yayi shiru.

  Life of a chubby kid or fat person is not easy. They are bullied, joked about and are mostly the butt of all jokes in school or workplace. As a result they deal with a lot of complexes in their mind and feel they don’t fit in the crowd as they get conscious. I'll tell you to inspire yourself to accept yourself (even if you are fat) and live life with confidence. Never call a girl fat. · Girls with chubby cheeks are so damn cute🥰 · CHUBBY, SINGLE & ready for a PRINGLE. Keep calm and date a girl the way she is. Size of one’s body should be no parameter to judge anyone. Body shaming is one of the worst type of bullying that can make any person lose their self – confidence and expose them to complexes in their mind. we loves you chubbiest. ko a taro za kaji ana sannu da zuwa hajiyan Allah😂 Amma 'yan kyakyaf slimmy wai za ka ga ko kallan su ba'a yi sorry to say that.