Many ladies fully or partially take their friends's opinions when it come to choosing who to date ,what I mean is that, if a lady met who she truly loves ,once she introduce him/show him to her friends ,their compliment is what matters most to her. If her friends rejected him or badmouth him then she will go ahead and reject him .why can't she take responsibility for her choices and stand on it regardless of whatever her peers is going to say.???

Assalamulaikum everyone, I have this boyfriend dan uwan mama ne Kuma da aure yake sona but the problem here is that he's married with 8kids Kuma ne am an undergraduate student 300lvl shi Kuma he's school dropped out ,thou he has been helping in school affairs but ama gsky he's not up to my standards Kuma salary din shi is not that enough da zai rike mata biyu but he insteaded that God is in control,ga problem din wife din shi bata son kishiya Duk matan da yake aure i don't know sakin sun yake or its her doing, 2nd wife din shi ta mutu,3rd wife Kuma tace ya sake ta that she doesn't wants to stay with him sbd 1st din ,yanzu problem din shine wai December zai tura Gidan mu ama am scared 😟, sbd idan yana gida no matter how many times I called him,he won't pick up sai ya fito gida zai kirani, shiyasa idan na tuna da mata sai inji I don't like him anymore sbd mata shi nada kishi sosai ,am scared entering this kind of family fah ,thou he is an hardworking man,wlhi he's very caring ga tausayi ga shi very cool but his wife is the problem, Kuma yana tsoron ta sosai .. should I allow him to send his parent ?? advice me

Assalamualaikum Good morning everyone please I need more light about kayan lefe what is supposed of the bride family to give to the groom family as tukwuci after bringing the lefe.. please it's urgent

just a question I have been wanting to ask pls me ake Kiran Dambu and Dan wake in English I'm just curious

There's no greater tragedy like falling in love with a broken person,someone who has been hurt badly in the past ,someone whom love has failed and they have already giving up on finding that special feeling. No matter what you do,you will always be viewed through the lens of her past affliction, you have to FIGHT to earn her TRUST , to make her believe in love again. You need to prove to her that you are different,you need to accept the scars in her life , you want to succeed in making her feel loved and appreciated because if you fail ,you'll just be another MISTAKE in her life .

I got married to my husband some months back and alhamdulillah we are living fine, but the problem is he has another wife and she hasn't given birth, she had five miscarriages and he really loves kids, ever since we got married every month I had my period he changes completely and it really disturb me we fight and alot of things, so it's been months now and am not pregnant so we decide I start to see a gyne. Everything is fine with both of us but no baby this man don't understand it's from God but depress me cause he already know his first wife have problem with her womb so am his hope, wallahi the pressure was getting too much on me but from him and his parents, so this month I was suppose to go see my doctor and he said everything is fine but my period delayed, wlhi I even start having does morning sickness and everything as if am pregnant, he to the hospital again and had a test but it's negative, the doctor knows everything about my life with my husband so he said I should not tell him anything since my period still didn't come I did that but that my keep saying am pregnant since it's weeks and no period and I told him I am. I keep praying may it be pregnancy but unfortunately I start my period yesterday. I don't know how to tell him am not pregnant. And he told both our families that am pregnant, I know him and what he can do if I tell him am not now wlhi zamu iya rabuwa, so I decide not to tell him if next month am not I will just tell him I had a miscarriage because if my family knows about my lies am done. Please help me with advice and if there's a gyne that is the platform should please help with what to do. I have to lie to safe my marriage

What kills relationship slowly, let's discuss so that we can learn from each other.🙂😥 🤍🖤🥰🌹

Assalamualaikum!!! To ladies in the house please someone should recommend any cream for me I am brown skin I need cream Wanda zai Kara fita min da skin color Dina not to make me fair thank uu

my boyfriend of about 5 months is dirty and I don't know how to talk to him without hurting his self esteem. He doesn't dress neatly, he doesn't brush well because his teeth are yellow, his nails are always dirty and I have to beg him to cut them or even bring a nail cutter to cut them myself sometimes. his hair is unkempt, he doesn't barb well or even style it in any fancy way. When I speak of hygiene or neatness casually, he says women are the ones expected to be clean. please help me with advice. How do I make him improve? because I'm tired. I'm not attracted to him because of this hygiene issue but he's a really good person that I don't want to lose.

So guys I’ve felt sorry for this man. I was coming from my friend’s place today I booked tricycle (napep) here in kano so you know how those people are baka musu magana bama zasu kawo m labari so dama na saba tabo su don jin labarin dunia so luckily he has a story which he like witness because wanda abun ya faru a kanshi ne ya fada mishi he said Yesterday I took one Alhaji after like some minutes muna tafiya I saw him kept his head on base my napep and as I talk to him he look up and he was crying his eyes are filled up with tears 😭 I was worried 😦 what could happen to this Big man that looked wealthy enough? I’m my heart then the man says wlh oga yau na kama uwar gida na da Amarya ta suna lesbian (Madigo) Subhanallahi

Wai tunda aka fara ansamu wasu sunyi aure anan

Most Of The Girls here Crying Out To Find The Best Husband They Can Find. But The Question Here Is That All you Want ( Someone That Can Feed Them Cloth them and take Catre Of You Health To His Best Of Ability) ? When You think of it You and The Society are The Agent Stoping you From Marriage Most Of Our Parents Married in One Room Apartment Before Allah ya Bude Musu...Amma Yanxu Room color in Bai mata Ba Zata Pasa Auren...Most of Mazan Nan Nason Aure Wallahi But the Moment ya Fara lisafin Abunda Dole Ya Tara Before The Marriage sai Yaga He Won't be Ready For Three Years or More. Dole Yagan ki ya Chire Ido.. Or Shedan Ya Rijayeshi Ku Fada Zunubi. Women Make Life Easy For These men And Your Selfs. When You Look At It This Wealth You Are Looking For Wallahi it Was Writing for perior to your Birth. Arzikin da Zakichi A Duniyan nan Duk Allah ya Rubuta Miki.. So In kin Aure Mai Kudi And You Are Enjoying his wealth just Know Rabon ki ne Wanda Allah ya Riga Ya Rubuta miki Tun kina Chiki Fah... En Mata Nawa Suka auri The Rich man They Want but Arziki Da Nishidin Rayuwa da take Before the Marriage yafi wanda Take In his Home. So Be Calming Down And Look For Mai Addini Da Kyaun Hali And Support Him. Insha Allah Allah Will Open His Doors For You

it's pointless saying my problems but I can write what feel now I feel unwanted everywhere I don't know why I but is always me everyone have a problem me can't make decisions for myself cuz if I try to they tell I don't own myself. my parent do anything about it also just feed up sometimes i want to kill myself and everything should be free from the burden who know if I will be here to reply your messages I wanted write something before its comes to an end cuz I have been patient and when a person gone he /she will loved later on so I don't need an advice cuz I will not be hear heel to the advice maybe I will not be here to read it

I recently stumbled upon a post where the author stated that he can't marry the lady he is with and some people were bashing him without knowing his reasons . I made a post some days back regarding the grief I'm feeling for breaking up with my lover and some were accusing me of not loving her . First just because you like someone and have talks about marriage that doesn't Automatically mean you must marry . If I notice a behavior from you or any other thing that won't make us to be compatible then I have every right to call it off just as you . There's what's known as courtship stage in a relationship,it is in that stage that two potential partners tend to know more about themselves and investigate. If I notice the girl I'm to marry has something that I can't tolerate or will ruin our marriage in the long run , does that make me a bad person ? You can be with someone and along the way you lose interest and realize they were not who you thought they were in the first place , It doesn't mean you want to play them or anything like that. I broke up with my ex because I felt i can't give her what she's asking of,I've sacrificed a lot and done things I haven't even done to my mom but still it wasn't enough for her . Just because I decided to call it off just so both of us can have peace of mind . I was told that I never really loved her and all sort of things . I just laughed at it .

plsss mene ne matsalan auren namiji me mata the person am dating now has a wife and 1kid we met just recently amma matsalan shine yaya ta bata son na auri me mata, tace na manta d maganar sa i want to prove them wrong! so dan Allah mene ne matsalan auren me mata?????

My fiance tested Positive Hbs Ag, while I'm negative, what can he do first, hope dere s no problem if we get married, ND plss what can I tell him to calm down, he's panicking right now, it's urgent plssssss. Thank you

Assalamualaikum Da fatan kowa kalau hmmmm ya Allah jama'a wallahi gidan Riko baiyi bah koh da Dan uwanka ne imagine kana zama ne a gidan Dan uwanka da ya kamata kaji dadi ama an Mai da kai tamkar bawa aiki tun safe har dare kaine shara da mopping kaine wank wanke,wankan yaransu,abincin safe,na Rana da na dare kaine komai Yara ma kaman haifa Maka sukayi Kuna tare har barci in basuyi barci ba Kai ba ka Isa kayi ba babu Abu haushi kaman yaro yayi kashi sai a kira ka duk abunda kake ka bari kazo ka wanke ma yaro kashi wallahi duk waenan abubuwan sun sani samm bana sha'awar hahuwa koh nayi aure am tired wallahi Wani lokutan har adu'a nake nayi ciwo because that's the only reason u can rest in that house

Please how can I respectfully tell a lady I can't marry her though I like her but not like like for marriage. we are okay with each other but I'm heavy to say NO

Let me start from the beggining, i met this Men(1)at the Airport in Nigeria (December 2021) when i was coming for Holidays, my mum comnected me to him b4 i came to Nigeria so he would pick me up (it was these covid time) so he picked me up did everything at the airport for me. Everytime I visit that airport I would call me he would do everything for me. As time Flys by it was time for me to go back and leave Nigeria. So I was at the Airport met him he does everything for me. he asked my cousin if I was married bcoz he never saw a Hausa Lady that nice as me even though I never lived in Nigeria was born and grown up abroad. that's there the story began. Ina dawo wa ya fara yi min text. she changed the story and asked me many questions about my life that his friend wants to marry me, no relationship just marriage and very fast. he is a very nice and religious person only bcoz of his Faith I have that much feelings for him. he has 2 wives and has 10 children. and is even though not that old only 40yrs. the problem is financial,I don't think he can marry somebody like me, I never had financial problems in my life, my father was a very popular Journalist worldwide and my life is just different. I never had a bf who sent me small money 10k or 20k so it was very difficult bcoz he tells me I have to change my life when I will marry him, he can't afford my expensive life. he promised to pay me 2 times a year going abroad & umrah. money is a very big issue for him, I never had those problems.i think he will change when we get married. pls I need advice for that. okay then I met 2022 January in my auntys house a very popular political rich person, I never heard about him bcoz I don't live in Nigeria. he wanted my abroad number I have gave him then he gave me like 1k$ na sallama first day I saw him. my aunty told him everything about my family and my life then he was so into me. after 2 weeks he searched for my nigerian number called me and asked me where am I, I told him kano he said he will come tomorrow to my house. the next day he came with his friend, I did different types of food and teas. and even gave them some gifts. they stayed for 2 hrs that's where our relationship starts money is never a problem for him. he is like 25years older as me but he is so nice and he did so much for me. I think I should just marry him. he will come in June then we will discuss and get married very fast. pls I need advice

My fiancé and I have being dating for more than a year now,we are getting married in four months Inn sha Allah 🙏 this guy loves me and my family with the whole of his heart like he dose everything for us,but I have a problem of jealousy i easily get jealous when I see him talking or chatting with his female friends on the phone🥹like ni wacece just because he is dating me can’t talk to his female friends?🤦‍♀️I always put the pressure on him and is really disturbing me Dan Allah ku taimaka min if there is any du’a I can do to stop me from being jealous I just want a happy home with him and yeah it’s not like I don’t trust him wllh I trust him 💯and you know what i don’t get jealous of his wife I swear to Allah I like that woman I take her more like a sister not kishiya I don’t even want to see her as kishiya she is just my sister because he showed the both of us that he loves us so much and we love him to the extent of liking what he loves so that made us like each other too❤️ I need a du’a🙏