Assalam alaikum Actually I had to bring this topic to the table to be honest it's pieces me of you start dating a guy and the question he asks is are you a virgin what are your intentions to answer this question is embarrassing honest And then what your business about someone passed you are but why about my passed if you know about it what will you use it for Actually for some people you are bringing up her horrible passed I needed to ask why do guys ask such questions

Akwai dalilin da yasa mata suke tara samari, sai dai kowa da nata dalilin kamar haka: 1. Wata tana tara samari ne saboda tana tsoron ta so mutum daya daga karshe kuma rabuwa ya shigo tsakanin su, ko dai naturally ko kuma constructive (yaudara). Yawancin mata a wannan bangaren suna fama da fear of rejection 3. Akwai set din matan da suke tara samari saboda koda sun tashi aure suna da choices, sai sun zauna sun tantance kafin su samu daya daga ciki su ce ya turo. Matan dake wannan category din sun kasu biyu. Na farko sunayin hakane for their emotional safety, a duk lokacin da suka tashi aure ba zasu rasa wanda zai fito ba (wanda kuma akan rasa samarin duka a wani lokacin ko kuma rashin dacen miji), na biyun kuwa are so perfectionist, suna comparing maza ne don su samu most perfect one da ra'ayin su sai su watsar da sauran, mostly they are making their choices based on chemistry not compatibility. 5. Emotional Queens sune a wannan bangaren, a koda yaushe suna son a basu attention, so duk namijin daya kasance yana kokarin basu attention zasu iya soyayyah dashi koda tana da wasu kafin sa, hakan na faruwa ne idan initial saurayin bai bata enough attention.... Irin wannan matan suna rasa kansu saboda babu komai a kwakwalwar su sai tunanin romance and affection, yanda kasan haihuwar India yayen Korea haka suke. Maza sunfi samun saukin playing irin wannan matan saboda as far as kasan hannun ka, zaka iya tafiyar da irin wannan mace dai-dai da ra'ayin ka especially idan bata da lura, saboda blind folded love suke yi. Irin wannan matan suna experiencing severe heartbreak kuma gashi sun nace sai sun tara maza. 6. Akwai gold diggers, su basu da sana'a sai tara maza don wani ra'ayi nasu wanda duka bai wuce na abin duniya ba. Suna aje mai kai su kasuwa da anguwa saboda yana da mota, akwai mai sa masu data da airtime, akwai mai masu anko da sauransu dai, suna ware mutum daya wanda suke so, ba zasu taba rokon sa ba, shine priority a ran su. Yawancin mata a wannan bangaren saurayi na masu maganar aure zasu watsar dashi, sai dai wannan priority din, sannan they can only be available for you when they gained something from you. Misali, she can only call you if you recharge her phone, ko kuma ba zata taba chatting da kai ba har sai ka sa mata data, kuma yawancin interaction dasu cikin complaint suke... Ita bata da kaza, ita bata san ya zatayi ba tana so tayi kaza ammah ba dama, tasan sigar tatsan mutum kala-kala. Irin wannan matan suna yawan haduwa da yan iska, saboda akwai set din maza da yawa wanda basa kashe ma mace kudi a banza. Wasu matan suna tsallake tarkon maza, wasu kuma dole kasuwancin trade by barter ya hau kan su. 7. Akwai kuma wacce take tara maza saboda tana jindadin entertaining din su. So she's there for entertainment, a anguwa ne ko a social media bata da sana'a sai hira da maza, kowa ya santa kuma gashi abin ya zamar mata kaman addiction. Mace irin wannan bata iya samun emotional satisfaction da namiji daya 8. Akwai kuma mai tausayi... Irin wannan macen tana ganin bai kamata tayi rejecting wanda yace yana sonta kai tsaye ba, dalilin haka yasa take tara maza duk da bai zama dole ya kasance tana soyayyah dasu ba... Hakan yana da illa saboda kowa zai rika ganin kaman yana da wata matsayi ne a rayuwar ta, kuma she'll be feeling guilt idan tace bata son mutum ko tayi rejecting mutum. Besides, a gaskiya tara samari abune mai fadin gaske kuma ko wacce da nata dalilin hakan, sai dai bashi da wata fa'ida kwata-kwata. I'll make a post on it side effects da kuma dalilin da yasa gara ma kada mace tayi hakan, akwai matakin da zata dauka instead for her own good, but nasan wasu zasu ce ai maza nayi, I'll post about them as well.

WHEN IS LAYLATUL QADR? : 𝑸𝑼𝑬𝑺𝑻𝑰𝑶𝑵❓ : When is Laylat al-Qadr and how should we observe it? Is it by praying, or by reading Quran and the Prophet’s Sirah, listening to lectures and lessons and by celebrating it in the mosque? : 𝑨𝑵𝑺𝑾𝑬𝑹❗️ : Praise be to Allah. Striving hard in worship during the last ten days of Ramadan The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to strive hard in worship during the last ten days of Ramadan as he never did at any other time, praying, reading Quran and making du’a. Al-Bukhari and Muslim narrated from ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that when the last ten days of Ramadan came, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) would stay up at night and would wake his family up, and would abstain from marital relations. Ahmad and Muslim narrated that he used to strive hard in worship during the last ten days of Ramadan as he never did at any other time. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) enjoined staying up and praying on Laylat al-Qadr out of faith and in the hope of reward. It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever stays up and prays on Laylat al-Qadr out of faith and in the hope of reward, his previous sins will be forgiven.” Agreed upon. This hadith indicates that it is prescribed to observe Laylat al-Qadr by spending the night in prayer. One of the best du’as that may be recited on Laylat al-Qadr is that which the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) taught to ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her). Al-Tirmidhi narrated, and classed the report as sahih, that ‘Aishah said: “I said, ‘O Messenger of Allah, if I know which night is Laylat al-Qadr, what should I say on that night?’ He said, ‘Say: اللّٰهُمَّ إِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّيْ Allahumma innaka ‘afuwwun tuhibb al-‘afwa fa'fu ‘anni (O Allah, You are forgiving and You love forgiveness, so forgive me).” With regard to specifying which night of Ramadan is Laylat al-Qadr , this needs specific evidence, but the odd-numbered nights during the last ten nights are more likely than others, and the night of the twenty-seventh is the most likely to be Laylat al-Qadr, because that is mentioned in the ahadith. Can Muslims celebrate Laylat al-Qadr? With regard to innovations, they are not permissible during Ramadan or at other times. It was proven that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever innovates anything in this matter of ours that is not part of it will have it rejected.” According to another report, “Whoever does any action that is not part of this matter of ours will have it rejected.” We know of no basis for the celebrations that are held during some nights of Ramadan. The best of guidance is the guidance of Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and the worst of matters are those which are innovated (bid’ah). And Allah is the Source of strength. May Allah send blessings and peace upon our Prophet Muhammad and his family and Companions.

anyone experiencing excess in masturbation am hear to help cox am a victim to it and alhamdulillah I have try some ways and some natural medicine and already I have find the new me. so anyone who is in need of help ,am here to help Cox I know alot of people both boys/girls that are victims of it.

from the beginning, a lady wants true love and happiness and stuff and a guy wants friendship but why at the end it gon be a lady wants to be friends and a guy finds love ?

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh jama'a ya azumi Allah ya amshi ibadunmu ya yafe manah kuskurenmu Wanda muka sani da Wanda bamu sani bah. Dan Allah kutayani addua please Allah ya bani da iyayenah iKon karasa biyan kudin makaranta nah it's not easy exams Dina bayan sallah Koh kudin ban biya not to talk of registration please ku sani a addua Allah ya bamu hanyan samun kudin dazan biyah kafun jarabawa

Assalam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wa barakatuhu Hope all of you are well ? May Allah bless us all and increase us in goodness and make us all among the inhabitants of jannatul firdaus Please I was asking , akwai Wanda ya San makarantar ( islamiyya ) da Ake Haddar Qurani sosai cikin Hotoro ? Thank you May Allah be with you all

after long separation between me nd her since last year October she wish me on my birthday than I wish her because our birthday is in same month, ah sai cikin axumin nan she follow me on IG and I follow her back 2 days letter she DM me saying bbynah 😘 I was like kai😳Bby waye Bby naki sai yarinya tace wai kai I was shock dan ehna tinanin taxo da wata yau dara then I ask her one good question, yet no answer tin 5 na azuminan, ah nikam na saki layin ta did she want me to follow her neh ?

HUKUNCIN AMFANI DA MAGANIN INHELA GA MAI AZUMI : 𝐓𝐀𝐌𝐁𝐀𝐘𝐀❓ : Menene hukuncin amfani da maganin fesa iska a cikin bakin mai azumi da rana (wato, inhela), saboda ciwon quncin qirji ko wahalar numfashi (Asma)? : 𝐀𝐌𝐒𝐀❗️ : Hukuncinsa shi ne halacci; idan har lalura ta buqatar da mutum zuwa ga hakan, saboda fadin Allah Mabuwayi da daukaka a cikin "suratul An'aam ayata 119": وَقَدْ فَصَّلَ لَكُم مَّا حَرَّمَ عَلَيْكُمْ إِلَّا مَا اضْطُرِرْتُمْ إِلَيْهِ Ma'ana: "Kuma ya muku bayani na dalla-dallan abinda ya haramta akanku, sai dai wanda lalura ta buqatar da ku zuwa gare shi" : Kuma saboda kasancewar inhela baya kamantacceniya da ci ko sha, sai ya yi kama da jinin mutum da ake dauka don aunawa ko bincike, ko kamar allurar da ba a sanya abinci a cikinta ba. : Duba cikin littafin: TUHFATUL IKHWAN BI AJWIBATIN MUHIMMATI TATA'ALLAQU BI ARKAANIL ISLAAM. : MAJMU'U FATAWA WA MAQAALAAT MUTANAWWI'AH, (15/ 265). Allah ta'ala yasa mudace. :

so here I am finally pouring my heart out, I've actually had a crush on this guy for about four to five years now, it was actually love at first sight cuz I've even planned on the names of our children and stuff 😁 I've contact him myself cuz I couldn't keep it to myself anymore but later on it didn't work out even when I showed him immerse care just to make it happen but due to some reasons unknown to me he called it off, doesn't want to play with my heart,he's to broken for me to handle and I deserve someone better bla bla bla. it didn't go well with me though because I was fond of him, later on I blamed myself for not checking up on my self worth perhaps but then there's no harm in loving a person I'm still hurt about all the stuff and stress I've gone through but I did deserve someone better and it's his loss 🤷🏻‍♀️

Slm Dan Allah zanje lalle but I want to mix it myself because basuyi yayi ja sosai balle maroon, so what can I so and procedure pls

Ni dai nakan ce, matsalar da aketa magana akan zaben abokin zaman aure; muna bari jaki me, mu rika bugun taiki. Dalilina shine, iyaye a yanzu sun cire/ an cire hannunsu daga zabarwa yaransu (maza da mata) abokin zama, sai dai idan yaran sun gama sharholiyarsu sannan a nemi iyaye su daura aure sau da yawa. A ka'ida iyaye ne za su duba Wanda ya cancanta ga 'yarsu/dansu sai su zaba musu, domin wanda ya rigaka kwana dole zai rigaka tashi, ballantana Wanda shi ya haifeka, to sai aka ce mana wannan sunanshi auren dole, kuma duk muka yarda (Dan haka iyaye suka janye hannunsu, mu kuma 'ya'yan muke gaban kanmu). Sannan mun daina neman zabin Allah sai a Baki kawai, za'ayi aure an tafi wurin boka ko dan duba, ko kuma idan anyi Istikhara ta shari'a to amma akwai abinda mutum ya zabarwa kanshi already kawai yayi ta ne a matsayin zaiyiwa Allah wayo. Ko kaji muna 'ai baza mu iya hakurin da kakanninmu sukayi ba a zaman aure saboda mun waye' to tunda bazamu iya abinda sukayi ba; ai bazamu sa rai da samun sakamako irinnasu ba kuwa (ko a makaranta idan bazaka iya nacin da wancan yakeyi ba da juriya wajen karatu ai kasan sakamkonku bazai zama dai-dai ba. Allah Ya sa mu farka da wuri.

Assalamualaikum hope kowa ya Sha ruwa lfy, Allah ya karbi ibadunmu Actually something has been bothering me lately because gaskiya a da I used to be a really religious person bawai irin can can ba, amma yanzu komai ya gagareni wlh, da Ina iya tashi sallar dare, azumin litinin da alhamis and I used to make alot of duas while praying and after but yanzu I don't know what has gotten into ko morning and evening Azkar din da nakeyi before yanzu bana iya yi, I have tried everything I could just to go back to being what I was or even more but to no avail, honestly speaking bana wani Abun da ya Saba wa addini, and Ina five daily prayers kuma akan lokaci kawai dai as a Muslim inason naga Ina other abubuwan da suka shafi ibada.and what bothers me the most shine I'm into a business da ke bukatan nayi ta addu a considering the kind of business da kuma irin environment din da nake which is actually a local environment with lots of insecurities so I don't know what to do cos my parents and relatives will always be kiyi ta addu a sosai sbd kina cikin hatsari sosai . so please I really need your advice or guidance on what I am supposed to do cos I really don't know what to do.

{Lessons learnt from the first time I fell in love} I was 18,fresh out of secondary school with high expectations and hopes for my future . I started a teaching job so that I can have something to do while waiting for admission into higher institution. All my life ,I've never ever fallen in love ,I get scared by the thought of it,at that age I couldn't look at a girl eye to eye and have a normal conversation,not even my female classmates ,I was that shy . There was this certain girl, a few streets away from my house, we don't talk or share anything in common ,they normally pass our house when going to Islamic School in the evening. For the sake of privacy I'll refer to her as Aisha . The first time I met Aisha was when I was in Ss2, my school and hers had a football match . My mind was on the action going on in the field when I heard someone tapped me from my back . A girl came behind me and said someone wants to talk to me,she pointed at a small clique of girls sitting ,In their midst was Aisha. My mind started beating, I tried to pay attention on the football match but my focus was clouded . I left the field and went back to class , berating myself for not having the guts to accept her invitation. Two years later, I found myself teaching in the same school she is attending. Luckily for me I was given primary class to teach while she is in secondary. For the first week I couldn't see her in the school, I subtly asked my younger brother who's also attending the Same school if she's still attending the school. He said yes that it's because the session just started that's why . The next week I was outside observing the assembly when Aisha walked in and casually joined the queue . Everything was going okay till our eyes met,then the second time ,then the third . I looked away and walked back to the staff room . I tried to avoid her by all means. Some days later ,the school director called me into his office ,he asked if I can teach Islamic Religious Studies to the secondary as their Former teacher had left and I'm the only Muslim teacher in the school. I gladly accepted. Walking back to class ,reality of the situation dawned on me ..... I'll have to face Aisha , and worst teach her .... After being assigned to teach the secondary section Islamic Religious Studies,I made a resolve within myself to keep whatever hidden feelings I had for Aisha at bay . I'm her teacher now ,I need to be professional as possible. I can't allow some stupīd feeling ruin my job for me. The first time I walked into her class to teach I managed to keep a straight face and I didn't even look at her direction . Soon we began interacting , just greeting and things like that . Everything was going smoothly till the day of vacation,I sat with a fellow female teacher discussing ,she came by and collected the teacher's number,she's good friends with the teacher . I tried my best to look casual and not bothered by her presence . Later that day ,at night around 7, I was watching movies at home when a boy came into our house and said my friend is calling me outside . I was wondering which of my friends would that be ,stepping outside ..... I saw Aisha ,for the first few seconds I lost my train of thought and almost stammered . What are you doing here ,what if someone sees us ? Different questions floated into my head at the same time but I couldn't find the voice to say it out. We greeted and she said she just wanted to have my number . I gave it to her and went back home wondering what the hell is happening. The next night I received a call from a strange number , I picked it and heard her voice,we talked,I asked her about school, we were just beating about the bush for Five minutes until she told me ,she wanted to collect my number in school but she didn't want to attract anyone's attention . We kept on talking till she hit the nail in the coffin,she told me she likes me ,she doesn't want my reply now ,that I should think about it . My heart started beating, relationship or my work ? The next day I had already made up my mind .I picked up the phone ready to tell her what's on my mind before I chickened out . The next day I called her,as much as it hurts me I had to deliver the bad news, I couldn't risk my Good name and reputation just because of love . Why didn't this happen earlier before I started teaching in her school? I cursed my luck, at the moment I had already resigned my heart that I might never fall in love . I explained to her in full why we can't have a relationship,it's not about her it's about me .Inwardly I felt really bad for rejecting her but I had to do it . As time went by ,the day for school resumption drew close ,I don't look forward to meeting Aisha at all . The next term school resumed ,as usual she didn't resume until after a week . The day she resumed ,I was outside observing the assembly,I'll never forget what she wore ,she had on a new uniform, a sparkly wrist watch to match the colors of ⁹⁹ ,any common sense of reasoning I had drifted away . It was only a matter of time before I called her and confessed my thoughts. Play play,the relationship started .... We agreed to pretend to act as if we don't know each other in school and the relationship will purely be after school. We would meet in the evening when I'll accompany her to islamiya or at night when her parents sent her ,she'll send my friend to call me so that I'll escort her . We would talk later at night till dawn. Damn I was truly in love . The fact the relationship was a secret one made it even better and exciting . Well atleast to myself ,she wanted us to make it public but I refused,I was too scared . I nearly had heart attack when she sent fruits to my mom one day . My mom was a firm believer of no relationship until after higher institution. The ove grew as time went by , we started meeting in school,during her free period she would come to my class . People started suspecting but at that moment ,I was past the point of caring . Everything was perfect until when I received the good news,I got admission. I was thrilled,everyone around me was thrilled... Well except for her ,she said she knows she'll lose me once I leave for school. I tried my best to assure her that no one is removing her from my heart .But still it didn't improve her sour mood . Little did I know that she has already removed me from her heart at that moment , As the day that I'll be leaving for school grew closer ,the communication grew shorter . I tried to meet her weeks before I depart but she gave me one excuse or the other . I left for school, I tried calling her number but it switched off . It remained like that for a month until one fateful day I was in my hostel when her call came in ,I missed her voice . We spoke ,she told me her phone got spoiled . She asked about my school and other things . When we ended the call I felt something I've never felt with her before . This time her voice was cold . I never gave up,I thought it's just distance ,once I come back home for the holidays everything will be alright. The semester ended,I was so eager to go home and meet my loved ones . When I came back ,I tried to reach out to her but no response,text message no response, I even sent a letter ,no response. I couldn't get what was wrong We never had a fight . Why isn't she responding ? I quickly called the school director and told him I'd like to work part time before school resumed . He accepted .I resumed teaching with the sole intention of meeting Aisha and settling things . When I finally met her in school,her eyes was cold ,she's not looking at me with the love that used to sparkle in her eyes . I started feeling distraught. To make Matters worse , I noticed she's now close to a fellow colleague of mine,I'm suspecting something between them . Whenever she would go to his class to do something my heart will squeeze with jealousy but I cant do anything,we are not talking again like before . Still I held hope that before I leave she'll come back to her senses . Little did I know that it is I who needs to be put back in my senses . One afternoon,there was no electricity. I went to my colleague's room (who's now close to Aisha ) to charge my phone since their transformer has light and his house is somehow close to mine . I knocked at his room and entered I noticed he's with a female but I didn't bother to look at her face . I just wanted to plug my phone and give them privacy . Once I stood up to leave a voice called my name ,I looked down for the first time at my colleagues companion and noticed it is Aisha ,my Aisha ,in a guys room ,alone ,not just a guy ,my friend ,my colleague. I was heart broken . I went back home leaving my phone there. My heart was gone . I knew things were bad between me and her but I didn't expect that . I couldn't get over the heart break , when going to bed I'll look at her picture before sleeping,I'll perceive the scent of the flower she gave me. When I'm home I'll sometimes pass their house to see if I'll meet her ,who knows maybe she'll apologize. I was heartbroken but I was ready to take her back if she'll apologize. I loved her that much . I nurtured a broken heart for three good years , to the point it even affected my studies. Ever since then I lost my trust in women completely.

Sau da yawa ina fada; mutane muna manta Allah idan wata musiba ta taso mana musamman iyaye mata. Idan an rasa miji sai ace aljanu ne, idan ana yawan ciwon kai shima aljanu ne, idan jini ya hargitse shi ma dai haka, idan za'ayi kishiya nan ma haka, kusan komai na rayuwa sai ace aljanu ne, kuma an fi yaudarar mata da wannan zancen. Waye aljani? Aljani halitta ne kamar yadda mutum yake halitta a cikin halittun Allah madaukaki, sai dai cikin iko da gwaninta ta Allah Ya halicci aljanu ne ta yadda idon mutane bazai iya ganinsu ba (a mafi yawan halaye). Amma mu sani mu mutane mun fi aljanu matsayi da kima a wurin Allah, haka nan mun fi su hatsabibanci. A ka'ida aljani ba ya sanya mutum aiki, sai dai mutum ya sanya aljani aiki, ko da kuwa mutanen da suke haduwa da lalurar shafar aljanu, suna iya samun ikon akansu. Sannan mu sani aljani matsoraci ne fiye da yadda mutum yake da tsoron aljanu, duk da kasancewar aljanu din iri-iri ne (bari mu tsaya kan batunnan haka). Yaya ake RUKYA? Yin Rukya saboda korar aljanu hanyoyi ne daban-daban, sai irin baiwar da Allah Ya baiwa mutum, shiyasa Annabin Rahma Alaihissalam Ya koyar damu addu'o'i a gabobi daban-daban, ga misali akwai aljanin kana yin addu'ar sanya tufaafi zai kone, akwai wanda kana yin ta fita gida zai kone, akwai wanda kana yin ta hawa abin hawa zai kone, akwai wanda zikiri ne yake Kona shi, akwai aljanin da ko za ka sauke Kur'ani ba abinda zai sameshi amma kuma da zarar ka juya karatun daga kasa zuwa sama zai kone (misali ka fara daga karshen Fatiha zuwa farkonta) abin ilmi Mai zurfi Kuma Mai zaman kanshi, Wanda malamai sunyi rubuce-rubuce. Amma kamar yadda nake yawan fada, ana yaudarar mata ne akan sha'anin aljanu saboda raunin Imani na mutanen yau da Allah da kuma tsananin tsoron aljani da mata suke. Ba kowani abu bane yake kasancewa aljani ne ya haddasa, ga misali; idan anzo neman aure, sai mahaifiya ko kawarta ko kawar wadda za'a aura tace wai aje wurin wani (Mai suna malami) wai ya duba yiwuwar aure, kuma wai sunan abin Istikhara! Annabi Alaihissalatu wassalaam Yana koyar da Sahabbai Istikhara kamar yadda Yake koyar dasu Kur'ani (ta yiwu muyi bayaninta nan gaba). Idan kuma an samu wani shaidani yace wai idan bai amfani daa mace ba za ta gani, sai mu tambayi kanmu; 'waye yake da iko akan komai? Idan munce Allah, to mun bi abinda Ya aiko mana AnnabinShi dashi? Tunda bamu bi ba, dole kowani dan iskan gari ya jefemu da Sihiri Kuma ya samemu (domin bamu yarda da Allah ballantana mu rika yin HIRJI irin Wanda aka koyar damu a shari'a). Mu sani, duk wanda ya/taje wurin wani wai ya duba masa/ta wani abu da zasuyi idan da alkairi ko babu, sai yayi kwana arbain (40) ya/tana sallah Allah bai karba ba (to wa ya aikemu?) To Kuma bayan haka ga laifin zina. Matsalarmu! Babbar matsalarmu a yau shine rashin neman ilmin addini daga wadanda suka san addinin da gaske ba 'yan neman kudi ko shuhura ba. Maganar da yawa idan hali yayi zan cigaba da yardar Allah. Allah Ya shiryamu Ya ganar damu, amin. Na so ace akwai ikon yin magana da murya.

I want to get marry am been pressure,, Will be 26 this year and is not as if I don’t have d intention of I once brought someone which lead to bringing out date, he pay’s dowry, everything even goron saka rana that 2yrs back just of a sudden he said he’s not interested cos we always fight 😭💔 I keep meeting men which i appears desperate to them Buh am not am just been careful,, I give all in my relationship I don’t double date even with d little I earn I make sure I sent money whenever dey need,, buy things and so one Buh still dey don’t stay am tired, am tired of everything.. I always cry I cry I cry a lot I pray I pray harder,, Buh for d fact my parents don’t understand and denied me so many things cos I refuse to bring someone home, my dad even close my shop😭 a times I feel like koma in mutu ne💔 Buh I always remember am a good muslima that hold unto her faith this is my faith Buh am loosing it already am emotionally drained 😪 plss what should I do should I continue doing what my parent stop me from doing for d fact I can’t drag a man to my hus💔 Like school my business and rest he stop me that I will continue my skul and business if only I brought someone home🥺💔

Okay uhmm.. so a A blind date is a social engagement between two people who have not met, usually arranged by a mutual acquaintance. what do you all think about a blind date organized by Arewaup (specially for people who want to court for some time before marriage). It should be organized in like a public restaurant, cafe or an eatery of security reasons. I just think of it as a way for one to get to know or meet his or her soul mate and vibe well. what do you all think?

𝑸𝑼𝑬𝑺𝑻𝑰𝑶𝑵❓ : Does vomiting break your fast? Vomiting a little while fasting. Does spitting break your fast? : 𝑨𝑵𝑺𝑾𝑬𝑹❗️ : Praise be to Allah. Vomiting refers to when food, etc. is expelled from the stomach outside the body. With regard to whether vomiting breaks the fast or not, the ruling depends on whether it was done deliberately or not . If a person vomits deliberately, this breaks the fast and he has to make up that day. If he cannot help vomiting and vomits involuntarily, then his fast is still valid and he does not have to do anything else. If a person needs to vomit because he is sick and vomiting will help him to recover, then it is permissible for him to do that, but he has to make up that day after Ramadan, because Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): “and whoever is ill or on a journey, the same number [of days which one did not observe Sawm (fasts) must be made up] from other days.” [al-Baqarah 2:185] Vomiting a little while fasting, According to the correct scholarly view, it makes no difference whether the amount of vomit is great or small. If a person vomits deliberately and only a small amount comes out, the fast is broken. It says in al-Furu’: “If a person makes himself vomit and vomits anything, then his fast is broken, because of the report of Abu Hurayrah: “Whoever cannot help vomiting does not have to do anything but whoever makes himself vomit deliberately has to make up that day.” (Al-Furu’, 3/49) This hadith was narrated by Abu Dawud, 2380; al-Tirmidhi, 720 – he said the scholars follow this. It was classed as sahih by al-Albani. But there is a difference between spitting and vomiting. Spitting and hawking, etc. do not come from the stomach, so there is nothing wrong with expelling that matter. But vomiting comes from the stomach as explained above.

Dan Allah Inason Members Din Gidan nan Su Tayani Da Addua Kuma Su Sani acikin Addua Da Bakunan Su Masu Albarka, Wainda Suke Kasa Dakuma Wainda Suke Umrah Akan Ubangiji Allah Ya Taimakeni Yakuma Bani Iko Dakuma Budomin Kofofin Arziki Domin Naga Nasamu Nacigaba Da Taimakon Iyayena Kuma Nayi Aure. Allah Yagani Inasan Naga Nayi Aure Sosai Da Sosai Domin Kare Kaina Daga Sharrin Zamani. Sabida Gaskiya Ina Da Shaawa Mai Karfin Tsiya Wallahi. Nikaina Tsoron Kaina NakeTakalma Na Maza Nake Hadha, But Still Nasan My Capital Is Not Uptoo That Amount Da Zan Iya Aure Ga Kuma Iyayena. Amma Allah Yagani Inasan Auren Nan Sosai Da Sosai Domin Samun Peace Of Mind. Dan Allah Ku Tayani Da Addua Sosai Da Sosai. Nagode

Na kasan ce marainiya babana ya rasu ya barmu mu 9 nice babba shekaruna 23 ina niyyan shiga na 24 muna da maza gudu biyu wlh basa jin magana suyita fada a junan su ko suna fadan idan maman mu tayi musu magana basa ji to hakan yana damunka gashi bamu da wani na miji tsayyaye wanda zai tsaya yaye musu magana suje wlh fadan da suke yana damunta to ni tsorona karsu samata wani ciwon Allah ynx haka tana fama da ciwon karji saboda suna fada tayi musu magana sunki ji har saida ta fita waje ta kira wani sannan suka rabo dan darajar wannan wata da muke ciki ku taimaka mana da addua bamusan bakin wanda zamu dace ba wlh ni kaina abin yana damuna narasa yadda zanyi kuma wlh tana musu adduan shiriya daidai bakin kokarin ta dan Allah kusa mu a cikin adduoin ku please 😭😭