On days like this,it gets very hard,I witnessed a beautiful loveable marriage and i was so happy for them i shed a tear or two.its the kind of love stories we hardly hear about.And when i asked them the secret of their marriage and they said Allah comes first in whatever they do right from dating .
MashaAllah something that is getting extinct in our society...ba maza ba mata the so called wayewa is making us forget our beloved religion.
You may ask what makes it hard on days like these ko?The feeling of being extremely happy for someone but at the same time very sad for yourself.
it gets so lonely,empty message folder,empty phone logs.no check in messages balle love messages.On days like today i just wish i have a husband i will talk to,lean on and give all the love i have bottled up in me.is so lonely ya Rahman.
I hold islam very dear and in my journey of finding a husband i will never compromise my deen .i get gaki kamar kin waye amma...or ya kike kamar baki waye ba.
Ya Allah make it easy for me ya Rahman.and to everyone going through same.Oh Allah i ask you for your love and the love of thise who love you and the love of every action that will bring me closer to your love.
When we see marriage as an act of Ibadah, everything will fall in place perfectly. The men, take care of your wife for she is a trust giving to you, never betray that trust, show her kindness, and compassion in every situation, correct her with love, protect her from any harm, make sacrifices and compromise for her, guide her rightly in Islam. The women should take care of their husband, protect his secrets, encourage him, and always create a welcoming environment for him, and be loyal to him. And in all, put Allah first. Dear poster, may Allah ease your affairs, InShaa Allah, you will find a good husband.
Aameen ya Rahman,on days like these what advice can you give me.
I totally get you poster
On days like these, when you feel a mix of happiness for others and sadness for yourself, it's essential to remember a few things:
1. Patience: Trust in Allah's plan for your life. Sometimes, what we desire might not be what's best for us at the moment. Keep faith that things will fall into place when the time is right.
2. Self-Love: While you yearn for a partner, don't forget to love and take care of yourself. Your self-worth isn't defined by your relationship status.
3. Community: Surround yourself with friends and family who support you. Building strong connections with loved ones can help combat loneliness.
4. Dua (Prayer): Continue to pray for a righteous spouse and for strength in your journey. Allah listens to sincere prayers.
5. Engage in Activities: Pursue your interests and hobbies. Engaging in activities you enjoy can be fulfilling and may lead you to like-minded individuals.
6. Islamic Values: Stay true to your Islamic values and principles in your search for a spouse. A marriage built on a strong foundation of faith tends to be more enduring.
7. Professional Guidance: If you're open to it, consider seeking guidance from a trusted religious leader or counselor who can offer advice specific to your situation.
Remember that everyone's journey is unique, and hardships often pave the way for greater blessings. Keep your heart open to the possibilities, and trust that Allah's plan is always for the best.
ameen
thank you.Jazhakallah bi jannah.
You’re welcome 20.
Exactly and that's what most of us failed to understand about marriage, We all go into it now because of worldly stuff, May the Almighty Allah bless us with the right spouses.Amin
My sister u are not alone in this boat we are much, we just have to keep doing our Ibadan sincerely and I believe that Allah will surely see us through. Inn shaa Allah
Sincerely, some do it for show off, some don’t even know what marriage entails, the duty of a man and a woman in marriage, it is good we seek these knowledge while we make preparations to get married. May Allah ease our affairs, Amin.
Ya Salam, your words are so touching that I wish I have a chance to know you
Amin ya Rabbi.
Thank you,putting me in your prayers will go along way jazhakallah bi jannah
that is what I have been praying for if a lady have Islam and practice it everything will come easy
ameen
Inn shaa Allah
Ameen sis
Thnk you
You’re welcome Zainab.
thank you for giving her advice bro 🙏🏽, Jazzallahu khair.
but ahh swear you deserve to be her husband seriously, Domin kataike rayuwan ta dan uwa.
You’re welcome brother.
And Thank you for the recommendation, I feel honored and grateful. However, I’m in a situation right now where marriage isn’t viable, maybe in a year or two I will be in a better position to marry for I want my future wife and children to live a comfortable life InShaa Allah, thanks once more.
Gaskiya he has my Respect,i read all his posts and they all made sense mashAllah.i took his advice and it was very helpful.
Alhamdulillah for guys like you.MashaAllah you have my respect...i think i just fell in love with your words #sense #halalprince
You’re welcome, Alhamdulillah, I’m still learning also from everyone here, May Allah ease our affairs and guide us all on the right path, Amin Thumma Amin.
Hope you’re feeling better now.
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