Assalamualaikum.... please I need an advice on what to do. I started university since 2013 and was supposed to graduate in the year 2017. I got ill and I deferred two sessions. when I can back for my first spill, I was only able to do the first semester and could not come back for the second semester. I later got well and came back for my second spill. I failed 3 courses and was asked to request for consession. now everyone is angry with me and I don't know what to do. please I need an advice on what to do.
which advice you want we should give you?
advice on what to do cause the whole family are angry
It's important to take responsibility for your academic performance. Consider reaching out to your professors or academic advisors to discuss your options. Apologize for your performance and express your commitment to improving. Remember, seeking help and showing determination to do better can go a long way in addressing the situation.
thanks...I really appreciate
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thanks....I really appreciate
Do your studies at NOUN - National open university of Nigeria, or IOU - international open university. You don't have to be on campus to study nowadays.
ok .... thanks
Poster are you a male or a female?
female
I am in a similar situation with you poster, i joined in 2015, and I'm still struggling. I don't know how to put this but you really have to calm and relax your mind. Because you know what? In Nigeria there's no difference between a person that graduated in 2010 & 2020, they'll just be sitting unemployed unless if they have connection. So relax there is really nothing to worry about. It's just a degree, it's not the end of life. Once your relationship with Allah is good you have nothing to worry about. Tell your people they have nothing to worry about, some die without getting admitted some in their first year, some in the final year, some right after graduation, so they should relax if it is in your destiny to finish school and get something important nobody can stop that, and if it is not in your destiny no amount of anger shown by your family can change it. My second advice in case the first didn't work, you will have to rise to the challenge, if people are not happy with you, threaten to leave the school completely, let them feel you have the free will to decide, i can assure you they'll stop minding your business. You know at times people do something because they're given the chance. Finally, do whatever you can to make yourself occupied don't just be sitting doing nothing at home, find a business, a trade and keep yourself busy, it will relieve you of this worry in shaa Allah. May Allah ease your situation and take care of all your affair.
Ma Sha Allah...... thanks so much for the reply. I really appreciate. can we talk privately?
Of course we can, feel free please.
can you send me your digits
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have gotten it..... thanks
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