Aslm I don't even know where to start wlh I fall in love with my friend bf. they where actually getting married next month but the wedding have been cancelled, I meant this guy at our school he came for some work wlh I didn't even know he was her bf I fall in love with him the first time I meet him. I later found out that he's ur bf gashi I can't stop thinking about him I couldn't sleep properly since that day 🥹 I pray Allah yacire mun sonshi but is like I can't control myself, I try all the best to avoid them but I can't and anfasa bikin yanzu dai wlh narasa yazanyi darayuwata pls I need advice am loosing my mind I wish he can see this post 😢

I have a big problem I've been battling with for a long time. I've never dated anyone before even during my university time, and all my life I have been so scared. I found out a long time ago that I'm more attracted to guys than girls. I come from a really poor family but Alhamdulillah I'm extremely good and focused academically and professionally. During my university time, I had no time for any romantic relationship. I had a few close female friends then but our friendship was strictly platonic. I graduated from university some years back and Alhamdulillah I now work in a place where many Nigerians, even children of elites, dream of working. All my life, I was so scared to do anything with a guy because of the gravity of the sin in Islam. But starting from last year, I've had sex with a couple guys - all of them foreigners - Arabs and white. I do feel remorseful after the act, but to be honest, I like it. My family's dream now is to see me get married and unfortunately I haven't found any lady I would love to marry yet. The problem is I don't even make any effort to find one. I will be moving to North America in a couple of months and I am so scared that I may become addicted to having gay sex given that over there, it's legal and there is no any existing threats, at least not like here. I'm just so confused. I have been trying to suppress the feelings but no success yet. Please I need your advice.

Salaam! I think this platform wont allow us meeting because they'v taken down some posts concerning that

Aslm i need advice girlfriend Dina Wai sai na daina yin ball dole and wlhy ball din nan is part of my life.. so tun jiya nayi mata magana akan abu she refused.. this morning Mun samu misunderstanding she was telling me that ita dama tana da Wani boyfriend and she don't want to cheat on him 🥺bayan kuma ni da ita we are dating and I want to Marry her 👋

pls Dan Allah Dan darajar annabi Muhammad saw help a Muslim wlh I hàve been fruded yesterday and am at the sch I need money pls help me to pay my sch fees and the deadline is Friday pls help a Muslim danallah

Assalamu alaykum wallahi there's this guy who made me fall in love with him and yanzu he's ignoring me kuma i never intend to love anyone after my last breakups amma this guy has been on my neck for almost 2 years now so now when i fell for him it feels he's ignoring me cause actually we're not dating yet he just claim he loves me and i told him i love him too.yanzu that i finally fell for him yana bani attitude kuma wallahi i know what i went through from my last breakup cause wallahi i went through alot let me say i am a sucidal i almost end my life subhaballah amma Alhamdulillah Allah baiyarda ba so i decided not to fall in love with any guy maybe sai yanasona da aure so this guy came to me with the intention wai yanasona when i gave in .i showed him I'm also in love yanzu it has turn to something else i don't know maybe he as something on his plate or I'm an overthinker i can help it.i just don t want history to repeat itself wallahi i can't take it.so please i need advice should i keep pursuing him koh kawai na barshi. Allah yazabar min mafi alkhairi .

Tinibu, Atiku, Kwankwaso or Peter Obi? which among them do you think is capable?

Kano People come here let's discuss on the Increasing rate of divorce in Kano

salam Alaikum, to everyone reading this please include me in your prayers, I have a disease I have been battling for 15 years of my life and I am still not cured of it, it has affected me psychologically and I am still battling with it hoping In Shaa Allah one day I'll be cured, please include me in your sincere du'as. Dan Allah please include me in your prayers Thank you.

I am not the romantic type and ppl keep coming to me that they like me but I don't know how to make them stay so that they will love me very well as in stick to me they always complain and the next thing they will leave it happens not once or twice I keep on loosing.. pls as a lady how can I a chat from someone that just DM me for relationship tnk u

Hey fam,im seriously in need of you all prayers ,I am expecting my bar finals results in two days and I am so scared ,I will appreciate if you include me in yours prayers for a positive outcome,thank you 🙏🙏

I am so depressed it there any therapist that can help me please 🙏🙏

Asslm! Fam. the weekend has come to an end so I believe we all have our personal goals and objectives we want to achieve. therefore let's list out the ones we plan to achieve within Monday to Friday next week in sha Allah and also advise each other on how to achieve it biquddratillah. mine is business/work related; 1- digital marketing on Facebook 2- submit a proposal to NDLA 3- complete a agent networking 4- eat at least 3 pounded yam within the week... what's yours??? let's help each others 😁😁😁

Assalamualaikum.Good day.plx I need an advice. I hv a boyfriend and he's AS while am also AS.actually I don't love him dat much.cx he isn't day caring to what I concluded. But yet he's far better than other guys I get.some will take a week and more than without saying Hi. But him at least he will say hi even if it's on WhatsApp.The reason I don't love him is because I think maybe he isn't a husband material. Reason we've been in rship for more than a year and he only visited me once. He nva spend a Kobo on me. All the Ramadan and eids.but we're still in touch. So I just want to reject him know cox am tired of the rship. And I've complain several times why he don't visit me.but he will give excuses. And the second one who is also insisting to marry me.she Kuma girman kai.jin kai.if zamuyi fada if it will take us a year wlh sede in gaji In nemeshi.For almost four years now. So of recent I quited the rship that he insisted I should say my mind if am not interested. He's always expecting me to call or say hi on WhatsApp or text. While am the one supposed to complain.but he will be the one complaining. So that's why I just quited. And naga be damu ba.I don't even know if he love me at first? Am just confused wallahi. Plx keep me anonymous.My heart aches. And wallahi I want to get married.and I don't know who to marry. Help me post please 🙏🙏🙏 I just want to be counselled. thank you so much 🙏🙏 jazhakhallahu khairan 🙏

Asslm fam. I hope you guys had a wonderful weekend... so last Friday I was thinking about home made pounded yam 😂 then I began to day dreaming of me being a married man have kids and all sorts... so when I got home I knocked the door several times and nobody opened... I was wondering why either my wife or kids opend the door 🤔 then I was like oops! 😅 I forgot that I'm not married and I live alone... this happened for the 5th time within a a month now... let me know your thoughts what sign do you think it is??? as for me I believe is a sign of old age 👴

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Aslm! I came to like this man since I'm 15 SS 1, and by then I don't even know what that means, I just want to be listening to him always and want him to be talked about all the time, we have something in common i.e one letter we cannot pronounce and that's what makes me start to like him at first, this silently start to affect my heart, mark u I don't even know him is just his voice I always listen to because of that letter he cannot pronounce too, before I feel very sad wen my friends/relatives said pronounce this letter let's hear a kind of joke, but after coming to know that he too cannot pronounce it then I started to like mine too, After my graduation from Sec Sch then I start to know what my feelings means and suddenly that already affect me, I started to investigate on him and anything about him, finally I almost get to know 60% of everything about him, my family knows I love him, my friends and everyone besides me know I love him, at first they all reject that cause he multiply my ages and he has two wives but coming to know and understand how deep I love him, everyone agrees to that, prayers, recitations, charity, fasting, and istikhara, I have done all and I'm currently on it continuesly, I. found his nom and contacted him as my sister that me her sister loves him for d past 5 years and he said she should send her pic for her, I sent d pic he haven't responded and I deleted it for all so he didn't saw d pics, I sent another video of my self with facemask he saw this one but replied with I love her for the one she loves me because I. e Allah, then nothing again, WALLAHIL AZIM I don't know why I love him and I don't know how to stop loving him if to calculate the years I spent with him in my mind are 7 years, I'm a Nurse and presently working in one hospital, I'm 22years now I can't give any man chance cause I love I person, even if I try to I fear one thing that after marriage I cannot stop my self from following and liking his pages as well listening to him, as such this could actually affect my marriage islamically and my husband too will find out cause everyone around me knows this already, I cried, cried and cried, as I'm telling u this now I already star to manifest some symptoms of depression I'm afraid I will be a victim one day, I know what depression is and it's complications, sometimes I feel like I don't what to live at all it's paining seriously but with prayers Alhmdllh, Don't judge me please I'm a type of lady that hate to see her fellow woman dying for love then the table change, I don't want anything from him and I feel like I can sacrifice everything for him, I just love him and his family I'm not after everything materially. Advice me as a sister, friend and daughter please and include me in ur prayers. 😭😭🙏🙏

i was divorce with two kids😭😭😭 wallahi right now am seriously in pains , I don't have anyone to talk to 😭😭 am just frustrated 😭😭 i have started a little business but yanzu bani da capital, gashi i learns so many things Amma babu capital 😭😭😭 my parents are not rich as well, bani da wani wanda zai iya taimaka min, Duk wanda ka tambaya taimako zai dinga maka maganan banza, I want to start something so that at least I can take care of myself and the kids for now, Koh kuma ku taimaka min da aiki koh wani iri ne zanyi please😭 Almighty Allah will reward you all

I am a single mom and i am 30 years. i take all of their responsibilities!! Atimes i break down because it has never been easy for me and atimes i feel i need to be taken care of. But still, atimes i feel i dont give them enough even tho I try my very best in seeing they dont lack anything, because they have friends and i feel somehow whenever they come back home saying ah baban wannan yayi masa this or baban wannan ya kaisa here n there! Most of the time i feel sorry for them and blame myself for choosing my ex as their dad!! It's very very difficult and I pray i get a responsible man so they can have someone as a father figure! But omo being a single mom sede kawai Allah ya bamu lada kawai!!!

akwai wannan guy din muna level one aka bani number shi nayi mishi mgn ya koya mi wani course toh tunda ga nan muka fara mutunci dashi sosai har soyayya ya shiga Allah yayi ni da saka abu a rai kuma ni dama lkcn ina cikin kadaici banida kowa sbd ban taba yin saurayi ba baa cewa ana sona toh sai yazo yace muyi break up amma in zama best friend dinshi na shiga damuwa lkcn amma daga baya sai na dena sbd kullum yana kirana muna gaysawa muna chat 24hours daga baya sai ya dena yayi min wulaknci sosai har yana cewa shi ai ko a baya bashi yyi dating dina ba nice nayi shi dama bai damu dani ba abubuwa dae ni kuma a lkcn banson na rasa shi nashiga damuwa har komai yazo ya wuce toh ynzu inason na dena damuwa dashi kusan shekara uku kenan ynzu muna level 3 wlh bana samun nutsuwa kullum sbd ko ganinshi nayi sai gaba yafadi gashi in ya ganni bnza yke min ko irin yace min sannu amma zaiwa kawata magana abun ya isheni na gaji na rasa yadda zanyi na tsani kaina sbd hakan har banson zuwa mknrta sbd banson ganinshi kullum cikin tunani nke wlh har zazzabi nayi gashi ina cikin kadaici banida wanda nke fadawa damuwata ko farin ciki na...abun yyi min yawa kuban shawara dan Allah