For the past 5 years, it has been a challenge to find the right partner for myself, I am a childfree person and believe in the childfree lifestyle, I met a few ladies along the way but it didn't workout for some reasons, its very rare to come across a lady that shares the same believe as me, hence the reason i am still not Married, Childfree people are so scarce in our society, For those that can relate.. lets discuss
which one is child free again
No body can relate.. guy 😂
dat means u don't want to give birth to a child 😳 wow we could have connected but whatttt I love children like mad so may Allah grant u d person dat love child free ness so masalam
its not some sort of Joke, if you can't relate let others do.
by the way, whats funny?
Child free? Why do you dislike kids I think that’s the question we should ask you first
Qualitative data show that key perceived advantages are fewer worries or problems, financial benefits, greater freedom, and career flexibility. The major disadvantages are lack of companionship/being alone/loneliness, lack of support and care when older, and missing the experience of parenthood…… this “missing the experience of parenthood” is not easy gaskiya
And also the benefits of having kids is:
Excitement.
Satisfaction.
Joy/fun.
Self-esteem.
Meeting a long-term goal.
Challenge.
Love and growing through giving.
Some people are unable to have biological children, and some people choose not to have any for social, economic, environmental or other reasons. Many adults and couples that do not have children Some people are unable to have biological children, and some people choose not to have any for social, economic, environmental or other reasons. Many the adults and couples that do not have children live very fulfilling lives.
I don't want the burden that comes with it,
Wow!!! Kids are burden I guess
All the stress & responsibility that comes with it.
Don’t want to drag this thing but kids are beautiful souls and a lovely gift from Allah I really think you should change your mindset and really love them
I don't hate Kids, i don't want to have my own because i am don't want the burden and responsibility that will come with it. I'd rather not have kids than regret having them or be bad parent
okay yara ne baka so? abu mai sauki sai ka nemo juya ko kuma a maka vasectomy shikenan zance ya kare
people that don't want kids by choice
do you mean there no ladies that shares the same belief?
exactly
I think it will be very hard and it's ver rare to find such
Children have the right to be fed, clothed, and protected until they reach adulthood. Children must have the respect, to enjoy love and affection from their parents.
The birth of child (girl or boy) is a very joyous event; all children are seen as gifts from God.
I know it's none of my business, you have what you believe in. I had intended to just read and pass by. But I think I should say this;
It's wrong of you to dislike having kids for the fear of burden and responsibilities. It is frowned at when one fears kids cos of these reasons, it is considered barbaric. It is a valid reason to fear that you may be a bad parent. But since you're already scared of that, I think if you do have kids you will be mindful not to be a bad parent. Besides you won't be the only one taking care of them. There'll be two or more of you.
And having kids is such a blessing. Could be your key to jannah. Even after death one of the 3 things that could earn you reward and elevate your status is having righteous kids.
zan iya rantsuwa in ce maka babu! yara ai Rahma ne. I dont know where or how you were brought up that made you think this way,but I want you to spare time and visit hospital just for you to appreciate how people are desperate for child....wallahi wani in zai samu Da daya ya bada duk dukiyar da Allah ya bashi ya mallaka,wa rabbil ka'aba zai bayar! mind you,su din Allah ya jarabce su da rashin haihuwa ne babu wata hanya. Amma cikin Rahamar Azzawajal kai ya maka lfya Amma kazo kana budan baki ka ce wai childfree! fissabilillahi kayi wa kan ka adalci?
aa fa
Akwai
yara Rahma ne but the responsibility is something shima
I can reason with him
shi fa cewa yayi bai son haihuwa ne....ina laifin yace zai haifi daya,ko biyu...like it's okay for him to have numbers ,toh da babu wanda zai ma kula sbd yayi gaskiya akwai responsbilities. Amma ka fito kace babu batun yaro a sha'ani ka, gaskiya lamarin nan da sakel
Yeah still
there are people like that
everyone has his/her own mindset
kinga on my own side bawai banason yara ba ko ni
but kawai dai banason na haihu sbd responsibities innan
koda ace mijina ya matsa dole dole Toh daya ya isa
Idan daya be mishi ba bakomai ya qaro wata
I have met 2 ladies in the past with same thinking, it just didn't work out.
Ajaba! Toh faduwa kuwa tazo daidai da zama,poster fito Ga Aminatu nan.... Na ba ka mata 😁
Akwai su Dama dayawa
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