I GIVE UP 😔

hhhhh ayyah sister lokachi be Allah zai kawo nagare

is just most of the guys in the platform are expecting so much beauty from d platform as if na beauty b marriage Sha like dis I have given up in d platform because d guys are something else but life move on my missing rib will soon insha Allah me let just be ready post and comment 🤗🤗

Your soulmate dies kuma? Gaskiya you are funny. It is just a matter of time In Shaaa Allah Mr right zai fito

In shaa Allah

Allah y hada mu da abokan xama nagari

Ameen Ya Allah

pls don go just relax and enjoy

gaskiya am also tired of this app have given up already

enjoy what 😥

that what I thought wlh and look at the description of the type of girl he what you will think he's sultan 🙄 there are expecting soo much than you think

pls talk to me I love ❤️

dats why I'm not even longer interested again

Ameeen y Rabb...

ohk I talk to you did you hear me ?

exactly as you av said it I am tired of the app .....the guys won't send request and when you do they will not accept the one that will even manage n accept won't reply n when he does by the time you wake up the next day he has cancelled you

Honestly, speaking as a guy who’s also matchmaking, the issue I realize with matchmaking is… it’s 99% about your looks and 1% about your ahlaq and others. but the reality of life is, I have a definitive physical spec in mind for anyone I’d want to marry and if someone doesn’t meet up with that it just puts them off automatically. However, on the other hand the girls I’ve really liked and wanted to marry where it didn’t work out weren’t my spec, but I grew to love them for who they’re, their attitude, how they think about life, etc. I’d recommend you focus on presenting the interesting things about you and not make your looks the most important thing.

some guys don't even Wait to find out the interesting things out you they just lock you out

I'm a guy matchmaking and I think a lot of girls are boring, "single word replies", won't drive the conversation and there's nothing that'll keep you interest except she's gorgeous. For me, I'm married and decided to take a second in sha Allah, but most ladies can't even hold a proper conversation and goving attitude. Personally if a lady is amazing at conversation, is interesting and can make me laugh, as long as she isn't hideous, I'd give it a shot.

Hmmm, true. but let me give example, I'm 6"4 and really like tall girls, but I liked a lady that's 5"2 coz she has some hadda, plus some interesting perspective about life. all guys aren't thesame, but almost all my friends are married to /dating people who they don't personally consider extremely beautiful, but they feel other aspects of life compliment. talk about yourself, interesting things from your secondary school days or islamiyyah, funny stuff, religion, life, politics, etc...

what I think here is most of the ladies are not comfortable with guys at first but days after days they will even bother you with their conversation I think you didn't understand ladies very well

let me talk of my self personally with tje guys av met on the matchmaking am usually the one holding the conversation I don't get the same energy I put up and once I feel like am the only one doing the talking I legit pull back and other guys on the app don't accept request they leave you pending till forever so you don't even get to that point of having interesting conversation with them

ehhh u have not have a conversation with ohh I have vibbbe I'm d one dat mostly push conversation but when I find out dat d guy is full of himself like mijin novel I run ohh I'm not a second choice so most of d guys especially arewa here dey feel it u are pushing d conversation u have fallen for dem dey don't know dat na gist I like

I know this, but some times it seems like some ladies are deliberately saucy. i feel uncomfortable sending messages and not getting responses. A simple, "excuse me, I want to go and sleep" or "I'm going out" or "I'm going offline" or anything to communicate you're not available right now goes a long way for we guys. but if I sent you message 6hours ago, and you're online 3 minutes ago, I don't want to come off as a desperado... a lot of ladies are fond of not replying to messages or even seem interested in the conversation.

I doubt if you actual signed up for match making and if you did will like to know because you sound different from the guys personality av met on this app and unfortunately the one person that was different we can't be together

that's when you have same opinion ba some guys only want how beauty are you and whom are your family nd co to me gaskiya bansan dai ko kaddara ba but I can't marry a guy da baxan tsokana shi ya tsokana niba mutumin da baxa mu xama bestfriends ba gsk coz anawa yadda nake son mutum indai bazamuyi wasa da dariya dakai ba it's at that time xanyi cutting relationship din