In today's day, we have relationship stuffs all over Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat and even among people staying close to us.It then make them start wanting to be in relationships because of what they see, infact some just want to jump into the marriage because of all this wattpad stories, hausa novels ...etc All the posts and stuff then begin to be like oppression to them and then sometimes they begin to question themselves, their self confidence then starts depreciating because they start believing that somethings' lacking in them, They then start becoming desperate. Soo...I believe and will want my fellow ladies out there to just be more prayerful, have faith in Allah and your spouse will be the besttt(Inshaa Allah)❤️❤️❤️ So, don't loose confidence in ur self, dont get oppressed by what you see, love your self more and Almighty Allah will bless you with the best. Ps: if he comes ehh and u get married, ehh yes mijinki neh amman knock his head for wasting time😂💕

Assalamu'alaikum everyone, how's the preparation for Ramadan? Aswear am disturb.am the first child of my family,I struggled to register myself in school ,still schooling and they(parents) depend on me to eat😢💔 wallhy each time ramadan is at the corner my hrt skips fast because half of their (my parents) fasting is without sahur😭😢💔💔 for me I don't have much problem during Ramadan because i don't stay with them I stay with one of my Aunty😢😢 but my heart is with them😔😔 may Almighty Allah make it easy for them this Ramadan.

i just come across a post which a lady asking whether her fellow girls can date a guy who can't speak English fluently...its really unnerve, Do you know how many people that become successful without speaking English? its just a language, well yanxu idan mukace bazamuyi dating yarinya bah sai wadda ta Sauke Qur'ani mun kyauta? kowa da ra'ayinshi amma bana tunanin hakan yadace Just pray for nagari Allah ya kyauta

I graduated last year and i seek to volunteer in an NGO/Organisation in Kaduna state... Please be of help if you can

Assalam, pls why is it that some men don't value what they have. I was in love with a military personnel. we so much love each other and he never allowed anyone to come close to me. any time he sees a guy talking to me, he will tell them to behave coz I'm his wife to be. Wallahi ya Koran mun samari both civilians and officers and anytime I talked to him about marriage he will be like why are you in a rush. but then after 3 good years he started changing. and I talked to him about us moving to the next level of our relationship then he stopped calling, chatting and responding to my calls, texts and even messages. 6 months later, he called and was telling me his family refused him to marry me coz I'm from borno state and they are scared because they don't want me kill their son for them. I prayed really hard to get over him and then called me a year after to tell me that it's like he's destined to marry from borno state. and I said to him Allah ya bada Sa'a. then last year July, he got married to one of my family friend who is also borno state against his family wish. coz her dad is richer than mine and I was told that soyayyar kudi ya ke. he's a capitalist and all. Abun haushin after the wadding Fatiha he called me and was like kinyi aure ne and I told him Sai Allah ya kawo na gari and I asked him same , he said Sai after 2 years. then his bride dad came to our house to give us the invitation for the wedding event and sword crossing which took place December last year. that was how I got to know that he got married to someone who was like a sister to me. abin haushin ma shine ba abin da ta fi ni. Amma God is watching us all. and there's always a paying back time. i know you have never seen anything bad about him and our relationship was a pure one not haram one. but the fact In sha Allah, Allah zai saka min. kowa yayi dai dan Kansa. kuma Na bar sa da Allah. wani hissabin Sai a lahira......

Duniyar taimin zafi,I was diagnosed with genital herpes months after our wedding.Then my husband later confessed to me that shine yakeda wannan cuta that I should forgive him.It wasn't easy for me,yaruga yacuceni,tunda cutace daba'a warkewa Any time I experienced an outbreak I felt like commiting suicide.But because of the love I had for him I stood strong Haka mukayi zama for good 4 years kafin yacemun ga takardarki na sakeki.He just got married last month.I don't have confidence in me😭,I am not secure in who I am as a person. Inalillahi wa inna ilainarajiun 😭 wallahi I don't think I can be loved or married again.Who will date me sef???? with this illness😭 I can't become myself and I feel I have to settle for my career.

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Mai ya sa ba'a Sona,tun da nake wani Bai taba zuwa ya che ya na so na takani da Allah bah and it's disturbing me,am almost 20 now and I don't have any one to call a boyfriend ,ena son mazajen hausawa , I don't know if it's because of my tribe or Allah nai Bai kawo lokaci bah 😔😔

Salam, I have a question. what do you think the ideal time for relationships are? is it the same for all women? or is it different for single girls and divorcee?

In Kaye bleaching suce Kaye bleaching kuma sun fi son Wanda tayen fah

no one emphasizes on genotype,I feel cheated at some point, you find love -Genotype You leave and find love again then Genotype again, you get the one that’s at least compatible but they start lying, misbehaving and trying to control your life or our parents does not find them worthy, you have to literally beg for attention, care and all. I’ve lost all hope of actually finding love and getting married at this point , I know I’m loosing myself slowly, I’m very well outspoken but I can barely start and end a conversation and we are looked upon as unserious or ruwan ido🤧 at a point i just feel like going for the incompatible men but the disadvantages attached are disheartening

Why am I still single despite the fact am religious am responsible and respectful am educated am into business am a graduate am chocolate in complexion but am still single it pains a lot it really pains me what's the solution please is it that am not worth enough to be loved?🥺😔

tmby gareni akwai wani aminina ne sosai toh yanason wata kanwar kawata amma gaskiya malama yana dan harkar matannan ni kuma sanadin naga yarinyar tanada kamala da mutunci sosai ko kula mza batayi sai nayi deciding na fada ma yayarta gsky halinsa toh amma wlh tundaa na fada sainake ganin kaman naci amanarsa kona tona masa asiri hnkl na yaki kwanciya ko chat muke dashi sai nayi tajin bbu dadi amma bayan na fada ma yayar tta sai tace min ai sun dade ma da rabuwa da kanwar tata wlh abin yakin barin raina sai rokon Allah nake gafara ina nadama har kuka nayi abin ya dameni sosai shine nakeso a bni shawara zan iya rokon gafarar sa ba tareda na fada masa exact laifin danayi mishi ba ko kuwa banyi laifi ba ko butulci

slm please Yan sokoto in the house danallah recommend a legit delivery services in sokoto danallah 🤲

Please anyone doing cake business here, i wanna buy a birthday cake please.

I am not a bad gal, but why do I feel like I am incomplete, something doesn't feel right. I have this crazy fantasy of the kind of spouse I need or want, I have always wanted a romantic, caring, hot, dark and amazing spouse. I have been to weddings and events and see such people, but they never ask me out(am I a potato?), for crying out right, I am beautiful(not praising myself but I know I am), I have had relationships in the past where I thought I will get married to them but it never worked out, Men are either selfish or deceivers. I am heart broken and struggling to live and find peace within myself.

sometimes After one strong relationship After we break up then goes into another relationship we find it unsatisfied. The main reason is "Those who we sincerely love and broke up with them serve as Frame of Reference to those who we currently date and Anytime they fail we try to compare them with our Frame of Reference from their we find the relationship unsatisfied. instead of walking out in relationship mend those problems with your partner. And to Avoid unsatisfied relationship never compare your current relationship with the past one

no offence please but ladies can u date q guy dat is not fluent in English?

ok I've been with this guy for over 2yrs now,I don't know if I should call it dating but I think we are dating ..lol. Well he is a nice nd soft spoken guy but then he doesn't give me the attention nd tym if I complain he will apologise and quell me its tge nature if his work dat is causing it,wen I asked 2at he does for a living,he said he is an agent so I'm guessing DSS ne,sometimes we go months without hearing from each other nd wen he comes back he will tell me he went to a location fir work,he never tells me details of his work or location he went to.....please wat do u suggest I do....should I 3nd the relationship,bcus I'm getting tired...I feel as if I'm not dating. or should I still stick to him?

i moved to Nigeria last year and it's cuz I was not happy so I went to stay with my uncle and after 1 mouth he passed away so I moved to stay with my sister that got married and 1week ago she was giving birth and she passed away but she gave birth and just just 1 day ago my so called boyfriend broke up with me and he was not the best but I loved him so much. I feel so lost and alone and I don't even have anyone to talk to and I have to stay strong for the baby and mama ! I am so sad and heart broken by everything!