slm. I want to get your opinions on which is best when it comes to organizing KAYAN LEFE. Is it best for the guy/guys family to organize or to give the bride to be the money to organize it herself? From my point of view, i think its better to give her the money to do the shopping herself since she know best the items/materials she will need, unlike when the husband to be or his family do the shopping and sometimes buying more or less of somethings and or not buying at all. And again, i think this idea is suitable or works best when the guy is working on budget due to availability of funds😀. So, yanaji what are your thoughts, inputs or contributions to the above.

Wai dan Allah nika daice idan naji zanfara son mutum deeply nake zuwa na duba breakup and heartbreak post na dawo hayyaci na just a question

how do u give someone you're so much in love with space?

Left-handed people seem to have special talents especially adapting in a world designed for right-hand people. Does this special ability also manifest in their relationship as a husband or wife? Are you one or do you have first hand experience of sharing a space with them?

Please i need to know if there's any one here that has done chorionic villus sampling ( CVS) before childbirth. How was the procedure, was it success, were there any risks, please help a sister out. I really need to know Thankyou 🙏

Wai me yasa yawanci masu kudi a hannu sun fi mayarda hankali akan siyan baburan napep, gina plaza da gidajen haya a matsayin hanyar juya kudi? Alhalin ga sana'o'i nan barkatai masu riba tsububu ba iyaka?

Who's in for a random midnight conversation, no personal question, just straight talk 🖊️

Don't break a bird's wings and then tell it to fly. Don't break a heart and then tell it to love. Don't break a soul and then tell it to be happy. Don't see the worst in a person and expect them to see the best in you. Don't judge people and expect them to stand by your side. Don't play with fire and expect to stay perfectly safe. Life is about giving and taking. You cannot expect to give bad and receive good. You cannot expect to give good and receive bad.

I have this guy I have been dating for over 4years kenan jiya ,I was told that he has gotten married Kuma am I'm owning 5k,he refused to give me my money and I have give my life to him sbd ina son shi ama all I have for him is pure hated ..he was the only that disvirgin me ..yanzu I don't know how to start ,babu wanda zai aure ni Haka and my parents doesn't know about it ..if my mum knows about it she might die , yanzu he's threatening me that he will expose me in front of my family ,I'm well born up he made me change and I don't want them to know sbd my mum,that woman is really trying her best to keep us safe 😭😭😭..I Need your advice .. idan akwai wanda zai aure ni I will appreciate it 😭😭

About wani Comment a previous post da wani yayi. a comment section wani yace Mata sunfi Maza Sha'awa da Kaso 90 cikin dari. Yaya gaskia wannan maganar?

Asalamualaikum, good morning everyone please I need help,I’m looking for someone who could help me with relocation, was posted to delta state and I’m currently in camp,I’m trying to relocate back to Abuja I’ve tried severally but the money everyone is calling is beyond me,please anyone who could be of help,I would really appreciate and it would go a long way for me! thank you

Whats your opinion on getting married to your cousin ? I know it's halal but personally I can't ever see myself doing that . Is there anyone like me ?

Majority of the Ladies of nowadays make the use of the so - called black magic (sihr) to get an excess love from their boyfriends and also compromise his mind to giving them whatsoever ever the requested from him. I am not saying that who so ever is doing this should stop but know that: it can never change your fate and you're just disgracing humanity.

When this topic comes up, its mostly subjected to men that not marrying can make a guy to start sleeping around and its obviously true, Men are weak when it comes to controlling their sexual feeling but do Women also feel the same? are they likely to find it uncontrollable that they may commit the Sin? or they have it less.

A man came to Umar ibn al-Khattab and said: "I had a daughter who was buried alive in pre-Islamic days, but I managed to rescue her before she died. She embraced Islam, but subsequently committed a grave sin (of fornication). She took a blade to kill herself. I only reached her after she had cut some vein close to her throat. I treated her until she fully recovered. Then she repented well. Now I am receiving proposals of marriage with her. Should I tell the suitor of her past?" • Umar said to him: "Do you want to tell of her past? Do you expose what God has kept covered? By God, if you tell any person about her [sexual| past I shall make of you an example for the people of all regions. Give her in marriage like a chaste Muslim woman!" •[Related in al-Tabari's commentary on the Quran Extracts from a taste of honey by Habib Akande

A wife lied to her husband before married that she’s a virgin and after marriage he realized she’s not. And she also lied to him that she can read the Quran and he also found out it was also a lie after asking her after they were married. The man is not a virgin thou but even after finding out his wife is not a virgin he still sleeps with her till after sometime when she confronted his ex girlfriend he has been communicating with whiles he is still married to his wife so he started complaining and wanting a divorce. According to him his wife was the one who told him she was a virgin without him asking her and he also told her he only did it once and he is keeping himself. But later when they married he said he found out she is not a virgin because he has had sex with multiple women and the last one was a lady he met within two to three months and he had sex with her and she even bleed so he knows a virgin when he sees one. Please advice because the man is asking for a divorce after being with the woman for three months.

I fell in love with a narcissist 4years back,we started the relationship when I was 17years,I saw many red flags which I ignored,he's a critical womaniser,he ask almost all my classmates out and my close friends,they all told me but when I approach him he always deny it did I forget to mention he's a critical liar,never met anyone who anything that comes out of his mouth are lies,it was clear he charmed me,he was always stealing from me but I thought he needed it that why he did steal from me so I never bothered,he always give other girls money when he doesn't have he takes from me and give them,but I was too blind to notice,he told me he wants me to visit his family not knowing it's an empty house and he raped me,I'm sure guys know that stupid belief we have that when a girl is disvirgined no man would marry her so I thought my world has end,even though I wanted to leave I thought no man would want a lady that's not a virgin,ba goriba but I pay his transport fare anytime he comes to my place,he turned me into his sex toy,anytime he wants to have sex I'm just a call away,even in our area we do have sex outside,I can never tell him no.anytime he comes to see me zuciyana zaiyita bugawa,when our eyes meet zuciyana zaiyita bugawa,did I forget to mention my pocket money for school is for buying airtime to call him,he hardly calls I'm always the one calling,and he's also a woman beater,we hardly meet and leave in peace,I always go home injured from the beating,when my sisters ask me what happened I always tell them I hit myself by mistake,he always abusing me:zanci ubanki,zanci uwaki,Kina haukane.I was always told how pretty I'm and it got into my head,but since I met him he shattered that little confidence I was having,always telling me how ugly I'm nd that I think I'm beautiful he knows many ladies that I can't even stand close to.I lost my friends because of yahadamu fada dasu because of his lies and manipulations and I just believed him and block them,he always ask me for nudes,and I always sent it to him and ask him to delete it if he's done watching not knowing he was keeping them to manipulate me,anytime I tell him secrets he was always recording them to use it against me later on,I gave him my phone because he was job hunting and his phone had issues,not knowing I gave him access to my account and he hacked every account on my phone,messaging all my friends,taking there contact from my phone and asking all of them out,he activated 2 watsapp on my phone,one is his nd the other is mine,if they ignore him from his he then message from mine and tell them I gave him their contacts so he should get to know them.if any man calls my phone he collects the sim claiming ge seized it because another man called me not knowing he wanted access to my bank account,and he got access and transferred my school fees money to his account,all I had then was just the atm,the transfer and alert sim was with him,I asked him he said he's not the one,I kept begging him even though it was clear he's the one he told he's not he ended the call on me,I had to find other means to pay I didn't have anything to eat because my upkeep money was among,my mum has to pay a mallam for the jazz to be spoiled,he noticed and was rushing to give me things,perfume,rubutu.my mum always throw them away,ya hada munafinci tsakanin nida mamana,we did 2weeks without talking because of him,in the middle of it I got pregnant I wanted to keep the baby that would've been the biggest mistake I would've made,I thought I already made many sins I cannot add killing an innocent child to it,my stomach was always paining,we met and the stomach pain started,he told me let's go I told him my tummy was turning and I can't walk and this guy started beating me ended up breaking my mouth,then I knew I was into no play,still I couldn't leave,I had to call my friend to help me with abortion pills,the idiot couldn't even afford abortion pills and was telling me to abort it,the time I summon courage and told him I'm no more interested in the relationship we should end it cause I'm tired cause it's clear he won't change and it's who he's,he started threatening me with nudes I even forgot sending them to him,told me ban isa inbarshi ba if not he's going to send the nudes to the world,told me I'm useless to any man,because he already finished me,seriously I will die regretting why I didn't leave earlier,cause I had nothing to give any man,it's better I come back to him,he pleaded we meet so we talk or he leak the nude,I was so scared that I went out to see him,he said he can't leave me and he's sorry,he has changed 😂,I told him no I don't want him anymore,this guy started beating me and told me I dare not leave because I told him I'm leaving,ladies take notice never ignore any red flags,nobody changes,I had to send police to him because my mind was made up I couldn't even eat,to warn him cause anytime he sends me nude I'm taking him court and pressing charges on him for raping me that was when I had peace though until today he's still begging me,he confessed using jazz on me that why I couldn't say no to him,and scared of him than my own parents,I thought I forgave him during Ramadan but to be honest I can't I'm just lying to myself I can never forgive him for what he did to me,Allah has to judge between us,I hope this serves as a lesson to ladies,sorry for the long write up,that's not all I just had to summarize it

Dan Allah kubani shawara🙏🏿 akwai wani guy da aka hadamu cousin brother shine yahadamu, last week yazo garinmu Wllhi yana ganina yaji yafara sona bawai kyau yagani ko sura ba no. kawai ne macece mai walwala kuma ida sunyin dariya 😊 nidai inanan free dai, Toh the first day da muka fara communicating gaskia yace yanada emmata guda biyu daya cousin dinsa sane dayan kuma tana wajen aikinsu, saiyace min cousin dinsa har ansaka magana aure a najira su daidaita ne, amma yace shi Wllhi harga Allah namishi nd he loved everything about me toh dai muna dai communicate dashi always am trying to make sure he is happy, Wllhi kuma yanajin dadi yagadai caring din yayiwa shine yanzu kace min waifa za a samu mastala yanzu fa harya daina communicating da emmatansa tunda muka hadu, shifa Wllhi yana sona dayawa kar yazo yafasa cousin dinsa gaskia wai ni am too emotional 🥲 narinka yagewa yana confuse karkuma after some month naji yayi aure he don't want to hurt me. yace how he wish dani yafara hadu kuma gaskia idan naci gabada nunamai soyayya haka Wllhi nanda kwana kadan saidai muyi aure amma yanzu cousin dinsa da aka hadasu itace damuwar kuma ya amince wa iyaye, last night nace mishi gaskia toh saidai ni na hakuri kawai I was crying, hankalinsa yatashi yanata kirana awaya please l need a solution.🙏🏿

My first day on this platform, hope it goes well.

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