Shifa kyautatawa nada dadi. Bawai kadai mata ne keson kyautatawa ba. Su kansu maza naso. Ba Yanda za ai saurayi yaringa kyautatamiki kowani lokaci sai har idan kema kina kyautatamai. Sabida kyauta ita ke kara dankwan soyayya, kauna dakuma kulla alaqa mai karfi. Atleat ko katin N100 ko abun N1000 kika siyawa namiji zaiji dadi sosai. Ba kullin ke abaki ba, inkuma ba'a bayarba kice maza are stingy. Kedai marowaciya ce kawai shiyasa kike kallon saurayinki matsayin marowaci. Matan da ke bayawrwa suma ana basu. Shine rayuwan kawai.

Always respect yourself as a woman.😌 so be very mindful of how you're representing yourself. 🙌If you want respect, you must first learn how to respect yourself first🤗. Attracting negative attention is never a good thing. 😒Be a woman of substance! Be a woman that both women and men respect, admire, and look up to. ❤️💫Don't disrespect yourself by lowering your standards and accepting anything that comes your way.🤧😒 you can't keep entertaining people and things that mean you no good. Think about it! It's all ups to you😌😊 Ramadan kareem ☪️ Allah yasa muna daga cikin yantattun bayin Allah ameeen 🤲🏻

{***)Du’as we should never forget 1. Allahumma inni as’aluka husnal khatimah ‎ اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّيْ أَسْأَلُكَ حُسْنَ الْخَاتِمَةِ “O Allah, I ask You for a good end to my life.” 2. Allahummar zuqni taubatan nasuha qablal maut ‎اللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْنِيْ تَوْبَتًا نَصُوْحَا قَبْلَ الْمَوْت "O Allah, grant me sincere repentance before death." 3. Ya Muqallib al-quloob thabbit qalbi 'ala deenik ‎يَا مُقَلِّبَ الْقُلُوبِ ثَبِّتْ قَلْبِى عَلَى دِينِكَ “O Controller of hearts, make my heart firm in Your religion.” May Allah (SWT) bless us all - accept our duas, forgive our sins, multiply our hasanat, grant us good health and happiness, & highest rank in Jannah. Ameeeen ya rabbil izzati 🤲🏻🥺 ramadan kareem ☪️

If you real want to heal your broken 😞 heart ❤️ , Always remind yourself, Don’t beg for love ❤️. Don’t beg for love ❤️. Don’t beg for love ❤️ Don’t beg for love ❤️. Don’t beg for love ❤️. Love ❤️ comes as a gift 🎁... ___Miemie

Here is my take... "Everyone has a past", right but... We are responsible for our past. if a man/woman committed a sin, you should absolutely not tell anyone BUT... What if someone that is serious about marriage ask? See, I've seen a lot of people (especially women) get angry whenever a man ask if a lady is a virgin. To be honest, there's a reason men asks. For example, a man stayed away from zina all his life, saved his virginity till marriage, and hoping to find the same virgin woman to marry. And then there's a woman who engaged in zina... It's not the matter of "ai she has repented" or "that was her past", yeah that's great that she has changed, Alhamdulillah... But her repentance is for disobeying Allah. Therefore, a man has absolutely no obligation to marry her just because "ai she has repented" but if he knows and he don't mind, great!. If he said no, please understand that IT IS NOT A SIN or "he is not religious". But now, if a guy is not a virgin, he engaged in zina as well, he has absolutely no right to demand to marry a virgin woman. Besides, there is a reason why in islam the dowry of a virgin is not the same as that of a nonvirgin. So why will selfish reasons allowed us to keep giving these stupidity (of people committing zina) a pass by saying "ai that was her past" or "she has repented ai"? if you don't want complications in the future then don't disobey your Lord and call it "qaddara"... We are all sinners... May Allah guide, protect, forgive, and keep us on the straight path.

😭 😭 am speechless 😶 Genotype yana raba mutane dayawa plss knw ur genotype before a fara relationship ba Sae anyi nisa ba kowa yafada tukunna axo ace genotype no match bcox it’s so hard to let go 😭

please is 5 years age gap between me and him ok to settle for?

ina matukar sha'awar naga an gayyace ni shan ruwa don gaskiya ban taba samun irin wannan gayyatar ba

There is this guy, we have been dating for like 1 month now. I love him so much, I love him more than myself. I mean he is pure, calm, religious, very prayerful, he's strict, overprotective and nice. I have always wanted someone that's best in the seen because I need them to put me in the right path. The kind of love that I have for him have reached to an extent that I do not want to meet him at all because I can't control my feelings. I am keeping my distance, I prayed Salatul Istikhara many times on him and I feel his the one. but guys there is a problem. everyone has a past. but why does it look like mine is hunting me down and it's making ne look as if I am not good. I have repented long before now wallahi. I swear with Allah and this pure month I ended my illicit relationship for long and I have been repenting little by little. But then, yesterday we were chatting with my fiance and then he asked this very disturbing question. He said, out of the blue, not expecting such. Are you a virgin........... I couldn't say or do anything, I stared at that question for more than an hour. Do you know what, I don't know if I should say No I am not, I am so sorry I have changed and repented please forgive me I love you. or I should say yes I am. Guess what I told him. I said YES I am. but then I do not know if he believed me or not, I asked him why he asked me such question. he said because he hold me in high esteem and he really want to get married to me so he is getting to know me. and for him it's very relevant he asked and know. Allah I felt crushed after he said all these. I cried for hours, my heart was bitter, I felt like I am deceiving my baby, if only he will trust me or really forgive me after telling him wallahi I would. At that moment in time I felt like I was a bad person and he don't deserve me, I felt that he deserve better and not me. I really love this guy and I am afraid that even if we get married I might loose him, because he will find out on our first night and that is gonna be disaster. My Worst and Ugly past is hunting me down please guys don't judge me, I have sincerely repented and I need help.

There is this Man, our neighbor in an estate in Abuja, its an open estate the houses face each other (some of you are familiar with the type of estate setting in Abuja). im a youth and he is grown man with children my age so if we see each other i usually greet him (as expected) also i'm cool with some of his children so ina bashi respect haka. by the way, I have my Job, earning well and from a well to do family. Sometime ago on a Friday i greeted this man then pulled out some cash (1500) and handed to me as barka da juma'a i politely rejected but he insisted, why will he give me something and i will refuse to collected. i reluctantly collected aka dai ci gaba da gaisawa Normal. so yesterday after praying in the estate mosque he was talking with one of the guards, he handed 1k to the guards just at that moment we crossed path i greeted him then just handed me 1k in front of everyone i collected reluctantly as not to have any argument with him. i just don't like him giving him money and i hate to collect. irin dai i was a bit embarrassed jiya because it just looked derogatory haka ana bani 1k se kace irin ina maula ko kuma me gadi? ni kuma kada inyi rejecting cikin mutane yayi insisting se na karba please what are your views

is age just a Number?

Actually ni kaina abin Yana ban mamaki.am I the only one da kwata kwata bana iya hada Ido da namiji,ko akwai wasu..as in tun daga kan freinds, classmates har zuwa teachers..wallahi ko mgnr ta kama dole to fa se dai In kalli wani gurin.ynxu Gani a university and I'm still finding it so hard na kalli idon wani..it's not like irin Banda mgn haka ko wani Abu..I'm very good in speech coz mostly ko a secondary school in za ayi debate or something related to quize haka se an zabo ni a masu participating..but kallon idon namiji ya gagare ni😂

Assalamualaikum my arewamatchup fam una no dey send us ramadan basket ne? ko irin na kwamaret ma issok.don't worry na joke a dey play,Ramadan Mubarak to y'all Allah amsa mana ibadun mu ameen.

Akwai abunda yake damuna na dade na rasa Wanda zan fada mawa Amma ynz I can talk anonymously . Tun taso wa ta Allah ya saka ina da kwarjini sosai sbd Alhamdulillah zan iya cewa gidan mu ko an ina ana kyautata ma iyayen mu zato wurin yin kokarin su akan mu. An bamu tarbiya daidai gwargwado na addini da ilimin boko Amma kashhh abun ciwon shine yanda iyayen mu suka bama karatun mu mahimmaci na boko fiya da aure. In such a way that baa ma a muna mana zamu iyayin aure nan kusa kusa . Toh Allah cikin ikon shi tun ina qara ma nake da manema masu sona da aure gashi har mun gama makaranta banyi auren ba . Wallahi duk masu sona da aure suke sona Amma wannan tsoron me zaa ce a gida yasa ka ko da wasa ban taba nuna wa ba . This is me regretting the fact that at this stage I have minimal to no option of irin Wanda nake raayi duk na bar su sun tafi sbd bana so na cutar da wani da Bata mishi lokaci when nasan duk sun shirya aure a lokacin . Abun da ciwo kaga mutane Suna qaunar ka duk Suna possessing wasu superficial attributes da majority of mata can go for but ni na kasa yi wallahi😭 I have tried my best to tag along with them but these men are not looking at a building a home of Islam sedai kawai tunanin su yanda zaa bama yara best life ,best life fa ba na addini ba Aa na Jin dadin rayuwa n zuwa vacations na attending best schools . Ni kuma wallahi son Wanda zai taimake wurin tarbiyar yara nake nema Wanda ya fahimci a aure a fuskar addini ba wai yanayin rayuwa ba . Dan Allah ina rokon ku ku saka ni addua Allah ya bani miji nagari ,Allah shine ke yi nasnai kuma jinkirin nasan Alkhairi ne bi'iznillah amma dai babu laifi idan muka roqi ubangji ya kusanto mana da wasu lamarukan mu . Nagode sosai Allah ya bamu ko partner din da zai zama sanyin idon shi

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah . Barkan ku da rana ,I'm here to seek for adduar duk wani musulumi am going through a lot that my mental health is just not okay . DanAllah a taimaka ayi mani addua don I can't type it here sbd brain Dina needs prayer not shawara . Nagode sosai .

We are quite often been told that all women (virgin or nonvirgin) are the same when it comes to marriage, right? But why is it that most mothers are highly against their sons (first marriage) marrying a woman that has been married before? Is there a reason? What happened to "ciwon 'ya mace na 'ya mace ne"?

please ina cigiyan Imam Abubakar gana's number. I have a question for him

Mata azama masu kunya Dan Allah. shine Adon ki. wallahi da mamaki kiga mace tana chan a comment section sai zuba take na abun sirri wai ita ta waye. ki tsaya kina wannan maganganu da maza hka gatsai. i am not generalising o but deh gaskiya kunya ya na barin mu. jiya akayi post a diary of a northern woman akan shan azumi da ma wasu pages. Zo kuga mata sai zuba, maza na jan su da magana. ki tsaya kina hira da kato/gardi akan yadda period inki keh zuwa. ku san mazan nan bazasu ganku da kowani daraja ba wallahi koh kadan. imagine kaga matarka a comment section tana irin hiran nan. wannan abu ba daraja a ciki fah, Ba kuma waye wa bane. idan baka da kunya toh tamkar tsirara ka keh. Dan Allah a kiyaye. Kuma dan Allah a dena nuna wa duniya cewa ba'a azumi. lalura akwai ta amma bai kamata duk inda aka samu sai a zauna ci da sha a gaban kowa. wai wayewa yazo.

akwai wanda zanyi maganar dashi anan

Assalam. fatan kowa yana lfy ? dan Allah ku ban shawara. ina da saurayi mun hadu dashi yana da wata budurwa. haduwa ta dashi ya nuna mun zai mãta wulakanci saboda ni, kuma sunkai 3yrs suna tare so zai barta ya aure ni. nace masa aa saboda nima ai mace ce ba zan so wani yamun haka ba. nace ya aureta kawai ni, na hakura. na rokeshi da ya manta dani karya sake kirana na goge number sa saboda na manta dashi. after like 1 year da auran su that is 2020 sai ya kirani muna dan gaisawa sama sama har zuciya tayi gaba damu mukaci gaba da soyayya har yafi na baya. yamun alkawarin aure 2024 lokacin nima na gama karatu. Ankira shi gidan mu saboda duk lokacin da akace na fito da miji sai nace shi, toh uncle nawa kadai yasan shi da, kuma yasan shi da inda yaji wai ya barni ni, ne saboda ambashi ar'uwar shi ya aura. so yanzu iyaye na dakar suka amince da auren mu ahaka ma suke cemun dan na, nace ne. so dazun yake cemun wai shi gida daya zai hadamu kuma kayan akwati duk abunda nagani nayi hakuri dashi kuma wani maganar program da zanyi ba lallai yabani kudi ba.nace masa bakomai Allah shike rufa asiri, ai zanyi hakuri da komai amma gaskiya bazanyi hakuri muzauna gida daya da matarshi ba saboda wlh fuska biyu gareta amma ban fada masa dalilina ba nima niece tashi ce take gaya mun kudirinta akaina. saboda batasan kawata bace. shine fa yake cemun wai shi yariga ya yanke abunda zai iya, idan ban yarda ba inyi yanda nake so.dan Allah abunda nace wani abune irin hakurin jiranshi da nayi yadace yamun wannan? iyayena dakar suka yarda dashi amma ji irin abunda yake cemun kuma gidan shi 500k yake biya 1year a Abuja nace toh yaraba mana 300k mana wai aa. dan Allah ku ban shawara wlh iyayena sukaji hakama baza suyarda ba.