I was in a relationship with this guy. We clicked instantly and it was all roses without the thorns until he went back to their state. We chatted, talked on the phone, video called and everything for almost a month and half before he started changing haka kawai. I felt like I wasn't doing enough if I tell him that it's better to break up he'll say 'nothing is going to make me break-up with you yanzu' blah blah. I've never been in a relationship where I was so committed and ready to give my all sai a kanshi unfortunately enough he still didn't change after I talked, talked and talked. I later asked him if he needed space and he said yes, we'll talk maybe after a week and so talk on the phone may be once in a month. We almost started talking normally last month and I thought maybe he wants us back together amma ina after a few days I asked him whether I'm trying to fix a relationship with someone who doesn't even have feelings for me and he said that he's sorry I didn't deserve all this that we've to break-up komai ya baci. Ya ilahi! Why are guys like this after giving your all, being loyal for nothing kenan? If I was a guy and I found a girl who truly loved me I'll never hurt her wallahi. Guys please ku canza Hali

Have you ever been with someone who loves you with all her heart and will literally do anything for you, someone who doesn't want to see you hurt, someone who is possessive of you, someone who can sacrifice all she has just to see you smile ? You love her as much but you can't reciprocate the feelings,the efforts? You get so beat up by your daily struggle that you forget something she tells you just 5 minutes ago, you want to treat her like a queen but you are married to your job and its starting to turn into choosing the job or choosing her , you want to hang out with her but you are always at work,you want remember her birthday, anniversary, important things but you can't seem to do that no matter how much you try to ,not because you don't care but because you are drowning in your life problems. You keep on disappointing her , hurting her ,she's always understanding but now it has reach the point where her frustrations is starting to show . You feel it in you,you can't give her what she deserves,what she's asking for, you know she's worth every bit of it and more but you have to let her go ,you need to let her go , you can't keep on hurting her and claiming to love her . I lost a gem last week , I had to take the cowardly way out because I couldn't give her what she's expecting of me , I know I can never find someone like her . 😔🥀

I don't know what's wrong with me. I have serious anger issues. And whenever I get angry I end up doing something that I will later regret. please if anyone knows any prayer that I can say or maybe anger management classes please I'd appreciate.

A few months back i posted about finding it difficult to connect with people and battling with masturbation. Alhamdulillah i am making progress in getting rid of it and i have made a decent amount of trustworthy people. Still haven't been able to feel love though but someday i will get there. I would love to thank everyone who advised me and helped me on this platform, may Allah bless and reward you and your respective families abundantly ameen.

Inada Saurayi Wanda Munkai Wajen 1 year tare. So probably, sai kwana biyu yaga na chanza. Ya damu yasan maike damuna, naqi fadamai sabida abu ne wanda ya shafi gida. Yai ta matsamin sai nafadamishi, har yakai ga yayi fushi yadaina picking kirana duk sabida naqi fadamishi. Daga karshe na yanke shawaran fadi mai. "nafada mai baba akayi wa asiri aka koreshi wajen aiki, ga shi baida lafiya, gashi abubuwan gida duk yabi ya chanza, ga kudin haya ba mu biya ba, ga bamuda foodstuffs enough" haka dai nafadimai komi. Ya nunawa damuwa akan hakan. Bayan kwana biyu yazo ya gaishe da mama da zai tafi yabata 10k yace tayi hakuri ba yawa. After two days da zuwan shi gidanmu, sai naga ya chanza, ya daina kira, ya daina min magana a chat, idan nakirashi baya picking. Daga karshe sai ya kirani yake cemin "wai gaskiya yanzu shi bazai iya aure na ba, sabida yanzu idan ya aure ni responsibility din gidanmu zai dawo kanshi, sannan idan na amince na bashi hadhin kai muyi sex zai bani 100k" . Gabaki daya ranan jikina mutuwa yayi, kwana nayi da bakin ciki ina kuka. Ga problem din gida ga kuma wajen wanda nake sa rai zan aura. Yanzu yace yana jiran feedback dina idan na amincewa bukatansa. Pls kubani shawara yanda zan bullowa wannan lamari n nashi dan Allah. Gashi shi kadai ne saurayin danake tsayawa dashi banda wani saurayin bayan shi. 🤦😪

So i hqve 2 ladies am dating and having plans on settling before the year runs out inshallah. The issue is that i know know which one to settle with. Lady A is from a very well to do family, well educated employed and takes care of herself. Lady B from an average family, not as educated as A, not employed (stays with parent). We vibe more with lady A and i feel i love her more than lady B. My problem is the issue of class of both ladies in question. Myself am from an average family, well educated, employed with an NGO and i make 7 figures. I feel i will be better with since am assuming we are in same class so we wont have ome family looking down on the other or one family thinking you are marrying into their family because of there wealth and all. If not for the above, mo doubt lady A would have been the preferred choice. Again, some members of my family are not comfortable with lady A cause they assume that the family sue to their wealth might start influencing /controlling thw marriage with time. Your advice are needed. Thanks

Assalm,,i am the type that always gets disturbed by the wisper of shaidan especially during prayers..in most cases, its always when i'm in the act of salat that this air is willing to come out🙈 so when this happens i usually compress it as in i send it back😁🙈 n go ahead with my prayers... the question here is, is it permissible to do so??or i just have to let it out and renew my ablution..pls help this soul🙏

For the females how do y'all keep this, Like having a serious relationship which may lead to marriage(no specific date) but has this thinking of "na who ready you go marry" if it happens does that mean you cheated or what??😂

How do you ask a guy you love out

Salamalaikum warahmatullah everyone please,I’m still looking for help about the relocation please! I have an opportunity I wouldn’t want to miss please! thank you

How to innocently give her butterflies -Tell her to be safe when she is out.😊 -Hold eye contact when talking to her😻 -say her name at the start or end of a sentence🥰 -when going in for a kiss 😘pull her hair at the side of her ear (gamasu aure 😂yawwa) -grab her waist (ga masu aure kenn)🙅 -pull her close to you when passing other guyz🤩.

Dazu nazo wucewa ta kofar wani gida sai Naga wata mace ta leko da daurin kirji sai na kura mata ido Ta harareni tace"sannunka maye😂 Sai nace"yawwa sannunki show room! Ashe mijinta yana gefe yana kallonmu sai yace" sannunku maciya amana!😂 Waniw ustazu dake zaune a gefen hanya ya cewa mijin sannunku Dayyus! Shedan ya zagayowa ta bayan kunnena yace"sannunku costumers sai nai A'uziyya na zuga masa charbi a rabin ido har shati gurin yyi 😄Dan Banza sai ya bace 😂😂!!

My sister has turned 25 Last April, Toh Halin da ake ciki wani bawan Allah yazo (2X Her Age) da gaske shi a daura aure tazo a ta biyu bayan babbar Sallah ma kawai. Ita de ta nuna she's not interested saboda akwai wani da take ta jira nakeji (Mtswww). Nidai Ta Barmu Speechless. Naso Ace Tana IG taga yadda Both Gender suke neman tsayyayu musammamn ma Su Matan. Yanzu Meye Shawara Ko Solution???

Any one here???.. let's chat.suppose to be chatting with my guy by now😂,Amma tunda Allah be kawo ba ya na iya☹️🥺

How old are you?

slm. I want to get your opinions on which is best when it comes to organizing KAYAN LEFE. Is it best for the guy/guys family to organize or to give the bride to be the money to organize it herself? From my point of view, i think its better to give her the money to do the shopping herself since she know best the items/materials she will need, unlike when the husband to be or his family do the shopping and sometimes buying more or less of somethings and or not buying at all. And again, i think this idea is suitable or works best when the guy is working on budget due to availability of funds😀. So, yanaji what are your thoughts, inputs or contributions to the above.

Wai dan Allah nika daice idan naji zanfara son mutum deeply nake zuwa na duba breakup and heartbreak post na dawo hayyaci na just a question

how do u give someone you're so much in love with space?

Left-handed people seem to have special talents especially adapting in a world designed for right-hand people. Does this special ability also manifest in their relationship as a husband or wife? Are you one or do you have first hand experience of sharing a space with them?

Please i need to know if there's any one here that has done chorionic villus sampling ( CVS) before childbirth. How was the procedure, was it success, were there any risks, please help a sister out. I really need to know Thankyou 🙏