Acts of Squeezing your thighs to get sexual pleasure I'm Experiencing this Since when I was 9years old 😭 I don't even know if it was Haram or not (Ya Allah😭) please someone should help me Explain islamically NB- I am almost 22years now

Assalamu Alaikum da fatan kowa na lpy. wani abu ne ke ci min tuwo a qwarya ina zaune tare da antyna da yayanta uku. wata 2 da suka wuce anty tawa ta dawo nigeria dan akwai bikin qanwarsu da zaay. da yake muna da yan uwa a qasar da mukw zaune, sai tayi wa kanwar kakata da tke zaune a qasar magana tazo ta zauna da mu kafin ta dawo. ynzu maganar da nke akwai wata distance cousin din anty nawa, sun hada alaqa ne ra wajen kakanni sai tazo ta dan kwana biyu. gida ba extra room sai ta ke kwana a dakin anty tawa kuma d same dakin idan mijin anty tawa yazo yake kwana, itace wannan da tazo sai ta kira qawarta🙂 sai suke kwana a dakin antyn nawa kuma suke amfani da bandakin.... abin na damuna amma bamda bakin magana tunda ba gidana bane ba amma abin ba kyan gani, bamda rashin tunani ke idan ki kwana a dakin an miki uzuri amma kawo qawa wannan ba abin hnkl bane ba, gadon da mijin ke kwanciya da bargon da mijin ke rufa da bandakin da mijin ke amfani 🙂. nasan ko a addini kanwar ki uwa daya uba daya ba zata shiga dakin mijinki ba balle wata cousin daga nesa harbda qawarta. toh ya kuka gani ni ta bangare na ba zan yadda da wannan danyan aikin ba, mijinka sirrinka ne da komai nashi

if you get to interact with Nigerians and get to experience their mentality and reasoning hence their actions. you will begin to understand why the entire country is messed up and doomed. Nigerians are extremely corrupt and they lack even basic ethics and morality in most cases. The leaders are the products of the same corrupt enviroment of the country. I rest my case.

Kuyi nishadi rijalu Wai yarinyar da aka haifa 2002-2007 ce take bani umarni🤔🤣💔 ko Kuma ta nuna mka Kai yaro ne

Wata sabuwar alada ce da ta shigo local hausa community da na lura, kuma naga yakamata a gargadi alumma. Watau iyaye na yin kuskure, wajen banbanta ga tarbiyar yara. Yarinya mace har tai aure sai ka ga itace islamiyya, itace, harda itace, boko, talla itace, in aike ya tashi a gida itace, ko kasuwa ne itace. ai ta rike ta gamgam ana dora ta kan hanya wai a karamin tunaninmu muna so ta kyautatta don ta samu miji nagari, kuma eh yarinya indai ba talla ake dora mata aba kokuma barinta ake zuwa yawo gidajen biki ba, eh sau dayawa ana saa… sai kaga yarinya ta tashi kamila da hankali kuma inshaa allahu in kai saa mai tsoron allah sai kaga alamarin abun shaawa. Duk wannan dai dai ne. Inda kuskuren yake shine wajen tarbiyan maza, santari wai sai kaga wai in yaro ya wuce jss 3 sai kaga iyaye sun fara sakan mai alamuransa. In ma yace bazai je boko sai a yardan mai. Balle kuma islamiyya baa Magana. Yanzu un kaje any islamiyya anan arewa alkawari sai kaga 80% duk matane, maza baa masu dole suje. Yo yaro bama ya yini gidansu baa san ina yake ba ina zaa kawo shi islamiyya, shidai amfanin shi lokacin damuna ya taya uban a gona. Daga nan ba ruwansa da mike faruwa gida. In ka tambaye shi ko iyayen sun tambaye shi sai yace ya fita dako kuma duk karya ce, kokuma kaji ance yana farauta kokuma kaji ance yana gidan dambe ko gidan gala ko gidan solo. Kokuma duk wani abu marar amfani. Shi da gida in yaji yunwa yazo gida yasha fate, ya ci tuwo. Kai abun kunya in ma yaro baya son fita yakai wani shekaru sai kaga wai koranshi akeyi ana cewa zam gida na mata ne yaje yai harka da abokansa. Duk iyaye na manta in yaro ya fita ko da kanshi kokuma in an korashi to fa zai fada chikin yan daba ne kokuma chikin yan shaye shaye, kokuma shikin yan fashi kokuma chikin yan kwace kan titi, abun dai baa kirgawa. Yaro bakasan harkokinshi, kila ma kana kwana da dan fashi, ko wani babban dan chacha ko dan daudu cikin gida bakasani. Gidajen hausawa ma da ake dakunan maza a waje baa san yaushe ya shigo ba ko ya fita koma in yak wan gida ba shin suma mazan ba yayanmu bane, namaji kadage kayi tarbiyar shi ma ya ka kare balle ka sake shi duniya. Abun da muka mantawa yarin yar nan da muke ta killace wa muna so ta samo miji na gari kashi 7 chikin 10 irin wannan yaron da ka sakar wa duniya fa irin shi fa zata jajibo tace tayi saurayi, ai masu aure. Shiya sa yanzu sai kaga yarinya masha allahu kana ta daukin wa zata kawo amma daga takawo mijin sai ka ganshi wani gaja, ko wani santolo , gashi gashi dai, bai chika mutumba ko a furucin shi. Kuma ba yanda zakai dole ka aura mata haka. Domin bakada wani wanda ya fishi da zaka kawo mata itama ta duba ta duba bata da wani wanda ya fishi… Yakamata alumma ta duba. Kada mu manta mu muka haifi yaran mu basu suka haifemu ba. Yanzu mutum in yaro ya gagare shi yace yabar mai gida sai kaji kowa yayi ca kanshi, yana chewa yai hakuri amma yaro sai ya zauna don ai gidan ubansa ne. kamar yanada wani permernent seat a gidan. Malamai a fadakar don Allah. Na gode

People are going through a lot in this country, please be a good neighbor. Try as much as possible to help as many people as you could. Be nice to everyone, help with the little you have. We can’t help everyone but everyone can help everyone. May Allah see us through.

Dear men what do u think about ladies that nag alot?

Salamu alaikum. Ina wuni. Ina so na yi wani magana ne, abu ne wanda gaskiya ya zama ruwan daré kuma astaghfirullaah Allaah Ya jarabce ni da shi amma Alhamdulillaah ina kan barin abun kuma ina daɗa roƙan Allaah Ya yâye mini kuma followers su sâke taya ni da addu'ar barin abun gabaɗaya. SORRY IT WILL BE A LONG WRITE-UP. I got exposed to porn at a very very early age, and this made me had my first sexual encounter at also a very early age, I think when I was at JSS, the same person that exposed me to porn, took me to have my first sexual experience with a sex worker, at that age, everything was normal to me, fast-forward I just got addicted to pornography sosai like sosai, zan yi spending hours and hours ina kallo ko browsing porn, in my university years, kallon porn ya ƙary sosai na zo na fara zuwa wurin street hookers ina having sex, I can't count the number of times na yi having sex don abun ya shige ni sosai, everything was swxual to me, duk macen da na gani kawai sai na fara imagening ina having s*x da ita, dake ba a Nigeria na yi karatu ba, duk tafiyan da na yi duk inda muka yi transit kuma za mu kwana sai na nemi hooker. So at my 3rd year in university, Alhamdulillaah, Allaah Ya sa na haɗu da wani ɗan Saudiya wanda gaskiya ya riƙe addini, na yi joining group ɗin su, haka ya samu gaba ya fara koya mana addini and all, my life started changing, I decided I have to leave this habit, I started ignoring porn and I didn't even want to have anything to do with it, for goot two to three years, I stayed away from it. I now finished school, came back to Nigeria, informed my dad I wanted to get married, he supported it and Alhamdulillaah I did my NYSC, got a job immediately after my service and then I got married a year after I got the job Alhamdulillaah. Everything was going fine, two years into my marriage, that habit kicked in again after I got exposed to sexual contents on Tumblr (then Tumblr had lots of porn on it and they were wild porn), I now started having the previous feelings I used to have, I felt I needed more s*x, I was a beast inside Wallaah. At first I was going to my wife whenever na ji na matsu, sai mu yi abun mu, unfortunately, I needed more, I wanted to have more s*x because I had lots of fantasies in my head and I wasn't doing it all with my wife because somethings, she felt, she couldn't do them because to her it wasn't ok and they weren't nasty things, just dai normal porn stuff (apart from a*al). Sai na dawo na koma neman street hookers, it even got worse, na fara hauwa hook-up sites ina ta samun hook-up girls muna ta haɗuwa a hotel, abunda na san ban taɓa yi ba shine na ga innocent girl na yi yaudaré ta na yi s*x da ita ba, wannan kam ban taɓa yi ba, duk hauka na sai dai na je wurin hook-up girls because I really respect religious and innocent girls Wallaah, kuma if you see me, you will never think I am someone that will have such in him, I am a very responsible person amd very careful in whatever I do. Back to track, I started meeting up with hook-up girls muna ta yin sex, kuma ni mutin ne wanda na iya sosai irin any girl da na yi da ita sai ta ƙira ni sau ba iyaka, kuma ban taɓa yi babu protection ba. This habit kept getting worse and worse, it got to a point, I can do it with different ladies in a day kuma duka za mu jima muna yi and we do everything apart from a*al, and they keep calling me after that to comd back let's do more, duk cikin aure ln mu da mata na kuma my wife never found out although she later started suspecting because ta taɓa ganin receipt na hotel a pocket ɗina, she cried profusely but till today I never uttered a word about it but I really felt bad. I continued, I was spending so much on hookers s*xing them, I was never satisfied, I wanted to spend a whole day doing it with break intervals. The reason why I am giving details is so you should know the extent this habit got into me. Kuma ba irin matan da ban yi da su ba, young hookers, older ones in their 40s, Arewa ne, kudu ne har hookers na Niger and all of them never wanted mento leave. On the other hand, my wife was was also getting it yadda ya kamata. I now met this Arewa lady who was a hooker, we started having s*x kuma she went crazy!! Ta ce let's be together and anytime we wanted it let's meet and do it, abun ya zama kaman mun yi aure, har in mun haɗu tana ce mini she missed everything and she couldn't wait, sai mu fara munyi ta yi, ba irin style ɗin da bamu yi. Kawai sai watarana muna yi, a thought now hit me cewa "Allaah fa na kallon mu" it was after that I decided that was it, I had to take that decision of stopping everything. I now started making serious Du'a and at the same time working so hard to erase that life in me, believe me, it's EXTREMELY difficult!! but Wallaahi Tallaahi no matter your sins, even if they are as much as the mountains of this whole world, Wallaahi in mutun ya yi honest sincere repentance da addu'a da aiki towards changing, Wallaahi you will be surprised how Allaah will help you change. As I am talking to you, I have completely dropped that lifestyle da ikon Allaah da taimakon Shi and mace kam sai dai na kalle ta. I made up my mind in Allaah Ya hora mini with more wealth I will marry another wife instead of going back to that life, dama I tols myself since cewa mata biyu zan yi dan na san kaina. Yanzu fa ina gaya muku kaman ban taɓa irin rayuwan nan ba. Ina ganin mutane suna posting on how they are porn or s*x addicts toh Wallaahi you can leave all these things all you have to do is to make up your mind and tell yourself you are doing nothing but gaining more wrath of Allaah and keep reminding yourself about death then male sincere repentance and be honest with it. Har yau akwai matan da suke ƙira na suna turo mini text bana ma kula su, very soon I will delete all their contacts and those that are still calling and texting I will block them all, Insha Allaah na bar banzan rayuwan nan and I pray Allaah help all those suffering from it Ya yâye musu Ya sa su canza gaba ki ɗaya. Wanda kuma basu zama exposed to this life ba Allaah Ya kâre su kuma it's something you won't want to go into, it's very horrible, it will eat you up, parents, protect your children at all COST!!!! please kada ku raina ɗan kiss ko hugging ɗin da ake yi, do not allow them watch TV on their own, in fact, limit their exposure to TV, KEEP YOUR EYES ON THEM!!!!

Assalamualaikum, so often when a person comes forward with an issue that is bothering them and asks for advice be it on this platform or another or even in real life, the first piece of advice people give is for the person to be patient. A lady will come to seek fo advice that her husband is a drunkard for example or a ritualist, or that he uses her in an unlawful manner, but people will advise her to be patient. Another will say her inlaws are over working her, and people will advise patience. A man will come seeking for advice on whether or not to continue dating a girl whom he knows clearly is not a good person, but he'll be advised to be patient, while there are plenty of women besides her. The list of examples goes on and on. I am not a person that is impatient nor am i opposed to the exercise of patience in all matters, however, patience is not always the answer. As a muslim i am very well aware that Allah loves the patient ones, He commended the patient ones, and He commands us to be patient in so numerous occasions. Patience in the Qur'an cannot be over emphasized. Notwithstanding, it is important that one should learn to know when to give up instead of deceiving one's self that better things are coming. When Our Prophet SAW was in Makkah and his stay became virtually impossible Allah did not order him to be patient but ordered him to migrate. Likewise, when the wives of the Prophet SAW demanded that he buys them gold jewelries when he didn't have the means, he didn't ask them to be patient rather Allah Himself commanded the Prophet SAW to give his wives an option of whether to stay with him in poverty or that he divorces them. In a nutshell, all I'm trying to say is we all should have a limit for our patience, because it is not indefinite. When things are not working out after several attempts and patience of course, i think its time to reconsider and let go. Sometimes letting go opens a whole new chapter in one's life, a chapter full of new exploration and experiences. So if you're in any kind of situation and have been patient for long enough without seeing the fruit of your labor, then its time to let go and explore other things.

Aslm brk d wrhka pls I need advise from u. Akwai yarinyar DA recently mukafara dating DA ita. Har nake kokarin trawa anemamin izinin airenta. duk DA cewar bikin zai iya kaiwa next year. To Amma akwai wata matsala DA take damuna shine idan har muna waya KO kuma Ina karanta sako idan ta turomin kawai zanji na mikine at end sainaga har nayi releasing. Kuma bawai wani dirty communication muke DA ita ba. Kawai idan tana dan yaba min ne kmar daii tace myy........ KO kuma wani love words hka. gskya yarinyar tamin shine nakeman shawaran yaya zanyi DA lamarin dan abun kullum karuwa yake karayi. Amma idan har ba muyi wayaba kuma normal nake rayuwa ta. so daga naji miryarta kawai abun zanji DA ban.

I am a man, just started working in Abuja about 5 months ago, my earning is about 300k in a month, all in all. I spend about 50% every month, so i have not saved much and i really want to get married because i am scared of falling into zina, i have tried fasting but no avail, i am just trying to suppress my feeling everyday and its beginning to disturb me. Also i know i can't afford to get married until at least i save up for 2 years to be able to afford the expenses. Please what can I do ??? its a big problem for me and i can't discuss with anyone. if you have any suggestions or advice please tell me.

How do you girls pull through life with out parents supporting you??..how do you girls make good connections???… I mean how do you meet people and they genuinely want to get you a job or connecting you with someone without asking for anything in return???..I am struggling to earn a living..Nobody wants to help for the sake of Allah…Everyone wants to have a thing with me before they help or when they start halfway they make a request 💔... I am beginning to think it is impossible to make it in life without going into bad things...it's either you do bad thing to make your way through success as a lady with little or no support from parent/relatives or you become helpless forever...Subhanallah!!!..

I recently subscribed to the matchmaking section and have seen there's a limit of 3 open requests. With this restriction what then differentiate the basic plan from the premium plan?

good day house. what is your opinion on parents imposing their choices of spouse on their children! don't get me wrong am all about respecting parents but I believe when it comes to life partner everyone should be allowed to choose the partners of their choice.i guess am lucky, I came of a family that though they will have opinion and advise but at the end, they will live you to choose what you want and what makes u happy, because what's most important is for them to be sure that their children are happy. I have a friend who was once married before, and the partner is no more unfortunately they didn't have children after few years he met someone fell in love but the person have children, he doesn't have problem with that, because they are happy, the mother is against the marriage instead she wanted her child to marry a lady from a wealthy family whom her child have no interest. the mother is doing everything she could to force him to this marriage. the guy being an obedient child is doing everything possible to fulfill the wishes of his mother even though doing that is killing him inside, he have no one to complain to about his situation, he was sick hospitalized and unhappy. he is using substances to suppress his feelings because he is afraid to tell his mother his feelings . is this mother helping her son or ruining his life? I think she have ruined her relationship with her son, parents are supposed to be a child one stop complain receiving problem solving point, not complications Creation. ur opinions please thank u

jama'a Ana barin airdrop a bude fa tam ni nayi nan train zanje in shiga nasaka black abaya 😂😂😂😂😂

Everything is getting expensive and life is generally getting harder, May Allah make it easy, Amin. How are you coping?

why is this forum too silent and empty these days? whats wrong? Jo Baku d data ne? 😂 duk wanda bashi da data should raise up his hand am gonna do giveaway😂

We met ramdomly once in karaye road, unguwan dosa Kaduna. And it's getting to eight years now I have been praying so hard to Allah to meet you again one day. Yaa Allah, brings our heart together again, if it is for the greater good.

Aslm, please is it right to ask your guidiance kudin gadon ki as a lady? because I'm desperately in need of money and i want to start up a business,i don't want to ask for loan and I'm definitely sure my step parents won't give me from theirs,so is it okay to ask for it? and how do i tell them that i want the money to start a business

Assalamualaikum everyone, I'm here with a heavy heart. I didn't grow up with my mom because my dad's family took me after my dad died,so I grew up with my dad's best friend, and after my mom got married again and gave birth to two children with her new husband,she took me back and wallahi since then I've known no peace 💔,my mom's family are the worst, there's no form of gori that me and my sisters have not seen and are still not seeing, my Mom has never made life easy for me, she's only focused on her children with her new husband , whenever something goes wrong, it's our fault. I feel like she's not my mother and bana Jin zafin ta anymore, there's so much i can't say here and I've tried all my best to please her,nayi azumi da sallan dare Allah ya daidaita tsakaninmu amma haryanzu things are not changing 😭 for 9 years now zama ya gagara, sometimes she tells me and my sisters to go back to our dads family and give her space,wai she's tired and I'm also tired of her I don't know what to do anymore, please advise me 🤧