Good day i' m in need of a friend for Allah's sake.....someone I can talk to and I can call a friend someone who will help me to be better in aspect of life and we will grow together in goodness in this dunya and the hereafter

looking for a life partner with deen

A few weeks back in front of alqalam university in was looking for keke napep to go back home I stood there for like 30 minutes looking for napep and this guy came up to me with his car and offered a lift but I rejected he tried and tried but I rejected He is dark,very chubby,wears glasses and he drives one of this Peugeot car(I can’t remember the number) it’s silver/white in color his plate number is kaduna please help me post I would like to get in contact with him He cross my mind every single day ever since the day I saw him

I come across several posts that talk about women being pressured by society or family to get married and how that is causing many unhealthy relationships and quick marriages. Men also get this pressure, I am a Male of 28yrs and earning Good income but i am just not ready for Marriages as I don't know how it will really benefit me, Our society is scary these days mutane abun tsoro ne wallahi. but I get bugged alot by People, "Wai kai yaushe zakayi aure", "Kana zaman kadaici a Abuja babu iyali, be kamata ba", "Har yanzu bakayi aure ba, meyasa?" all sorts of things dai haka, I use to overlook but abin ya fara yawa. I am living in a 2 bedroom apartment and i am comfortable and mostly eat outside or cook sometimes, i am mostly busy. so i don't know why people are concerned about me marrying. haka last week wata aunt dina ta dinga min lecture akan aure, i left her house in wonders. I don't mind to talk about it casually but when it gets serious its really uncomfortable for me.

Salam ma/sir A friend of mine ask me to advice her on this issue She is married with 3 kids but her husband has never come to her or ask her for sex unless if she go to him and most time he push her away, she said that she only have sex maybe once in 3 or four month that if he didn't turn her down.she was a very beautiful lady before marriage fine shape but she has added weight due to child birth Now she is tired of marriage and she want to leave,Please is that enough reason for her to leave the marriage or she should work on her body because he once told her back then that his attracted to slim girls

is It Halal To See The woman physical structure of the woman you are Seeking to marry ?

I wanted to ask before subscribing, please does the meetup section have photos feature where you can see photos of the person before sending them request?

Every single woman of age 18 and above has at least been asked once of when she will get married or been mocked at mostly by males or by married counterparts. I know what you are thinking, she is a feminist, right ? Well I'm not, but feminist or not, the truth is the truth. Just like someone can't know exactly when they will die so is when they will get married. The question " when are you getting married?" Or the phrase " get married, you are getting old" have pressuring effects, girls subjected to this kind of pressure tend to settle for anyone that comes their way out of desperation. And where desperation comes, love, understanding, and value leave. The males on the other hand feel that there are plenty fish at the sea. So the marriage that is suppose to be full of love happiness and loyalty would be a marriage governed by desperation on the woman's part amd the mentality of "plenty fish at the sea" on the man's part, culminating in divorce, and where divorce thrives, higher level of depression, anxiety, poorer self-concept and psychological distress happen. These effects are not often spoken of like the global warming but its effects are consuming us bit by bit on its own ways. To males and married females who exact these pressures on the single ladies, my question is what gauratee you, you will not give birth to female child and what guarantee you she wouldn't be subjected to the same sort of pressures, so we are virtually all on the same boat, unless you do not give birth to a female child or has no female siblings in which case you are saved by default. So think twice and think deep. To all those single ladies out there, know that just because you don't find love, does not mean that you are not worthy of it.

pls is the registration,once? or I will have to renew it some other time?

i want to post my profile, for matchmaking. A definite no for me is someone who drinks and or smokes. i am scared that if i post that, some people who smoke or drink would still, apply for a match and hide it. pls should i include that criteria or not. thank you

Hello Arewaup and all. whats your success record on Matchmaking platform. Also if I post email and my details including no, DOB and others would it be visible to all or only to the admin.

How do I register please?

Baka cika makaryaci ba,Har sai lokacin da zaka iya yiwa kanka da kanka karya😢 saidai ka yaudari kanka amma ba zaka iya ba,cikin duniya zaka iya yiwa kowa karya,amma ba zaka taba iya yiwa kanka karya ba kuma aduk sanda kake yiwa wani karya kamar zaman kana yiwa kanka karya ne,toh kasancewar ba zaka iya yiwa kanka karya ba inaga ya zamanto ciwa kana yaudarar kanka ne, ku daina yaudarar kanka ,shi wanda zaka fadawa gaskiyar fada masa gaskiyar 😀💚 Allah yasa mufi karfin Zukatan mu🤲🏼

kaduna guys🙋🏼‍♀️

My life has been okay until 4th of September 2022 the day i committed a sin and also found out last weak to have been infected with HIV, Something i never thought i will do. i am tired of life suddenly and been depressed for almost 2 month, everyday is a pain for me and disappointed no one knows this except that i posted here, i CANNOT face my family with this devastating news, everyone sees me as a Good person which i am, I finished school and been working since 2 years ago in a very good government organization. My family are proud of me but i still went on to engage in something that has now ruined my life is the most painful part. I don't really want to live anymore. The guilt of Zina and my reputation in the eyes of people hurts deeply. I wish something happens and i die without anyone finding out my true story, All my plans and life goals have faded away. Please pray for me and my wish gets granted

Asalamualaikum. I am honestly confused on what to do hence my message here today. I beg you in the name of Allah please give me your honest opinions. This is a secret i have never shared with any living being until today. over Twelve years ago, 2010 i lost my mother. My dad got remarried 2011 and his marriage failed thereafter. He was in a very dark place so he sent me and my sister to stay with one of my mother's friend for a while. I was 13 at that time. During my stay there, her nephew of twenty something years was also staying there. That wicked human being raped me in that house and I couldn't tell anyone till this day. He has been begging for my forgiveness till this day. I don't think I can find it in my heart to forgive him. The problem now is that I'm about to get married and I don't know if I should tell my to be husband about it or to keep it between me and Allah. What should I do?

Hello. I want join the Matchmaking platform but really I find it difficult to send my ID card because I am already a family man with grown kids and am in my early 50s and interested in adding another partner. I also love my present partner. However, my confidentiality is really key. so how do I get along in this sojourn with the Arewa app.

Good day everyone. I would like to talk about some of the effects of over thinking. As everyone knows,over thinking doesn't solves problems instead it adds to your own problems and hence making you sadder and more depressed by the day. Most of the times people resort to sitting alone and thinking all the time, some think it's okay to be thinking all the time till they can't stop anymore and would later end up regretting. Some of the effects of over thinking include; depression, negative thoughts, sad face, it also have effects on our mental health and many more. It's never too late,speak out, tell your close ones of your worries and problems and also avoid sitting alone most of the times,mingle with your friends, go out and catch some fun and also remember that Almighty Allah is aware of your situation and he have a better reason for putting something in your life.

I am a graduate passionate about business, my dad had promised to give me 1m in the next 2 weeks too start a business but i will have to sell the idea to him. Please any suggestions? something profitable with less volatility as i am aware business in this economy is really challenging. I will appreciate any suggestion or advice

About the 25 year old that posted concerning her difficulties few days ago.. Now to assure you of not being alone or Maybe yours maybe a little much better I'm a 25 year old, growing up in a family filled with females didn't really give me the idea of befriending outsiders, my mum was my best friend but few years after loosing her and my father reality Dawn on me, I have no friends at all but jst acquaintances, I always find myself behaving awkward and weird outside and in the midst of people, I always find myself feeling as though I do not belong there. In my 25years of life, I have only dated once and even that wasn't really a serious dating, I feel I'm not attracting any tangible man at all yet my brothers, sisters and acquaintances claim I have the type of body attractive to men. My dear I have learnt to live all by myself to love myself and wait for that destined man from Allah (swt) although there are times also yearn for love but what do I do? Nothing other than to be patient... I hope this little piece can bring you atleast a little peace and calm knowing you are not alone not are you different from every other human out there...