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Assalamu alaikum house. I'm in a very difficult situation right now and I don't know how to figure a way out of it. I have two (2) girlfriends and they both love me so dearly. But gaskia I have no or less feelings to both of them because they do not fit my taste in girls. In fact I am only taking part in the relationships out of politeness. So, the main issue is that right now they are both pressurising me about marriage kamar sun hada baki and gaskia ni bana son su. my type in girls in Tall, Fair, Beautiful and from a wealthy family (irin ajebo nan). But unlucky to me all the girls that loves me are not the type I want. Bana son ko wacce tace na yaudareta, I try to give them time but deep inside me nasan ba auran su zanyi bah. Please a bani shawara ya zanyi na rabu dasu cikin lumana kafin nasamu irin wacce nake so.
Nov 17, 08:46 AM
Hey guys,thank you so much for your prayers ,I passed the exams Alhamdulillah ...
Nov 17, 03:29 AM
It's so disheartening, I wonder why it so happens. When you meet someone and start getting along and he heard you have kids BOOM he runs off. Sometimes you men needs to ask us if we'll be staying with our kids after marriage but you don't and besides you guys ain't sure if you'll be with your kids till when they grow up. Is it because you can't care for someone else kid or what?.
Nov 16, 11:51 PM
I need a Good friend
Nov 16, 09:45 PM
Hello brothers nd sisters plz I need an advice on what business should I start with 100k🙏
Nov 16, 07:10 PM
im a orphan form a very poor family, we are 25 in total but I'm the only graduate,( lost both parents wen I was minor) I struggle through schools + Allah send some people my way that supported one way or the other Alhamdulillah. while in school there's no hustle I didn't do to provide for me cox I sent myself to school wit no single help from family, infact I was still supporting my family back home.Alhamdulillah im not complaining. everyone thinks im d family savior, my sisters called me were crying praying that I succeed so I can uplift their children too (all of them marry poor guys) im not downgrading them as it's d will of Allah( d male Kuma fa, from hand to mouth they are also married hustling for their family too) wen I look at d condition of my family im not happy I want to uplift them, I want to support them like I always do but how ? im single (female) im a graduate no job,I do small business wit d country economy business hasn't been moving,my house rent would expire in few days, i hv no penny, i hv no food to eat, i hv no job at hand, im tempted so do ASHAWO, cox dats d only way to get money, helpers are so had to come by, men or women want to sleep wit u before they help u, nd when u refused they won't help u. im tired, depressed, exhusted, I struggled through university just so I can get work nd support my family but still nothing, im feel like to end it all. im in need of job, please I know some of us have uncles, auntie, or even u urself can help me secure a government job or a good paying job that can help me care of myself ns support my family please family help me. help this orphan, Walahi I hv no body to turn if I do I won't be here, I NEED JOB,I NEED JOB PLEASE 😭help me, help my life, save me form going into prostitution, i hv avoided it for many years of pains, hunger,nd poverty help me please. all I need is JOB. I NEED JOB PLS I GRADUATED WIT GOOD GRADE Alhamdulillah,im very smart nd clean im a Muslim, yes Allah i hv given me such a body that u would never no my struggle unless I told u.. please I need help d only valuable i hv on me nw is this phone 📱 pls help me all. tell ur auntie, brother, father or mother please im in need of Job please 😭
Nov 16, 09:09 AM
Assalamu Alaikum Warahamatullah good morning everyone please why is that most ladies prefer men that are not married, this actually limit the men that are married to send a request to the ladies, most ladies profiles categorically stated that, and a lot of married men are there willing to bring you home but but the chance has been limited by you, ladies can you explain this. Thank you
Nov 16, 08:09 AM
Assalaamu'alaykum my family I'm in a very critical condition right now....i met this guy in camp and we became close friends,we move around in camp and we were always together....but he never asked of my number.....with time I started falling for him cos of the care and attention he gives me...i used an opportunity and got his number but can't even chat him up or call him.he didn't say he likes me but i have falling so deep in love with him.. about 3days ago,he suddenly changed and started giving distance,he even started talking with ladies and even see one off to the hostel...i kept mute about it. I still talk to him normally but i' m keeping my distance with hope that I can forget him soon. We have just 7days to leave the camp and I feel like I am going to loose him forever. I can't even tell him I like him. Pls i need your advice.
Nov 15, 03:23 PM
How can the absence of a biological father in someone's life affect the person?
Nov 15, 12:56 PM
I am really bothered about these situation,I don't know if am the only one facing these,but when ever someone asked me out and we started talking, when he asked me were am from the moment I say Niger State he will start giving new attitude and becomes distance 😭 why, mostly, Kano, kaduna and other arewa state.
Nov 15, 10:44 AM
Aslm I don't even know where to start wlh I fall in love with my friend bf. they where actually getting married next month but the wedding have been cancelled, I meant this guy at our school he came for some work wlh I didn't even know he was her bf I fall in love with him the first time I meet him. I later found out that he's ur bf gashi I can't stop thinking about him I couldn't sleep properly since that day 🥹 I pray Allah yacire mun sonshi but is like I can't control myself, I try all the best to avoid them but I can't and anfasa bikin yanzu dai wlh narasa yazanyi darayuwata pls I need advice am loosing my mind I wish he can see this post 😢
Nov 15, 05:31 AM
I have a big problem I've been battling with for a long time. I've never dated anyone before even during my university time, and all my life I have been so scared. I found out a long time ago that I'm more attracted to guys than girls. I come from a really poor family but Alhamdulillah I'm extremely good and focused academically and professionally. During my university time, I had no time for any romantic relationship. I had a few close female friends then but our friendship was strictly platonic. I graduated from university some years back and Alhamdulillah I now work in a place where many Nigerians, even children of elites, dream of working. All my life, I was so scared to do anything with a guy because of the gravity of the sin in Islam. But starting from last year, I've had sex with a couple guys - all of them foreigners - Arabs and white. I do feel remorseful after the act, but to be honest, I like it. My family's dream now is to see me get married and unfortunately I haven't found any lady I would love to marry yet. The problem is I don't even make any effort to find one. I will be moving to North America in a couple of months and I am so scared that I may become addicted to having gay sex given that over there, it's legal and there is no any existing threats, at least not like here. I'm just so confused. I have been trying to suppress the feelings but no success yet. Please I need your advice.
Nov 15, 12:20 AM
Salaam! I think this platform wont allow us meeting because they'v taken down some posts concerning that
Nov 14, 09:25 PM
Aslm i need advice girlfriend Dina Wai sai na daina yin ball dole and wlhy ball din nan is part of my life.. so tun jiya nayi mata magana akan abu she refused.. this morning Mun samu misunderstanding she was telling me that ita dama tana da Wani boyfriend and she don't want to cheat on him 🥺bayan kuma ni da ita we are dating and I want to Marry her 👋
Nov 14, 09:12 PM
pls Dan Allah Dan darajar annabi Muhammad saw help a Muslim wlh I hàve been fruded yesterday and am at the sch I need money pls help me to pay my sch fees and the deadline is Friday pls help a Muslim danallah
Nov 14, 09:06 PM
Assalamu alaykum wallahi there's this guy who made me fall in love with him and yanzu he's ignoring me kuma i never intend to love anyone after my last breakups amma this guy has been on my neck for almost 2 years now so now when i fell for him it feels he's ignoring me cause actually we're not dating yet he just claim he loves me and i told him i love him too.yanzu that i finally fell for him yana bani attitude kuma wallahi i know what i went through from my last breakup cause wallahi i went through alot let me say i am a sucidal i almost end my life subhaballah amma Alhamdulillah Allah baiyarda ba so i decided not to fall in love with any guy maybe sai yanasona da aure so this guy came to me with the intention wai yanasona when i gave in .i showed him I'm also in love yanzu it has turn to something else i don't know maybe he as something on his plate or I'm an overthinker i can help it.i just don t want history to repeat itself wallahi i can't take it.so please i need advice should i keep pursuing him koh kawai na barshi. Allah yazabar min mafi alkhairi .
Nov 14, 07:07 PM
Tinibu, Atiku, Kwankwaso or Peter Obi? which among them do you think is capable?
Nov 14, 04:50 PM
Kano People come here let's discuss on the Increasing rate of divorce in Kano
Nov 14, 02:18 PM
salam Alaikum, to everyone reading this please include me in your prayers, I have a disease I have been battling for 15 years of my life and I am still not cured of it, it has affected me psychologically and I am still battling with it hoping In Shaa Allah one day I'll be cured, please include me in your sincere du'as. Dan Allah please include me in your prayers Thank you.
Nov 14, 04:00 AM