Anonymous
Dec 6, 12:37 PM
SEXUALITY.......... differentiating sexuality from Attraction
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I have come here to write on a lot of striking issues that has lots of comments cos I know that thing that is disturbing every one..
please don't come for me, all I try to do is neutral and educate great minds. it may be long just have patience and read with an open educated and civilized mind
I know no one taught us about sexuality. in fact in the northern homes to mention sex... hahahahah is a taboo. in aka ji ka ce sex se ka fada a Ina kaji. so most people tend to find out about things in their own way. wallahi brothers and sisters all am going to say is I am writing not from an ignorant point of view but from real education and research basis, I did my research and tourough findings for 10 years leading me to talk to high end world class scholars on the course of my research. in Islam the only way mentioned where u can satisfy your sexual desire is through marriage no any other way.. I'll do a post on (MASTURBATION) later.... this is a rule in Islam and some other religions.. it is called a compulsory rule because you have no option that to follow that doesn't mean other ways does not exists. but they want to test your patients to see if you can abide by the rule no matter how hard it is so u can earn jannah
the bitter TRUTH no one wants to hear is then comes SEXUAL BEHAVIOUR where no one understands except you.. feeling attracted to same gender or both gender or attracted to any kind of person or attracted to any intelligent person regardless of gender, some even attracted to Animals. some are healthy but don't even have any atraction...... these are all human biology, different people have different feelings and their feeling is valid, but of course the actions are not valid......
I came across a world class Imam who says he is attracted to same gender, (I won't mention his name, do your research) I had a conversation with him and it was productive.
one thing is the moment we don't feel some kind of way, we tend to see problem in anyorder thing.
feeling any kind of way sexually is valid, but the action is not. Regardless of what people think or say nature is nature.. most people are living in bondage because they are afraid what people will say.... now let me CRACK it for you guys..... your wife may be attracted to ladies..... your husbands may be attracted to guys..... I have come across many married people that are attracted to their gender with out their partner knowing.. do you think because you are attracted to same gender then you can not have sex with the opposite........ ATRACTION IS DIFFFERENT FROM SEX. know that and know peace, what you feel sexually does not in any way defines you... people have weird feelings. I have educated people under this light and now they are living happily just knowing they are no less of a people. do you think the punishment for ZINA is different from same sex ZINA... then you may be joking... you can naturally be attracted to anything but the only differce is how far you have gone in restraining... remember " wanda ya fi wani shine wanda ya fi wani storing Allah" SO no matter how you feel just know that you are valid... for those interested in talking further I can provide you with a means to talk to me...... and those that wants rant under the comment section please do in a knowledgeable way for learning.....
what do you think about instead of talking sh*t about people that have different kind of sexual behaviour, I think it's better if we tell them you are valid but don't go astray stay on the lane... I come in peace ✌🏽