SEXUALITY.......... differentiating sexuality from Attraction
Anonymous Dec 6, 12:37 PM

SEXUALITY.......... differentiating sexuality from Attraction 0

I have come here to write on a lot of striking issues that has lots of comments cos I know that thing that is disturbing every one.. please don't come for me, all I try to do is neutral and educate great minds. it may be long just have patience and read with an open educated and civilized mind I know no one taught us about sexuality. in fact in the northern homes to mention sex... hahahahah is a taboo. in aka ji ka ce sex se ka fada a Ina kaji. so most people tend to find out about things in their own way. wallahi brothers and sisters all am going to say is I am writing not from an ignorant point of view but from real education and research basis, I did my research and tourough findings for 10 years leading me to talk to high end world class scholars on the course of my research. in Islam the only way mentioned where u can satisfy your sexual desire is through marriage no any other way.. I'll do a post on (MASTURBATION) later.... this is a rule in Islam and some other religions.. it is called a compulsory rule because you have no option that to follow that doesn't mean other ways does not exists. but they want to test your patients to see if you can abide by the rule no matter how hard it is so u can earn jannah the bitter TRUTH no one wants to hear is then comes SEXUAL BEHAVIOUR where no one understands except you.. feeling attracted to same gender or both gender or attracted to any kind of person or attracted to any intelligent person regardless of gender, some even attracted to Animals. some are healthy but don't even have any atraction...... these are all human biology, different people have different feelings and their feeling is valid, but of course the actions are not valid...... I came across a world class Imam who says he is attracted to same gender, (I won't mention his name, do your research) I had a conversation with him and it was productive. one thing is the moment we don't feel some kind of way, we tend to see problem in anyorder thing. feeling any kind of way sexually is valid, but the action is not. Regardless of what people think or say nature is nature.. most people are living in bondage because they are afraid what people will say.... now let me CRACK it for you guys..... your wife may be attracted to ladies..... your husbands may be attracted to guys..... I have come across many married people that are attracted to their gender with out their partner knowing.. do you think because you are attracted to same gender then you can not have sex with the opposite........ ATRACTION IS DIFFFERENT FROM SEX. know that and know peace, what you feel sexually does not in any way defines you... people have weird feelings. I have educated people under this light and now they are living happily just knowing they are no less of a people. do you think the punishment for ZINA is different from same sex ZINA... then you may be joking... you can naturally be attracted to anything but the only differce is how far you have gone in restraining... remember " wanda ya fi wani shine wanda ya fi wani storing Allah" SO no matter how you feel just know that you are valid... for those interested in talking further I can provide you with a means to talk to me...... and those that wants rant under the comment section please do in a knowledgeable way for learning..... what do you think about instead of talking sh*t about people that have different kind of sexual behaviour, I think it's better if we tell them you are valid but don't go astray stay on the lane... I come in peace ✌🏽
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Shatuh Dec 6, 12:59 PM
can we talk privately pls
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Anonymous #1 Dec 6, 01:03 PM
Loool... definitely the end of times are near. Truly the prophet feared for us the acts of people of Lut both you and the scholar amd your followers may Allah guide you. you better delete this post so that it doesn't become a witness against u on the day of judgement
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Anonymous Dec 6, 01:25 PM

there was no where the poster mentioned indulging in the act is good. despite what ever you are feeling, feel it but do not indulge
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Anonymous #1 Dec 6, 01:31 PM

to me what leads to sexuality is attraction. before you know it from a harmless attraction it leads to something else shaytaan will keep whispering to u
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Anonymous Dec 6, 01:46 PM

shaytaan is our greates test. our ability to restrain from his whispering signifies the strength of our imaan........ sexuality is not SEX... check google for the difference
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Mmi Dec 6, 02:17 PM
Insightful piece, I'm not trying to invalidate your findings but this will create more harm than good. Those with less ilm of the deen or weak iman who find themselves in this distasteful situation will rely on this as an alibi or better still use it to justify their misguidance. On no occasion should sodomy find a place in the muslim ummah, it's unnatural and it is even perceived to be a disease, the western world are the ones forcing it on people and trying to make it a norm astagfirullah. Prophet Lut's people were perished for this. You stating that a certain acclaimed world class imam is attracted to same gender is invalid and will never be fathomable amongst the conscious. The earlier we the Muslim ummah and people of Arewa start detesting and castigating this act that will invite the wrath of Allah upon us the better, astagfirullah surely the end time is near. Lastly there is an hidden agenda behind this post, your motive is clear. Allah ya ganar damu gaskiya ya tsare mana imanin mu Ameen.
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Anonymous Dec 6, 02:37 PM

the simple lesson this post is giving is.... No matter what you feel. there is no justification for you to act upon it.... a lot of people have come to this app stating they have even gone far in indulging... all the post says is even if you feel that way. do not indulge and yes don bear your self because this is how you feel
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Anonymous Dec 6, 02:50 PM

drop an E mail
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Ibrahim Fatima Dec 6, 04:14 PM
pls let's talk ooooo privately
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Anonymous Dec 6, 05:36 PM

drop an E mail
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Sabir Dec 6, 07:24 PM
Harram is harram! so cos one is attracted to warmth of fire does that mean he or she should enter it at will? you ppl should stop coming with your half baked research and say what you not 💯 sure about. mind you ppl who indulge in this acts are looking for something they can bank on and carry out their activities. Islam has the answers to everything situation we find ourselves in this life. Allah ba tsoron mu yake ba, kowa zai mutu kuma a hadu dashi. Allah ya shirye mu gabaki daya. Ameen
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Ize Dec 7, 05:34 AM
astagfrullah hmmmm may Allah guidance be upon us all .. if i type all that’s in my mind here, I may be asked of it in hereafter.. it’s so funny how people are justifying this act.. if u all are brave enough why not come out with ur full chest nd say it , why hide under an anonymous to post all this sh!ts may Allah forgive our utterances. Aminn
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Ibrahim Fatima Dec 7, 09:41 AM

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Mohammad saanie Dec 7, 03:23 PM
the end time is near like you said brother, all people think about this days is sex and how to satisfy their desire, are we created for sex,
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Ahmad Muhammad kamba Dec 9, 08:34 PM

plz let's talk privately, here's my emal ahmrdmuhammad@gmail.com
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Anonymous Dec 10, 07:03 AM

check your E mail...... u can as well check spam messages
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Anonymous Dec 10, 07:04 AM

check your E mail, u can as well check Spam messages
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