No one is willing to help unless I have something to offer
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Anonymous Dec 9, 08:22 AM

No one is willing to help unless I have something to offer 0

Hy guys please I hope someone will understand me I lost my dad last year and things have been though all those uncles and aunties has vanished into a thin air even those I thought loved nd really care no one is willing to help unless I have something to offer why does it really have to be like this. I'm not willing to get rid of my pride as a lady for anything all I need is help from a kind hearted person. some one should please come to my aid i'm stuck and really need a way out I don't want to make any wrong decision. No insults please
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Aminaa Dec 9, 08:45 AM
😢😢 may Allah send u a helper
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Haidar Ali Dec 9, 09:07 AM
Allah SWT will ease your affairs sister. Just keep on praying and exercising sabr. (Innallaha ma'assabireen). I pray your will to keep your pride become stronger and stronger day by day. As much as we all tend to think people are our helpers and we place all our hopes on them, we forget Allah is the actual helper. And He will help you in anyway he wishes. Just turn to him and shun those you think will help you but they don't. He will turn their hearts or send you other means of getting you out of your undesirable situation.
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Bhillyamin Dec 9, 09:16 AM
💔💔
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Noor A Abubakar Dec 9, 09:39 AM
simple and beautiful
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Arewa Up Dec 9, 09:49 AM
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Beware!!!
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Nasir Mujahid Dec 9, 09:50 AM
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Give her the advice here mana
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Bhillyamin Dec 9, 10:34 AM

must you hear
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Ismail isa Dec 9, 12:51 PM
There are many medium to request for genuine demand and advice through Uncle, aunties, family friends and community help groups. However you must try to help yourself with either work,bussiness or others. Seek fir advice first b4 direct request. Share your problem with your Mum, sisters b4 asking for the help. People can't help everyday more so you are an adult. You must seem to help yourself before others are ready to help. Real problem are in either foods and or health. others could be manageable
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Nasssss9 Dec 9, 01:46 PM
This is what the world has turned into, I always pity ladies that goes through things like this
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Abubakar Sadeek Dec 9, 02:44 PM
I know prayer is the key to everything but my own perspective people should be specific on what actually help they need. You wouldn’t understand someone pain unless you have once been in his/her shoe or currently in his/her shoe
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Anonymous Dec 9, 03:00 PM

Amin ya rabbi thanks
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Anonymous Dec 9, 03:01 PM

Ok
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Anonymous #1 Dec 9, 03:37 PM

Mtsw... Like advice zata ci ko advice ne ze siya mata supplies din su na maataa. Ko da yake wataqila baa ka da er uwa mace so you're probably oblivious to needs na maataa. In baka sani bah ka sani, simple tampon/pad dinnan ko panties dinnan wata baa taa iya affording. Although maybe baka san meye tampon/pad bah. Shi ne wani abu ALWAYS ko irinsa da ake siyarwa a shago. Idan ka gan shi zaka dauka pampers(diaper) ne. Anyway... Allah ya sawwaqe wa mutane da tunanin sharri kafin alkhairi. People are too pessimistic wallah. Zannu bil Mu'uminina khairin. Ni ne Wanda nace tayi contacting di na via email.
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Anonymous #1 Dec 9, 03:47 PM

Tell him dai
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Anonymous Dec 9, 04:25 PM

Thanks alot for ur assistance I really appreciate Allah ya saka da alkhairi nd I promise to do something positive with it
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Abubakar Sadeek Dec 9, 04:26 PM
someone is in need of financial assistance and some people are here dragging and exchanging words…help if u can or ignore
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Anonymous Dec 9, 04:31 PM

Mind ur self nd keep quiet if you have nothing good to offer don't just come here to cause nuisance just help the girl out if you can nd nothing more
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Nasir Mujahid Dec 9, 05:43 PM

take it easy Mr helper. I saw that in the rules and regulations, they have mentioned seeking financial assistance is not allowed.
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Anonymous #2 Dec 9, 05:51 PM
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They are cautioning you to be careful and you are returning the word back at them. the admin has warned against these type of post. The most we can do is console or advice the poster. you sharing your contact too quick to offer help is good but think about it.
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Anonymous #1 Dec 9, 06:07 PM

You don't understand. The admin is cautioning the poster about people that exploit other people's vulnerabilities.
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Ahmad Muhammad kamba Dec 9, 09:06 PM
May allah send someone to help you dear sis. ameen
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Ramatu Saidu Dec 10, 05:06 AM
🥲🥲💔don't worry Allah will provide
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MohAbkr Dec 10, 05:10 AM
Well, what is the problem U need advise or help on?
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Arewa Up Dec 10, 08:40 AM

No, we were cautioning you to be careful Hence this purpose of this Forum is for discussions, questions or advice, not for fund raising or seeking financial assistance.
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Anonymous #3 Dec 10, 01:09 PM
How much are we talking here?
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