hey please I need help 🙏 I'm the first born from family of 5. we lost our dad last 3yrs since then life has been very difficult for us 😭 coz dangin babanmu are not doing anything helpful. I need a business idea that doesn't need capital plss, I'm really in need of it to help my poor mum and siblings plssss 🙏 thank you.

I met this guy during lockdown and we started off pretty well. He met my parents last year and our marriage was fixed. his family and mine were cool. they met a couple of times. my issues with him started when we were about buying lefe. he asked me to make a list of everything I wanted and I did. we started buying things. he spoke to his sister and I guess she told him he shouldn't buy lefe with me. coz out of the blue he switched size and it was always my sister said this , my sister said that. considering the fact that I was way ahead of his sister I felt she couldn't buy anything to my taste. I spoke to him and he refused.... After they brought the lefe to. my house no. one was. impressed about it. not even my parents... so my mum called his sister and spoke to her. the next thing she sent my mum all kinds of messages that we should tell them if we don't want the wedding that we insulted them that our family is way better so they should take there lefe to a poor house where it will be appreciated. and between Allah and I that wasn't what my mum said.... I spoke to him about it and he didn't see anything wrong in what his sister did. rather he was asking me to call her and apologize. I told him I couldn't do that... when my mum ignored his sister. she got my dad's number and told him she has the right to stop the wedding if she wanted to and nothing would happen... so. many things. made me feel like she never wanted me to marry her brother I got so upset that even after everything he didn't apologize to my parents but rather wanted me to apologise to his. I asked him to come take his lefe coz I couldn't get married to him again. I. called off my wedding myself coz I couldn't watch anyone disrespect my parents... no one knows how I feel deep down in my heart and. how I'm hurting... I love him so much yet I had to compromise that for the respect of my parents.... wedding that was supposed to happen in a months time won't be happening anymore. I feel devastated I feel frustrated... I don't know if I did the right thing.

I was in sahad stores two days back and I saw this really cute guy wearing black. oh my God he looked so nice. I have been looking for him since then. and I don't know how to contact him. been having sleepless nights coz I can't stop thinking about him.

Assalamu Alaikum family! how was your weekends? base on our weekly achievements from last week, here is what I was able to achieve; 1-ate 3 malmala of pounded yam 😁 2-digital marketing was able to generate a sum of 3.3million naira in sales 🙌🙌 3- I was not able to submit the proposal for NDLA yet but soon in sha Allah 😔 . 4-I'm not done with the housing proposal 😤 so I'm going continue with the digital marketing and carry over the rest of the pending activities... what were you able to achieve this week? tell us and let's help each other to progress together. thank you 🙏

I need a chat pal. am a guy living in a difficult location is so boring here need someone who's constantly online on WhatsApp to keep me happy. mind you am single.

assalmu Alaikum warahmatullah. good evening all. I need more clarification regarding this matter. sorry I can use hause idan baban mutum ya rasu, misali yana tsayawa yar sa da ta kusa aure kayan daki, sai ya rasu before ayi biki din.. so kayan dakin daya fara seyawa yar shi da zatayi aure shima is it part of the gado (inheritance) wanda zaa raba kodai ya riga ya xama nata ?? thank you

I was in a relationship with a guy for 6 years and we broke up January this year because of misunderstandings that when I think of it now it was not really a big deal and could be dealt with in a better approach, I haven't really gotten over him but he is married now, he got married three months ago and I tried my best not to have any form of contact with him....but now I haven't met someone I love and loves me.....I will be 25 December.

pls I need advice my husband to be suggested I come up with a biz Idea.. he said I should think and get back to him pls what biz can I do that is very lucrative and ppl buy it offen he said online biz tnk u and God bless you

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah I’ve always tried my best to practice and abide by what islam teaches then I met this guy and we dated for almost 2 years before we broke up, he is so religious and helped me get closer to Allah. I became so religious after we broke up. Now the issue is I feel I can’t marry a person who isn’t as religious as I am or even more Recently I then met someone about 3 months ago and he’s a nice person but isn’t that islamically sound. I love him but I’m not sure I’m ready to marry him because sometimes he makes me do things islam doesn’t permit and he quickly gets angry whenever I refuse to, he claims I won’t be submissive after marriage if I try to argue or decline his request. He also complain sometimes that I’m too religious komai once ‘babu kyau’ He has seen my dad already akan maganan aure but I’m scared wlhi, I’m afraid he won’t let me practice my DEEN how I want. Please advice me on what to do PS: I want to settle soon cos of course I’m getting older

Hello everyone, I am writing these with a heavy heart,I don't know inda zan sa kaina😭years back there is nothing I hate like S*x I hate the mare mention of it and I always pray that I should never be a victim of Zina until I get married but maybe I didn't pray harder,last year I fell in love with a guy whom I loved so much and that love lead me astray😭 because I made the biggest mistake of my life in other to prove myself or should I rather say my love for him i agree to have s*x with him😭😭😭😭 after that he broke up with me early these year😭 now that's not the problem right now, few months I was broke and someone offered money to me in exchange of s*x and I accepted 😭💔💔💔 Wallahi I only wanted the money so I can start up something with my life a business or something to hold on with,I pray but I feel my prayers are not answered Because of what I did,I want to get closer to Allah what should I do please someone should advise me💔😭😭

Assalamu Alaikum warahmatullah. barka mu da war haka. I'm in Pain. I can't explain what I'm going through. amma ina fatan haka ya zama Alkhairi a gare ni. I'm with him for good 4 years. I Loved him, And I always believed our love is a rock, no bad day can come between us. I knew, I had found love & happiness, he is the man of my dreams, my future, my everything. He is so supportive and caring Man. we truly Love Each other. we planned our future. few Months to our wedding, Allah ya Jarabce shi a kasuwancin shi. but I still believe zan aure shu a haka. seda biki a rage Some Days, familyn shi suka bijiro a daga biki. ashe akwai abun da suke boyewa. basu sanar da mu ba. se da na bincika wajen cousin din shi na gane akwai matsala babba. sannan ya boye min abubuwa da dama be fada min ba. nan ne naji gaskiya na fara auren shi, duka dama na fadawa iyaye na cewar na haqura dashi. yanzu mahaifina yace ze daura min aure da dan abokin shi same date da aka saka da wanchan. ina barar Addu'ar ku dan Allah. Allah yasa biyayyar da nayiwa maifina na amincewa zan auri wanda ba taba sani ba ya zame min Alkhairi duniya da lahira. Allah yasa na so shi fiye da son da nayiwa wanchan bawan Allah. dan Allah ku min Addu'a da bakunan ku masu Albarka

Seems I'm always not lucky in love.it's either the person is bad(sexual relationship) or good(switch up from being loviy,, starts giving attitude )...am i the problem?what have i ever done than to love?..ko bakuson a nuna maku so ne?...Allah knows my intentions..! but I always end up heartbroken...at this moment I'm tired!! im done!! maybe ba rabon a so mu tsakani da Allah bane....cx how can you make sm1 comfortable with you...talk with you evry now and then ...then lokaci daya you just change or leave even💔💔💔??May Allah make me stronger and May Allah not let me love anyone that is not for me...its not fair💔😑.

Assalamu Alaikum, please I need a word of prayer dan Allah. My mind is going through alot, Am feeling lonely kamar everyone is rejecting me. Wlhy Azim rayuwa nake but am not feeling it ko kadan. Someone should tell me what to do please before I lost it 😔. Oh Allah ka yaye mana damuwanmu, ka kuma bamu ikon cin jarabawarmu, ka bani lfy tare da dukkanin musulmai baki daya da kuma mazaje na gari, amin ya rabbi. A sani a addua dan Allah😭 I need an anonymous friend that I can talk to please..

Assaalmu Alaikum warahmatullah. How are you doing, ya jammaa. Please I need your urgent help and advice. I am a medical student, so in the hospital we go for our clinical training, there is a room called “storeroom “where we usually sit when we are free, so in that room they usually keep some Drugs haka and use them for treatment ( though it’s not in Nigeria,so the medicine is free for government hospitals). So I left with the key for that room mistakenly. And emergency came in, they couldn’t get access to that room because there is no key at the moment, it’s lead to the extend that The patient is dead because 1 couldn’t bring the key on time 😭. So what I want to know is, nasan chewa mutum idan ya mutum lokacinsa ne yayi babu yanda mutum zai iya, so now am in dilemma and confused. Am I the one that cause the dead of the patient? So do I have to fast for the 60days ?? Ko do I have to pay diyyah?? I am confused 😭 Thank you Keep me anonymous please

assalamualaikum, Alhamdulillah I do a little business but with the rise of goods everyday and hardship of d country I really need a halal job to keep moving,I was working with a private organization but had to quit because I was married and to settle in a different state,but life is not easy in the present state coz I have nothing doing,I have applied for various jobs and contacted the pple I know but still no news,pls if anyone can help I don't mind any job if it will bring halal income I will do it inshaa Allah,i have my first and second degree in social sciences.thank you.

Hello Family. I wanna ask a question please. Wai Yara Ƴan shekara 13 zuwa 15 na wannan zamanin sun san Relationship(Soyayya) ne ko kuma idona ne yake nuna min ba daidai ba.. Saboda yadda wasu Dake zagaye damu suke acting abin yake ban mamaki... Tsabar Zaman Tare ne ko kuma A'a Soyayya Ce...

Hello fam, I’ve noticed on IG how girls will say they love so and so person very much and wanna marry the person, like girl... you don’t know this person, his attitude, lifestyle, and every necessary thing and you’re there dreaming and having infatuation claiming it’s love, you better get busy with your life and face reality, build yourself, learn a skill or two, start a business, just do something that when the right person comes, you two will love each other for who you are and not all this baseless stuffs.

I'm so sad and lonely these days...I have no vibes and feel depressed lately and I don't even knw why??...I have been trying so hard to leave a normal life jst like before but it's hard..I need a therapist wallahi..I'm sooo down nothing moves me anymore not even my favourite people and things..I'm jst basically breathing only..and I hate this feeling soooo much..I jst wantu be the lively person I used to be..i need help.

This phase is often misused... You just met a girl and the first thing you say is I love you. I don't know if am the only one but I find it repulsive, Yeah I know there's love at first sight.. But this sentence has been abused time with out number. The best pick up line I ever received was... My name is...... And I want to know you I was like awwnn see maturity. No matter how this sentence has been misused I still hold it very dear.. And I only say it when am truly sure I love you. Yes am the lady that will say thank you when you say you love me.... No am not unromantic... I just value the phase so much. Can anyone relate?

Assalamu alaykum, Good evening all. please my kid brother is a graduate of Mechanical engineering (HND with 2nd class lower) and he is in need of a job. please if u have any vacancies or hear of any organisation recruiting. Thank you