Assalamualaikum barkan mu da Rana ena Neman Karin bayani akan waya dace da yabada auren yarinya a dangi akwai lokacin da Wani yake shirin zuwa wajen baba nah sai kanwar baba na take cewa daddy na Bai da hakkin yabada aure na sai dai kanin shi kuma mahaifi naneh over all senior his the first born of the family just because my dad is a simple man they are taking him 4 granted so what happened now yanxu mahaifi na yabada aure na shine Abu yazama abun suka a dangi wai suna fushi dashi Dan meye Bai NEMA izinin suba kafin ya amince kananun magananu from all angle sun sa mum dinnah a gaba as if my parents don't have right over their children again as if my parents commit a crime please tell me did my parents go wrong my dad ordered my fiance to travel and go and greet each one of them but still yet har yau ba Wanda acikin su yamin fatan alheri akan aure Nan Saida sharrin kala kala please advise me.
Nov 2, 02:19 PM
These are words that are becoming common just of recent and i have no idea what they Mean.
Nov 2, 01:31 PM
I have a confession to make. Please don't judge me for I'm only seeking for advice. I am a lady of 27yrs, but I'm addicted to masturbation. I started since I was in boarding school at 14yrs old. I really don't remember how it started, but if I could turn back the hands of time to reverse it, I would. I used to masturbate every single day, but now, it's just like twice a week. I just want to stop it completely but I don't know how to. I used to have sex before, but Wallahi I have repented Alhamdulillah, I haven't done it in a long while coz wlh Ina tsoron Allah sosai, Amma na kasa daina masturbation. Please I need an advice, and as I said earlier, please don't judge me for I'm only human and I'm not perfect. wannan jarabawan daga Allah ne. Thank you
Nov 2, 03:52 AM
I dated this guy since secondary but seems I love him most while dating I met his friend a very friendly one and became close to him.actually my bf hardly call or visit but this frnd does visit then one day I fell ill like very ill let's say spritual issues to an extent I myself don't like the medication I was on this guy never call or visit ,but this friend is always with me he visits to check on me like everyday he keeps me company for like 6-7month I got back to my feet only for this guy to say I cheated on him.its really a long story that I can't complete here but please guys tell me did I really cheat on him?
Nov 1, 09:34 PM
Good communication is often underrated in all relationships, be it parent to child, siblings intending partners and even married couple.. Am a lady so I will talk from our point of view. I have always wanted someone who I can communicate well with, someone I will be able to say anything to without being judged.I have notice most men lack good communication skills... Is either they let the lady steer the conversation, and contribute so little to the conversation that will make her feel he is not interested. And with time the lady will suppress so many things she wants to say. We ladies tend to overthink... We create many scenarios in our head when we don't understand your actions.. And sometimes those scenarios makes us so paranoid we react in the wrong way. We are wired differently pls guys learn to communicate well. There's no harm in picking up your phone and texting 1.babes I will be too busy today do not worry incase you don't hear from me 2.You did this and am not happy. 3.i need some space, no you didn't do anything wrong... Am just trying to sort some things out. 4.thank you I like it when you do this 5. I love the affectionate you 6. It's been a rough day I need some love. 7.i love this and this about you and I will love you to improve on this and this... Please guys we need good communication. Learn to show your emotions.. I take God beg una.
Nov 1, 02:14 PM
dear future hubby, if you are ready drop ur contact: ammiratu1234@gmail.com Note : serious one please 👏
Nov 1, 12:19 PM
Salaam, please hide my identity. My biggest problem is I'm actually into drugs, I've become addicted because I started that a decade ago. At this point, I don't take drugs just to get high but to survive. I tried embarking myself on withdrawal but whenever i try doing that, the process becomes very hectic and can never resist it. One thing i thank God with is the fact that ever since I started that, i never joke or play with academics and that's what made me what i am today. Moreover, I'm not trying to please myself but i don't take drugs during daytime but only at night. Atimes i sit down and cry whenever i think about my situation. I'm 27years old, a graduate, a lecturer and currently running my MSc. It happens I'm the youngest in the school I'm undergoing my postgraduate program and even in the institution I'm working. Ever since i started my undergraduate program, I don't give any priority to women. I've been asked out by lots of classy babes but i never find any of them attractive. It's not as if they're not worthy or my taste, they are. A week ago, i was sat down by my mum, dad and my grandma. They suggested i should definitely find someone and get married because it may likely make me change and become more responsible than I am. As for now, I'm not in any serious relationship. And I'm sure no parent will give his daughter to someone of my character. And the worst part is whenever someone hears drugs, It'll be exaggerated but wallahi the only thing i take is codiene and rephanol and wallahi Tallahi I don't get high any longer because my system have become used to it. And no body will even believe i smoke even an ordinary ciggerates because it doesn't show in me. Please help me out and suggest a positive measure to tackle and overcome this issue. Thanks
Oct 31, 11:18 PM
I'll would like to ask some of you guys that would refuse to respond to request for weeks! Do you feel so special because someone expresses their interest in you, so you treat them with such disdain. A lot of people here are dead serious about finding a spouse. You don't owe anyone any explanation weather you choose to decline or accept a request, but you sure owe the person that has shown interest in you the decency of response.
Oct 31, 06:51 PM
Assalamu alaikum. i know there are alot of people on this matchmaker App both Men and Women, they all have what they are looking for. what i dont understand is why ive not received a single request from anyone one yet and the ones i send gets declined 😢. you see one most men profile they looking for Hausa or fulani or kanuri or shuwa. toh mu suran tribes din fha. aren't we desirable?
Oct 31, 08:25 AM
nidai na kasance mace ce mai zurfin ciki bana iya bayyana abinda ya dameni ko zai cutar dani saboda Ina ganin kamar na tonawa kai na asiri ne kuma mutane suna ce min na gyara halina saboda idan nayi aure zan sha wahala shin menenen illar yin zurfin ciki akan abinda Idan ka fadawa wani zai fadawa abokinsa kuma magana ya bi duniya 🙏😭😭😭
Oct 30, 03:05 PM
Salam I am a warrior I will just like people to know a little about us majority na lura we find it hard to have that special someone who is ready to spend the rest of his life with you mutane da sunji problem Dinka they will say ai ciwo ba mutuwa bane da kace if der ready they should meet ur parents sai su gudu sometime i feel depressed wasu kuma it's ur body they want,Wanda zai zo da gaskiya aure ka yake son yin shi yace he's ready you explain to him ur condition and He's genotype is perfect and his ready his family will be against it ace ai lalura yake son ya kwaso mu family they won't agree no matter what ya kamata mutane su sani fa Sickler (warrior)mu mafa mutane ne kamar kowa we have feeling too far muma fa diyan wasu ne fa and our parents and family love us too We have our difficulty yes and challenges but we still have our hearts desire muma mutane ne kamar kowa kowa nason ya ga Shima yayi aure. it very hard to see sickler dat is not hard working most of us duk da challenges da muke facing na pains no matter how you explain to people they won't understand the pain we go true wallahi we still work hard we keep pushing. Da addu'a da support of our family and love one's Allah ya bamu mazaje nagari Ameen Nagode
Oct 30, 12:02 AM
there's this guy I saw I started loving him I had pure love for him because if I get the chance with him I would love to marry him though he has a wife and a daughter I followed him on Instagram he followed back he then post his daughter's picture and I replied by saying mash Allah he just liked the message and didn't say anything from that I feared that if I force a conversation he might stop replying and I really love him honestly
Oct 29, 07:42 PM
How prepared are you to get married? What is the one thing that is stopping you?
Oct 29, 02:28 PM
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Oct 29, 11:33 AM
salaam and hope you all are having a beautiful weekend! This advice is directed to the Muslim brothers....The affairs of the heart is one which is very tricky and sometimes one can't be in control over. The interfaith marriage doesn't happen aseasy as it seems. Religiously i have come to understand it is permitted and seen as an okay thing but coming down to the societal, cultural and family's point of view it becomes really really discouraged. I have happen to seen people from different religious background fall inlove with eachother ..they both love eachother so much and wish to get married but at the end of the day the boy's parents in most cases kick againt their relationship. So my advice is to you dear Muslim men who may find or already found nterest in a Christian girl.... before you even ask her out or take her time, ensure the first thing you do is seek approval from your family...be sure there is a good understanding between you and your family before You go ahead and woo a Christian girl....and if you know at the end it won't lead to marriage or you are uncertain please do not woo a Christian girl. Have a beautiful weekend!
Oct 29, 09:30 AM
Please who will help me with Mommy Gombe's phone number. A kannywood a Actress
Oct 28, 10:40 AM
There's this guy that I've been crushing on But I really don't know how to tell him like he clearly stated on his bio that girls should not DM him pls I need advice thank you
Oct 27, 08:11 PM
i met this girl some years back, from being jst friends to started dating like play like play, we really loved each other, we neva gt tired of each other we always joke, play, laugh, we became bst of friends while we still love each other, we had some misunderstandings along the way bt no one has ever came (as a third person) to settle us not even once all this while, we started talking serious abt our future, abt marriage and all, i neva thought in my life time she will ever leave me coz people will pay to have wat we had, if something hppn in our day to day life har Allah Allah mukeyi muzo mu bawa juna labari (thats the kinda r/ship we had) she became a part of me she bcme like my wife kawai time muke jira mu shiga gidan mu, har mun fara magana zan tura gidansu gaisuwa😁 But unfortunately last month she came from nowhere and told me dat nayi hakuri dat she chooses someone else not me😢is if she was possessed,i tot she was joking, since i found out dat she's serious, l lost myself, i don't know wat to think,am feeling empty inside me,am sick, i ddnt knw how i will coupe without her in my life,i dont knw how to start over. pls i need some advice. thank you
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