is there any kaduna guys here I want to make a friends I am a female I base in kaduna

Salam everyone, my issue is a bit contradicting. I thought it's only women who are pressurised over marriage issues. I'm young within the age bracket of 26/27. The pressure mounted upon me about marriage is more than you think. My attention was called 3 times within a week (by my mum in particular). I'm actually a lecturer in one of the institutions in my jurisdiction and if not for ASUU strike, I'd have been through with my MSc by now. I'm definitely worried and confused. Is it that they're tired of me or what? I think I'm actually very young for that. Others men are getting married in their 30s. And another issue is the fact that I'm not in any relationship right now. Where should I start from?

assalamualaikum warahmatullah the time right now is 2:22 am. I am someone that loves sleeping so much and for me to be awake and be typing a secret right now toh wallahi nakai makura🥺 I've been inlove before but I've never fallen this deep subhanallah😩 inada wani friend we met during Ramadan at first it was just friendship from my end but wallahi yanzu son da nakemai yafi karfina bazan iya fadamai ba because Bana so nayi ruining friendship dinmu, Bana iya bacci jamaa gashi se Kara ramewa nakeyi Koh appetite bandashi😩 wallahi inajin butterflies acikina idan naji muryanshi there is this saying "everyone is going to get hurt in this life you just gotta find who is worth it" he is that person for me. he may or may not ever see this but I feel better now that nayi typing dinshi out🥺 I love you A to the square of infinity❤️ Allah ya karemin Kai a duk inda kake Kuma Allah yasa ko da yaushe ka dawwama a farinciki....Allah yabaka Mata tagari ko Ni bace ubangiji Allah ya hadamu a aljannah nurulqalbi🙏

I have this guy I love so much but people bad mouth him so much that it's started disturbing me about his womanizing behavior . I tend not to tell him because I felt it's not right to dig into someone past so this guy has dated almost 3 of my close friends 🤧 so it's was getting much and Again doing our relationship I cut him cheating on me kuma so I decided to end the relationship and move on so I got into another relationship again and things were going smooth until the day I told him about my past this guy completely change 😩 he hardly calls or text . I do it most of the time and off recent I noticed him that he is after my body . the other guy actually really love me . I did a lot of wulanhanchi too him but this guy doesn't see it he really care about me so I'm also thinking should I breakup with the guy that he is after my body

Assalamu alaikum. There is this guy that stole my friend's heart, he was posted on a story on IG earlier, I really can't say the page but she fell for him as soon as she saw him, please do help us find him, thank you.

for me watching horror movies in the dark around 1am on Sundays. what about you?

Someone posted a question about whether it's the same for a girl to be after a guy with money, as it is for a guy to be after a girl with good looks. I'm a guy. It's exactly the same thing. Kawai dai for the ladies, don't get so fixated akan sai me kudi, and probably, filthy kudi kawai(filthy here means yawa ba haramci ba). Opt for ones that you feel after talking to them they've got good job/business prospects, stick with them, encourage them, help them grow. Idan danHalak ne, more mutuncin ki in his eyes knan, especially if filthy(much much) kudin suka zo eventually. Just my 2 cents.

Assalamualaikum. pls I'm single and is disturbing me oooo

dan Allah malama kiyi tag dinshi kuma dan uwa nane

Salamu alaikum i need a help please, Am studying microbiology an assignment has been pressuring me for almost a week, microbiologist should help please🥹

Happened this morning in Abuja Airport, I saw it in the toilet. I have been thinking of what to do with it since then. I am not confident in reporting it to the authorities because we all know how Nigeria is.

Aslm alaykum warahmatullah Dan allah is there any one that knows a way that I can get international scholarship or scholarship in private university. Am 17yrs old my father passed away last year and I want to become medical doctor 😭 help a sister pls

Aslm alaykum warahmatullah pls how can I get rid of anxiety, always feeling like I will die and seeing everything as a symptom of a disease

I want to say something briefyl too concerning the previous post akan security guard, I was also a victim😅. back then in secondary school the school security guard has been crushing on me and I wasn't aware thou my friends kept telling me because they noticed so much and I was blind to it and all I kept saying was kawai fa mutunchi ne because I call him baba his a bit old let me say around late 40's, so baba always asks them where is ur friend or anytime we go the school canteen to get something he gives us for free or with a discount or he asks his boy that takes care of the canteen to be giving me discounts that's if his at the gate at that time because he owns the canteen, my friends always want to carry me along with to the canteen because of the discount or we get it for free 😂 wlhi I never for once Blvd them because I was just taking it as mutunchi ne ya Kai haka untill we graduated and left and everyone had to pursue life again and looked for admission so I left for my state to stay for awhile before I get admission and to my surprise this man said his coming to see me that he misses me🙄I was like do u know the distance from Abuja to where I am now? wlhi don't worry na yafe ma he still insisted that he would come and even asked what he will get for me I told him just sweets and to my surprise he called the following morning and told me his on his way and that was when I started believing what my friends kept saying so I told my aunt that so so person is coming and she was also in shock that why will my school security guard decide to come see me just like that? but na komai bakon ka annabin ka so he came and I went to pick him mu kazo gida ya gaishe su ya chi abinchi and said he would be coming back in the evening that he wants to talk to my aunt so this man came o as said and he told her that he loves me and he wants to marry me 😩ahh ahhh my aunt said is she aware and are u guys into relationship he said yes o that we have been dating since school me I didn't know those smiling faces I used to give and all those strange calls he kept calling and I picked thinking is just to check up on me I didn't know it was all the toasting so my aunt called me in front of him and asked me and to my surprise I looked at hima and said nooooo I wasn't aware besides u never mentioned na and I never had feelings for u I just took u as a father me I don't have any feelings for u. that was my first time of seeing a man drop a tear 😥 his eyes were red he brought out his hanki wiped his tears and said may Allah make me accept him one day.....well to cut the long essay cause am tired of typing 😂 his from Katsina typical one and his a big Mallam to be pricise and I was told Katsina ppl de do charm they said he can even hold anyan coming my way at the end I must marry him because of the no I gave him.....har yau de ban da saurayi Banda Mai Sona Dana ga ya mun sai umserious ones kawai I refused to blv it well because I don't blv in asiri but am starting to blv now because am still single and anyman that starts asking me out later on he disappears, Allah ya Kara kare mu we should just be careful out there with this ppl we look down too because they are less previlaged, Katsina no offense I didn't mean any harm

I have been crushing and loving someone for years. I love him with all my heart Wallah, har wani yaron dad friend na ya kawo goron wai yena Sona but I refused and someone is about to come shima na hana Shi, wallah I refused all my cousin bro just because of him , if they asked me why at home I used to tell them am not ready I want to study further and the problem is I never love anyone in my life till date, it's him and always him and I don't know why him and only him ? one day I try texting him and talking to him but I think he thought am a gold digger like the rest of the gurls and it's hurt's me wallah 😥 I have a lot of cousins and guys that are coming to me but naki ni kuma 😥Allah ya na gani nikuma it's all the effort nahada I talked to him that time but yenxu ma am scared of meeting him one day thinking he would recognise me Allah , what should I do my age mate sunata aure , cousin na Mata age mate na are getting married and my mom is so worried Allah nikuma nace Sai Shi and the worst thing is if I marry him bazai wulakanta ni bako and bazai ban wahala ba ko and bazai yi tunani am like those girls that love him cause of his money ba right ? I have a lot of questions ma am really scared also but I still love him kuma 😥 but Bana so into aure infita ko inje a wulakanta ni him or his family 😥 am not from a rich family and am a shy gurl, I don't dress like matan yenxu infita , I don't want anything that will hurt my parents cause no matter how our situation my parents sun bar mu munyi karatu har university 😥 and he's not even my real dad cause dad na yarasu and he really love me like a daughter. The thing is what should I do I really love that guy ma and is only him that I want to be with I spent 6 years waiting for him , wallah is him I want 😥 my mom and my elder brother knows am crushing on him when am in secondary school but they don't know it's still him am waiting for 😥 it's him that I want to marry Allah😥 I have been doing izthihara and nafilahs and sada'qa and every Ramadan asking the all mighty if he's the best but shiru😥 Astagfurullah, but is this really love ma ?😥 Help me and what should I do ? I love him wallah

Only girls from 18 to 25yrs want a handsome and tall guy 🚶‍♂️those from 28-35yrs want anything that's breathing 🤐🏃😁

dear future husband wat happen najika shuru

Aslm...there is this guy I really love so much and he said he loves me too but gaskiya I don't believe no call,no text no anything for days sai yazo online yake min dadin baki....gaskiya ni am tired koda ina sonshi wulakancin yayi yawa wollah sometimes cemin yake he doesn't have his own time talk less of somebody's else please what is your advice yan aji

It's been 3 months that i got served a very hot breakfast but it still pains! i try to be occupied n busy but atimes senaji kamar naje nayi zage zage!! So this is how serving a breakfast feels... Allah yayi mana zabin alkhairi kawai because this life no balance at ALL

Salam fam....hope kowa na lfy.....I don't know how to say this but some people are totally out of there senses...akwai wani security muna mutunci dashi because mu yan mkrnt nei muna dan gaisa wa idan zamu fita Kwai sai wannan guy in yayi min messenge da asuba wai yana sona kuma wana kwauna ta.Fisabililah wani kirin Abu nei wannan nasan macce bata fi karfin namiji ba kuma na miji baifi karfin macce ba....I belong to rich family Alhamdullilah but idan banda tsaurin ido kirin nashi daga mutunci dashi zaice yana sona....please no insult ku bani shawara because tun dazun nake tunanin mai zance mai (should I call and put him in his place or I should just ignor him?)