Anonymous
Dec 13, 02:05 PM
I have a toxic relationship with my Mom and its affecting me
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salamu alaikum mothers need to pull there children close to them I have a problem with my mum me and my mum never had this close connection we have never sat down and spoke about my love life or what ever is going on in my life she's always scolding me she's always shouting at me she never supports me in anyways she always compares me with my cousins me and my mum have never sat down to talk about my personal life there was a time I regretted telling her about my boyfriend I told her about him tun daga lokachin banga kwanchiyan hankali ba duk lokachin dana bata mata rai she's always insulting him sometimes she even include his parents into the matter I always tell her the way she use to push me away watarana zan samu chiwan zuchiya she tells me she Dosent care I don't even know what to do I cannot have a boyfriend a tell her I just have to deal with it alone sometimes I use to think idan wanda nakeso zai fito how will I tell her sometimes my mum here's stuff about me from my aunties and later confronts me about it kwata kwata bata bani chance na zauna nayi magana da ita any time I make up my mind to talk to her sai na fara fargaba zata chi ubana idan na fadi mata kawai am depressed am emotionally drained I don't even know what to do I need her close to me but she pushes me away 😢ðŸ˜ðŸ’” idan ban fadi mata ba wazan fada mawa I have to start reling on strangers for comfort it's eating me inside ðŸ˜ðŸ’” sometimes when I see how close my cousins are to there mothers I feel a sharp pain piercing my heart I'm always crying and praying to Allah to intervain in our matter may Almighty Allah grant every child going through this sabr 😔 parents should understand that they are 80 percent the reasons why there children are going astray please include us in your prayer 😞
