I need advice please I've date 3 Barristers amma dukansu 3 daya ne kadai mutumin kirki shikuma sai Allah yayi genotype dinmu baiyi matching ba 😓😥amma sauran biyun kawai sunyi playing heart dina Barrister's why are you like this please? The 2nd one told me that barrister ai sai barrister dama,because am a law student too yayi duk wani abu that can make me to love him amma anayin xancen ya turo shikenan na nemeshi na rasa the 3rd one too kamar da gaske anayin maganar aure before the count of 2 he disappear I never see him again and kowannensu bayan tazara sosai nake qara haduwa dawani unfortunately all the 3 happens to barrister's 😞😞so this started making me to think otherwise so many thoughts on my mind like seriously ynxu tsoron barristocin nan nakeyi because gani nake their all thesame please I need some words of condolences it's too hard to endure 🥺😓😩😩

Assalamu alaikum brethren. Since I joined the forum I've come across different posts, comments and replies. And I'll say people are really trying. Kudos to you all👍🏽👍🏽. You rarely see negative comments. Gradually I began to notice some names by the kind of things they post/comment. There are those that their words speak wisdom, the funny ones are there, the ones that by mere reading what they post you'd know that they are beautiful souls. Deep down I wish to know some of them, become more acquainted and know them on a deeper level but I feel I can't😔. Cos I am not the type that can keep friends. I'm so used to being a loner and I kind of enjoy it. Even though some days I wish I had a particular kind of person that is there for me or by me. My circle of friends is so small and I like it that way. Even if I make a new friend the friendship doesn't last. We just become strangers that know each other 😅. And I think it's because I don't put any effort towards maintaining the friendship unless we really really connect. I do post and comment on here. Mostly as anonymous. I vibe and catch cruise with some users under people's posts. But it ends there. And I just wish I could take it outside the 4 walls of Arewaup forum and continue.

Aslm Alkum, I hope all is well with uh? so am gonna ask ne pls. Ni am kinda person wnda idan ina dating lady I don't usually calls sai chat, amma if we missed each other like 2 to 3 days haka xamuyi v call mudade muna waya. And also indai chat ne pha sai dai idan dayanmu baya online but indai we are all online chatting kam ba marasa mai zamuce. so my question is, is there anyone that act like I do??

slm, everyone hope y'all are having a wonderful time. the main reason I'm writing this post is to share my testimony. once upon a time I met a very kind lady, which we dated for 1 year +. to an extent one very good day I brought out a ring and give it out to her and told her this is a sign of promise from me to her, and I told her I will come back for the ring if she show me the ring, I will fulfill my promise to her. unfortunately 2020💔 we came back to Nigeria, I went to my state kaduna and she went back to her own state Abuja, between few weeks she call me and told me 💔 she wants us to have a breakup💔 which before God and man, at that very point I don't know what breakup means till she explain it for me what it means. then I asked her what my offense that she went to breakup with me 💔, she replied nothing I just want breakup 💔, it was not easy for me because I've never been in love that long till I met her, time to time I do call her and beg if their is anyway she could accept me back, she will replied no she don't wanna talk about it but if Allah says she is my wife in future that's it. days came to passed, Allah hold me strong 🙏 I move on since she doesn't want us back 💔🚶, 3 years now her name is not out of my mouth, and I had 2 dreams 1 says the person I had promise fulfill. the second dream I went to her house they open gate for me to enter, I saw her upstairs looking at me. we are not dating now for 3 years, even last week that we had a phone call that last us from 8:03pm to 11:15pm... please and please what I'm asking now? what type of sign is that?? please I need answers from anyone god give chance to say something, thank you I will be in comment section and please do hide my i.d. bye...

Not long ago I post my issue on this platform but my brothers and sisters you know what wlhy I regret posting that issue da har yasa nayi deleting post din because most of the comments are not good at all dome even say a bad words which is insane please my dear brothers and sisters if you not that tiy aren't going to say something good pls don't day anything it's better to keep quit than to say some words may Allah Allah see us through all Amin

Some of our honorable teachers advised: If a woman wants a successful marriage; one based in piety and knowledge, and wants a peaceful home, there are a few important things to consider: • The husband’s preferences are very important. He has the greatest right over you, so consider your good treatment to him similar to treating the parent well. This does not mean that you should not want anything, but if you want peace in your home, and a content husband, consider his preferences and correct your intention. This is better than fighting him! • *DO NOT* say to your husband, “You don’t do/never did anything,” or the like. • Men generally like submissiveness over defiance. You may and should advise your husband with what is best. If he is smart, and it is better, he will listen, but try not to take the last word, or insist that he does it your way. If he does not, it does not mean that he does not listen to you. The man should be the leader, so let him be a man. Do not try to control him - if you want a peaceful home and relationship. • If you are a career woman, do not be aggressive with your husband, or any brother you’d hope to marry. Do not say, “I intimidate men.” Truly, most men are simply not attracted to the aggressiveness, no matter how beautiful you are. • Remember that the Religion has mentioned qualities that make a woman more or less desirable for marriage, like piety, beauty, knowledge, money, lineage, status, virginity, articulation, and lack of children. The Religion encourages the man to choose the *Religious one* over all, and choosing for looks, money or status will ruin him. But if the pious woman is also pretty, then it is recommended for him to marry her. Therefore, do not forget the importance of beauty to many or most men, even if you are already long married. Healthy diet and exercise are beneficial. • If you remarry, *DO NOT* prevent the father from taking his child. This is God’s Wisdom. It is better for your new marriage and husband, and better for your child and the child’s father, even if you don’t prefer it. - I ask Allaah to grant us piety, patience and wisdom and make us successful on Judgement Day. Aameen

I'm gonna speak for myself, I've got this challenge in approaching ladies. Like, a few weeks back I met this pretty cute lady at a bodega. And I found her really adorable. I wanted to get her contact but while trying to approach her I had second thoughts. I was like... "I don't think a lady this beautiful and classy is single" "She's most likely taken" "What if she snubs or she's rude" This has happened to me a couple of times and I dunno if I'm the only one experiencing this. Its a big challenge for me.

Yau shekara 3 kenan da barin Nigeria nazo Germany Masters kuma na fara aiki anan. Toh ina bukatar na auri mace mu zauna. Shine se wata Kanwar mama na tamin recommending din wata knwar mijinta. Mun fara soyayay tin kusan last year June. Muna yawan yin chat video da voice kuma ina ganin hoton ta amma iyaka face. Toh macen da zan aura ai ya kamata nasan shape dinta ko yamin ko? Se last week muna video call nace mata ta tashi tsaye ta haskon bayanta da camera naga shape dinta, back view. Se kawai naga tayi terminating call din. Tin sannan na dena jinta tayi blocking dina. Wai se taje tacewa antin nawa wai ni dan iska ne nace ta nunan nonon ta da kuma bayanta!😯 Wasu matan kam sun morewa sharri. Na rasa abin yi saboda kunya da takaici. In iskanci nake sha'awa duk ga mata nan inda nake, kuma inada ilimi da aiki ai se na gaji. Duk ga porn sites nan in ma wani abu nake son gani. So nake a mana aure nayi mata visa, flight ta tawo nan kasar mu zauna na wani lokaci, ai ya kamata nasan abinda zan kawo ko? In wace bazan samu gamsuwa da ita bane mene amfanin auren? Antin nawa tace zata mata magana mu dawo mu shrya, amma ni walh ta fita min a rai. Wannan ko anya macen aure ce? Don Allah ku bani shawara!

so I have a boyfriend that I love so much but the problem now is that this guy doesn't give me is time or attention again at all like before or if I call him he won't pick my calls or if I message him it's the same thing. so one of friends posted our pictures together on his status that he knows that guy but the girl in the picture is the girlfriend of that guy so my friend came and tell me that I wasn't happy about it .that is the main reason why I don't like posting him or my friends should post us together . so because of our communication is very poor not like before the way we use to be so I thought break up should be the best thing for us since maybe he doesn't like me like before or he likes the other girl . I dont want to disturb myself on him because it usually hurt my feelings because I will see him online and he will never talk to me but if I tell him that I saw him online he will deny it .and sometimes he claims that his battery are low .it's really painful and hurtful should I just leave him alone and move on with my life

You are overthinking again. Breath… It’s going to be okay, You will figure it out and even if you don’t figure it out, that’s still okay.

Wai Meyasa ba'a siyar da tsire Sai dare yayi 🤔🙄🚶

Dan uwa mai neman macen da zata soka tsakanin ta da Allah ba dan abin duniya. Ga shawara zan baka. Akwai da yawa daga cikin yan uwa, dangi, abokan arziki ,makabta, da suke so su hada ka da wata ta jikin su, amma kana tunanin saboda abin hannun ka matan zasu yarda ba wai dan so na tsakani da Allah ba. Amma kai kafi son ka sami wacce bata san ko kai wanene ba wacce zata maka so na gaskiya. Mallam karya ne;hakan da kyar ya yiwu. Idan kaje wa macen zamanin nan a matsayin mara arziki Wallahi 99% zasu rabu dakai, saboda kowacce gidan hutu take nema. Ka rufa kanka asiri ka zabi mai hankali da natsuwa wacce akasan halinta na gaskiya. Idan kuwa ka ki, zaka zabo kura da fatar akuya. Yawanci matan yanzu babu soyayya ko Allah a ransu. Kudi kawai ne maganin su. Ku diba kugani. Idan latecomer ya aure maka budurwar da kuka dade kuna soyayya; sai ace ai addu'ar ta ne da take na Allah Ya zaba mata mafi alkhairi ne Allah Ya amsa. Ammafa idan kaine ka rabu da ita ka auri wata sai ace yaudara kayi. Irin shara'ar son zuciyar da sukeyi kenan. Mallam idan kanada kudin ka , kazaba , ka darje kafin ka aura. Kuma ka ja layi bayan aure. Dan kudinka aka aureki. Idan kuma kai talakane sai kajira "zabin Allah". Dan haka suke cewa " zabin Allah" amma Wallahi munafunci ne da karya, domin babu Allah a lamarin matan zamani. Mallam idan zaka iya, kayi hakuri ka tara kudi kafin ka soma neman macen aure.

Look at your girl. You see how good she looks? You see all the awesome qualities she's got? Now imagine another guy enjoying her and you not meaning shit to her anymore. Exactly why you should get your act together and give no room for f#ck ups. Life is too short and you can't have opportunities pass by you because really good relationships are hard to come by. Did you know that if you're preoccupied with the wrong people, the good ones out there are just passing you by and could actually be the relationship that is meant to be.

please what makes a girl private part to be smelling???Any gynecologist in the house???and what are the things she should do to stop that odor

Wata bakuwar budurwa mukayi a gidan neighbor dinmu kawai yau wani yaxo ya aika Wai akirata tana fito ta kalle shi sama da kasa tace waya aikoka 🙄🙄 malaminka kawai yakasa magana gsky nagi mai ba Dadi ya gama Tara courage yaxo wurinta Amma tana tambayanshi waya aiko shi kujimin wannan yarinya

Avoid marriage when you are still pressing *606# before you make call MTN no dey borrow pampass.

Innah-lilahi waina iilah rajuuan😭😭 Yau mun tashi da iftalai gidan mu yayi gobara Allah ya mayar mana da alkairy🤲👏

Idan kaga qawarta ta fita kyau da tarbiyya ka koma kanta kawai ba yaudara bace kaddarace!😂 Mai tambaya ta gaba...

as a guy looking for relationship, should facial looks, endowment and age be a barrier ? as a lady should facial and body structure, financial stability and age be a barrier? what's the best way to go about match making relationships

me: baby in baka/baki yi wanka da ruwan sanyi da sanyin nan ba to bani bakai/bake😎 reply as my baby😂....