Iam 22 and I have never fall in love with a man ever since am in teenage stage because of my silly reason 1 is I want my first love to be my husband and the reason is I have heard so many people saying that you will never forget your first love 2 am afraid of been heartbroken I don't want to served hot breakfast and ni kawai banason abinda xai bata min rai 3 I just can't love a person that I know he will not marry me and I think if you know your self as a lady you would know who's willing to marry you and who would just want to play with your emotions nd time 3 I don't want to have so many boyfriends when I was in secondary school my mates have boyfriends and I don't have any bawai kuma bani da manema bane no I just want to fall in love at that age and now I want to fall in love with mr right and still have thing at the back of my mind that I want my first love to be my husband will I ever find that Mr right or am just dreaming ?💔

Salamu alaykum... I don't know where to start from....I'm just simply confused and I don't know what to do about it...growing up I've always seen marriage as the best thing that could happen to a girl....I've always dreamed of the day I'll get married... but recently.... I experienced some things that has made me realise that marriage is not all about the fantasy.... stories of women getting abused,cheating husbands and so on...I don't feel encouraged or eager to get married like before... another issue is that...I'm veryyy social...so I have a lot of guys in my DM....most of them promising me heaven and earth, i hate disappointing people...so I don't know how to turn then down...I don't want to hurt them...I tried telling one that his feelings are not reciporicated and he went around making me feel like a bad person... the zeal to get involved in relationships has dissapeared....How exactly do I tell them that I'm not interested without hurting their feelings?

If in any case you come across this message, i am sorry, I dn't mean to hurt you. i wish the departure was a very peaceful one. i wish you all the best & I'm proud of you. keep being Religious. may your wish come true & May Allah help you in your future endeavor. From Surah minal Qur'an.

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Dear parents, Stop joking about your daughter being someone's wife. Stop condoning random men calling your daughter their wife. Marriage shouldn't be something you joke about. She's not their wife until 'aqdun nikaah is done. OK. Bye.

For the past 5 years, it has been a challenge to find the right partner for myself, I am a childfree person and believe in the childfree lifestyle, I met a few ladies along the way but it didn't workout for some reasons, its very rare to come across a lady that shares the same believe as me, hence the reason i am still not Married, Childfree people are so scarce in our society, For those that can relate.. lets discuss

Well guys I’m here to advise us base on what is going on in our community allow me to say it in Hausa I believe all of us can hear it right? Wallahi kuna ganin 80% na mata yanzun koh they are misusing Tiktok wannan draft din fah ba komai ne a cikin shi bah irin video su ne almost half naked irin shigar da suke a gida suke yi suyi video dashi kuma suyi keeping a draft my point here is ana samun mistake a wurin turashi draft sai ayi posting public shike nan kuma sai kaji ana wallahi tallahi, so mene amfanin keeping dinshi a draft at the first place?

It just doesn't sit well with me, I mean if you really like someone do you have to do all the haram things together before making it halal?

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I met this guy 2 months ago (he's a civil defence officer). last month he said he's too busy at work and not allowed to pick calls in front of his Oga so I should try to stop calling while he's at work that he'll call me when he's able to. he only calls when he's at home (around 6 or so) and it's usually very brief. once he calls and says hi, how are you and other things, he says he has something to do and he ends the call. we don't chat much, he only asks how are you, how's everyone at home and have you eaten, nothing deep. we can talk just once a day for busy 2 minutes and that's it. Last week, I asked him to be honest and not waste my time and he said he didn't approach me to waste my time and Inn sha Allah he will never waste my time. I expressed all of my dissatisfaction with the relationship and he only apologized but had nothing to say. I was so hurt I ended up crying and after that, he started putting effort for like two or three days and we're back to the same pattern again. I want to break up but I don't know if I'm being impatient. please help me with sincere advise.

its boredom o'clock, pls who is around 🥺

I want someone to love me for who I am but I'm afraid to open up and to get hurt or to hurt again. What should I do?

I don't know if I'm the only one on this table lol so I met a guy on social media (won't disclose) at first it was cool like we chatted and called everyday for like two weeks straight 😂 it was starting to become an obsession and I know he likes me and vice versa I even made it easier by telling him I liked him but his reply was "thank you"😭😂😂 can you imagine😭 From that day I automatically un-liked him ko dislike neh I even stopped texting him(I was the one that use to start all the Convo sabida tsabar rawan jiki) Let me just continue posting my memes in peace I no do again 😭😂😂

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My husband was an abusive person in our 5 years of Marriage, until towards the ending of 2020 when I poisoned him, and made up a cover up story which everyone believed and he was buried, i have been living with this guilt for almost 3 years now but it feels like forever, i am really bothered and just becoming a crazy person. I can't hold it anymore, I am scared of my ending and going back to Allah. Please advice me on what to do, don't judge me please I have already deeply regretted it, despite the hell i went through with him i made the worst decision of taking his life

Assalamu alaikum fam. I hope you guys are well as usual... oya let's stop talking about love, relationship, and other depressing things and talk about more important things like food 🍱 and horror movies 🍿 👻... for me, I heard of a horror movie 🎥 that as you are watching it the horror will also hunt you in really life 😁... I wanna try it... oh yeah and I will be eating danwake with sokoto pepper 🌶️ and chilled zobo 🥤 ... what's your plan? let me hear your thought and contribution to mak the weekend mor fun 🥳... remain blessed fam. 🙌

ever since I reverted, have never come across any guy, like nobody is asking me for marriage, it's sad tho, but I feel Allah have a better plan for and I said to myself that if it's meant for me to wait then I'll wait...

Between a guy and a lady who proposes first? Daga behavior shi, you know that he loves you but he asked you to tell him what's on ur mind if you are ok with it. But you, you decided not to tell him anything. If he will not propose first, let it be. You know that he is the one who is more desperate to get married than you since he is 41yrs (All his family and friends are on his neck). You know, that he is Fulani by tribe and a shy guy but you, you are shyer than him. Please who is in the better position to propose first?

inata addua Allah yabani Wanda xe Sona,Sona gaskia I mean Wanda no matter what we'll stand by each other with little adventure and also love and caring.

people are still joining matchmaking without profile picture everyday. I keep wondering how matchmaking is done blindly because you just see someone's details but no picture, so how will you now like or request for someone when you have no idea how she/he looks like or thats how the matchmaking is being done. The matchmaking admins are not helping matters. Someone is here for matchmaking and doesn't upload his/ her picture so why is the person here ? I'm not understanding again