MUHIMMIN SAƘO GA MATA DA AKE TSANGWAMA😢 DAN BASUYI AURE BA. Abu na Farko Ƴar Uwa Ki Sani, Kuskure Na Farko ckn Gina Rayuwarki Shine Yin aure dan Kwayenki duk Sunyi, ko dan Kannenki sun Samoki✋😔, Mafi Girman Kuskure kuwa Shine Auran Wanda baki tabbatar da dacewarsa wjn zaman abokin Rayuwarki ba, Munin Kuskure Biyewa maganar mutane dake tsegumi Gameda rayuwarki(Alhalin ba Rayuwarsu bace!). Ya Ƴar uwa, kar kiji Tsoron Zamani dan shekarunki sunja bakiy aure ba, Karki manta cewa Galibi "Kyawun yanayi yafi zuwa ta ƙarshe ƙarshe😍" Ki Tuna Sayyida Khadijah(r.a) shekarunta sunka kai na manyanta amma karshe Ta Auri Annabi(s.a.w), kar kusantar shekaru su Riƙa baki tsoro✋, Ina miki Albishir duk Ya'yan Annabi(s.a.w) daga Khadijan suke, kuma annabi bayan ya aure ta bai sake aure ba sanda ta rasu😍 رضي الله عنها وأرضاها Dan haka kar kiji Tsoron zamani✋ , Allah ne mai Ƙaddara komai kuma Zamani a Hannunsa yake mai rahma(Subhanahu wa Ta'ala) Sau da yawa, Jinkiri Ckn al'amura kara musu kyau yake, Wa ya sanar dake, ƙila ma Allah(s.w.a) na miki wani Kyakkyawan tanadi ne Ckn Rayuwarki🤗 A ƙarshe, Bayan Karfafa miki gwiwa✊, Ina so Ki Nutsu ki tara hankalinki, Ƴar uwa, Aure Shine gini mafi daraja a rayuwarki, Karkiy gaggawa Ckn gina rayuwarki da maganar wasu(masu tsegumi) ko su waye✋😔 رضا الناس غاية لا تدرك "Yardar mutane duka buri ne da ba'a cin masa(har abada" So... Kar tsegumi ko surutun Mutane ya Dameki, Tunda Allah ya halicci duniya mutane magana suke ba kuma ranar da zasuy shiru. Ina miki Fatan Alheri, mu Haɗu a Nasiha ta gaba Insha Allah. ✍🏼Daga Ɗan uwa, kuma Ƙaninki Abdullahi Madachi(SheikhulHub)

why do chubby girls Hardy find true love nowadays , kowa slim slim. it seems slim girls are more appreciated nw, ko Mai yasa?

there's this guy that I've been talking to for almost a year now. he's super religious, in fact I'm his first ever girlfriend because he believes he should only date to marry and now he feels ready. my only problem with him is he's doesn't show any affection and doesn't know how to be romantic, I spoke to him about it and he told me he's the shy type, on the other hand I'm frustrated because our chats are so boring, how do I make him start being romantic? and I don't mean dirty talks. even to express his feelings or tell me he loves me will suffice

we broke up with this girl bcuz she was cheating on me after weeks I went back only for her to tell me I'm too nice she can't continue 🤭😂😂

can someone be my friend or best friend that I can share my secret with!!!it's not easy for me🥹🥹🥹....

Life is a rollercoaster of unpredictability. Some days, it feels great, while on others, it can be quite the opposite. There are moments when your plans seem to crumble, and it feels like nothing is falling into place. Despite your relentless efforts, you might find yourself trapped in a seemingly endless loop. However, it's essential to keep your spirits high because, without a doubt, you can overcome these challenges. There comes a time when it's wise to recognize that if something isn't working for you, it's better to seek an alternative. Every disappointment can be viewed as a new opportunity. I understand that starting over can be daunting, but often, it's the most enduring solution. It's a reminder that in the midst of adversity, there is a chance for growth and transformation.

I'm a divorcee with a child, inason inyi aure Amma duk wanda yazo at the end saisu tafi.....kokuma mutum yazo dazancen banza.....I really want to get married sabida pressure da nake samu.... ni yanxu i want to know ko akwai masu idea abinda kesaka samari tafiya with out any reason?

I'm 17and my mum tana yawan zuwa gurin mallamai. Even today da yamma Wanda tage Bina wani Abu she didn't tell what it is she just told me she going to bury something. tundama I graduated from secondary School last year and both waec da neco da na ja I failed maths. I wrote GCE that Same and I failed maths. I wrote neco internal again this year and I still didn't pass. so she asked one of her mallamai and they told her that hannu wani mutum. that it's my step mother that doesn't want to excel. the man gave her a black soap that I should bath with it for three days outside in the night. today is the second day and I told her that I'm not comfortable bathing outside the house in the night and that I don't like and I won't do it because I know it's not right and that's it's shirk. Now she's guilt tripping me saying she's my mother she suffered with my pregnancy that is this the way I'm going to pay her back. I just want to know did do the right thing.

the pressure to get married is getting out of hand, to the extend I feel husband should just come from anywhere, as far as he's a good man and also possesses what I like in a man, even if the love is not there ni na yarda zan zauna and obey him, gradually I will love him. is this normal? does anyone else feel this way or is my desire to get married abnormal?

When I was 4 or 5 years old my older brother got lost, he went out of our house and never returned. Years and years went by but he was never found even after all the effort from my parents, my mother especially. It killed her slowly not knowing whether her child was alive or dead, and if he was still alive was he in good condition? Uptil date we don't have those answers, we only pray that wherever he is he is at peace. Growing up I used to resent my mother so much, as her youngest child she never showed me love or affection and I didn't understand why, I was just a child after all. I was basically raised by my older sisters, my mother didn't behave like my mother, she was always angry, always cursing us, always beating us, always blaming us for anything that goes wrong and I began to resent her for it. Now that I have grown up I kind of understand why she was the way she was, it's never easy losing a child, she lost hers and it drove her crazy. It's still no excuse to neglect your other children but I understand and I pray for her to find peace in her heart, and despite it all I still love my mother and I don't resent her anymore. It has been over 20 years now and our relationship has definitely improved and we still hope to find him someday biiznillah.

I was scrolling through social media and I came across a recent photo of my ex boyfriend and his wife, she has given birth and I felt jealous, I did not even know he had married let alone having a child. He and I used to date and we were very much into each other but he was even more into me than I him. The last time we spoke was in 2021, we didn't fight, we never broke up, we just didn't contact each other. Then one time like that I just saw that he had unfollowed me on social media, I was just like whatever I don't even care and moved on with my life, I didn't try to find out why (back in 2021). Fast forward to October 2023, 2 years after we stopped talking, I saw photos of him and his wife and Wallahi it hurt me so much. I don't know why because I really thought that I didn't care but Wallahi seeing that made me cry, I realized that I miss him and I wished that it was me. I feel bad for feeling this way because as someone whom he once loved I should be happy for him but instead I'm feeling this way. Prior to seeing the photos I can safely say that I had forgotten about him, so I don't understand this feeling. This has never happened to me before with any of my exes. Is this normal? I feel like it shouldn't affect me the way it did given the fact that we have been apart for such a long time.

I'm not an Abuja babe, however I do stay in Abuja sometimes. I've met a few guys here in Abuja, mostly on social media, they seem nice then as the conversations start getting deep my guy will now say I should come to his place mu yi hira and mind you he doesn't even know me well enough to know whether or not I'm "that kind of girl", and I don't dress anyhow o I'm always in my Abaya. Wallahi there's this person I started talking to, respectable looking person and mature too. I told him I'm in Abuja, we exchanged contacts and all I was blushing thinking maybe I found my future husband😂 he gave me a call and we talked fine and the next thing that came out of my niggas mouth was that he would do Uber for me in zo wajen shi mu yi hira😳 on the first day we started talking o!! Honestly ayam tired, I find it very disrespectful Wallahi. What's this wayward behavior? Mutum na murna thinking an hadu da responsible guy then suddenly sai ka ce in zo wajen ka? Haba! It's a HUGE TURN-OFF, you guys should stop this nonsense please. But come o, why do they actually think it's okay to just invite a lady they don't even know to their place? Is it an "Abuja" thing? I mean where are our Morals as Muslims? Where's our Hausa/Fulani cultural teachings? Our ancestors must be rolling in their graves right now!😤

I have a probable bad approach regarding relationship and how it should play out. To me I feel a girl should be the one to message me good morning on a normal basis, I'm afraid to show affections and emotion because I feel I'll be perceived as weak . Most times I like to allow my partner to lead the conversation because I feel if I talk too much she'll lose interest , I like to be reserved and mysterious. From what I've heard, as a man,don't show a woman how much you love her . Notions like that have prevented me from being emotionally available in a relationship. It is affecting my relationship so much.

what is happening with our ladies /women that they are no longer patience and supportive ?

the story might be lengthy but I really need your advice and views This is a man whom I trusted and loved for the sake of Allah, I respected him and always prayed for him, i gift him even though he never gives me a dime, he sometimes borrow money from me but never for once refunded a penny, Until he borrowed a sum of 120k+ from me which my school fees is included cause i was given the money two months earlier before registration commences, this man shows no mercy at all, I managed and settled my school fees and he promised to pay back as soon as possible, he gave me excuses always, this are some of the red flags i see, so, i told him that I cant continue with him with this habit and drewback from him, he called me and said that he wants to settle things between us that I should come over to their house and discuss things, all i told him was i am not coming if you really needed to come meet me at my fathers house, the next day he met me at school and asked me if I am ready to have the conversation, I said ok but still said that the conversation will be better at their house, and i know that he's alone his family are out of town, I reject him and went back home cause I was terrified, that night i ended everything between us, he just started to rain insult on me including my parents, he called me karuwa (prostitute)and so on and that's the end. He now comes back seeking for forgiveness that all the insults and accusations he did is bacause of anger, I should forgive him and even promised to pay back what i borrowed him saying that he knows he will never find someone better than me, I can forgive everything he did to me but calling me a prostitute is something I can never forgive, because I really respect myself and try my best to safeguard my chastity even though I am currently in University wlh I tried my best not to have many male friends, until part 3 I manage to have two female friends, they say i have ego, people call me" me tsoron maza" even for once i never gave him the chance to talk dirty even if it through chat messages, he never touches my hand but he called me " "karuwa " this word hits me that I cried in sujood whats ur take?

what is that thing you're doing and you know it's not good but you want to stop?? Me: 1. listening to music/singing 2.i used to start eating food on my way from kitchen to where I'll sit and eat / eating my last spoon of food on my way back to the kitchen Astaghfirrullah

i am Sooo Lonely .. Most Of The Times That is How I Feeel Very Bored. Honesty am Not A Sad Person But Am Almost Bored All the Time. am I The Only one Feeling this way

assalamualaikum, gaskiya Naga abunda ya Bani tsoro yau wani bawan Allah ne neighbour dinmu basida aiiki ataikaice kullum sai ya roka yakesamun abinci Amma Yan uwansa Sunada Hali basa taimakonsa wallahi shekaranjiya ya tsaidani cewa wallahi bashida komai agida nikuma 1k ne Dani nabashi 500 jiya naganshi yasake yimun magana har ga Allah banida ITA nasanardashi har nayi masa alkawari cewa idan anbiyamu albashi Zan bashi wani Abu. toh da safe anyi rasuwa kusa damu munje MUNA Shirin tafiya makabarta sainagansa da matarsa sunyi overload a commercial bike kamar asibiti sukatafi yanzu nadawo MUNA kofar gida sai mugaji matar tana ihu wai a taimakesu munje muka tarar idonsa yayi fari numfashinsa baya bugawa sosai. wallahi motarda ma zamu kaishi asibiti babu munyi iya kokarinmu wallahi ko motar bamu damu ba kawaii sai mukacigaba da yi masa salati wallahi nan take yamutu.😭 wallahi mutuwarsa ta daga mun hankali ganin yanda yake Neman taimakon mutane kwanannan Amma baisamuba Allah kadai yasan abunda yakeji ajikinsa Amma wallahi number one abun yunwa ne. kuma wallahi ya nemi taimakona Amma ni yazo alokacinda HARGA Allah banida ITA, sai gabadaya nakasa yin sukuni inaganin kamar inada laifi a wajan Allah........kuma yabar Yara biyu wallahi yanzu ma nakejin cewa matar har bara takeyi domin suci abinci. Allah ka yafemana kabamu abunda zamu taimakawa mutani .

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