A times, Guys come into your life as friends but you become close and like each other but neither of you makes any move to turn it to a relationship. In this cases, what goes through the guys head? likewise what goes inside the lady's head? Lets discuss and share your experiences

Akwai wata yarinya danake so tun tana Ss3 amman ban fada mata saida tana year 3 first semester a school of health technology har na dan fara samo kanta a lokachin kuma sai naga ta canza gaba daya har na janye jikina nima, so yanzu kuma tana gayama wani Abokina cewar na yarda ita, sannan kullun muna chat sosai amman inda babbar matsalar take shine inajin jita-jitar cewar an bada kudin auranta ita kuma ta karya ta kuma gaskia yanzu tana bani lokachi sosai. Nima din inason ta har yanzu

So guys, i need your opinions on this. There's this guy, we've been talking for almost a year now, he never said it(the words) buh the vibe is always there. He gives me green light like Masha Allah he's okay buh after some time, he seizes kamar an dauke nepa. No message no calls, in short the last time daya dauke it was for a month plus amman wlhi in muna waya or smthing you'll think he dosnt want to loose me. Kuma ba duk wayan da zamuyi, that respect was always there, bai taba barin hanya ba wai irin maganan iskanci haka or the likes of that. Do you think if he comes back I should keep vibing koh dai in barshi because its like yana wasa da hankali nane because i feel kar inzo in tanka shi back and it will be looking as if ive been waiting koh desperation haka.

dear Badiyyah, I am sending you this text to tell you how much I love you from the bottom of my heart. since from the very first day I came across your TL, I automatically fell in love, with everything about you. me and you have never talk or meet. and it is not like I didn't know your TL to D.M you on how I really do feel about you. Badiyyah I never believe that I love you that much till, after I finish my prayers today an imagination came into my brain. oh Badiyyah I had little experience from woman, and I know what a woman can do. definitely they are so many men's around you that want to get married to you. like the way I also want to get married to you. in case such happen you married someone I swear to almighty Allah direct from my heart I am happy for you, and Allah knows the best. Badiyyah I didn't send you a D.m, because I don't want feeling's crash, it leave soul with no life. my heart was touch time without numbers, but god time is the best. but Inshallah if I click the Era and you are not married or engage. I will drop a sign if am okay for you to walk with me for the rest of ours life. and Inshallah if that time appear Inshallah everything will happen so fast that you will be all mine till death don alfarman annabi da Al Qurani. i am so much happy I told you the way iove you and I will go more extra miles to tell you more Badiyyah I'm glad I did. Allah knows the best and his time is the best. I love you so much Badiyyah December 5 Amor. everything will be fine Inshallah. salam.

Firstly, I'm a Hausa person by through and through but there's this attitude of our men that I notice which baffles me a lot. 70% of Hausa men I've come across, they don't like the idea of their wives working , I'd like to know what is the reason ?

As salaam alaikum I'm young orphan architect with family responsibilities (of about 15 people). There is this girl that we are together since our primary school time, we really care for one another that some people think we are in love (the other way) but never in our lives, now that I'm in my late 20s and never have a fiancé, some of my friends are advising me to marry her (she is still single, never marry o) because they see the level of understanding that we have, any body that knows her know about me and otherwise. She is working midwife in our specialist hospital while I were still looking for some job. How do you think I will overcome the issue please. Thank you

Assalam. I am a Muslim sister Alhamdulillah na san right from wrong. Not saying I’m a saint in any way because I’m human and I’ve made my fair share of mistakes too just as duk wani mutum dake doron duniyar nan. Toh dai nidai a rayuwana Allah ya dora min bala’in son aure da rayuwar ma’aurata so Ina kokarin naga nayi relationship da zai kai ni ga samun miji nayi aure domin na raya sunnar manzon Allah (S.A.W). Na hadu da wani bawan Allah da ya nuna yana sona matuka, mun fara magana ta mutumci har da maganar aure, amma kwatsam! Sai gashi wai yana tambayana when will I come to his place?😳 I was like how? Sai nace no ai it’s not right kawai he agreed and aka shashantar da zancen muka cigaba normal. Toh nidai na kasa dena tunanin abun duk da ba wai ya taba min wani zance na iskanci bane amma why will he ask me such a question? Tun lokacin na ji ya fara fita a raina but he still shows me he wants to marry me and we still discuss marriage on a daily basis kuma gaskia inason nayi aure soon kuma dai apart from wannan tambayar da yayi he hasn’t shown me any bad character. So my question here is, shin na cigaba da kulashi na ga ko da gaske yake kawai gwadani yayi ko kuma na sallame shi kawai?

There are so many things hurting me so many sometimes I just cry, I am hiv positive and I was given birth with its since when I was a child and I am the second person, so my mom was hiv positive that was before she gave birth to me so I contacted it's also, but my younger siblings don't have it's because they are many ways to prevent its, and same goes to my dad so it's only me and my mom who are hiv we are on medication, we go for check up and my mom now is non detective, but for me I am still praying and still on my medications, and I hope I will get a person who will love me and understand my pains

assalamualaikum kuyi hakuri da abunda nakeson nafada duk da sunada zafi sosai Amma abunda yarinyar tayimun yasa nakeson na rama. wallahi nasota sosai nawuce tsamani sabida lokacin da muka fara soyayya cikin satin nace mata inason turo magabata Dan ba da wasa Nazo ba. Amma yarinyar tayita juya ni har abokaina dariya suketi mun har tazo ta yarje cewa ni inturo mukayi magana da magabatana cewa zasu je tabani ranar zuwa yarinyar kawai tazo ta canzamun nayi kokarin insan meke faruwa Amma tanunamun cewa Bata Sona. wallahi nashiga damuwa nayi ciwo sosai sabida son da nakemata. Amma na hakura har na healing. yanzu duk samarinta sun yaudareta sai tadawo wai in tura gidansu😂 nikuma nace toh Amma so nake natura wasu mutane Wanda ba danginaba nabasu kudi suje......daga baya kawai sai inkai mata invitation card Dina na aure. sabida itama kasheni tasoyi domin lokacin na tsani mata ma kwatakwata. so I need advice.

I’m a lady in my late 20s, still single, I used to love with all my heart and soul, with all that I am but every time I would get my heart broken and my time wasted by the one I love. Not even broken but shattered. The first few times I got my heart broken each time I cried and got depressed but at the end I was able to pick myself back up and was ready to give all my heart out yet again, and I did just that. Fast forward to my last heartbreak, after it happened I just gave up on love all together, I have healed and moved on from it and I’m happy again. I have quite a number of suitors interested in marrying me but I just can’t bring myself to love anyone anymore. I feel like I’m incapable of feeling love, the person I’m with now really loves me and wants to marry me but I just can’t love him or anyone else for that matter. What do I do? I’m not hurting but I don’t feel anything, I feel dead inside.

Am just 20 but I look like am in my late 20s and I feel dis is the reason why am not having any suitors.I have good male friends who are nice to me, some even call me 4times a day and always make me feel like they love me,but they don't they just only like me. Al first I think they want us to be friends first before going to the next level but is not so.i have a guy,we can talk like five times a day,I no all abt his good and bad moments and no all his secret and I like him but he just wants me as a friend.Every guy I come across just want us to be friends no strings attached. should I start asking guys out

my correct boyfriend is just 24 while I am 21, he love me so much and I love him too, he is 24 but he act 30s he is very matured honestly, he is working and receiving good salary, he spend for me as well but my problem now is that he want us to marry soon and I am feeling like he is very young to marry gaskiya and I don't want to loose him

ya rabb why always me🥹😭😭 he just served me a hot breakfast🥹🥹🥹🥹

I'm really heartbroken at a point I wish crying will solve my problem but it isn't I really don't know what do....

I just love this platform becoz it's a safe place for us introverts! Everything anonymous no ID, Share feelings, comment what u want, no follow, no follow back! 😂 Like dark web we're all unknown, You can't even recognize your friend 🗿

Wai kuwa, how many of us in this platform? Do we even reach 150? Just wanna know

Ladies do love doing makeup especially during occasion but in reality majority of men don't like that makeup. On behalf of men we are saying it out loud!! we don't like makeup especially bridal. If it's really necessary do it light. We just use to pretend and lie to you that you look beautiful but in most cases it is the opposite. BUT WHAT YOUR TAKE ON THIS

been dating this guy for four years plus and found out he was cheating wit different ladies I was so shocked bcos I didn't sense it .. we do talk every now nd den .. e calls me always ,, like we literally talk every day not just once .. I kept it to my sef wen I found out about it for a month ,, had sleepless nights nd cried always .. d day I told him about it he said those girls aren't his gf bla bla bla .. nd later on e now said e wants to get married to a nurse mainwhile E knew I wasn't a nurse bfr now I'm a biochemist graduate..

hello guys kun jini shiru kwana biyu ko toh gidan kakata aka kaini

Aslm Jamaa ya gaji da mutanei Karan mijina na kawo muku ku bani shawara...munyi aure just 10mnt to gaskiya munyi da mijina banson in dauki chiki yanzun saboda ina mkrnt na kusa gamawa though ya fahimci nei anma ya hanani focus a karatu kullun XX ba safe ba rana ba dare ko ya tafi office kwai sai inganshi ya dawo wai yana bukata na ina lectures kwai sai kirani in dawo gida ya dawo yana bukatana 😭body no be firewood😭Jamaa lfy shi klau kuwa?ni kuma ba yanda na iya dole inzo saboda kada ya nema matan banza a waje😭ku dubamin plssss