is it good for married women to ask for sex from their spouse

I am a 28 year old guy and I have to admit I'm finding it hard balancing my work with my relationship. My soon to be wife has already accepted the fact that my job is more important than her . I hate to be that person,I love her and I'm deeply hurt that I can't balance things. My work hours range from 9am to 7pm . It takes me atleast an hour to get home and have alone time for myself. Most times I get really busy during the day,we don't talk except at night , sometimes I get really tired at night and we don't even talk and when such happens it's world war . I have to write a paragraph explaining why I wasn't available to talk. Sometimes it gets to me,I feel she should understand when I'm busy or tired without making me feel guilty about it since we talk everyday and I've told her how busy my Work can get. I've talked to her but still she don't wanna understand ,if I'm away for the whole day I know I'm in for trouble 😴😴. What should I do please it's disturbing me .

Is there anyone out here who's having a hard time getting some decent night sleep and wants to engage in heart to heart conversation?

On days like this,it gets very hard,I witnessed a beautiful loveable marriage and i was so happy for them i shed a tear or two.its the kind of love stories we hardly hear about.And when i asked them the secret of their marriage and they said Allah comes first in whatever they do right from dating . MashaAllah something that is getting extinct in our society...ba maza ba mata the so called wayewa is making us forget our beloved religion. You may ask what makes it hard on days like these ko?The feeling of being extremely happy for someone but at the same time very sad for yourself. it gets so lonely,empty message folder,empty phone logs.no check in messages balle love messages.On days like today i just wish i have a husband i will talk to,lean on and give all the love i have bottled up in me.is so lonely ya Rahman. I hold islam very dear and in my journey of finding a husband i will never compromise my deen .i get gaki kamar kin waye amma...or ya kike kamar baki waye ba. Ya Allah make it easy for me ya Rahman.and to everyone going through same.Oh Allah i ask you for your love and the love of thise who love you and the love of every action that will bring me closer to your love.

Abincin Wani guban Wani, ni burina na auri medical Doctor, kuma insha Allah I will be very supportive to her, more especially if she's on call, I can even cook food nakaimata Hospital. but har yanxu Allah bai bani ba. hakan yasa ko girlfriend bani dashi. but zakaga wasu kuma gudun medical personnel din sukeyi. Nikam wai miye yake faruwa ne.? Miye matsalan dayasa ake gudunsu..? while kuma idan matarka batada lafiya zakace kafison mace ta dubata ..

Dan Allah Duk wanda tasan islamic medicine for anti-fungal infection kutaimakeni dashi mana. infection want to kill me

Hello everyone, good evening. I'm interested in visiting Kano to learn how to make bags and Shoes from experts. Please anyone who knows where I can learn it should drop their suggestions. Thank you.

I can't be cooking every day and I don't used to wake up till 11 o'clock and others invalid reason. this is some reason most men left relationship without notifying you. even though their intentions to marry you.

so I Met one guy in school when I went for exams and the guy has been stalking me since ,he chatted me one day on WhatsApp ,he introduced himself as my coursemate and I recognized him and saved his contact since then this guys usually chat me up but I usually give him a reply I don't return the vibes (because I didn't notice he's into me ) then one I posted a video of my self saying something and he commented on it since then I understand that he's really good in islam I start liking him so this guy sha this guy proposed to me and I accepted him oo and now after like three weeks of knowing each other he said he want to send his people and I'm scared of getting married now I'm young to get married now and I'm not yet done with school kuma he's also a student in the school kuma a semester ahead of me he said he want his wife to wear hijab all the time and a housewife not going to work she's going to do her business at home we barely know each other kuma fah just three weeks fah kuma he want children fah and he's doesn't want to wait for like a year or two before im done with school .he said he want a child after we are married fah im Just 18

it's started with living home and started leaving with my aunt everything was okay till I was done with high school graduated with good grades alhamdulillah for that got admission to a private university I did not choose the course myself and I said let me get it a try my first year I was a 3pointer as I was going high it was getting difficult I was stranded so my gp dropped to 1.98 and I knew if I go high it's will be difficult to hit 3point again never liked the atmosphere of home cuz we always have a fight with my aunt and the only way to change my results was to change course so I did that with time I got caught nobody wanted to hear my explanation of doing that I was insulted every single day of my life everybody was disappointed cuz I am not living with my parents I have never objected what my aunt choose for me in this life even though I Don't like it I accept and appreciate with time I was always at home so her husband started to ask me to have s*x with he him and her son always finding a way to avoid the two of them staying in the house became more difficult always praying for protection then one day I got the courage of telling my mom thinking she will do something about it and my mother told I should not tell anybody cuz two families break and I can't leave the house I need advice ,prayers anyone

Gaskia nasha wahala a previous aurena yanxu inajin tsoron aure. Inason nayi aure but sai nake ganin bazan samu irin mijin danakeso ba,wanda hankalina ze kwanta dashi,wanda ze soni sosai. Ni ba wata babba bace 27 nake I'm still young amma har yanxu ina cikin trauma.

Assalamualaikum.... please I need an advice on what to do. I started university since 2013 and was supposed to graduate in the year 2017. I got ill and I deferred two sessions. when I can back for my first spill, I was only able to do the first semester and could not come back for the second semester. I later got well and came back for my second spill. I failed 3 courses and was asked to request for consession. now everyone is angry with me and I don't know what to do. please I need an advice on what to do.

seriously in need of prayers pls

Hey buddies 🥺 Dan Allah ya ake Dena shagwaba everyone keeps complaining na cika shagwaba even my boyfriend har fada mukayi dashi akan hakan kusan 1 mmth knn be kirani ba na masa text no reply am feeling kamar ya Dena so na ne wai shagwaba na yayi yawa🥺 kowa yi wa nke wai kila haka nakewa wasu mazan me that am always at home bana fita ko Ina sai school wai he can't stand seeing me inawa wani shagwaba kuma ni it's part of me bansan inayi ba am confused in da Wanda yasan yadda zanyi na Dena help me pls ya ake magana ba shagwaba help your li sis

a friend of mine broke up with her fiancé of 2yrs simply because he got to know she doesn't know how to wash clothes 😫💔 wai she she's not a wife material haba mana kuma she's not lazy fah a very good Cook ga hankali I'm the crazy one self 😂😶 gaskiya since childhood basa wanki kayan su akwai masu yi musu wanki gaskiya she only wash her inner wears that' was how she was train all of them amma she can do aiki gida kuma she's not dirty kawea bata iya wanki bane is that a crime ?? I don't understand Is that a valid reason to break up ???

Acts of Squeezing your thighs to get sexual pleasure I'm Experiencing this Since when I was 9years old 😭 I don't even know if it was Haram or not (Ya Allah😭) please someone should help me Explain islamically NB- I am almost 22years now

Assalamu Alaikum da fatan kowa na lpy. wani abu ne ke ci min tuwo a qwarya ina zaune tare da antyna da yayanta uku. wata 2 da suka wuce anty tawa ta dawo nigeria dan akwai bikin qanwarsu da zaay. da yake muna da yan uwa a qasar da mukw zaune, sai tayi wa kanwar kakata da tke zaune a qasar magana tazo ta zauna da mu kafin ta dawo. ynzu maganar da nke akwai wata distance cousin din anty nawa, sun hada alaqa ne ra wajen kakanni sai tazo ta dan kwana biyu. gida ba extra room sai ta ke kwana a dakin anty tawa kuma d same dakin idan mijin anty tawa yazo yake kwana, itace wannan da tazo sai ta kira qawarta🙂 sai suke kwana a dakin antyn nawa kuma suke amfani da bandakin.... abin na damuna amma bamda bakin magana tunda ba gidana bane ba amma abin ba kyan gani, bamda rashin tunani ke idan ki kwana a dakin an miki uzuri amma kawo qawa wannan ba abin hnkl bane ba, gadon da mijin ke kwanciya da bargon da mijin ke rufa da bandakin da mijin ke amfani 🙂. nasan ko a addini kanwar ki uwa daya uba daya ba zata shiga dakin mijinki ba balle wata cousin daga nesa harbda qawarta. toh ya kuka gani ni ta bangare na ba zan yadda da wannan danyan aikin ba, mijinka sirrinka ne da komai nashi

if you get to interact with Nigerians and get to experience their mentality and reasoning hence their actions. you will begin to understand why the entire country is messed up and doomed. Nigerians are extremely corrupt and they lack even basic ethics and morality in most cases. The leaders are the products of the same corrupt enviroment of the country. I rest my case.

Kuyi nishadi rijalu Wai yarinyar da aka haifa 2002-2007 ce take bani umarni🤔🤣💔 ko Kuma ta nuna mka Kai yaro ne

Wata sabuwar alada ce da ta shigo local hausa community da na lura, kuma naga yakamata a gargadi alumma. Watau iyaye na yin kuskure, wajen banbanta ga tarbiyar yara. Yarinya mace har tai aure sai ka ga itace islamiyya, itace, harda itace, boko, talla itace, in aike ya tashi a gida itace, ko kasuwa ne itace. ai ta rike ta gamgam ana dora ta kan hanya wai a karamin tunaninmu muna so ta kyautatta don ta samu miji nagari, kuma eh yarinya indai ba talla ake dora mata aba kokuma barinta ake zuwa yawo gidajen biki ba, eh sau dayawa ana saa… sai kaga yarinya ta tashi kamila da hankali kuma inshaa allahu in kai saa mai tsoron allah sai kaga alamarin abun shaawa. Duk wannan dai dai ne. Inda kuskuren yake shine wajen tarbiyan maza, santari wai sai kaga wai in yaro ya wuce jss 3 sai kaga iyaye sun fara sakan mai alamuransa. In ma yace bazai je boko sai a yardan mai. Balle kuma islamiyya baa Magana. Yanzu un kaje any islamiyya anan arewa alkawari sai kaga 80% duk matane, maza baa masu dole suje. Yo yaro bama ya yini gidansu baa san ina yake ba ina zaa kawo shi islamiyya, shidai amfanin shi lokacin damuna ya taya uban a gona. Daga nan ba ruwansa da mike faruwa gida. In ka tambaye shi ko iyayen sun tambaye shi sai yace ya fita dako kuma duk karya ce, kokuma kaji ance yana farauta kokuma kaji ance yana gidan dambe ko gidan gala ko gidan solo. Kokuma duk wani abu marar amfani. Shi da gida in yaji yunwa yazo gida yasha fate, ya ci tuwo. Kai abun kunya in ma yaro baya son fita yakai wani shekaru sai kaga wai koranshi akeyi ana cewa zam gida na mata ne yaje yai harka da abokansa. Duk iyaye na manta in yaro ya fita ko da kanshi kokuma in an korashi to fa zai fada chikin yan daba ne kokuma chikin yan shaye shaye, kokuma shikin yan fashi kokuma chikin yan kwace kan titi, abun dai baa kirgawa. Yaro bakasan harkokinshi, kila ma kana kwana da dan fashi, ko wani babban dan chacha ko dan daudu cikin gida bakasani. Gidajen hausawa ma da ake dakunan maza a waje baa san yaushe ya shigo ba ko ya fita koma in yak wan gida ba shin suma mazan ba yayanmu bane, namaji kadage kayi tarbiyar shi ma ya ka kare balle ka sake shi duniya. Abun da muka mantawa yarin yar nan da muke ta killace wa muna so ta samo miji na gari kashi 7 chikin 10 irin wannan yaron da ka sakar wa duniya fa irin shi fa zata jajibo tace tayi saurayi, ai masu aure. Shiya sa yanzu sai kaga yarinya masha allahu kana ta daukin wa zata kawo amma daga takawo mijin sai ka ganshi wani gaja, ko wani santolo , gashi gashi dai, bai chika mutumba ko a furucin shi. Kuma ba yanda zakai dole ka aura mata haka. Domin bakada wani wanda ya fishi da zaka kawo mata itama ta duba ta duba bata da wani wanda ya fishi… Yakamata alumma ta duba. Kada mu manta mu muka haifi yaran mu basu suka haifemu ba. Yanzu mutum in yaro ya gagare shi yace yabar mai gida sai kaji kowa yayi ca kanshi, yana chewa yai hakuri amma yaro sai ya zauna don ai gidan ubansa ne. kamar yanada wani permernent seat a gidan. Malamai a fadakar don Allah. Na gode