*No* *one* *has* *it* *all* ... *A* *must* *Read* !!! *Ayisha* , mad, sleeps under the bridge but in her hands are twin handsome boys she gave birth to some weeks ago. *Esther* , living in a posh house, drives posh cars, went to the best hospital in town for ante-natal care but see her crying for she has another miscarriage. *Halima* , beautiful, good job, good house, good husband yet her pillow *suffers* every night with wetness of her *tears* , because she is yet to *conceive* . Hmmmmmmmmmmm *Life* is deep, who can *understand* it? *Francis*, lives with his parents, his father is a poor *carpenter* , he goes to school on foot every morning with empty stomach, yet he is exceptionally *brilliant* . *Tony* , a son of a wealthy *politician* , goes to school, with escorts and assorted food and drinks yet he cannot *assimilate* what he is being *taught* . *Malcom* , son of a medical *doctor* , *crippled he cannot help himself, his father cannot help him yet he treats others and they get healed. What is in this life self? We all have it in bits, that is the irony of life. So why the bitterness, the envy, the anger , let's learn to manage our bit and see how we can make it better. *Suraya,virgin,focused, intelligent, but she was raped on her way to school, she became pregnant , and life was on hold for a moment, Life!!! Life!!! Life!!! Mary, prostitute, nothing to write home about, married to a good man, have four lovely kids and doing great. Cindy, rich family, beautiful, good job humble, but yet to have a man to call her own. None should think he is better than the next person because we have it in bits,as we try to manage our bit, let us also try to be a support system. No one is more, no one is less, we are all unique in our own way. It is so funny and indeed pitiable to see someone acting so proud and inhumane just because he or she has a slight advantage over others in a particular area of life . Someday when death beckons, you will respond with all your cluttering material possessions We live by ALLAH'S grace so be thankful to ALLAH and stop the arrogance. ???

I really don't understand why parents treats siblings differently. I know a family su biyar ne yaran,mata 4 namiji 1. The four girls are very obedient suna da hankali sosai but the the boy sai a hankali ga shaye shaye da rashin kunya wa iyayen idan ya sha ya bugu sai yazo ya zagi maman su ya ci Mata mutunci wlhy he always makes her cry but duk da haka tafi son shi,if those 4 girls make little mistake you know nobody is above mistake a rayuwa,haka zatayi ta musu fada sometimes ma haka kawai zata hau kansu tana musu fada,shi kuma duk abinda yake yi bata ganin laifin sa in fact she doesn't want to hear a bad word against him, how do we tackle this problem?

It always surprises me idan naga yanda ake kuntata wa mata da sunan aure (I’m sorry nasan da yawa zasu ce what the fuck am I trying to say) a gaskiya in my opinion yanda ake treating mata a gidajen auren su is not fair I.e zaka ga namiji ya futittike shi dole matar sa bazata social media ba, kuma ga irin kayan da zata saka, shi bai yarda tai mu’amala da wani ko wance ba and so on, wani ma koda ya barta da waya ya dingi bin kwakwaf me takeyi a ciki haba why all this could you imagine akwai mijin da sai matar tayi bacci zai dauki wayar bincike ko a shiga toilet dashi, amma shi zai iya ganin hoton wance yai like or comment romantic but the wife even with friends sai an tuhume ta haba maza!!!! Allah dai ya kara shiryar damu. Ramadan Kareem Arewaup family.

kawai dan mace ta kai certain age se a matsa mata ta kawo miji ni na kasa gane abin. like what's the point I am almost 30 but I am working on my career first to take care of my self I don't wanna depend on my parents or a man. wani uncle dina was telling me wai yanzu maza basu kai mata yawa ba so inyo sauri in nemo miji kafin scarcity ya karu. Ni ban damu ba ko kadan lastly auren ai ba dole bane bazan takura kai na ba amma idan na samu mijin da ya dace zanyi. yanda aka dauki aure especially for girls is annoying and ignorant. I just fell like ranting about it.

I am in kano and thinking of ordering some items from Jumia but i am doubting, please has anyone ever used their service to tell me how it is and how the goods get delivered. or can you recommended any e commerce website with a trusted service? i could not find the items here in kano so i am depending on online shopping. Thanks

i feel ashamed to ask anyone this that's why i'm here, pls if its not valid does it mean i can eat for the rest of the day and make up for it after ramadan? please anyone with knowledge about this let me know.

i just wonder dan me suke yi, idan dan Allah ne then you only need to prove it to him right? even some hausa celebrities as this is the first day of ramadan i have seen their posts on how they feed people or are planning to feed people. do you have a lesser reward if you publicize such acts? or it doesn't matter as long as niyyar ka nada kyau?

Jiya Ina cikin tafiya cikin gari, wani Mai mashin ya buga mun mota, ya ki tsaya wa Kuma ya zage Ni. Ni ma sai na buge shi da mota ya fadi ban tsaya ba na tafi. I feel a bit bad about it cuz Kila na dauki Alhakin shi but I am also thinking he deserves it.

I like a guy he's my course mate gashi yanzu muna final semester I have tried to give him hints but no avail we have spoke a few times and I really love him sosai since last year but I am shy to make it obvious, I don't want to loose him after school. please what is the best thing to do? should I propose directly or start a friendship to give him more hints. pls advice me.

I have been observing for a while that Hausa people in the North see themselves as better than other tribes. eg 1. You rarely find a Hausa man learning/speaking another tribe apart from his own. 2. A Muslim Yoruba friend of mine told me when he went to serve in yobe state only hausas lead prayer in the mosque. 3. they think it's their land and threatening to send other tribes out of their region in of religious crises. but the truth is that the hausa region is the face of poverty and illitracy in Nigeria, can that be the reason some think this way?

Wallahi sometimes is the ladies arouse it and after it happens people will saying blah blah blah. Because it happens to me but Alhamdulillah my God Has saved me so please and please peoples stop jumping into conclusions without any justifiable fact.

It's still on the marriage issues let me share my experience, i came home from school some months ago i don't know why my dad's side of the family feel i don't have a suitor already so they've been matching me with possible suitors from the family (see me see wahala) and it's not as if we are all in good terms i just dey look them. I don't understand why it's a crime to be at home after graduation it's not as if I'm in their house i dey my papa house dey mind my business but people won't let me be.

Salam pls those that say don't hit a lady does it mean a lady can come and slap you and you will just be looking like a fool? and also it's okay for a lady to hit a man ko?

A failed engagement is better than a bad marriage. The mistakes, baggage and hurt you carry from it cuts across generations. Be wise and take your time to choose a partner ?.

Gaskia yakamata iyaye su daina saka pressure akan 'ya'ya mata kan maganan aure,I mean aure lokaci ne idan lokacin ka baiyi ba wallahi ko sama da kasa zasu hade bazakayi ba but our parents don't understand this suna ga Kaman mun tsaya zabe ne bayan kuma ba haka bane. Marriage that happens due to pressure doesn't last long, how can we make our parents understand this?

The recent cases of insecurity and crime is not a surprise to me, its something that would naturally occur anywhere under the climate of Nigeria, and trust me wallahi worst is coming, time shall tell, the country will keep deteriorating until it becomes a living hell for everyone all because of 1 thing fa that people are not talking about, when it comes to discussion of the country's issue the first thing people mention is the government, i just laugh because i actually don't blame the government because the government officials that run the government are products of our society so the problem lies deep in our societies. the same people will never talk about how people give birth to people who end up becoming a catastrophe to the society and so on. what do you think is that 1 thing that has led Nigeria to this unpleasant state and is still driving it deeper?

i don't like it when people ask me personal questions or start conversions just to know whats going on in my life or what i do, its not that they care daga tambayar zaka san jin kwakwap ne kawai da gulma and before you know it zaka ji a bakin wani, ai wannan ya gaya min kaza kaza. why can't people mind their business and go on about their daily lives

many people take criticizing other people's religion a life time job, is that a good thing obviously no, what I believe is if u cant convince someone to ur religion then u dnt have to be criticizing other people's religion just peacefully practice ur religion and dont cause any fuse. well this is wat I believe, what abt u

One of my friends owes me money (100k) for over 6month yanzu which she promised to pay a month after,.she paid only half last week and now she is begging me that her mom is sick (which is true) and she needs 20k for hospital expenses should I borrow her or blacklist her forever in giving debt?

From the camp, I started wondering on some of the things I know about our Igbo brothers that is presuming they are superior when it comes to education and awareness. But a simple conversation in English the children can't reply. But the shocker came later on because I came to realize that more than 70% of the population in Umunna Bende camp are Igbos how this came to be I don't know but that's the fact. So when we were filling out our forms which is a part of the registration for the camp which as at then was done manually, I realized most of our Igbo graduate cannot even fill basic information form so an NYSC official have to be explaining to them in their local dialect so that they don't spoil the forms. According to the officials, many forms were wrongly filled and that led to the explanations. (Shocker) To be contd Mr. Mallam