Salam, management of this app. Please a yi wani abu a kan notifications din nan mana. Like we should know if people are even viewing our profiles or something, amma ba dadi bamu ganin komai sai jiran tsammani. The silence is discouraging. Sauran users ya kuka gani?
Dec 30, 04:18 PM
Stop being in a hurry to grant financial aid to ladies you just met, especially those you approached. Be intentional about the talking stage and maintain the status quo otherwise it might become a billing stage. If you truly want to build something natural or solid with her, then avoid any situation that may compel you to grant financial aid. Nigerian ladies undervalue financial aids during the first two or three weeks of meeting each other, Because many of them have this feeble preconceived mindset that boys will always try to impress or pretend to care. Even if your intentions are pure, she has got her doubts in play and trust me, she’s not that moved. The “Thanks!” You get afterwards is just a formality, deep down she still feels- Oh well, boys will always be boys! To put this into perspective, I mean girls who casually, stylishly puts you in that position like : I’m hungry. I’m not fine. I’m broke. That is tactical blackmail, It’s all manipulation. Do not fall for it and do not try to prove how much you care by lending financial aid. She will most likely turn you into a simp and maga because the tactical blackmail and billing will never stop. She’s always going to be hungry. Always going to crave ice cream. Always going to need that urgent 2k very urgently… I mean you could ask why she hadn’t returned your calls or message and the next thing is - I am out of data/airtime. She turns everything into an opportunity to bill you because you’ve shown her you have money to give and that will affect how she sees you. Many girls don’t see any reason to go into a relationship with you if already gain financial benefit benefit from you. And the most annoying part is the fact that they don’t appreciate your kindness, In their small minds they feel you can’t resist or say no to them. They believe you are always quick to come through for them because you want something from them. Granting financial support to a girl you like but just met is risky because it can quickly change the direction of your relationship with her. Avoid it!!! Talking stages are meant for conversations not semi blackmails and tactical billing. Never try to prove anything with money because whatever you start with money, will definitely require money to finish up.
Dec 30, 02:24 PM
I pray in my heart that this gets to Namenj in one way or the other. I like Namenj alot, he is such a beautiful person just as his music is....his songs make me cry I don't know why🥺. I would love to marry him .
Dec 30, 07:00 AM
is there any one knows how to calculate (gpa) and (cgpa) in universites?
Dec 30, 05:34 AM
assalamu Alaikum warahmatullah. please I need more clarification on those malaman tsubbu? those who claim to be giving medicinal treatment, advice, talking with jinns( in dreams ) , and all those stuffs. thank you.
Dec 30, 04:10 AM
is it a crime if you wish to marry someone who is confortable and up to your standard. I'm not from a rich family, but due to my hard work I made it in life, Alhmdlillah. I earn half a million every month, but find it difficult to settle down because I'm over 30yrs. what else do they want from a lady?
Dec 29, 10:25 PM
Assalamu Alaikum, shin buga-buga tana iya riqe aure, don yanzu bani da cikakken abun yi. Don ni ina da gida babba amma ban samu cikakken abun yi ba. zanbiya aure.
Dec 29, 07:18 PM
is anyone here knows how to contact (diaryofnothernwomen) on istagram ? is there any number or someone should just Dm her through her handle so she can post what you send. help pls
Dec 29, 07:05 PM
there's a lady I recently collected her phone after seeing her story on how she struggles. I learned we live in same neighborhood it's not my State of origin I was transferred to work there. after getting her number I chatted severally no reply after seeing my messages I called she didn't pick. chatted her again she didn't respond I only wanted to collect her details there's a job offer I got there wallahi I wanted to give her that job but she underate me. I gave a it to a kind person I met a bike Man that carried me to somewhere after telling me he has wive and struggling to survive.🙏
Dec 29, 12:19 PM
ASLM JAMA'A BARKANMU D WANNAN MAI ALBARKA D FATAN KOWA YANA LAFIYA.. To jama'a kamar kullum dai yau dinma nine gogan naku wanda baya rasa kawo muku abinda zaku dan taba.... So Ina fatan kowa zai fito domin mu tattauna dan mu karu gaba dayan mu... Yau zamu tattauna akan wasu kalmomi guda biyu wanda muke kasa bam-bam cesu a rayuwarmu ta yau d kullum,hakan kuma yakansa mukan shiga damuwa sosai sbd rashin sanin bam-bam cinsu... Wannan kalmomi sune SO DA SOYAYYA.... Tambaya..... Menene bam-bam cin SO DA SOYAYYA Ina fatan yau zamu fito d dukkan karfin mu don mu taimakawa kanmu wajan kage bam-bam cin su .... BY BAFFANCYN (S)
Dec 29, 10:44 AM
mun kasance mu basu halibane to nasamu wani aiki inayi natara kudina nayi shawarar na fara sayayyan Kayan kitchen kafin aurena saboda kar sai aure yazo aga babu abinda muka saya shine nanemi shawara gun mahaifiyata sai tace aa musaya waken soya mu aje nan gaba zai qara kudi sai musaida muyi sayayya nace mata to Mujaheed muka saya mukakai Ajiya sai gashi jiya Wanda mukaba Ajiyan ta kirani a Waya wai anyi mata sata nima anhada da nawa amma ba duka suka daukaba shine nace to zanzo na kwashe sauran kawai na sayar shine da naje dauka naga saura daya kawai shine take fadamin wai ai mamana tun wancan satin tazo ta dauki buhu daya ta sayar bansaniba kuma wllh banga abinda ta sayaba nayi mata magana bata kulaniba😭😭😭😭wllh yanxu haka zuciyata jinake kamar zai buga ga Wanda aka sace ga kuma Wanda ta sayar na rassa yadda zanyi wllh ko magana ma ni yanxu banason yimata zuciyata nacemin in tada tsiya tabiyani kawai ba zaku gane me nake jiba wllh😭😭😭😭😭
Dec 29, 09:52 AM
Aslm maza da mata na wannan feji Mai albarka fatan kowa ya tashi lafiya da kuma yanayi najin dadi d walwala... Yau naga group din namu yayi tsit ba alamar kowa a ciki sbd ba abinda za'a dan tattauna akai... Dan haka zanyi amfani d wannan dama in in kawo mana maudu'in d zamu tattauna akai... 1.Wanne abu ne daya faru a rayuwarka wanda bazaka taba mantawa dashi ba walau a makaranta ko a rayuwa t yau d kullum. 2.Wanne abinci ne yafi birgeka a rayuwarka..
Dec 28, 12:20 PM
Assalamu Alaikum dear ladies. This article explains what the majority of men mean when they say “ I need a break! - To clear my head or put things in order. I want you to have this information so you’d not live in denial if ever you find yourself in the situation. Men are the most intentional beings on earth especially when it comes to their emotions. Men know what they want. A man can be a serial flirt but a man is hardly puzzled between two ladies. Trust me, he knows who he wants. Even when he is exposed to other options, he knows what he wants. Highest, He’s going to have a bite and then go back to his original choice. She may not be as pretty as the other girls he’s been with but where a man finds peace and loyalty, he builds his tent. Women on the other hand are intentional about every other activities in life but their emotions. A woman can know what she wants and still be confused when exposed to variety because women are always scared-conscious of making a mistake. That explains why even a decent girl in a great relationship can easily generate cold feet when she’s exposed to other options. For example, a marriage proposal from a financially stable man can inadvertently interfere with a woman’s initial choice or interests. This to say that women are never truly convinced of any promises you make to them until they see themselves in a wedding dress. So when a woman says : I need a break “ There is every possibility that it is harmless. She probably needs you to reassure her that’s all. I need a break for most women is just an attention seeker. She wants to see how much she means and if you are going to fight for her. But when a man says he needs a break, trust me and give him that break because there is a 99% chance that the decision is intentional. Men hardly ever needs attention or reassurance, all they need is loyalty and submission so if you are loyal to a man and he says that?? Grant him! When women use the word break it’s probably an attention seeker but when a man uses it, It is definitely a deal breaker. That is usually what we say when we do not want her to know we are actually breaking up. It is tactical manipulation. I need a break up sounds harsh and makes them the enemy so men would rather say “ I need a break to clear my head/ put things in order” Dear ladies, Don’t wait up. Note to take home: When a man truly loves you, he doesn’t chase you in his moments of trials, that is when he needs you the most. I am a man. I know this is hard pill to swallow especially for ladies who are blinded in love. No one wants to accept the truth because of the pain that follows so you’d rather bind yourself with false hopes that he’s going to have a rethink. Well, May you are right but I don’t think you should stick around to find out. Men don’t chase women who give them inner peace away so if truly that man loves you he will never shut you out especially when you have done nothing wrong to him. I am sorry you have to go through this tactical manipulation from men but I need you to have this information. Many of you have not been able to move on because you are waiting for a break to get over. Please do not wait up!
Dec 28, 02:31 AM
A ra'ayin ki/ka a soke lefe ko a'a. Ni nawa ra'ayin yafi ga a soke kawai.
Dec 27, 07:16 PM
I'm in love with my ustaz (islamiyya teacher )
Dec 27, 06:51 PM
Please I'm seeking for who can help me complete my qur'an memorisation online fisabilillah.. I tried online classes but it's not working
Dec 27, 06:02 PM
Aslm jama'a barkan mu d wannan lokaci d fatan kowa yana cikin koshin lfy Allah yasa haka ameen.. Masoya tambayata yau akan ku take🤔 Tambaya: wanne yanayi zuciya take tsintar kanta a duk lokacin daka/ki takewa wa wani/ta son kurewar numfashi kuma akai rashin sa'a wannan zuciyar b takai/ke takeba..??? Wanne yanayi ka taba tsintar kanka bayan faruwar hakan Wanda bazaka taba mantawa dashi ba????
Dec 27, 05:59 PM
Slm House please does anyone here knows someone that does training on how to buy goods from abroad? please let me know if you do by commenting😊
Dec 27, 07:00 AM
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