Why don't men make efforts to win a girls heart?

madam wlh bki son gsky, bna bukata nyi dogon rubutu

Please stop responding to my posts if possible

Asslm sis na… first of all it depends on the type of relationship both of them agreed on, secondly love is mutual understanding and a commitment from both sides, not only the guy or only the lady… if she’s seeing other guys means she/him simply not interested in him or her. as for me personally, if the courtship was proposed for marriage and I really love her, I would fight for her ONLY if someone wants to snatch her, but i won’t if she intentionally went to date someone. (I stand to be corrected as I’m not perfect). Allah ya sa mu dace kuma ya yi mana zabin sa. Ameen.

yar uwa ba kowa zai iya jure kina kulashi kina kula Wani ba

See rubbish typing abeg, don't even start deceiving girls with your post, lemme tell you something maza sunfi kishi faa, idan namiji ya rikeki tsakani da Allah, kikaje kikayi cheating wallahi idan ya rabu dake, har abada bazai wai wayo ba, why would i fight for something that is everywhere, please stop giving out bad advices

Why won't he respond, If you want to type rubbish then it is better you don't type it at all

She made a post for discussion, instead of being childish and sounding angry, why not just ignore the post.

Make una help me tell them, wasu mutanen sai a hankali ba lalle baneh view ina yazama same as naku kowa da ra'ayi shi idan kaga baiyi maka bah saika kyale period

Haka shima namijinnan allura cikin maliya, Mai rabo ka dauka😂😂

Aiko kikayi wasa zakiyi kwantai kuwa, if you intend to be a player why not play kawai, no man that truly love you will tolerate you being with another not even ur cousin, u might end up losing good men jst bcos of that!

There's nothing to discuss here bcos with the way everything is going nowadays good men are few, if you have someone that truly and honestly love you stick with him, don't think about anyone else, Good men are few, i repeat good men are few, better take care of ur man

Wannan kule kulen zai iya sawa a samu besty shi ake tsoro.

The reason is that, when we agreed that we are dating, it's a mutual agreement for both gender. If or when any of the two started talking to another person... it could mean... - Maybe he is not what you are looking for and/or you're just tolerating him, and start talking to another person before your choice show up. I personally will walk away too because why fight for someone who entertained somebody while we're "dating" while they're so many fish in the sea? Cos if you truly love someone, you won't tolerate another person. And why waste time on someone who is not even sure about me?

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ya fiya mgn Gaskiya 😂

Maza yanzu sun rage kishi akan GFs nasu ai sabida tsaro A man can be head over heels with you and still not give a shit about your other suitors

ya danganta da irin soyyayar, misali in aurenki zanyi da gske kuma kin cika kome danakeso dole I will fight for wht I love,dole zan nuna ni na miji ne,har nasamu na mallakeki,ammn misali ace ba aurenki zanyi bh irin soyyayar nan ceh ta shaka tafi😂,kawai hakura zanyi, mussamman inna lura shi wanchan din aurenki zaiyi wllh da gudu zan barmai sbde kar ayi 2 bbu,na bata miki lokaci,kin batae naki kuma a karshe ban aureki bah, toh inaw san mah yake ann.ni anawa tunanin fah kenn

allura cikin ruwa....thats where u got it wrong

Gaskiya daya ce. Bazan fara soyayya da ke ba sai nasan babu tsayayye akan ki. Idan kuma mun fara kika soma kwashe-kwashe, sai na kara gaba tunda ke ba uwata bace. kije can ku karata. Yanzu gwagwarmaya kan neman kudi da ilmi akeyi ba akan neman mace ba. Namiji baya fada akan mace in har ya cika da namiji .

Wlsm Warahmatullah...I like where you said it depends on the type of relationship both of them agreed on and love is a mutual understanding and a commitment from both sides... may God provide us with partners who will understand this! Ameen

Good men are few, but why does he have to be sounding aggressive like a child, if he doesn't like the post let him just ignore. There are many ways people can address the post and let her know that Men are just not into that game anymore.

Ameen ya rabbi thank you 🙏

Saboda both maza da mata sunyi realising that there is no point in forcing yourself on someone. People have also realized to respect themaelves. Both maza da mata now have a lot of experience in dating and once they see something from their partner they almost always know what it means or what it's going to lead to sbd maybe they have encountered similar situations before. Also, love is not fiction like in movies or novels where unreal things are shown. The best a person could do male or female in a situation like this is to respect themselves and also respect the decision of the other and move on. After all, the person going for the adventure while dating is unlikely to reason except when he or she is thought a bitter experience by his or her action, in which case he or she fully understands his/her mistake.