I am beginning to notice Ladies (from Arewa) are so obsessed with Relatiomships
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Anonymous Jul 4, 10:30 PM

I am beginning to notice Ladies (from Arewa) are so obsessed with Relatiomships 0

Let on this Forum Alone, a day hardly passed by without a girl making a post about relationship, How she wants a husband blah blah blah or some boyfriend issues & how she wants a Man to love her.., haka dai zasuy ta yi. Earlier today i sat down and had a thought does it really bother them this much? Don't you have careers? Business? I am almost 30 & never been in a relationship because i don't know how it will add value to my life. Lets Discuss. Please ladies shift your aspiration to something more meaningful or productive. Getting a good husband is very rare these days, be okay with not being in a relationship or marriage, because there are more bad people than good humans out there.
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Anonymous #1 Jul 4, 11:19 PM
Dear poster are you female or Male ? I have a question for you depending on which u are
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Jul 4, 11:28 PM
forget relationship yna Sha cikin Jin Dadin rayuwa, kawaii dai Arewa Muna da tarbiyya ne shi ysa kaga hk
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Anonymous #4 Jul 5, 05:45 AM

yes please we want to know if poster is a male or female
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Jul 5, 05:46 AM

ehn Alhamdulillahi ba za'a hada rayuwar mu da irin n wadancan bh
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Anonymous #1 Jul 5, 06:28 AM

Now I see you see poster you're hitting up 30 but still single which is very ok for u as a man saboda at any time in life you will get any type of lady u want to spend the rest of ur life with. A lady tana zama 30 will tend to take whatever comes her way. so we ain't the same marriage is a great achievement for every lady out there. see koda sekaran ka 50 if u want a 22 yr old lady as a wife u would get 10 wallahi so pls it doesn't work for ladies this way. Allow us to worry about being single, I'm 22 and still single it do not bother me but deep down I want a man to call my own, I have so much love in me that I want to share with my man. and as for u I hope you get to see the importance of having a spouse .
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Anonymous #2 Jul 5, 07:03 AM
What could be more productive than completing half of your deen? or have you forgotten that you’re on this earth to worship Allah and not to be engaging in productive activities? Don’t forget marriage is a very strong sunnah of our prophet and whoever leaves the sunnah is not with us.
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Anonymous Jul 5, 10:36 AM

Well, why will i marry a 22yr old at 50, that feels odd to me to be honest. The point is, Many ladies are falling victims to the wrong hands because of their desire to get Married, as i said there are more bad men than good ones out there. so how about you just focus on your career and live a meaningful life? if thats your destiny. I think life is full of THINGS, if i can get what i absolutely want in this life i'm sure of not getting married at all. That's just my point, why don't ladies see life in this perspective
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Anonymous Jul 5, 10:37 AM

Between having a career and a partner which do you give more priority ?
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Anonymous #3 Jul 5, 11:10 AM

they are different all have their priorities they can't be matched with each other they work separate ways
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Anonymous Jul 5, 12:04 PM

Well, If you are to choose between having a successful career or marriage which would you chose?
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Anonymous #3 Jul 5, 06:44 PM

well if it's to do the Sunna of the prophet I will go for marriage because it's a sunna and the career you are talking about are all worldly things and I can still be married and have a career
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Anonymous #5 Jul 5, 09:33 PM

sincerely... jst seeing dis I'm hitting 30 reminds me of a certain Mr I'm almost 30 single n doing well on this platform that never fails to use dis particular line at every opportunity he gets, this may be a community forum n everyone is entitled to their opinions but Allah knows I'm tired of seeing dis I'm 30 n doing well already. this may sound funny but I really feel this Mr I'm 30 nids special attention and love as he's indirectly seeking for it. my 2cents thou🧎🚶🚶
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SaleemYahaya Jul 5, 09:53 PM
Sam wanan maganar bata kan layi, shi komai lokacine dashi domin tunda kake baka taba jin yaro dan shekara 1 zuwa 8 yaje yace ayi masa aure ba saboda bai san komai ba haka kuma akwai sanda Allah yake sawa aji wani abu wanda bayin mutum bane yin Allah ne, ita kuma shaawa batajin lahaula ko ayi aure ko a fada wani abunda ba Shikenan ba ko kuma mutum babu lapia shine kawai magana. Raini ne fa mutum yace ma ka fiya san mata ko kin fiya san maza tou uwar me mutum zai so?
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SaleemYahaya Jul 24, 10:52 PM

sam ba haka bane, amma yin abunda Allah ya sharia tar dashi kuskure ne ma azo ana inkari ko gyara domin duk yadda muka san kanmu Allah ya fimu sqnin kanmu.
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