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I find it hard to approach ladies General

Hello 👋 fam, Assalamu alaikum, how are you guys all doing, hope u're all doing well. I've a question to ask! nd my question goes like this, Why it's thst idan nagan macce harda irin macce mai kyau 😚, mai kyau wacce idan kowa y gani zae yaba da ita, sae naji gabana yana faduwa hakanan dimm, dimmm, dimm.😂😚 some years back nasan inada tsoron mata har magana bana iya yiwa macce koda kuwa itane tafara min mgna i can just walk away abuna, dan ko friends haka banida mata , ammma ynxun nasan abun ya rage ammma kam idan nagan macce har ynxun gabana yna faduwa, danko a ynxun gabana ya fadi sosae kuma dan wata kyakyawa😘 nagani nike fada maku 🥰

Nov 12, 02:23 PM
ACCOMMODATION ASSISTANCE General

Assalamu Alaikum. I am in urgent need of a house to stay. I am divorced with 3 kids whose father isn't forthcoming with their bills, my rent got expired and a lot of bills like school fees I haven't finished settling on me. I just resumed a new job so I should be able to save up later to get a place. If anyone has an apartment to spare for months to a year I will really appreciate. Most men I meet end up wanting me without my children and ni ba zan bar Yarana for any man. Will be praying Allah works His Miracle through someone. Amin.

Nov 12, 10:56 AM
Why Do Some Girls Dislike Boys Who Can Cook? Lifestyle

My mum started teaching me how to cook since I was a kid, I’m in my mid 20’s right now and I have been cooking properly for the past 10years, kind of my hobby. A good friend of mine who is a girl (not my girlfriend) who is a good cook also once told me albeit jokingly that she couldn’t marry me😂😂😂 cause I could go toe to toe with her in a cooking competition and she can’t stand it. I sometimes send meals to her when I’m done cooking especially on days she has lectures throughout. So I basically don’t understand why some girls feel that way. NOTE: I’m a masculine young man not a feminine one😂😂😂 before someone will call me dan daudu😂😂😂😂 we go just fight now now. So ladies, would you marry someone who can cook better than you?

Nov 12, 10:02 AM
I need advice please, i don't know what to do General

I went to kano to do something with 2 days and return back. i went yesterday after visiting my uncle, he offered to borrow me one of his cars instead of me using public transport. this early morning an okada rider took off the entire side mirror in a minor accident. naje wurin gyara, it will cost 15k to fix. Gashi banda kudi sosai at the moment, gashi banda time sosai kuma. I am just confused and don't know what do, if i fix the mirror should i tell my uncle about the incident ko kuma inyi shuru because zanji kunya in fada mai even though an gyara. please what do you guys think

Nov 12, 09:08 AM
Ladies, Be wise when going on dates in this harsh economy Advice

With the way the economy is now, if a guy takes you to a restaurant and suddenly picks a call after you have placed your order and starts going out, beloved sis follow him...🧏😁

Nov 12, 03:51 AM
What would you like to eat this weekends? Food

As for me, I want 3 portions of poundable pounded yam wish sub-Saharan Egusi soup with stock fish and one big goat 🐐 meat and 2 pumu and and VERY CHILLED zobo 😎 Barka da Jummaa 🙏

Nov 11, 06:51 PM
Pls help me find him Relationship

Hi everyone Pls help me contact Namenj🥺🙏 I'm dying of his love 😭

Nov 11, 05:44 PM
MatchMaking, Friendship And The Lastest Trend. Relationship

The past few weeks has been filled with different requests from different people seeking to connect with their crush, seeking for friendship and also those seeking for marriage. It’s commendable especially those who have good intentions towards it and I must commend the admin of this platform for his/her dedication and helpfulness. Meanwhile I want to advise that despite the good intentions, we should be careful and watch out because of the situation we found ourselves in today in this country. Someone might create a fake profile claiming he/she wants friendship and it may be a ploy to execute something sinister and evil. The security situation is terrible these days so we all should take care out there. Thank you.

Nov 11, 04:45 PM
should I accept him? now that he seem to change to a better person? Advice

there is dis guy dat loves me, he was a family friend....he has loved me for almost 8 years nd Neva give up har gashi na Gama youth service na my prblm is he had a terrible past he was so arrogant nd strong headed person den bt he has changed kowa ya shaida cewa ya chanxa bt zuciyata ta kasa yarda dashi har yanxu.....I don't knw y bt Ina jin tsoro haka kawai

Nov 11, 01:23 PM
A Friend General

Hello, please I'm looking for a female friend in Abuja. Someone I can have as a close friend, see frequently and hangout out together between the ages of 20-25. I don't keep much people so I don't really have anyone I see or talk to, I also don't have a sister. I want to be going out with a friend, sharing things and talking about everything there is

Nov 11, 12:06 PM
is he the right guy for me? what are the things to consider Relationship

so I've been in a relationship with this guy for over a year now and it's kind of on and off because he usually leaves after an argument or something doesn't sit well with him so he disappears for a while and then comes back again. He's made his intention clear that he wants to marry me from day one. so we had a fall out and he came back recently and he's still on the marriage matter, he wants to get married as soon as possible now. I am not there mentally because I feel like he can just go off whenever he wants to and I can't emotionally connect because of that. what are your thoughts???

Nov 11, 12:39 AM
Why is it that working class guys like me only meet idle ladies Relationship

I find it hard to understand why ladies that don't work or do business or have money wants to get married? how will they help the husband in the home?? I will rather marry a good lady who is hardworking and ambitious

Nov 10, 10:13 PM
Advice to users in the matchmaker section Matchmaker

Assalamu Alaikum malama don Allah aja kunnen yan aji masu zuwa a app basa duba profile din mutum su tura request and when accepted they know u aren’t in same state Ko kuma ba neighboring state kuka ba sai yayi shooting shot dinshi taji sonshi ya shiga ranta kawae yace yana ganin maybe iyayenshi bazasu yarda ba for goodness sake kasan hakan ka bari kukayi introducing juna it really hurt Wallahi abin ba dadi please ku daina Wallahi abin yana touching heart sosae in kasan bazaka iya ba sai ka haqura har ka samu yar garinku aure Kuma ai ba inda baya kai mutum that’s life Nagode keep me anonymous

Nov 10, 08:09 PM
Re: Issues we all need to address General

...favors those arewa girls the more... Not exactly. I don't think so. Ask the arewa girls, majority will tell you the same thing. See the thing is, getting married is way harder in this era of ours. Imagine this scenario: a girl, coming out to publicize that she's forfeited or relinquished the traditional requirements of marriage, like lefe and all of them ceremony rituals that consume chunks of money. She'll most likely have guys come in droves wanting to get married to her. Now I'm not saying they're all worth it. Probably majority of them are not. But you'll certainly be able to get just a few that your research will show you they've got good job/business prospects. Then you can filter who you think is the best for you, stick with him and grow with him. My point is, reduce the bar to which you require your prospective suitor to reach. Request for the barest minimum if you can. Lavish materials and lavish marriage ceremony isn't the barka and it isn't what's gonna keep you in your matrimonial home. This advice is meant for those that their parents/those with authority over them would agree to though, and subsequently, those that don't care what the society thinks. Peace ✌🏽🕊️

Nov 10, 03:09 PM
issues we all need to address General

is it only me or we are much that people don’t request for bcoz I don’t understand, ever since I came to this platform no one has requested for me that’s not even the issue , now all the ones I requested for are jz declining my request then anyone that accept is not even ready to chat and if I chat they don’t respond... I’m not the arewa girl but also from the north so I suppose the people here should not only base on Hausa Fulani girls and at least you guys/ men should try and be chatting with those you have accepted their request. now the last thing I noticed is that when you people are posting on your ig is jz the premium post you guy normally post , those ones on regular are hardly been posted on ig and is not right ... I actually joined this bcoz I want to give it a try and see if it will work but I feel it only favors those arewa girls the more .,, the annoying part is of you can’t speak hausa 😁😁 the guys will never chat with you again .. God Ahbeg oh

Nov 10, 02:27 PM
I fell in love with an imposter on facebook Relationship

I saw someone complaining wani a Facebook yana chatting da ita claiming to be BAFFA WAMBAI😤 Wlh nima same abunda ya mata haka yamun, first ya tura friend request then ya fara mun magana😒 wlh at first na dauka qarya yake then daga baya irin yacce yake wlh sai ka rantse Baffa ne da gske😭😭 kullun chatting da phone call nida shi ashe qarya yake mun subhanallah 😰 yanxu haka before naga post na waccan har waya munyi nace mishi ina Abuja yace mun ba damuwa zai zo gida mu gaisa 😔yanxu ina ta kira phone nashi is switchedoff and yayi deleting account nashi na Facebook jiya dana duba 😭😭💔💔wlh right now I'm in so much pain 💔Subhanallah💔. please help me post ko Baffa na gaske zai gani🤝😔

Nov 10, 02:03 PM
looking for a friend in sokoto General

please am in need of a male friend in sokoto. Any one available???

Nov 10, 01:01 PM
Help a sister please Relationship

Aslm Good morning ma’am May Allah bless you and your family In Shaa Allah you will be rewarded for your good deeds thank you 🙏🏻 Pls hide my ID There is this guy I have been crushing on, I have been following his account, I don’t know how to tell him what I feel about him I am from sokoto and I have a feeling his is from sokoto too… please do help me reach him. Please help a sister

Nov 10, 12:03 PM
Advice to ladies Advice

If A Lady is dating a guy and he never in his life pray to God To have you in ur presence, then he is just a player, there's someone out there he like..Just test him by saying insha Allah i will marry you and see if he will say Ameen, and watch out for how he will reply you..

Nov 9, 10:32 PM
My boyfriend ignores when i talk to him about marriage, i need advice Relationship

asalamu alaikum guys, I'm so confused I don't even know what to do there's this guy I so much love we started dating 2018 we loved each other we can spend a day talking to each other on phone then my elder sister got to know we were dating all of a sudden she spoilt his name in front of my mom she always tells me to stay away from him to my own point of view maybe they he something with one of her friends after she told my mom then my mom called me and tell me to stay away from him then I managed to convince her that I love him and he loves me too then my mom said okay tell him that he can take the next step and send his people immediately after I told him he stopped talking to me and even if he does he talks rudely after some months we got back talking to each other then I bought up the topic of marriage again then he stopped talking to me after a while he started talking to me again then I asked him why did you stop talking to me the last time he was like because you were rushing things then after a while I recently told him to send his people so he was like the reason why he hasn't sent his people is because he feel my mom won't allow us to get married and even if she does it won't be now maybe in the next three year and he can't wait for that Because he's been pressured by his family members .guys do you think this guy is really interested in getting married to me or not

Nov 9, 09:27 PM

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