I don't know if this is a question or a rant but once you get into relationships, women get so emotional and start expecting somethings and i am not naturally like that. I started dating this girl 2 month back and i just could not cope. If i tell her i am travelling she will call me like 4 times at different internals asking me i have eaten ( i really don't want anyone to ask me if i have eaten ) really and some other too emotional and cringing questions. I don't really like it and also they expect you to call everyday, like why? I am not an emotional person and i don't just like these behavior of constantly talking or asking some emotional questions or telling someone "I love you" i really can't I am a type of person that like to discuss serious or intellectual things and if something is necessary i will do it, lastly i told her i can't cope with that. can't you have a relationship with someone where you just support each other genuinely without too much emotions beings exchanged.

so there's a guy I met recently on social media, we've been cordial for about 3 months as friends. and we met for the first time few days back at a park. he was very sweet, paid for the bills and even drove me back home. he calls almost everyday especially in the morning to hear my voice. he hasn't said anything romantic and I don't want to say anything first so as not to sound desperate but I like him. what do you suggest I do? do I just wait till he makes the first move?

assalamualaikum, I want to voice out something and this goes to the IG guys infact all social media guys, Men, boys, whatever 🙄lets use IG as an example. you chatted up a lady on IG you guys ar getting to know each other and you requested for her picture probly bcs she doesn't have a pic of her on her profile, and she sent it to you and u requested for another again and she sent maybe like 3/4 and you complimented her bla bla and next thing that comes out from your keyboard to my DM is "please send non filter" this word is really rude I don't know if that's how we all ladies see it. I mean why will I send you a picture and probly it's non filtered sef just natural picture with no heavy makeup or snap filter and u be like pls send a non filter is it every lady that uses Snapchat even if I use it ik I won't send a picture with a filter since ik how filter can change looks....I don't know if you guys get what am trying to say, so pls IG guys watch your words.

I want to just point out to some ladies out there that some of us intentionally have very simple and humble bios so as to attract the right partner . we prefer to get to know you first before we even tell you where we work and all that . I can only imagine how many girls have lost out on great guys because they weren't okay with their profile details .

After getting a request... Ideally who is suppose to say hi /hello/slm first? The person who requested or the one who accepted....

Excuse my language but in don't know where else to ask because i am shy and i seriously need advise. my husband of 4 years suddenly one night during our marital affairs said I have to suck his ****, I told him gaskiya i can't shikenan fa he became angry the next morning i asked him why is he still angry and tried to resolve it with him and he told me "idan bazakiyi akwai wadda zatayi min ai". yanzu hankali na a tashe yake because idan ya fita i am getting serious anxiety on what he may be doing outside and he has been unfriendly since then. this happened 4 days ago. it is affecting my mental health please i need advice,

wai please how do people get to have so much friends abin na bani mamaki I literally don't have any friend to call mine and I promise u I am not a bad person Amma inayin kawa yau toh bamu a month plus shiknn se kuma muzama status viewers din juna abun yana ci min tuwo a kwarya wlh I really want to have friends 😢

I grew up in a loving environment.my parent were the happiest couple you could ever ask for, dou they had their ups and downs but we never saw that. They could talk for hours in suka fara dariya hmm. Naturally I couldn't wait to grow up and find my jaan na sha duka sosai sabida magana na baya wuce in nayi aure, in nayi aure... I was so in love with love ga karatun story books so I really believed in fairly tales.but life happened, kowa da test dinta. I could remember when I was in level 2,i was crying on my bed when my mum came in. Tana tambaya why was I crying... Nace ina level 2 amma ba wanda ya taba cewa yana sona. I could see the pain in her eyes but she hides it and said mu ta addu'a InshaAllah Allah zai kawo miki miji nagari. Har Naji kunya... Miji did not come oo...then I began doubting myself. My self esteem was at the lowest low. Maybe am not good enough i often say. Along the line I had my first bf. It didn't work out because I had high expectations from a relationship.I know how a guy should truly love his lady. Then came rooniey, my prince charming, he was so straight forward, he communicates well, he made me feel so loved I was like finally I have found my prince charming... A month to our wedding we discovered we were both AS.... I was heartbroken wallah I cried for a whole month. Alhamdulillah I have my business it kept me going.... Sometimes I wonder if I will find my true love... Or I will just settle with Mr available. Who wants to build a happy and loving home.. But due to my life experiences you have to be patient with me, be able to strike a conversation...life has made me so quiet... I need that reassurance And yes you should be tall because am a shorty....😉

Me yasa maza basu son auren sicklers?

can I phone will break relationship in a time where nor the parents and the saurayi bought for her and she didn't get it by herself she said some one dash for her

men don scarce serious, kana son kayi aure Amma Babu nagari all they want is just to use you.....must we allow our body to be used before we get a man to marry? all the suitors I have just want to date for fun and claim they want to marry you but they will say you are all acting up innocent and they know u are not clean so why dont u come together and have fun then sai a rufa wa juna asiri ayi aure daga baya.....wai dole sai anyi iskanchi kafun ayi aure ne ni Kam na gaji wlhi all serious men are taken gaba daya wlhi ni ko Mai aure ne yazo inde da gaske yake wlhi I'll marry him.

i'll chop this guy money, i'll chop this guy money abii😪 Kina tunanin they won't fine ways da zasu fanshe kudin su right,or maybe karma doesn't have an eye. Ba Kowane Namiji bane will allow you to eat his money for free, Ladies should know this ,if u eat mr A's money and run, Mr B might not be as humble as Mr A....😂 sau tari zakaji wasu yanmata na fadi wane ba'a cin Abin hannun sa haba sister,saboda haka ki kama girmanki da karkibari san Abin duniya yasa ki ringa rokon saurayi saboda gaskiya zubar da class😒 While kece samari zasu na takaran Throwing Ma birthday parties here and there Saboda Rashin sanin darajan kai Da kwadayi, idan an hango ki a fasa ihu ana fada miki "pepper them'kina jin kanki on top of the world with your nose in the air😏,kina kallo haka maza na gari zasu dinga zuwa suna tafiyar su Saboda Tsaban Kwadayi Da Son Abun Duniya Kin Kasa ma Kanki fada😢 Y'all ya kamata mu gane cewa shifa roko bashi da Amfani Most of our ladies Kwadayi ne yake kai su yake Barowa,saboda tsabar Kwadayu da San Abun duniya Sai aje a fada wata hanya ta daban wadda za azo ana da nasani ....... Do you know when sense will start hitting you, When your friends and younger siblings started to settle down 😹

I want a a full house wife that will cook, clean and take care of me as a routine while i go about my work/business. she must not attain a high educational level, i would not want someone with a masters or PhD as they can be a bit hard to control. I want my wife to be submissive and serve me like a king. Do what i say willingly while i will also play my own part to make sure i am good to her. I want to know if ladies find my expectations attractive or just say your opinions, i just need some validation please before i start scouting.

Tun Kina cikin Mahaifiyarki Allah ya Zaba Miki Mijin Da Zaki Aura,Dan Haka Malama Ki Daina Wani Wahalar Da Idonki Da Zubar Da Hawaye Akan wani Wanda Kila Ma Kaddararsa A gwaro zai mutu😂 Shiyasa ma ni i stopped overthinking and worrying about my future whenever i remember what HAZRAT ALi R.A Said: What is yours will always Find You 😘❣️ Na Mumu Dey Even Stress Himself For Love Wlh🥱l

Ganin lefe is a culture that should be abolished! All it breeds is jealousy and lack of contentment. Ban yarda da wannan Al'adan ganin lefe ba da yawa gulma ne kawai yake Kawo Su .Some pple don't even like u amma za suce munzo ganin lefe , and bcos of this ganin lefe many parents will be putting high hopes for lefe so that pple won't complain and all that😢 “An kawo lefen wanche” Barakallah Allah ya sa albarka. Allah ya basu zaman lafiya” Why do they have to check how many boxes and what’s inside to put “Albarka”? Atampa nawa ne. Wani irin body cream ne aciki. Etc Just to know whether you are responsible enough to take care of her or not because that's the starting point for people to start judging you and her future😏💔 Kwata Kwata banason Wanna Idea na ganin Lefe some see it as an achievement A zo a ga kayan da mijinta yakawo That thing is just rubbish,Su kuma kawayen amarya gulma Sai ayi video a na ta posting a social media Kowa sai ya ga me mijin ki ya saka a lefen ki 😏 That's where all the gulma starts Ai mijin ta atampa 10 kawai ya saya mata (Ashe bai da karfi) It's absolutely for munafurci wallahi . You can Saka albarka wherever you might be🙂 No body Will try that nonsense with we

Wani Lokaci Idan ka Hadu Da Wani sai kawai kaji Ya darsu Aranka 🥰 irin Mutanen Da Kake Bukata Arayuwar ka Kenan Saboda Suna da Wata baiwa Ta Musamman da zasu Canza Yanayin ka Da Zarar ka Kallesu Su Saka Dariya 🤓 Su Saka jin nishadi🤩 Sannan Suyi Mu'amala dakai ta Mutuntawa😚 Komai sukayi Sai ya burgeka saboda yayi dai-dai Da Ra'ayinka Wani bacin rai,Tsoro,Duk Sai Su kau🤗 idan har kayi dacen mallakar daya daga cikin irin wannan mutanen arayuwarka To karka sake Karabu Dasu🥺🥰

I was talking with my girl friend who i intend to marry and she said if i was broke she wouldn't marry me, I said she is joking, me i must marry her, she said ita sam bazata yadda ta auri wanda beda kudi ba. i was shocked and started having seconds thoughts on the relationship, i am into the relationship sincerely and this thing she said discouraged me. if i happen to loose money or wealth that means she can leave me. I am an agent that sells cars and also into real estate this type of work kuma beda tabbas, sometimes you will make good money, and sometimes kaga har 1 month maybe ka samu 50k to 100k or even nothing in some cases, wata sa'i kuma you can make a million naira on one house deal, it has many ups and downs and that is what i have been surviving with. I am thinking if something happens and my deals go wrong the one person i hold dear to me which will be my wife, i cannot really count on her because she meant what she said. Please those with experience should advice me, should i continue with the relationship or end it and find someone else? am i safe and getting married to the person that will stay by my side in difficult times?

mata mu rage san abun duniya! Kina san abun duniya and you're not working for it ba dole a wulakanta ki ba?😏I'm very pro gifting and I completely endorse it because it strengthens ties but it's one thing to gift and another thing to be entitled to someone's money or possessions. Work for your own! Ki tsare ma kan ki mutunci. Ki na bani bani all the time how would anyone respect you? Money stops nonsense whether we like it or not! Mata Masu ce sai Sunce Kudin Samari idan Bakice Kudin saba Shi Zai cinye ke😏 Allah ya raba mu da mutuwan zuciya. May we be an evidence of good upbringing for our parents and not against them. Allah yasa mudace 🤲🏼😊

what is your clue about marrying a girl with sikle cell like koda Abun baya damunta is there any problem with that ko da kae namijin is AA i mean the issue about family baa tsangwamar su hka ko wani abu cox i wanna marry a girl shes SS nd Am AA shes just 21 yrs idan ba fda akai ba baxama ka yarda ta na da shi ba cox ko kadan be nuna ajikinta ba the only issue here is wajen Auren hka baa samun mtsl ta wajen iyayen Ango pls help me

Are women genuinely interested in men or its just based on circumstances like fitting into society norms or having a family as expected that make them want men, If there was gender and opportunities equality without any gender marginalization will women still want men as they do now? what do you think?