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What sign is this? General

Asslm fam. I hope you guys had a wonderful weekend... so last Friday I was thinking about home made pounded yam ๐Ÿ˜‚ then I began to day dreaming of me being a married man have kids and all sorts... so when I got home I knocked the door several times and nobody opened... I was wondering why either my wife or kids opend the door ๐Ÿค” then I was like oops! ๐Ÿ˜… I forgot that I'm not married and I live alone... this happened for the 5th time within a a month now... let me know your thoughts what sign do you think it is??? as for me I believe is a sign of old age ๐Ÿ‘ด

Nov 13, 03:53 PM
What do u think i should do next? Advice

Aslm! I came to like this man since I'm 15 SS 1, and by then I don't even know what that means, I just want to be listening to him always and want him to be talked about all the time, we have something in common i.e one letter we cannot pronounce and that's what makes me start to like him at first, this silently start to affect my heart, mark u I don't even know him is just his voice I always listen to because of that letter he cannot pronounce too, before I feel very sad wen my friends/relatives said pronounce this letter let's hear a kind of joke, but after coming to know that he too cannot pronounce it then I started to like mine too, After my graduation from Sec Sch then I start to know what my feelings means and suddenly that already affect me, I started to investigate on him and anything about him, finally I almost get to know 60% of everything about him, my family knows I love him, my friends and everyone besides me know I love him, at first they all reject that cause he multiply my ages and he has two wives but coming to know and understand how deep I love him, everyone agrees to that, prayers, recitations, charity, fasting, and istikhara, I have done all and I'm currently on it continuesly, I. found his nom and contacted him as my sister that me her sister loves him for d past 5 years and he said she should send her pic for her, I sent d pic he haven't responded and I deleted it for all so he didn't saw d pics, I sent another video of my self with facemask he saw this one but replied with I love her for the one she loves me because I. e Allah, then nothing again, WALLAHIL AZIM I don't know why I love him and I don't know how to stop loving him if to calculate the years I spent with him in my mind are 7 years, I'm a Nurse and presently working in one hospital, I'm 22years now I can't give any man chance cause I love I person, even if I try to I fear one thing that after marriage I cannot stop my self from following and liking his pages as well listening to him, as such this could actually affect my marriage islamically and my husband too will find out cause everyone around me knows this already, I cried, cried and cried, as I'm telling u this now I already star to manifest some symptoms of depression I'm afraid I will be a victim one day, I know what depression is and it's complications, sometimes I feel like I don't what to live at all it's paining seriously but with prayers Alhmdllh, Don't judge me please I'm a type of lady that hate to see her fellow woman dying for love then the table change, I don't want anything from him and I feel like I can sacrifice everything for him, I just love him and his family I'm not after everything materially. Advice me as a sister, friend and daughter please and include me in ur prayers. ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Nov 13, 01:48 PM
my life as a divorced woman, its really hard General

i was divorce with two kids๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ wallahi right now am seriously in pains , I don't have anyone to talk to ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ am just frustrated ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ i have started a little business but yanzu bani da capital, gashi i learns so many things Amma babu capital ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ my parents are not rich as well, bani da wani wanda zai iya taimaka min, Duk wanda ka tambaya taimako zai dinga maka maganan banza, I want to start something so that at least I can take care of myself and the kids for now, Koh kuma ku taimaka min da aiki koh wani iri ne zanyi please๐Ÿ˜ญ Almighty Allah will reward you all

Nov 13, 07:19 AM
What life is like for me As a single mom Lifestyle

I am a single mom and i am 30 years. i take all of their responsibilities!! Atimes i break down because it has never been easy for me and atimes i feel i need to be taken care of. But still, atimes i feel i dont give them enough even tho I try my very best in seeing they dont lack anything, because they have friends and i feel somehow whenever they come back home saying ah baban wannan yayi masa this or baban wannan ya kaisa here n there! Most of the time i feel sorry for them and blame myself for choosing my ex as their dad!! It's very very difficult and I pray i get a responsible man so they can have someone as a father figure! But omo being a single mom sede kawai Allah ya bamu lada kawai!!!

Nov 12, 11:11 PM
Shawara nake so a bani yadda zan dena son wani Advice

akwai wannan guy din muna level one aka bani number shi nayi mishi mgn ya koya mi wani course toh tunda ga nan muka fara mutunci dashi sosai har soyayya ya shiga Allah yayi ni da saka abu a rai kuma ni dama lkcn ina cikin kadaici banida kowa sbd ban taba yin saurayi ba baa cewa ana sona toh sai yazo yace muyi break up amma in zama best friend dinshi na shiga damuwa lkcn amma daga baya sai na dena sbd kullum yana kirana muna gaysawa muna chat 24hours daga baya sai ya dena yayi min wulaknci sosai har yana cewa shi ai ko a baya bashi yyi dating dina ba nice nayi shi dama bai damu dani ba abubuwa dae ni kuma a lkcn banson na rasa shi nashiga damuwa har komai yazo ya wuce toh ynzu inason na dena damuwa dashi kusan shekara uku kenan ynzu muna level 3 wlh bana samun nutsuwa kullum sbd ko ganinshi nayi sai gaba yafadi gashi in ya ganni bnza yke min ko irin yace min sannu amma zaiwa kawata magana abun ya isheni na gaji na rasa yadda zanyi na tsani kaina sbd hakan har banson zuwa mknrta sbd banson ganinshi kullum cikin tunani nke wlh har zazzabi nayi gashi ina cikin kadaici banida wanda nke fadawa damuwata ko farin ciki na...abun yyi min yawa kuban shawara dan Allah

Nov 12, 09:40 PM
Men in the Matchmaking section, please ask questions as well Matchmaker

hey so I just joined the app not long ago but I've noticed something on here , you send me a request or vice versa ,I accept and you don't talk to me I thought both of us are looking for love insha Allah but then if you don't talk to me ask questions and all how do we get to know each other ? eg a guy sent me a request I accepted cuz it looked like we have similarities and right now as it I'm literally doing the talking I'm the one asking oh what do you like to do on your free time or asking the important questions yet you're simply giving answers and not asking me anything what is up with that this is literally the second time it's happening and yet some of y'all are complaining that women don't chat well or don't know how to hold a conversation we do ! we honestly do please fix it I beg you.

Nov 12, 09:14 PM
Advice please, i am adding weight Advice

Na kasance lokacin da nake uni bana cin abinci jikina normal yanzu kuma nayi serving na gama ina gida hankali kwance bacci enough inci abinda nake so na fara jiki people are just saying kinyi qiba which I don't like kuma wasu bakinsu fa sai dai ace Allah ya kyauta please what should I take nayi slimming wannan abin ya isheni

Nov 12, 08:16 PM
searching for a spouse Marriage

I'm looking for a serious person, to settle down with I grew up abroad but I maintain my traditions as a northern woman. I'm fair skinned and slim, tall and get to know me first I'll tell you more about myself.

Nov 12, 07:14 PM
Unfortunately i missed her number Relationship

Salam, Zaynab kontagora you deleted the account (muzz) just before i opened your last message, reach me via handle din arewa

Nov 12, 06:09 PM
Marrying an ugly spouse Marriage

Concerning the post where the lady was asking if anyone can marry an ugly guy, wlh if he has a good character, marry him. when my fiancรฉ first asked me out, I didn't even give him attention coz he's not really good looking, but when I got to know him better, i found out that he's the most handsome man I've ever met. I have fine guys who are asking me out Amma inaaa, I don't want anyone except him. Wallahi I would chose him over and over again if I were to choose from a thousand men. He's the most caring guy I've ever met, very religious and also generous. Before you start saying he's rich, wlh he's not. He doesn't even have a car and he just got a job this year but I'm willing to start a family with him. so my dear, looks doesn't matter at all. As far as he has sense, ai shikenan, besides, ladies will not even disturb him for you ๐Ÿ˜„

Nov 12, 05:30 PM
my boyfriend is indecisive Advice

Assalamu alaykum please I need your advice. how do you deal with indecisive guy. Being dating him for 3 years now buh his still not decisive about us. Today he knows what he wants tomorrow kuma he doesn't..in an fara magana kamar dagaske can kuma he will change. I really don't know what to do.

Nov 12, 03:04 PM
If I get married, I want to be very married Marriage

Assalamu Alaikum Yan'uwana. I am writing this with a heavy heart. I have been through a lot of in my life that would have broken many. But I always tried to count my blessings and thank Allah for all the good things in my life. Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah ๐Ÿ˜Š. Ya Allah ina rokonka kamar yanda na yi kokarin riqe mutuncina da budurcina for 29 years Ya Allah Ka bani iko da qarfin kai shi dakin mijina. Ko wanne mutum akwai dalilinsa na son shiga bautar aure ni dalilina shine in kare kaina daga zunubi, in tsare mutuncin zuriโ€™ata, in yi alfahari da haqurina kuma in gode ma Allah da imanina. Ina kyamar zina ina mutuqar kishin jikina kuma na qi yarda in zama jakar gayu. Yan'uwanka na jini su goranta maka, dangin uwa magana na uba korafi, makota gulma, kakanni tambaya, qawaye wance har yanzu dai baki aure ba? Cousins su wance an tsaya ruwan ido. Komai yana da lokaci amma mutane ke nauyaya maka dakon jiran, komai akwai dalili ina laifin a maka addu'a, ko baka yi auren don biyan buqatar sha'awa ba ka yi don farin cikin da samun 'ya'ya ke zuwa da shi. Wa ya ke badawa in ba Allah ba? Wa Ya isa ya tilastama Allah ne?? Ubangijin Jannatul Firdaus Mai Yin komai a lokacin da Ya so. Na yi addu'ar shekaru masu yawa, na yi sallar dare, na yi azumi, na yi sadaka na saka mutanen kirki su mun addu'a amma maza mayaudara, maqaryata da madamfara na ke cin karo da su. Ya Allah Ka sanni ka san kyakykyawar zuciyata, Allah Ka taimake ni ๐Ÿคฒ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ˜ญ.

Nov 12, 02:25 PM
I find it hard to approach ladies General

Hello ๐Ÿ‘‹ fam, Assalamu alaikum, how are you guys all doing, hope u're all doing well. I've a question to ask! nd my question goes like this, Why it's thst idan nagan macce harda irin macce mai kyau ๐Ÿ˜š, mai kyau wacce idan kowa y gani zae yaba da ita, sae naji gabana yana faduwa hakanan dimm, dimmm, dimm.๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜š some years back nasan inada tsoron mata har magana bana iya yiwa macce koda kuwa itane tafara min mgna i can just walk away abuna, dan ko friends haka banida mata , ammma ynxun nasan abun ya rage ammma kam idan nagan macce har ynxun gabana yna faduwa, danko a ynxun gabana ya fadi sosae kuma dan wata kyakyawa๐Ÿ˜˜ nagani nike fada maku ๐Ÿฅฐ

Nov 12, 02:23 PM
ACCOMMODATION ASSISTANCE General

Assalamu Alaikum. I am in urgent need of a house to stay. I am divorced with 3 kids whose father isn't forthcoming with their bills, my rent got expired and a lot of bills like school fees I haven't finished settling on me. I just resumed a new job so I should be able to save up later to get a place. If anyone has an apartment to spare for months to a year I will really appreciate. Most men I meet end up wanting me without my children and ni ba zan bar Yarana for any man. Will be praying Allah works His Miracle through someone. Amin.

Nov 12, 10:56 AM
Why Do Some Girls Dislike Boys Who Can Cook? Lifestyle

My mum started teaching me how to cook since I was a kid, Iโ€™m in my mid 20โ€™s right now and I have been cooking properly for the past 10years, kind of my hobby. A good friend of mine who is a girl (not my girlfriend) who is a good cook also once told me albeit jokingly that she couldnโ€™t marry me๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ cause I could go toe to toe with her in a cooking competition and she canโ€™t stand it. I sometimes send meals to her when Iโ€™m done cooking especially on days she has lectures throughout. So I basically donโ€™t understand why some girls feel that way. NOTE: Iโ€™m a masculine young man not a feminine one๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ before someone will call me dan daudu๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ we go just fight now now. So ladies, would you marry someone who can cook better than you?

Nov 12, 10:02 AM
I need advice please, i don't know what to do General

I went to kano to do something with 2 days and return back. i went yesterday after visiting my uncle, he offered to borrow me one of his cars instead of me using public transport. this early morning an okada rider took off the entire side mirror in a minor accident. naje wurin gyara, it will cost 15k to fix. Gashi banda kudi sosai at the moment, gashi banda time sosai kuma. I am just confused and don't know what do, if i fix the mirror should i tell my uncle about the incident ko kuma inyi shuru because zanji kunya in fada mai even though an gyara. please what do you guys think

Nov 12, 09:08 AM
Ladies, Be wise when going on dates in this harsh economy Advice

With the way the economy is now, if a guy takes you to a restaurant and suddenly picks a call after you have placed your order and starts going out, beloved sisย follow him...๐Ÿง๐Ÿ˜

Nov 12, 03:51 AM
What would you like to eat this weekends? Food

As for me, I want 3 portions of poundable pounded yam wish sub-Saharan Egusi soup with stock fish and one big goat ๐Ÿ meat and 2 pumu and and VERY CHILLED zobo ๐Ÿ˜Ž Barka da Jummaa ๐Ÿ™

Nov 11, 06:51 PM
Pls help me find him Relationship

Hi everyone Pls help me contact Namenj๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿ™ I'm dying of his love ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Nov 11, 05:44 PM

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