im a orphan form a very poor family, we are 25 in total but I'm the only graduate,( lost both parents wen I was minor) I struggle through schools + Allah send some people my way that supported one way or the other Alhamdulillah. while in school there's no hustle I didn't do to provide for me cox I sent myself to school wit no single help from family, infact I was still supporting my family back home.Alhamdulillah im not complaining. everyone thinks im d family savior, my sisters called me were crying praying that I succeed so I can uplift their children too (all of them marry poor guys) im not downgrading them as it's d will of Allah( d male Kuma fa, from hand to mouth they are also married hustling for their family too) wen I look at d condition of my family im not happy I want to uplift them, I want to support them like I always do but how ? im single (female) im a graduate no job,I do small business wit d country economy business hasn't been moving,my house rent would expire in few days, i hv no penny, i hv no food to eat, i hv no job at hand, im tempted so do ASHAWO, cox dats d only way to get money, helpers are so had to come by, men or women want to sleep wit u before they help u, nd when u refused they won't help u. im tired, depressed, exhusted, I struggled through university just so I can get work nd support my family but still nothing, im feel like to end it all. im in need of job, please I know some of us have uncles, auntie, or even u urself can help me secure a government job or a good paying job that can help me care of myself ns support my family please family help me. help this orphan, Walahi I hv no body to turn if I do I won't be here, I NEED JOB,I NEED JOB PLEASE 😭help me, help my life, save me form going into prostitution, i hv avoided it for many years of pains, hunger,nd poverty help me please. all I need is JOB. I NEED JOB PLS I GRADUATED WIT GOOD GRADE Alhamdulillah,im very smart nd clean im a Muslim, yes Allah i hv given me such a body that u would never no my struggle unless I told u.. please I need help d only valuable i hv on me nw is this phone 📱 pls help me all. tell ur auntie, brother, father or mother please im in need of Job please 😭

Assalamu Alaikum Warahamatullah good morning everyone please why is that most ladies prefer men that are not married, this actually limit the men that are married to send a request to the ladies, most ladies profiles categorically stated that, and a lot of married men are there willing to bring you home but but the chance has been limited by you, ladies can you explain this. Thank you

Assalaamu'alaykum my family I'm in a very critical condition right now....i met this guy in camp and we became close friends,we move around in camp and we were always together....but he never asked of my number.....with time I started falling for him cos of the care and attention he gives me...i used an opportunity and got his number but can't even chat him up or call him.he didn't say he likes me but i have falling so deep in love with him.. about 3days ago,he suddenly changed and started giving distance,he even started talking with ladies and even see one off to the hostel...i kept mute about it. I still talk to him normally but i' m keeping my distance with hope that I can forget him soon. We have just 7days to leave the camp and I feel like I am going to loose him forever. I can't even tell him I like him. Pls i need your advice.

How can the absence of a biological father in someone's life affect the person?

Those with pure heart always get heart break💔💔 why

I am really bothered about these situation,I don't know if am the only one facing these,but when ever someone asked me out and we started talking, when he asked me were am from the moment I say Niger State he will start giving new attitude and becomes distance 😭 why, mostly, Kano, kaduna and other arewa state.

Aslm I don't even know where to start wlh I fall in love with my friend bf. they where actually getting married next month but the wedding have been cancelled, I meant this guy at our school he came for some work wlh I didn't even know he was her bf I fall in love with him the first time I meet him. I later found out that he's ur bf gashi I can't stop thinking about him I couldn't sleep properly since that day 🥹 I pray Allah yacire mun sonshi but is like I can't control myself, I try all the best to avoid them but I can't and anfasa bikin yanzu dai wlh narasa yazanyi darayuwata pls I need advice am loosing my mind I wish he can see this post 😢

I have a big problem I've been battling with for a long time. I've never dated anyone before even during my university time, and all my life I have been so scared. I found out a long time ago that I'm more attracted to guys than girls. I come from a really poor family but Alhamdulillah I'm extremely good and focused academically and professionally. During my university time, I had no time for any romantic relationship. I had a few close female friends then but our friendship was strictly platonic. I graduated from university some years back and Alhamdulillah I now work in a place where many Nigerians, even children of elites, dream of working. All my life, I was so scared to do anything with a guy because of the gravity of the sin in Islam. But starting from last year, I've had sex with a couple guys - all of them foreigners - Arabs and white. I do feel remorseful after the act, but to be honest, I like it. My family's dream now is to see me get married and unfortunately I haven't found any lady I would love to marry yet. The problem is I don't even make any effort to find one. I will be moving to North America in a couple of months and I am so scared that I may become addicted to having gay sex given that over there, it's legal and there is no any existing threats, at least not like here. I'm just so confused. I have been trying to suppress the feelings but no success yet. Please I need your advice.

Salaam! I think this platform wont allow us meeting because they'v taken down some posts concerning that

Aslm i need advice girlfriend Dina Wai sai na daina yin ball dole and wlhy ball din nan is part of my life.. so tun jiya nayi mata magana akan abu she refused.. this morning Mun samu misunderstanding she was telling me that ita dama tana da Wani boyfriend and she don't want to cheat on him 🥺bayan kuma ni da ita we are dating and I want to Marry her 👋

pls Dan Allah Dan darajar annabi Muhammad saw help a Muslim wlh I hàve been fruded yesterday and am at the sch I need money pls help me to pay my sch fees and the deadline is Friday pls help a Muslim danallah

Assalamu alaykum wallahi there's this guy who made me fall in love with him and yanzu he's ignoring me kuma i never intend to love anyone after my last breakups amma this guy has been on my neck for almost 2 years now so now when i fell for him it feels he's ignoring me cause actually we're not dating yet he just claim he loves me and i told him i love him too.yanzu that i finally fell for him yana bani attitude kuma wallahi i know what i went through from my last breakup cause wallahi i went through alot let me say i am a sucidal i almost end my life subhaballah amma Alhamdulillah Allah baiyarda ba so i decided not to fall in love with any guy maybe sai yanasona da aure so this guy came to me with the intention wai yanasona when i gave in .i showed him I'm also in love yanzu it has turn to something else i don't know maybe he as something on his plate or I'm an overthinker i can help it.i just don t want history to repeat itself wallahi i can't take it.so please i need advice should i keep pursuing him koh kawai na barshi. Allah yazabar min mafi alkhairi .

Tinibu, Atiku, Kwankwaso or Peter Obi? which among them do you think is capable?

Kano People come here let's discuss on the Increasing rate of divorce in Kano

salam Alaikum, to everyone reading this please include me in your prayers, I have a disease I have been battling for 15 years of my life and I am still not cured of it, it has affected me psychologically and I am still battling with it hoping In Shaa Allah one day I'll be cured, please include me in your sincere du'as. Dan Allah please include me in your prayers Thank you.

I am not the romantic type and ppl keep coming to me that they like me but I don't know how to make them stay so that they will love me very well as in stick to me they always complain and the next thing they will leave it happens not once or twice I keep on loosing.. pls as a lady how can I a chat from someone that just DM me for relationship tnk u

Hey fam,im seriously in need of you all prayers ,I am expecting my bar finals results in two days and I am so scared ,I will appreciate if you include me in yours prayers for a positive outcome,thank you 🙏🙏

I am so depressed it there any therapist that can help me please 🙏🙏

Asslm! Fam. the weekend has come to an end so I believe we all have our personal goals and objectives we want to achieve. therefore let's list out the ones we plan to achieve within Monday to Friday next week in sha Allah and also advise each other on how to achieve it biquddratillah. mine is business/work related; 1- digital marketing on Facebook 2- submit a proposal to NDLA 3- complete a agent networking 4- eat at least 3 pounded yam within the week... what's yours??? let's help each others 😁😁😁

Assalamualaikum.Good day.plx I need an advice. I hv a boyfriend and he's AS while am also AS.actually I don't love him dat much.cx he isn't day caring to what I concluded. But yet he's far better than other guys I get.some will take a week and more than without saying Hi. But him at least he will say hi even if it's on WhatsApp.The reason I don't love him is because I think maybe he isn't a husband material. Reason we've been in rship for more than a year and he only visited me once. He nva spend a Kobo on me. All the Ramadan and eids.but we're still in touch. So I just want to reject him know cox am tired of the rship. And I've complain several times why he don't visit me.but he will give excuses. And the second one who is also insisting to marry me.she Kuma girman kai.jin kai.if zamuyi fada if it will take us a year wlh sede in gaji In nemeshi.For almost four years now. So of recent I quited the rship that he insisted I should say my mind if am not interested. He's always expecting me to call or say hi on WhatsApp or text. While am the one supposed to complain.but he will be the one complaining. So that's why I just quited. And naga be damu ba.I don't even know if he love me at first? Am just confused wallahi. Plx keep me anonymous.My heart aches. And wallahi I want to get married.and I don't know who to marry. Help me post please 🙏🙏🙏 I just want to be counselled. thank you so much 🙏🙏 jazhakhallahu khairan 🙏