Know your genotypes before getting married to your partner

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I can see that nowadays relationships are so fragile and many people have unrealistic expectations when it comes to a relationship (either dating or marital), some of these unrealistic expectations include: 1. Believing that your partner will change without actually addressing the issue 2. Having thought that you should always feel the spark, deeply in love, or passionate 3. Believing that you should know what each other is thinking or feeling without asking 4. Thinking that you should always agree and never have conflicts 5. Believing that the relationship will grow on its own without actual mutual investment and effort 6. Believing that you should be part of every aspect of their lives or there should be no privacy 7. Believing that they should 'complete you' 8. Thinking every issue in the relationship is about them not you. And many more..... Such kind of unrealistic expectations tends to sabotage many relationships and create stress and resentfulness. A healthy relationship is a kind of relationship that let go of grudges and doesn't let any conflicts go unresolved, mistakes that many people used to made right from early stages of dating is avoiding conflicts resolution, many marital relationships begin with issues right from the dating phase which can't be or hard to be fixed in the long run. Avoiding communication and not trying to fix an issue will not let that issue fade, it will be there and even become bigger which will destroy the relationship entirely. If you're facing any issue with your partner, either by their behaviour, how they treat you, or any other issue, don't suppress it or lower your standards just to keep them, if you failed to stand up for yourself more especially at dating phase your partner will always keep treating you the way you showed up to them, you shouldn't be a passive, aggressive or passive-aggressive person, these kinds of behaviours will only make your relationship unhealthy and resentful, but rather, learn to be assertive person and easygoing. Finally, not every relationship is worth keeping and that's hard to believe, not every relationship is certain. Knowing when to leave a relationship that's draining your energy, and that's not serving you isn't an easy task, many of us have been suffering from low self-esteem and this let us put our partners on the pedestal and started to project a lot of fantasies of how this person could be, some have attachment issues that's why many people out there are accepting less than what they want in a relationship and keep convincing themselves that they're fine while they're not. Investment in a relationship should be a two-way stream, if you found yourself in a relationship where it feels like you're always giving then that could be unrequited love and it's pointless to keep trying in it. However, Istikhara will save you from wasting your time and energy on the wrong person, always ask Allah to guide you I guarantee you that you'll never regret that. Growth mindset is also very important to developed, just because your relationship with someone failed doesn't mean it's the end of the world, you'll feel the pain but it won't last forever and you'll have great opportunities in the future, don't rush the process and don't let social media and stereotype deceive you

Mostly during weekends he comes back 10pm - 11pm while i'm left at home alone, if i ask him he will say its his life and he will live it the way he wants, I dont even know where he is going. Should i report to my paretns or what please. Advice me like your sister. i don't want to do anything on the basis of my emotions Thank you

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after all the other partner is doing to ensure that hankalin daya bai karkata yaje somewhere else ba? and zakaga ma atimes abinda suke samu inside there houses yafi na wajen 💔

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This is a story of someone in kano, kubanni. Munjibir local government area. His name is Fareed and an absurd womanizer, he’s well known for “use and dump” meaning, he specializes in playing hearts of women, dan almost rabin matan Arewa, daya daya ne Fareed bai bi ba, so da Allah ya tashi kama shege se ya hadu da wata yarinya me suna Habiba, habiba who is an NCE student a FCE Kano, fara ce doguwa ga hanci kamar sandan golf, ga kyau, muryarta kamar ana waqa, they met on Instagram, as usual Fadeed yayi mata dm, suka dan fara magana sama sama har ya fara nuna mata cewa shifa he’s into her and he wants to settle, meanwhile Daman tactics dinsa kenan, he initially tells ladies that aure yakeso har ya samu ya hadu dasu a hotel dan ya samu yayi lalata dasu and daga baya kuma ya sharesu. But it appeared different with Habiba, dan ita habiba kuma sana’ar ta shine saida private parts din mutane. So what happened was, Fareed got so much acquainted with Habiba har aka fara maganar Haduwa, ita habiba ta riga ta gane halinshi da kuma abunda ke zuciyar shi, so to her, that’s a great opportunity to easily get what she’s after, so she informed her clients cewa she’ll soon bring a package suka turo Mata deposit, as usual. Daman per package 6.5 million suke siya. Who can guess how it ended??😂 The full story will drop tomorrow 😂😂😂

Its all fair in love and war!

what killed the cat??? CURIOSITY!!? curiosity drives people to seek out miserable experiences.

Tunatarwa game da Hijabi... Shi saka hijabi ba kawai rufe jiki ake so ba... Mata duk abinda za suyi su “ja hankali”n namiji ko bada saninsu ba be kamata ba, in har ba ga wnd y halatta a shari'ance ba; shys Allah ta'aala Ya hana hatta su sa abu me ƙara a ƙafa kada ya jaa hnkl, haka koda mace tasa burmemen hijabi se tayi rangwaɗa ko ta sa turare ko kwalliya afuska ko wani abu da ze iya jan hnkln namiji...; (domin ita mace dukkanta yana bama ajnabinta sha'awa ne shys addininta Ya tanadar mata da wannan kariya...) ...in tayi hkn Me sunan hijabin kenan? Sannan Mace in ta yaɗa hotonta ko ba da niyyar ta yaɗa fitina bane, duk wnd y gani ya fitinu tn da zunubi, sbd shi kanshi yin hoton hkn siddan d mgn kansa, balle yaɗa shi... Kada mace ta duba ai nrml ne ko babu wani damuwa... A'a, duba me addini yace... Muji tsoron Allah dai-dai iyawanmu Allah mafi sanin iyawar tamu... Kd zuciya ta zama mana jagora don Allah_ Wlh Addini sauƙi ne dashi... Amma ba'a abu don birge wani ko Allah Ze Yi fushi d mutum.. ba kuma a neman watayawa cikin saɓo... Ynz kuma da mace zata ga hotontannan a social media seta ga lefin wa? Ko wani ya siyar da wayarsa yn ciki (koda cikin ƴan uwa ne) ynz almajiri ya siya a fara sawa a wallpapers... Ko masu haɗa videos ɗin YouTube da hotunan mata su samu... Dss dai .. Ƴar uwa rayuwar ki me albarka ce SOSAI.. Kada mu ɓata rawarmu da tsalle.. akwai gobe bayan yau fa... Idan anma wasu uzury basu sani ba ko irin orientation d suka taso dashi.. to ke da ke ya kamata ki nuna ma Allah kun gode da baiwar da ya muku dai-dai iyawa...

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an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind beware!!!

what does it require for a successful relationship

To my Arewa Sisters. Please stop sending out nude photos to your male friends because it might affect you very badly in d future. Recently, I don't know if either it is scripted or not. On an episode of the Kardashian's series Kim talked about how unhappy she was of her child having a glimpse of her S*tape on a gaming site. Today it has become a trend for girls to be send out nude photos. My question to them is do this guy you send out photos to them do the same for you? What you are not getting is most of the guys you send photos to them share it within their circle and at the end of the day, it ends up on the wrong hands. Be cautious with your body.

Aure da yawa suna mutuwa sanadiyyar kazanta,wasu su jawa junansu cuta especially ta bangaren mata abin ya zama sede addua. Waje fess ciki gumus,mace har mace fess da ita se ka je gidan ta zaka sha mamaki,the worst part ma wata har turakar miji ba a iya a gyara ba sede miji ya dinga kwana a haka da hakuri. Kazanta tana taka muhimmiyar rawa wajen bata aure da jawo raini da cin mutunci a cikin aure.

A wannan zamanin da ake yawan samun cin amana tsakanin maaurata mace da namiji. Ni mutum ne mai tsananin kishi zan iyayin abinda ba shknn ba ya zaka/ki ji Alokacin da ka/ki tabbatar da abinda kuke zargi kuma wane irin hukunci zaku dauka?? karkuyi tsammanin yafaru dani ne fa A'A ni hasalima ko tsayayyar Budurwa Bani da muna jiran ra'ayoyinku

We all know yanda yaro na fara kashi ace hakori ne hakori ne. Toh a zahirin gsky bincike ya nuna cewa hakori ba ya saka zawo ko amai. As yara na girma, there immune system is still weak. so as they start to sit or crawl(most especially crawling) suna daukan abubuwa dayawa suna sawa a baki. overtime accumulation of that ne yake causing infection har ya janyo musu amai da gudawa( its not funny at all to experience). Recently i got to know that ashe yanda ake vaccine na su polio, Tb, hepatitis, measles da dai sauransu which are free a govt hospitals ashe shima zawo da amai anayi mishi rigakafi(vaccine). It is called ROTAVIRUS. it is not included are immunisation package din gwamanti becos yana da dan tsada ranging from 4500 -5000. it will drastically reduce tashin hankalin amai da zawo. So kets save ourselves the trouble. for those who can afford. Rigakafi yafi Magani. I will be in the comment section to answer questions pls like my post.