Half of your beauty comes from the way you speak which means your manners are your beauty. May Allah bless you with strong Imaan, taqwa, piety, purity of heart, good manners and good deeds... 🤲

Dear future husband ka bayyanamin kanka dan Allah 🙏😔

Assalamualaikum Good evening family please I need someone to put me through on how to start writing a love story letter ... it's urgent please Thanks alot.

can we pls talk about strict parent? they've done more harm than good to the society, Iam a victim. Iam 22 years old and Iam just about to start uni, I've got admission 2 times at Cotonou which I was denyed to go by my mom bcos of what people will say and what people have been saying, note- she was the one that brought the idea at first which I put my all in it to gain admission but latter changed her mind for only God knows why, yes I have lapses which every human being does, I can't be 100% but Iam 80% when it comes to obeying my mom bcos haka ta hani ne auren saurayina bcos Dan Niger 🇳🇪 ne, I grew up with a single mom, despite my dad being alive he was never there he's rich and from a very rich family which my mom is middle class, he never payed my fees my granddad from moms side did the everything since I was young (rip), mamata tasa Na shiga wani hali a yanzu haka... I use to be chubby but wallahi Iam slim now duk na lalace bcos Iam emotionally down, I have heart problem which she knows and I got it through being depressed and overthinking Iam the only child but I don't knw why my mental health doesn't matter to her....wallhi nayi kuka harna gaji💔,anytime I try talking to her she never listens Sai tace bana da hankali wai hakan ya kamata Dan Allah? what if Na shiga wani irin Hali zuciya ta kaine ga barin gida? 80% of girls that are outside wallahi is coz of parent, yanzu 1months kenan inata rokon ta to let me travel bcos Gaskia I wanna be away for sometime but taki yarda babu abunda banye ba, she even said nayi abunda zanyi ta gani💔😭, Iam emotionally drained subhanallah! pls pray for a sister, wallahi I've done my best dun kawai mutuwa ya rage mun a yanzu koh Yaya take so rayuwata ta kasance ban sane ba😭😭💔💔 I will be in the comment section, jzk🥺🤲🏻

I'm writing this piece of note on behalf of the males (Mata kuyi hakuri zanyi naku kuma🤗),Dan Allah mata duk wani expenses da ango zai kashe during the wedding preparations daga kan lefe,events na biki and so on kudaina sa musu pressure on what you know is beyond there financial capability,karkiga abinda akayiwa qawarki ko 'yaruwarki during her wedding kema kice sai anyi miki irinshi because all fingers are not equal sister,maybe they were opportuned to have a grand wedding ke kuma naki bai kai nasu arziki ba kizo ki sawa bawan Allah pressure las las kuma abin haushin kuzauna gidan haya instead of you to advice him to buy a plot of land no matter how it is yayi gini,kusani muhalli babban rufin asiri ne wallahi a zamanin nan,yammata murage buri Dan Allah dason abin duniya no matter how you strive dai rabonki kadai zaki samu,idan kinsamu yadda kikeso Alhamdulillah idan baki samu ba ki karba wanda kika samu da hamdala sai Allah ya qara miki,muringa tausayawa mazan nan at times please.Allah ya bamu dacewa da rabo na qwarai duniya da lahira,Ameen.

look for someone I can be talking to , jz need a friend I can be talking to I’m going through some hard time in my life and I jz need to be talking to someone before depression kills me we sharing talks together male to be precise if you’re interested please send a Dm

looking for a genuine love a guy that’s God fearing, financially stable (working or business man )and caring I don’t mind the language am a graduate not working yet but have a small business and ready for a serious relationship

I don't know how to start it but I came across this man on one page reading the holy qur'an and boom sai kawai naji ya burgeni wallahi especially his qira...I think his name is IMAM ALGOM GONI JIDDA but I'm sure gaskia, I kinda like him🙈 so please if possible help me with his handle idan kuma yanada mata shikenan na hakura ..ina mishi fatan Alheri...nima Allah ubangiji yabani na gari wanda yasan darajar iyayen mu 😊 I will be in the comment section please..hide my ID please

pls Arewaup what is the difference between the matchmaking and the meet up section

Good day i' m in need of a friend for Allah's sake.....someone I can talk to and I can call a friend someone who will help me to be better in aspect of life and we will grow together in goodness in this dunya and the hereafter

looking for a life partner with deen

A few weeks back in front of alqalam university in was looking for keke napep to go back home I stood there for like 30 minutes looking for napep and this guy came up to me with his car and offered a lift but I rejected he tried and tried but I rejected He is dark,very chubby,wears glasses and he drives one of this Peugeot car(I can’t remember the number) it’s silver/white in color his plate number is kaduna please help me post I would like to get in contact with him He cross my mind every single day ever since the day I saw him

I come across several posts that talk about women being pressured by society or family to get married and how that is causing many unhealthy relationships and quick marriages. Men also get this pressure, I am a Male of 28yrs and earning Good income but i am just not ready for Marriages as I don't know how it will really benefit me, Our society is scary these days mutane abun tsoro ne wallahi. but I get bugged alot by People, "Wai kai yaushe zakayi aure", "Kana zaman kadaici a Abuja babu iyali, be kamata ba", "Har yanzu bakayi aure ba, meyasa?" all sorts of things dai haka, I use to overlook but abin ya fara yawa. I am living in a 2 bedroom apartment and i am comfortable and mostly eat outside or cook sometimes, i am mostly busy. so i don't know why people are concerned about me marrying. haka last week wata aunt dina ta dinga min lecture akan aure, i left her house in wonders. I don't mind to talk about it casually but when it gets serious its really uncomfortable for me.

Salam ma/sir A friend of mine ask me to advice her on this issue She is married with 3 kids but her husband has never come to her or ask her for sex unless if she go to him and most time he push her away, she said that she only have sex maybe once in 3 or four month that if he didn't turn her down.she was a very beautiful lady before marriage fine shape but she has added weight due to child birth Now she is tired of marriage and she want to leave,Please is that enough reason for her to leave the marriage or she should work on her body because he once told her back then that his attracted to slim girls

is It Halal To See The woman physical structure of the woman you are Seeking to marry ?

I wanted to ask before subscribing, please does the meetup section have photos feature where you can see photos of the person before sending them request?

Every single woman of age 18 and above has at least been asked once of when she will get married or been mocked at mostly by males or by married counterparts. I know what you are thinking, she is a feminist, right ? Well I'm not, but feminist or not, the truth is the truth. Just like someone can't know exactly when they will die so is when they will get married. The question " when are you getting married?" Or the phrase " get married, you are getting old" have pressuring effects, girls subjected to this kind of pressure tend to settle for anyone that comes their way out of desperation. And where desperation comes, love, understanding, and value leave. The males on the other hand feel that there are plenty fish at the sea. So the marriage that is suppose to be full of love happiness and loyalty would be a marriage governed by desperation on the woman's part amd the mentality of "plenty fish at the sea" on the man's part, culminating in divorce, and where divorce thrives, higher level of depression, anxiety, poorer self-concept and psychological distress happen. These effects are not often spoken of like the global warming but its effects are consuming us bit by bit on its own ways. To males and married females who exact these pressures on the single ladies, my question is what gauratee you, you will not give birth to female child and what guarantee you she wouldn't be subjected to the same sort of pressures, so we are virtually all on the same boat, unless you do not give birth to a female child or has no female siblings in which case you are saved by default. So think twice and think deep. To all those single ladies out there, know that just because you don't find love, does not mean that you are not worthy of it.

pls is the registration,once? or I will have to renew it some other time?

i want to post my profile, for matchmaking. A definite no for me is someone who drinks and or smokes. i am scared that if i post that, some people who smoke or drink would still, apply for a match and hide it. pls should i include that criteria or not. thank you

Hello Arewaup and all. whats your success record on Matchmaking platform. Also if I post email and my details including no, DOB and others would it be visible to all or only to the admin.