Help me analyze this situation

There is this Man, our neighbor in an estate in Abuja, its an open estate the houses face each other (some of you are familiar with the type of estate setting in Abuja). im a youth and he is grown man with children my age so if we see each other i usually greet him (as expected) also i'm cool with some of his children so ina bashi respect haka. by the way, I have my Job, earning well and from a well to do family. Sometime ago on a Friday i greeted this man then pulled out some cash (1500) and handed to me as barka da juma'a i politely rejected but he insisted, why will he give me something and i will refuse to collected. i reluctantly collected aka dai ci gaba da gaisawa Normal. so yesterday after praying in the estate mosque he was talking with one of the guards, he handed 1k to the guards just at that moment we crossed path i greeted him then just handed me 1k in front of everyone i collected reluctantly as not to have any argument with him. i just don't like him giving him money and i hate to collect. irin dai i was a bit embarrassed jiya because it just looked derogatory haka ana bani 1k se kace irin ina maula ko kuma me gadi? ni kuma kada inyi rejecting cikin mutane yayi insisting se na karba please what are your views