Help me analyze this situation
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Anonymous Mar 28, 10:51 AM

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There is this Man, our neighbor in an estate in Abuja, its an open estate the houses face each other (some of you are familiar with the type of estate setting in Abuja). im a youth and he is grown man with children my age so if we see each other i usually greet him (as expected) also i'm cool with some of his children so ina bashi respect haka. by the way, I have my Job, earning well and from a well to do family. Sometime ago on a Friday i greeted this man then pulled out some cash (1500) and handed to me as barka da juma'a i politely rejected but he insisted, why will he give me something and i will refuse to collected. i reluctantly collected aka dai ci gaba da gaisawa Normal. so yesterday after praying in the estate mosque he was talking with one of the guards, he handed 1k to the guards just at that moment we crossed path i greeted him then just handed me 1k in front of everyone i collected reluctantly as not to have any argument with him. i just don't like him giving him money and i hate to collect. irin dai i was a bit embarrassed jiya because it just looked derogatory haka ana bani 1k se kace irin ina maula ko kuma me gadi? ni kuma kada inyi rejecting cikin mutane yayi insisting se na karba please what are your views
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Sabir Mar 28, 11:42 AM
ba a maida hannun kyauta baya.
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Anonymous #1 Mar 28, 11:45 AM
I think it's fine if you collect. he is doing it fisabilillah and don't feel embarrassed while when he gives you. Our own here gives N200 and once he gives you, you must collect.
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Meeno S Mar 28, 02:16 PM
I don't think it's a problem maybe yana yin shi ne in form of sadaka but if you don't feel comfortable about it, you can let him know rather than collecting something your heart doesn't sit well with. Am sure he won't mind if you politely express yourself about it That's my opinion
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Anonymous #2 Mar 28, 05:18 PM
Just collect and dash someone if you don't want. Elders basa son haka.
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Jibril saeed Mar 28, 06:33 PM
neman Lada yake Ramadan ne Allah ya Kara mishi arziki
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Aminusta Mar 29, 03:15 AM
Hajia kinkarba bakomai ko ni naxo ki bani. Ina ga yana kallonki ne kamar yarsa shiyasa. Kinsan manya a wurinsu duk girmanka yaro ne
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Anonymous #3 Mar 29, 03:43 AM
abi make I drop aza make you dey forward am to me 😆🤣
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Mss mayyam Mar 29, 04:08 AM
hmm kasan manya ko yaya kk indai sun haihe ka to su kallon yaro suke maka kullum..kuma kasa a ranka dan Allah yake baka bada wani nufi ba kuma ka karba da zuciya daya sai kaga Allah ya tsare in ma da wani mugun nufi a ciki.
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Bulama A Mar 30, 09:15 AM
No matter how old or rich you are elders feel you need more and it's offensive if you reject it. Had it been ma ke kawai yakeyi haka sai muce akwai want motive.
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Sayyid hamzah Mar 30, 03:58 PM
gaskiya nima irin wannan kyauta na tsane ta wlh sai naga kamar cin mutunci ne
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