When i tell people i don't want kids they get shocked. personally i don't see anything if someone says he wants to get married but does not want kids? Some even try to bring religion into the matter. is it haram or wrong? i guess none. so meye a ciki wai?
Marry me
Babu. Hausawa na cewa da haihuwar yu- yu-yu gwara......... da ka haifi yara baka kula da su gwara ba ka haifa ba
It's very wrong, ka qaara tambayan malamai kaji illanshi this ideology, Allah ya tsare mana imaninmu.
What is wrong about the ideology? Having kids should be a choice but our society has made it seem like something compulsory.
Ni banga komai a ciki ba.
Idan kawai pls tell us lets discuss.
Having kids isn't a choice, it's an opportunistic blessing, but I wonder how you're even rejecting Allah's blessing even before getting it, you're really amazing, but I don't know if you're a muslim or not. That's why nace a tambayi malamai, they'll tell you how wrong it is. Our society is mostly backed up by religion, so who are you accusing directly. Ki samu ma'abota addini zasu yi miki bayani from Islam's point of view!
Does that mean you plan on not taking care of your kids when you get one?
To the best of my knowledge there is no religious book or script that mentioned having children is mandatory. Idan akwai ki kawo pls.
I personally don't believe having kids is an opportunistic blessing. One mans food is another mans poison. Just because u like kids doesn't mean everyone does.
We the 21st century people cannot be fooled anymore buy some narratives that lack basis.
Having children is a choice let her believe it or not.
lol
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